Post: #1

Ive been going to a bunch lately with alot of attractive girls. These girls are the club type who are into xtacy and other drugs. This is all great and makes for a fun party, however, they all seem to know the guys that are already there; and those guys are my newest bunch of friends that i have been hanging out alot with. The guys dominate most of the conversations although i throw out funny comments and try to contribute. I do make sure to meet the girls but its hard to get them isolated. Is being aggressive the best route? just not giving a fuck and telling them to come chill with me on the couch and drink/do shots?

Post: #2

You might want to build some kind of rep, over time, just be cool and a fun guy. When you get known you'll have an easier time isolating the girls you want.

Post: #3

This may be more of a gray area, KB. Are these guys friends with these girls? Find out from the dudes, which girls are in play or not. Cuz you'll want to make sure you're not putting the moves on one of your new compadre's former conquests.

As far as isolating goes, the best way is to see if any of the girls want to smoke. Just tell them to keep it quiet, cuz you don't have a lot with you. Then dip out with your target for a minute.

Also if there's partying, there's beer pong. Get one of the girls you want to isolate to be your partner and see if that sparks anything. If she's way more focused on the game or the other people around, then pick a different partner.

There's other drinking games you can play too, mostly with cards, depending on how creative you are. I'm pretty sure a bottle of liquor and a deck of cards was all I ever really needed to get laid in college.

Post: #4

Putting in your two cents or a joke here or there in a big group of guys is almost worse than not talking to her at all (in my opinion). I would rather talk to other girls (less attractive or not), and send a glance her way. Usually if she is interested, you'll catch her looking. When it comes to other guys - unless they are my friends, or acquaintances, I don't consider that they're there if I am trying to go for the kill. Just walk up and say Whats up I'm -----. It doesn't matter what you say or talk about, have the girl talk about herself. One time I did this not knowing that one of the guys next to this girl was her boyfriend (Halloween party) - I ended up getting her number and everything right in front of the dude. You don't necessarily have to be funny, or that interesting - seriously most party girls who fit your description wouldn't be able to tell the difference. If its a REALLY crowded house party, you basically have to go for the kill and be aggressive. If there is a dance floor, offer her to come dance w/ you. That's the best case scenario.

Post: #5

(05-20-2011 04:12 PM)rozayINTL Wrote:  Putting in your two cents or a joke here or there in a big group of guys is almost worse than not talking to her at all (in my opinion). I would rather talk to other girls (less attractive or not), and send a glance her way. Usually if she is interested, you'll catch her looking. When it comes to other guys - unless they are my friends, or acquaintances, I don't consider that they're there if I am trying to go for the kill. Just walk up and say Whats up I'm -----. It doesn't matter what you say or talk about, have the girl talk about herself. One time I did this not knowing that one of the guys next to this girl was her boyfriend (Halloween party) - I ended up getting her number and everything right in front of the dude. You don't necessarily have to be funny, or that interesting - seriously most party girls who fit your description wouldn't be able to tell the difference. If its a REALLY crowded house party, you basically have to go for the kill and be aggressive. If there is a dance floor, offer her to come dance w/ you. That's the best case scenario.

This.

I was just at a house warming party yesterday, everyone there I didn't know. I had only met the girl who invited me a few days ago at a bar for 15 minutes. I introduced or was introduced to everyone. I started with her two best friends, not out of any plan, it just happened that way. Afterward, as the group came together to play Apples to Apples, I shined. Joking. Snark here and there. Just having good fun. Talking to everyone about everything. At the end of the night I got the kiss from the girl and plans for Sunday.

If you're not a natural talker, try to steer the conversation towards something you can go on, then pass it off so your not looking like a chatterbox. Having an ability to lead a conversation is social proof, especially if the guys you're talking to are leaning in and listening.

Post: #6

(05-19-2011 11:32 PM)FretDancer Wrote:  You might want to build some kind of rep, over time, just be cool and a fun guy. When you get known you'll have an easier time isolating the girls you want.

(05-20-2011 04:18 AM)CJ Wrote:  This may be more of a gray area, KB. Are these guys friends with these girls? Find out from the dudes, which girls are in play or not. Cuz you'll want to make sure you're not putting the moves on one of your new compadre's former conquests.

This is important especially if it's a smaller party. You have to make sure none of your buddies have dibs before you make a move on any of their girls. No one likes the new guy who shows up and starts taking all the girls they've been friends with since high school. Try to integrate into the group and do your thing from there.

Remember, bros before hoes.

Post: #7

If you are constantly kicking it with these dudes and these girls you'll have a chance to hollar at one of them. You say they take E and like to dance and all that good stuff. Usually these type of girls are fun and are down with casual sex.(but some also have a screw or two loose) Do any of them blaze?

Ask her if she wants to smoke with you and you can chat her up and see if shes feeling you. From my experience most of these girls that do E like to smoke trees. The E usually puts them in a good mood too so they might be easier to game and if you popped one too you'll be on the same level and I have had success gaming girls on E who were on it too. You should check out that G manifesto post about swooping chicks on drugs its legit.