Post: #1

Maybe it's just my location, but if a girl has a modicum of attractiveness to her, she's got a guy in her life to some capacity. The last few chicks I hooked up with all had boyfriends. I not a big fan of the hooking up with taken chicks thing, but it is what it is and the girls seem to have zero reservations. So I was just wondering how often and in what circumstances you guys truly meet single women.

Post: #2

The truth is there's a lot more attractive, single women than you think.
The problem is getting access to them. They tend to avoid bars, clubs
and big events where most guys like to go to meet women.

And between home, work and "busyness" it's easy for them
drop off the "grid" entirely for years at a time.

After years of searching for the best places to meet girls,
I realized that you really have to bring girls to you rather than
go out looking for them.

It takes more effort(and money) however you'll have a lot more success
than guys who go out looking for quality, single girls who were never
actually there to begin with.

Post: #3

Maybe 2-3x per year. But I live in a poosy desert where non-obese girls get locked down fast, and I don't approach enough. I've noticed there are more available girls in the lower age range, 23 and under. Those girls just randomly hook up more or maybe have fuckbuddies they don't reveal. From 23-27 they are into their serious relationships. 28+ and there are a lot of single moms, etc.

Post: #4

I meet single women every day. Hell I'm going to a beer festival now with 2 I met last week at a bar. Girls can lie about being in a relationship to shield themselves from approaches. I wouldn't worry about them having boyfriends, if they do and are chatting with you.. They are doing it for a reason. I don't approach married women, but if they have a boyfriend it won't stop me.

Post: #5

I've found the easiest way around all this is making friends with alpha guys that have hot girlfriends, and make friends with rich guys and guys with rich families.

The hot GFs have hot friends, the rich families that hang out together tend to have hot daughters from trophy wives.

This is the easiest in for social proof with hot chicks I've found.

Post: #6

Depends on perspective.

Fairly Young? Fairly attractive?
Truly single, like no guy is interested in her, she's not been going on dates?
I.E a chick that has just moved to town and far away from her social circle?

Rare.

Most of the time in cold approach, the chick has offers on the table, some dial-a-dick, and probably had her "5 minutes of 'alpha'" some where else.

It doesn't really matter if you connect with a chick. As I've banged other dude's girlfriends and wives, I've been scooped as well.

It's part of the horrible truth about the game, her loyalty is fluid.

WIA

(04-04-2015 09:22 AM)nek Wrote:  Maybe it's just my location, but if a girl has a modicum of attractiveness to her, she's got a guy in her life to some capacity. The last few chicks I hooked up with all had boyfriends. I not a big fan of the hooking up with taken chicks thing, but it is what it is and the girls seem to have zero reservations. So I was just wondering how often and in what circumstances you guys truly meet single women.

Post: #7

Single is a very relative term. One thing I've learned from RVF is that every girl is single in front of you if she's interested.

Post: #8

Wondering if she's 'attached' before even making the approach isn't in any game manual. Even if she is and you know about it (let's say she's in your social circle) but she's showing some responsiveness, if you want her enough you have to try get the notch until there's no rational way left to advance your aim. Rather 'fail' somehow, than put obstacles in your path (psych yourself out).

Post: #9

Honestly man if you bang a chick more than once-to the next dude that hits on her-YOU ARE HER BOYFRIEND!
I don't even talk about other guys at ALL!
I BYPASS that part of the conversation lol

Post: #10

i see single girls all the time, they're still in elementary school or junior high though.

any girl with a cell phone has dicks on demand.

you're just next in line.

Post: #11

I never ask if a woman is single. Goes back to what Paul Janka said about such an admission revealing she is somehow "defective." Get to know her and she will reveal how single she really is.

Post: #12

Worrying about whether or not a woman is single is pointless.

All one should be concerned is whether or not she's available -- her availability will depend on the option that she's presented with.

Women fall into one of four categories:

1. Alone: No boyfriend, no fuck buddy
2. Socially Alone: No boyfriend, fuck buddy
3. In A Relationship, But Unhappy: Has a boyfriend/husband, not fucking
4. In A Relationship, Happy: Has a boyfriend/husband, fucking

Theoretically, you could find availability from any of those categories.

However, I would say most women fall into categories #2-4, yet in terms of availability, the most likely to be available are in #1-3.

There aren't any go-to rules that can be established for where a certain type of woman lies. It's assumed fat women would fall into #1, but I would say most actually fall into #2. It's also entirely possible to find really attractive women in category #1, mostly because their number of suitors tends to be less than expected because they don't often put themselves out there in front of a lot of men -- e.g. meat market type-places like nightclubs -- and most men automatically assume they're taken because of how they look.

Post: #13

(04-04-2015 10:07 AM)Apollo21 Wrote:  The truth is there's a lot more attractive, single women than you think.
The problem is getting access to them. They tend to avoid bars, clubs
and big events where most guys like to go to meet women.

My next Real Talk Sessions is about this dynamic, you'll find out why.

Post: #14

(04-04-2015 10:07 AM)Apollo21 Wrote:  The truth is there's a lot more attractive, single women than you think.
The problem is getting access to them. They tend to avoid bars, clubs
and big events where most guys like to go to meet women.

Online dating has damaged game in real time. It's an unfortunate truth. Pair that with PUA's doing 100 approaches and talking to girls out of their league, and quality single girls are less prone to go out. If the shoe was on the other foot, and I got opened by 10 fat girls a night, I'd stop going out too.

(04-04-2015 10:07 AM)Apollo21 Wrote:  And between home, work and "busyness" it's easy for them
drop off the "grid" entirely for years at a time.

They don't drop off the grid, but have moved to other sections and I can't blame them. Social circle game is still alive and well. And to take it one step further, it differs from socio-economic classes. Poor girls tend to be dick monkeys. They swing from one cock to another, not letting go of one until another is in hand. These are the girls you're still dealing with in the bar. Girls that are financially independent will stay single longer between boyfriends, and the next one will come from her circle.

(04-04-2015 10:07 AM)Apollo21 Wrote:  After years of searching for the best places to meet girls,
I realized that you really have to bring girls to you rather than
go out looking for them.

Exactly. Create 'the bubble'. Don't just be part of a social circle, be a leader in it. Here in Texas all you need is a backyard and a grill. Gain access to some circles, smoke a brisket, and wait for the crowd to show. "If you smoke it, they will come". And proper circle game isn't just improving your chances with better women, it's improving your quality of life.

To gain access to good social circles:

Buy a motorcycle
Learn to surf
Pickup an instrument
Buy a $500+ grill/smoker combo
Own a boat
Bounce/bartend
Get off the damn internet

These will provide you value, and girls will come to you. But to answer the OP's question, yes I meet single girls all time. The question to ask, which I've already answered, is "where and how can I meet quality single girls?"

Post: #15

(04-09-2015 12:59 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

(04-04-2015 10:07 AM)Apollo21 Wrote:  The truth is there's a lot more attractive, single women than you think.
The problem is getting access to them. They tend to avoid bars, clubs
and big events where most guys like to go to meet women.

Online dating has damaged game in real time. It's an unfortunate truth. Pair that with PUA's doing 100 approaches and talking to girls out of their league, and quality single girls are less prone to go out. If the shoe was on the other foot, and I got opened by 10 fat girls a night, I'd stop going out too.

(04-04-2015 10:07 AM)Apollo21 Wrote:  And between home, work and "busyness" it's easy for them
drop off the "grid" entirely for years at a time.

They don't drop off the grid, but have moved to other sections and I can't blame them. Social circle game is still alive and well. And to take it one step further, it differs from socio-economic classes. Poor girls tend to be dick monkeys. They swing from one cock to another, not letting go of one until another is in hand. These are the girls you're still dealing with in the bar. Girls that are financially independent will stay single longer between boyfriends, and the next one will come from her circle.

(04-04-2015 10:07 AM)Apollo21 Wrote:  After years of searching for the best places to meet girls,
I realized that you really have to bring girls to you rather than
go out looking for them.

Exactly. Create 'the bubble'. Don't just be part of a social circle, be a leader in it. Here in Texas all you need is a backyard and a grill. Gain access to some circles, smoke a brisket, and wait for the crowd to show. "If you smoke it, they will come". And proper circle game isn't just improving your chances with better women, it's improving your quality of life.

To gain access to good social circles:

Buy a motorcycle
Learn to surf
Pickup an instrument
Buy a $500+ grill/smoker combo
Own a boat
Bounce/bartend
Get off the damn internet

These will provide you value, and girls will come to you. But to answer the OP's question, yes I meet single girls all time. The question to ask, which I've already answered, is "where and how can I meet quality single girls?"

Post: #16

(04-04-2015 12:43 PM)hwuzhere Wrote:  Single is a very relative term. One thing I've learned from RVF is that every girl is single in front of you if she's interested.

Precisely, both from her perspective and yours. I'd say I've only come across a few truly single girls.. and just luck of the draw. By single I mean not at least currently fucking someone, messing around with someone, or being courted.

After high school, I suspect - based on behavior - there hasn't been a single girl I haven't, knowledgeably or not, stolen away from another guy.

If you had pick of any thirsty decent-or-better looking chick, would you ever go without a bitch? Nope. And that's the state of women. You're just consuming more of her time, and eventually her crotch, that she veers away from one guy and onto the next.

And to Quote Frank Zappa: "Broken hearts are for assholes."

Post: #17

(04-09-2015 10:02 PM)Ingocnito Wrote:  

(04-04-2015 12:43 PM)hwuzhere Wrote:  Single is a very relative term. One thing I've learned from RVF is that every girl is single in front of you if she's interested.

Precisely, both from her perspective and yours. I'd say I've only come across a few truly single girls.. and just luck of the draw. By single I mean not at least currently fucking someone, messing around with someone, or being courted.

After high school, I suspect - based on behavior - there hasn't been a single girl I haven't, knowledgeably or not, stolen away from another guy.

If you had pick of any thirsty decent-or-better looking chick, would you ever go without a bitch? Nope. And that's the state of women. You're just consuming more of her time, and eventually her crotch, that she veers away from one guy and onto the next.

And to Quote Frank Zappa: "Broken hearts are for assholes."

Meh I just think of it as taking what I want. Once you see the golden look of desire coming out of her eyes why wouldn't I want to stick my dick in. If some poor sap ends up with my kid sounds like his problem. Thing is the issue is with the game itself I'm just a player in it. Relationships aren't worth shit in this age just look at how marriages last these days when they were supposed to be "death do us part".

Post: #18

All the time. I live in a national capital that is always attracting new talent who don't have roots and are satisfied with what the local men can offer.

There are tons of single girls here.

Post: #19

Pretty rare. I live and work in the suburbs. I occasionally see a cute, single-looking 20something girl in my local starbucks or corner bar, otherwise I have to go into the city to find single women.