Post: #1

Let's say you are going to move to an area with a strip of bars. What is the maximum distance you want to live from there? Is 0.5 miles too far a walk to bring back a girl? 1 Mile? 10 minute walk? 15-20 minute walk? I don't want to want to cockblock myself with a too long walk.

Post: #2

Up to a 20 minute walk is fine.

Just lie and tell them it's a 10 minute walk.

If she complains of sore feet being in heels, carry her on your back (ensuring your hands are supporting her around her upper thighs).

It will get the pussy moist for when you get her inside.

Post: #3

Bitches walk slow in heels, i say 15 min, 20 max.

And yeah what above poster said, but I would carry them in my arms rather than on my back. Much more intimate that way, but you better up your biceps sets in the gym

Post: #4

It'll start to get bad once you go over 10 minutes. 15 minutes is starting to push it. Anything over 20 and you're probably fucked unless you get a taxi.

When it comes to logistics, the closer the better.

HSLD

Post: #5

Excellent. I'm a fifteen minute walk from the premiere gaming district in Beijing. The only way I could have better logistics, would be to have a private elevator the drops directly onto the dance floor of a foreigner friendly club.

Post: #6

Girls really have short attention spans. I have been cockblocked by time and distance many times. The shorter the better, although I think having a few minutes of walking time may help to establish a little more comfort and in building some sexual tension before arriving at your place.

Post: #7

Do the distance divided by 2. If it's 20 minutes, tell her 10. Just walk fast, to avoid getting "well you know, I'll go back home because I work early tomorrow" when you're almost arrived to your pad.

Post: #8

It depends on where you live. I was almost going to get a place within walking distance to our downtown area with like 20 bars within a few block radius. There's not much housing stock immediately downtown but alot a bit out. Now a 15 or 20 minute walk in the summer or spring would be pleasant, in the winter time it would be miserable if even possible with snow on the sidewalks and stuff.

I think the closer you can be to bars and nightlife the better but at the same time I like being at least a $5 cab ride from them. My current location public transportation doesn't exist and things are a bit spread out...its the burbs...so taking a cab home from the bar means a $35 cab ride. I know not gonna break the bank but if going out a few times a week that adds up quickly.

One thing about living near or even above a hot nightlife spot, it can turn into a crutch. I had a buddy who lived above a hip bar in river north in Chicago. It was a great spot, he had a nice little studio but it got to the point where he was basically using his logistics as a crutch just having to bring girls up the elevator. You took him out of his building and tried to see what he could do and he was a deer in headlights so don't let your logistics make htings too easy for you.

Post: #9

I have a logistics related question about a date that I'm going on tonight, hopefully I can get some feedback here, these are the basic details:

-Met this girl at a club last week, we've been chatting a bit and she is very keen to meet up tonight and we have a 9:00pm date planned.

-She lives very, very close to me, literally she can look out her back window and see my building, door-to-door walk within a minute.

-There's a bar directly across the street, again about a minute walk away but its trashy and low class, a blue collar place with cheap beer that probably plays AC/DC a lot.

-There's a better Irish pub about five blocks away, probably a ten minute walk from our places, it will likely be packed tonight with live music and a bunch of drunk Irish people.

-We live close to an entertainment district but its not close enough to walk, I would have to drive there and that would take about five minutes. There's better pubs/bars and clubs down there. DUI isn't an issue as I won't be drinking, but I will try to get her drinking for obvious reasons. These places are more upscale and probably better for a date but the logistics aren't as good as the places mentioned above.

So what do you guys think? My plan is to go out for a couple of drinks, maybe stop by a club to dance for a minute then try to bounce her back to my place and follow Tuthmosis's First Night Bang Recipe, should I take her to the nearby place (the Irish Pub) or to a better one five minutes away by car? Thanks.

Post: #10

Scotian: The fact that you live next door to each other pretty much throws logistics out the window. She's coming back either way. With that being said, I'd take the five minute drive over the ten minute walk because you'll have the ability to venue bounce; assuming there isn't much other than the Irish pub.

Now, if the 5 minute drive is actually a 25 minute ordeal with parking/valet, walking to the bar from the parking lot, waiting for the valet to fetch your car, etc. - take the Irish pub, hands down.

Post: #11

(04-11-2015 02:21 PM)TroubleMaker Wrote:  Scotian: The fact that you live next door to each other pretty much throws logistics out the window. She's coming back either way. With that being said, I'd take the five minute drive over the ten minute walk because you'll have the ability to venue bounce; assuming there isn't much other than the Irish pub.

Now, if the 5 minute drive is actually a 25 minute ordeal with parking/valet, walking to the bar from the parking lot, waiting for the valet to fetch your car, etc. - take the Irish pub, hands down.

TM, the 5 minute drive shouldn't be a problem, I can park my car outside of the pub or at the most a block or two away, once we have a couple of drinks I'll go for the venue change after an hour or so, either a lounge or club in the area (would have to take the car again but it'll be close) or suggest the Irish pub. On the way back to our area, I'll suggest we watch a movie or have a drink at my place, of course I'll have booze and snacks waiting. Thanks for the input.

Post: #12

(04-10-2015 07:32 AM)Carlos100 Wrote:  Girls really have short attention spans. I have been cockblocked by time and distance many times. The shorter the better, although I think having a few minutes of walking time may help to establish a little more comfort and in building some sexual tension before arriving at your place.

Good point. I never thought about the fact that I would need to continue gaming her during the walk to avoid her getting cold.

Post: #13

(04-15-2015 07:47 PM)Iso Wrote:  

(04-10-2015 07:32 AM)Carlos100 Wrote:  Girls really have short attention spans. I have been cockblocked by time and distance many times. The shorter the better, although I think having a few minutes of walking time may help to establish a little more comfort and in building some sexual tension before arriving at your place.

Good point. I never thought about the fact that I would need to continue gaming her during the walk to avoid her getting cold.

Usually what you have to do is just maintain continual small talk, just so you don't give the hamster a chance to engage and make her get cold feet/ASD before she's back at your place. Doesn't even matter what - just keep her talking and not thinking.

HSLD

Post: #14

I remember one girl bitching every other step about having to walk 10 mins back to my place... but usually it's 5-10 mins for me, if I'm gaming locally.

On holidays / travelling, as the mood is way more chilled, the distance can be significantly longer.

Post: #15

I would go as far as 30 minutes maximum and tell them it's 15.

AS LONG AS it is not in an area super near the subway or whatever where she can just leave.

In that case I agree with the 20 minutes delivered as 10 minutes.

As a general point though...

If your game is good enough to get her to leave the venue with you and start walking towards your house... no excuses

IMHO

Post: #16

One factor that hasn't been mentioned yet, is that her emotional state can be affected by the environment on the way home.

If you're going through certain neighborhoods, she could be excited, intrigued, or even scared.

It's up to you to manage those emotions and the most direct route to your spot may not always be the best.

Post: #17

What about when you're not within walking distance of anything and have to either drive or take public transport?

I just moved to a new place and it's not within walking distance of any bars however is within 5 minutes driving distance. Also easy public transport access however you're looking at more like 20 minutes on public transport.

Anyway, I feel like the barrier is much higher for getting a girl to get into your car or on public transport with you (when she is relatively sober) compared to just walking with you.
Do you guys agree or is it all in my head?

Post: #18

No more than 10 minute walk is best, up to 20 is doable but you have to be ready for some bitchiness or just have your patter down when you're walking them more than 15 minutes.