Post: #76

we are putting too much investment into this whole flaking issue with women nowadays. since social media is playing a part in women have options (obviously because they have a pulse and a vagina), they're going to flake on just about anyone, even their own family members.

flaking is a byproduct of the game. game only benefits those with thick skin.

Post: #77

(04-11-2015 06:21 PM)CrackerDaddy Wrote:  Basically, you have to ask yourself.....what is your real SMV? Now, be honest here. Be honest with yourself. Hell, get a second or third opinion. Are you the type of man who is so desirable, high-status enough to basically be flake-proof? If not, are you willing to put in the work and do whatever is necessary to raise yourself to that level? If not, then relegate yourself to being flaked upon and take whatever you can get in the the sexual marketplace relevant to your real SMV.

Sound harsh? Yes, it is; but, my friends that is the reality of the situation. Make a better you......be a better you. Trust me, the ladies will notice and your incidences of being flaked upon will go down as the quality of the women you are attaining go up.

Just my $.02

Yes, but this is only ONE option you have to prevent flaky behavior, with dubious guarantees. In the first place, raising your SMV should be taken for granted and should be a central element of your overall lifestyle.

On the other hand, there is only so much you can do to raise your SMV (well, at least for the vast majority of players), while you can always concentrate on other factors: one of them is, simply, more approaches (which leads to more options and, above all, abundance mentality).

One question every guy that has be flaked on should ask himself, is: how many NEW girls did I approach in the 24 hours following the flake, IF any?

In this answer lies, in my opinion, an important element of dealing with flaking. After all, let's admit that flakes are not only a problem of very bad social behavior on behalf of females, but also, if not mostly, a problem of our own inner monologue and, ultimately, our inner response to this bad behavior.

Post: #78

When girls "flake", they are doing you a favor..

They are "screening" themselves for you. They are letting you know that they don't want to fuck you, at the moment.

Her flaking gives you the freedom to go out and game other girls. Her flaking gives you the feedback you need to make improvements and adjustments in your game. Her flaking lets you know that you must talk to more girls and find girls that you have better "chemistry" with.

She doesn't want to hang out with you. She is being honest with you.

Be honest with yourself -- go talk to some more girls!

"Flaking" makes my pursuit of sex more efficient because I know who is interested and who isn't.

"Flaking" = girls "screening" themselves!

Just move on!

Post: #79

(04-12-2015 01:15 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  When girls "flake", they are doing you a favor..

They are "screening" themselves for you. They are letting you know that they don't want to fuck you, at the moment.

Her flaking gives you the freedom to go out and game other girls. Her flaking gives you the feedback you need to make improvements and adjustments in your game. Her flaking lets you know that you must talk to more girls and find girls that you have better "chemistry" with.

She doesn't want to hang out with you. She is being honest with you.

Be honest with yourself -- go talk to some more girls!

"Flaking" makes my pursuit of sex more efficient because I know who is interested and who isn't.

"Flaking" = girls "screening" themselves!

Just move on!

^^^^
THIS!

Nicely said Giovonny......nicely said indeed.