Post: #1

I am new to game, so when I talk to girls to practice my game, I don't collect numbers. I talk to girls when I have the chance to, and there is something that bothers me. The girls all say, " nice talking to you."
Are they bored, or disinterested? This is causing me to check myself, because every girl I talk to says that. Can someone give me some assistance?

Post: #2

There is no reason for you not to collect numbers ESPECIALLY if you're new to game. You're trying to get better at game and the outcome should be being able to bang or pull chicks and become a better person by improving your lifestyle, working out,ect. It is better to talk to a girl, try to get her number and then get a date if possible. Even if you fail at the date or fail at getting her number, you're practicing the whole process of gaming, not just step one or step two. You're not an HR personal.

If a girl says it was nice talking to you, I would say "how about your number then and we can keep it going" or anything along that line. It is not a bad thing if a girl says that, even if she was just being nice at least she didn't give you the middle finger and leave so it is still a nice thing. I'd say it is your cue to ask for a number, other than that what do you expect her to do? ask YOU for the number?

Post: #3

Sounds like a polite eject. Could you post more about what you were talking about and how the conversation went? As well as what social situation you were talking in

Post: #4

Usually when a girl says that, it's essentially as good as over. She means: "I am not impressed. Now go away and don't talk to me again."

You always push the conversation further, you always try to take numbers, you always should make your intents known.

Need to read the basic Game literature - Roosh's Game & Daybang (indirect Game) and Krauser's direct Game products - the first one of his.

It will give you a good basis of where your goals should be. Even if you are only looking for a nice girlfriend and want to date the conventional way it's better to use Game techniques for that.

Talking to girls is good and well, but you won't get more out of it but conversations. No need to do that now with all the Game books out there which can speed up your process of growth.

Unless you really don't have time the posts are:

Approach
Number
Kiss
Make-out
Instant-Date
Same Day Lay

All of this can be attained via indirect or direct Game and all of this could happen within a few hours whenever you start approaching girls.

It's better if she says: "You are really good-looking/attractive, but I gotta go." "I would love to talk with you, but I need to go."

Post: #5

I will give more information, for those who asked. It is at college, and it is usually at the bus. sometimes I may talk to a girl while walking, but usually it is at the bus stop. The girls I talk to usually don't regularly go on the bus, so if I see them again, it is probably an coincidence. I usually start with something like, " Hey, I've never seen you before" or " Hey, how are you doing? "

Post: #6

If you're practicing conversational skills or rambling, then that's a good start but you should also talk to anyone not just girls. I talk to old men/women, teenagers on a trip, girls, cashiers ect..just to get better at holding a conversation. During those conversations you can't imagine the stories you hear and to be honest they greatly improved my conversational skills. Thing is if you meet a girl that you want to bang or is "cute" enough for you, then why not push it for the number and possibly a date later? it would be like hitting 2 birds with one stone

Post: #7

(04-27-2015 07:11 AM)Class-8 Wrote:  I will give more information, for those who asked. It is at college, and it is usually at the bus. sometimes I may talk to a girl while walking, but usually it is at the bus stop. The girls I talk to usually don't regularly go on the bus, so if I see them again, it is probably an coincidence. I usually start with something like, " Hey, I've never seen you before" or " Hey, how are you doing? "

Bus Stop Game - funny & cringe worthy - you can select the subtitles.

Their response makes more sense in that environment in that context.

Bus Stop approaches are not Newbie territories, the girls are about to drive elsewhere, there are people close by making it more difficult, if you enter the bus too, then you are automatically in closer proximity which makes it instantly more difficult to lead the conversation (cat needs freedom to flee to lower guard). Approaches in such terrains - elevators and some public transport - are best dealt casually, light & with a quick number close. Subway works better for that than bus stop.

In any case - I would not recommend it for a beginner. You can try the long Game by being cool and friendly, exchanging names, making a joke and then ejecting from the conversation first. Then the next time you greet her by the name more friendly with her guard down - some more teasing, maybe number close then.

If they are girls you don't see again, then it's way more difficult because you are under difficult circumstances.

Post: #8

I did not know that location/ situation was that important! Thanks for your replies! Talking on the bus was convenient for me, because I sometimes use it. Thanks again. I will read day bang then. That video is probably correct!

Post: #9

It's a very nice way to say goodbye, I would take it as a compliment.

But really, get their digits

Post: #10

Obviously it's all in how she says it and her body language, but it sounds like they just had a conversation with a nice, polite, young man.

Do you want to be a nice, polite, young man - who she doesn't want to have sex with. Because that's redundant.

I feel the need to bump the Be That Guy thread again, one of Roosh's best posts.

It's not that she *doesn't want* to bang a nice, polite, young man. It's that she wants that nice, polite, young man to push some social boundaries and show he's confident, a leader, in charge, powerful, and/or DGAF.

If she's at all receptive, she'll love the flirting by pushing social boundaries. She'll love you asked her whether she was checking out your package. She'll love you're talking about bondage and wondering if she's into it.

Sure, it might piss her off, but who cares.

Watch Impractical Jokers. The chics they do stupid taboo things with usually intrigues the women.

"Nice talking to you" is fairly self-explanatory. She's not thinking she wants to bang you, she's thinking it's 'nice' talking to you.

Post: #11

Impractical Jokers is such a great show for players to watch, especially beginners. Can't believe we haven't discussed it before.

They just troll people and it's great to watch women's reactions. It's way better to be the outrageous guy than the boring guy.

If a guy went around cold approaching girls with some of their lines I bet he would get lots of numbers and laid before long.

I need to try that.....

Post: #12

I appreciate the time it took you guys to assist me. I do have a problem with escalating, mainly because of location. I won't make any excuses, I should get out more.

Post: #13

(04-27-2015 11:20 AM)MrXY Wrote:  Impractical Jokers is such a great show for players to watch, especially beginners. Can't believe we haven't discussed it before.

They just troll people and it's great to watch women's reactions. It's way better to be the outrageous guy than the boring guy.

If a guy went around cold approaching girls with some of their lines I bet he would get lots of numbers and laid before long.

I need to try that.....

Hilarious concept and show

Post: #14

(04-27-2015 12:45 PM)Class-8 Wrote:  I appreciate the time it took you guys to assist me. I do have a problem with escalating, mainly because of location. I won't make any excuses, I should get out more.

That's not an excuse. Yes, I'm sure there are some logistics issues, but escalation is KEY. Light touching in public, that's all it is. You need to be willing to break down social barriers if you want to get any where. While I know some guys here can go from zero to bang in 60 minutes- you can't expect that.

Post: #15

(04-27-2015 11:20 AM)MrXY Wrote:  Impractical Jokers is such a great show for players to watch, especially beginners. Can't believe we haven't discussed it before.

They just troll people and it's great to watch women's reactions. It's way better to be the outrageous guy than the boring guy.

If a guy went around cold approaching girls with some of their lines I bet he would get lots of numbers and laid before long.

I need to try that.....

Impractical jokers is a great show! An alpha move approaching 2 cute Asian chicks at once and holding hands, any of you guys try this (see 1:25 mark):

Post: #16

This thread and the impractical jokers post reminded me of something I want to share with you guys.

When I was a young teen I had a telemarketing gig, it was a shitty job, what can I say. A vast majority of the people I called responded rudely, cussed me out, "blew me out" etc.

An hour or two before the place closed the supervisor would go home, and me and this other guy there would begin to just troll the shit out of the people we had to call. Since there was no boss around, we didn't have to worry. We started having a lot of FUN doing this. We would call the customers and start with the sales pitch, but from there just started saying some outrageous shit to them, giving zero fucks about the response we got.

Then the weirdest shit happened. They started asking us about our products, Some customers even inquired about prices on package deals. The first few times it happened I was too taken back to make anything out of the situation, but after a while I turned it into a viable sales strategy. These same customers were telling me to go fuck myself earlier, when I introduced myself politely and eloquently with the utmost respect. Once i stopped giving a fuck they were asking me serious questions. It was before red pill for me but it was definitely an "aha" moment for sure.

Post: #17

I never knew that stuff about the show. I always see it, but I'd pass over in favor of some other recording. I do have some worries, mainly one which is the law. I recently moved, so I don't know many people; most of the people I know I just went up and talked to them. I will search the forum on college game; however, I will be really thankful if someone would say their opinion on opening girls who are walking wherever.