Post: #51

I don't think it matters too much the order you go. So many factors will change and everything is interconnected. Going to Europe could improve your experience later In South America but maybe you will fall in love in Colombia and then miss sitting next to a beauty queen on the flight to Moscow who would have banged you that night if you told her that story about Italy, where you had a threesome with two girls who thought it was cute you had never travelled anywhere else before. And so on. The world is full of possibilities.

The one thing that matters for some people is if you have a strong desire to learn the local language for whatever reason, the younger you are and the longer you are willing to stay in the native country the easier it will be for you. You can learn at any age but your brain prefers to do it earlier.

Post: #52

^^ well said.

You can have a great time in countless countries. You might as well live in a place where you have an appreciate for and willingness to learn the language and culture in order to get the most out of the experience, wherever it js.

Post: #53

(06-28-2015 10:59 AM)zatara Wrote:  

(06-28-2015 06:26 AM)Espresso Wrote:  

(06-27-2015 05:25 PM)Pokerbaby Wrote:  Can someone enlighten me as to what's so great about Ibiza or a spring break party?

I understand, cheap alcohol and an all night party. But this is very common everywhere once you leave the Anglosphere.

The difference with Ibiza (say San Antonio West End) is that you have party streets with people spilling out and bar hopping between all the bars and clubs all next to each other. Combined with a party away-from-home atmosphere, with most people on a short vacation. This goes on every night including weekdays (in season) until very late, and in addition you also have day bars if you can wake up while the sun is still up.

San Antonio in Ibiza is actually relatively generic. Cheap pints, tourists and strips of bars like that are found in resorts all over the Mediterranean - Kavos, Magaluf, Ayia Napa etc. Ibiza (and more specifically the Ibiza Town / Playa den Bossa side of the island) is unique because it has the best nightclubs in the world, with the best sound systems in the world, and the best DJs in the world. If you're into electronic music at all it's the world headquarters for it, and is somewhere you have to experience.

I found Spring Break unique because its a concentration of hammered 18-22 year old American girls, all with the "what happens on Spring Break" slutty mentality. There's also very few non-Americans. Which is fantastic for a non-American, as its very easy to clean up if you're good at high energy club game. I'm also quite partial to hitting on girls (and hooking up with them!) at pool parties. Its just so much more primal hitting on girls from the outset when you're both half naked. Spring Break is the only place in the world I've gone from opening a girl to fucking her within 20 minutes multiple times in close succession. Its absolutely fantastic if you're young and in good shape.

It sounds like party islands or spring break are hyped because it gives you easy access to fucking American girls. However, these girls are probably mostly 6's and 7's, looking all the better because they have tans from all day soaking and are wearing bikinis. If you are young and a good looking American dude, you would absolutely kill it in Eastern Europe or FSU countries. These countries may be going downhill but there are still way more girls at ages between 16-22 that look like models compared to the USA. Within 2 months you would make Hugh Hefner look like an 80 year old virgin. Why not simply kill it in these countries? I don't think anyone is going to look back in his life and wish he went on spring break, when he was banging a 21 year old supermodel in Poland.

The reason why young 20=25 year old American guys don't go to these places, is because it isn't easy. You don't go with your buds, you don't stay confined to a resort area. You don' see advertisements aimed at 22 year olds to come to Eastern Europe. But hey, you got the benefit of the RVF forum and hundreds of guys who have been all over the world.

Post: #54

There really isn't any country that attracts them. It just seems to be a random thing. I've dormed with hot girls in Stockholm, Amsterdam, Barcelona and Berlin. In Stockholm, the room had 3 creepy older guys, a couple of young Chinese guys and a smoking hot 9 blonde from the Netherlands.

All I can say about what Hostel to choose when it comes to women is to avoid hostels that seem too intent on attracting British and American tourists. You can tell these types from names like "The Flying Pig" or "The Irish Inn". Generally the best hostels are a bit out of the way and have simple names. They seem more likely to attract the Dutch, Swedish, German etc girls which are way better for sharing rooms than British for obvious reasons.
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That makes sense. It is definitely a more American or potentially British thing to be attracted to the bigger brand name hostels in major european cities. I am going to be in Paris for a few nights in July. If you have heard of it, do you think that St Christopher's Inn would be one of the more American/British centric hostels? I've heard good things about it but would be much happier staying in the hostels that attract Scandinavians as opposed to some others.

Post: #55

(04-21-2015 09:22 PM)Adrenaline Wrote:  Location independence would be the dream but that seems out of reach right now, even though I will be a qualified teacher and could technically do the whole teaching English thing but would prefer more flexibility than being stuck in one place for long contracts.

I don't get it.

If location independence is your dream, what's stopping you?

Guys on the internet saying to "be realistic" or "play it smart"? Or insisting that nobody who talks about location independence is actually making money?

Trust me, there are plenty of us doing it. I meet others all the time without even trying.

As long as men have dreamed, there have been others to warn them back into step. If you want something, it's not going to come to you by accident or out of sheer luck, so block out the noise, set your sights on it, and make it happen.

Post: #56

Regarding the original question, I'll say this. Wherever you are, be there.

It sounds cliche, but one of the biggest time wasters is worrying about where you are not, and men far too often waste hours of their life wishing they were somewhere else, doing something different. Look at the most grounded of men and you'll see they are inside of every moment.

Aim for the freedom to be anwhere, and strive for exciting things, but also teach yourself to be happy, or at least engaged, everywhere.

Life is promised to no one, so do your best to take nothing and no one for granted.

Post: #57

(06-28-2015 06:43 PM)JVieira Wrote:  There really isn't any country that attracts them. It just seems to be a random thing. I've dormed with hot girls in Stockholm, Amsterdam, Barcelona and Berlin. In Stockholm, the room had 3 creepy older guys, a couple of young Chinese guys and a smoking hot 9 blonde from the Netherlands.

All I can say about what Hostel to choose when it comes to women is to avoid hostels that seem too intent on attracting British and American tourists. You can tell these types from names like "The Flying Pig" or "The Irish Inn". Generally the best hostels are a bit out of the way and have simple names. They seem more likely to attract the Dutch, Swedish, German etc girls which are way better for sharing rooms than British for obvious reasons.

That makes sense. It is definitely a more American or potentially British thing to be attracted to the bigger brand name hostels in major european cities. I am going to be in Paris for a few nights in July. If you have heard of it, do you think that St Christopher's Inn would be one of the more American/British centric hostels? I've heard good things about it but would be much happier staying in the hostels that attract Scandinavians as opposed to some others.
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I just looked up the place on Hostelworld. Since there seems to be many St Christopher's hostels in the UK, I would think you will mostly meet British/Australian/US tourists. A hostel with a french sounding name would be better. That being said, this looks like a cool place, very highly recommended, secure, centralized, clean. There are other things to consider besides girl quality. You can meet French girls and you may get lucky and find some cool people.

Post: #58

(06-28-2015 10:59 AM)zatara Wrote:  

(06-28-2015 06:26 AM)Espresso Wrote:  

(06-27-2015 05:25 PM)Pokerbaby Wrote:  Can someone enlighten me as to what's so great about Ibiza or a spring break party?

I understand, cheap alcohol and an all night party. But this is very common everywhere once you leave the Anglosphere.

The difference with Ibiza (say San Antonio West End) is that you have party streets with people spilling out and bar hopping between all the bars and clubs all next to each other. Combined with a party away-from-home atmosphere, with most people on a short vacation. This goes on every night including weekdays (in season) until very late, and in addition you also have day bars if you can wake up while the sun is still up.

San Antonio in Ibiza is actually relatively generic. Cheap pints, tourists and strips of bars like that are found in resorts all over the Mediterranean - Kavos, Magaluf, Ayia Napa etc. Ibiza (and more specifically the Ibiza Town / Playa den Bossa side of the island) is unique because it has the best nightclubs in the world, with the best sound systems in the world, and the best DJs in the world. If you're into electronic music at all it's the world headquarters for it, and is somewhere you have to experience.

I found Spring Break unique because its a concentration of hammered 18-22 year old American girls, all with the "what happens on Spring Break" slutty mentality. There's also very few non-Americans. Which is fantastic for a non-American, as its very easy to clean up if you're good at high energy club game. I'm also quite partial to hitting on girls (and hooking up with them!) at pool parties. Its just so much more primal hitting on girls from the outset when you're both half naked. Spring Break is the only place in the world I've gone from opening a girl to fucking her within 20 minutes multiple times in close succession. Its absolutely fantastic if you're young and in good shape.

If I understand correctly, Pokerbaby was asking what's special about Ibiza etc compared to regular towns/cities. I agree that San Antonio is in the same general category as Ayia Napa, Magaluf, etc.

(06-28-2015 05:48 PM)Pokerbaby Wrote:  If you are young and a good looking American dude, you would absolutely kill it in Eastern Europe or FSU countries.
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Why not simply kill it in these countries? I don't think anyone is going to look back in his life and wish he went on spring break, when he was banging a 21 year old supermodel in Poland.

They are different experiences, that's why. One is not better than the other, just different and not comparable. All depends on you and what you're looking for at the time. E.g. see zatara's spring break post above.

Post: #59

Quote:They are different experiences, that's why. One is not better than the other, just different and not comparable. All depends on you and what you're looking for at the time. E.g. see zatara's spring break post above.

It's a different experience, but that doesn't mean it's a better experience. I just don't see the thrill of banging a 6 that has banged 20 other dudes that night and is too wasted to give a good performance in bed.

Post: #60

Well, I think the amount of cock I saw on the Thai islands recently has turned me off of the beach holiday scene so that's done and dusted. I've still never been to Ibiza, Greek Islands, Croatia etc but I'm guessing it would be even worse judging by reports on this forum, especially being someone who prefers rolling solo. I'm thinking big cities with plenty of quality women are next on the agenda- just have to pick one with vibrant nightlife so my amateur day game isn't exposed to much.

Post: #61

I'm glad this thread was started. I was hoping someone thats traveled a lot can answer this for me. I'm getting tired of SEA countries and Asian women in general. I love them but I need a change. I'm basically looking for a place that's the next level of difficulty from thailand terms of gaming white girls. I'm gathering Ukraine is my best bet. Any opinions? Thanks

Post: #62

A lot of people talking about where to live, and that should ultimately be based on what you want in life. I recommend to prioritize money, but at the same time prioritizing going to the gym, living a balanced healthy life, and getting laid because it's so much fun Nobody ever said it would be easy, but like has been said earlier I think it will get better in late 20's in 30's assuming no major fuck ups.

I do live in SEA, but NYC, Silicon Valley, SF, London, HK, maybe Beijing/shanghai are good for a different track if you need to get a high paying job and are not lcoation independent. Do want to check out Brazil, but I highly recommend really thinking it out first because it's tough to leave paradise. I want to check out Brazil for example but there's just not enough reason for me to leave SEA.

I wouldn't sweat not being too well traveled, before you're thirty I don't think any guy should have any major regrets built up at that point.

Good luck prioritizing it all I still don't have it all down, focus on money, but make intelligent choices not to be a slave too much either, system will eat you butthole first.

Post: #63

(06-29-2015 07:49 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  Regarding the original question, I'll say this. Wherever you are, be there.

It sounds cliche, but one of the biggest time wasters is worrying about where you are not, and men far too often waste hours of their life wishing they were somewhere else, doing something different. Look at the most grounded of men and you'll see they are inside of every moment.

Aim for the freedom to be anwhere, and strive for exciting things, but also teach yourself to be happy, or at least engaged, everywhere.

Life is promised to no one, so do your best to take nothing and no one for granted.

BB hit the nail on the head.

Mediocre video but good lessons in here:





Tyler tells how he "burned bridges" when he first started doing pick-up videos. As people here know, as soon as your name and face are out there as a pick up artist, that's it, you'll be identified as a rape advocate and every employer will be able to find you talking about poosy. Tyler was involved in a community but got asked to do videos and seminars, and at that point he had to decide if he was going to be outed as a pickup guy or continue living a normal life. He "burned the bridge" to normal life, grabbed life by the horns, and ran with the pick up industry. The rest is history as evidenced by the hundreds of spam approachers seen at clubs worldwide.

This can be applied to anyone here. Want to start a business? Do it. Right now, and fucking own it. Do or do not, there is no try.

Post: #64

(12-20-2015 10:21 AM)CallSignBigRed Wrote:  I'm glad this thread was started. I was hoping someone thats traveled a lot can answer this for me. I'm getting tired of SEA countries and Asian women in general. I love them but I need a change. I'm basically looking for a place that's the next level of difficulty from thailand terms of gaming white girls. I'm gathering Ukraine is my best bet. Any opinions? Thanks

Man I reached that exact point a year back re SEA... a graduation of-sorts... it sounds like you are now ready for slavic beauties. Welcome to EE, comrade!