Post: #1

AFC / one-itis case. Fed up after having an 8-model flake on me. Eventual date with low game, mid kino, failed shit test re: "her place". Here's the lead-up, plus other IOI's:




Yes! I have a rooftop on my apt building, but light pollution might be heavy to see the stars ?

I'm down tho

(2 minutes, silence)

As in..I'm free





Problem: frustration, inaction, low game.

Solution: Fuck bitches. Spin plates.


1) "Bang", "Day Game" --> Amazon.

2) RVF. More.

3) Watch comedy.

4) Lift. Tight clothes, public places.

5) Approach. ...state, approach.

Post: #2

Welcome. Can you break this down in English? You invited a woman to your apartment but it was too polluted to see the stars ? What was the Shit test you are talking about ?

Post: #3

Your post.

Words, many.

Jumbled.

Understandable.

Not.

Solution: English?

Post: #4

Assuming you're not a troll...based on this post...

First post is a new thread --> not afraid to try

and guessing you aren't illiterate

You don't say much in your post --> you don't know how to lead a conversation well

Yes, I'm being very presumptive, but just a guess.

Use your words and let us know more about yourself.

I used to know an older lady, a teacher, and she'd always say..."use your words"

Post: #5

Thanks for the criticism, and you're right about leading conversations. I didn't want to have some wall-of-text post filled with personal bullshit, but I understand how that context would be important. Reviewed the "forum troll" page a couple times before posting, but figured I needed to hash something out and take action.

I'm genetically gifted, in ways - IQ ~ 125, 6 foot tall white male, athletic build, not balding - probably a 7-8 by most women's standards, not accounting for low paying job and inconsistent confidence (ADD, depression - diagnoses that I've figured to be at least part bullshit) - but talking to / approaching women has always been a hard thing for me to parse. I've usually managed to "pull" women by being attractive, intelligent, stoic, and funny in circumstances I often had little control over - attractive, sexually aggressive 6's and 7's usually sought me out with little energy investment on my end.

After a couple terrible relationships, and failed online approaches at higher SMV girls, I hit an obvious wall. Found Heartiste and Rational Male, and started casually observing female social dynamics at my office job. This last week, I gamed a girl I knew in college via facebook into meeting up. My text game with this girl was going pretty well, so initially I had her offering to meet at her place, or come out to mine. I ended up fucking up the date by being open about my low-profile work / life experience, and she's hardly returning texts at this point.

With every failure, it's becoming clear that I need to start hammering away at pure cold approach game, and stop clinging to the past. I'm being a bitch and having a hard time getting outside of my own head. Tonight I went out to a bar, enjoyed some scotch, and talked to a dude about getting a job bouncing at a nearby bar.

For reference, here's the chick: http://www.nytimes.com/2015/04/19/fashio...nting.html

Post: #6

(04-24-2015 01:55 PM)LINUX Wrote:  Welcome. Can you break this down in English? You invited a woman to your apartment but it was too polluted to see the stars ? What was the Shit test you are talking about ?

The major shit test I hinted at was at the end of the night, I asked some bullshit about seeing her cat at her apartment. She laughed and said "uh, no".

The original premise was to go see a meteor shower, but that transitioned into just grabbing food because it was overcast - maintaining the frame that I didn't really want to see her. Of course when we met up, seeming like a stud around a higher value chick is tough when I've hardly swallowed the Red Pill.

Either way, this is all with one chick, and I need to just start adding notches at this point.

I have a long way to go. I really appreciate any criticism, advice, anything. This seems like a fucking awesome place, and dealing with women this last year has destroyed my mental and physical health. That said, for the first time in my life I feel like I have direction, and purpose. I quit my job, and am planning to move from Boston to the West coast.