Post: #1

First off, I'm in the military. I live in a barracks with a roommate. I refuse to date military girls for a number of reasons. And the nightlife in Monterey, Ca is very limited. All this makes having a sex life difficult.

I've started going out again, but what am I going to do if I meet a girl one of these nights and things escalate. I don't have a car. I can't bring a girl to my room.

Should I just go to San Fran every weekend and get a single room at a hostel in a good area? More opportunities to approach hot girls. Less inhibition because I'm just visiting. Cost prohibitive though.

I don't know what to do about my situation.

Post: #2

Have you tried day game?

Err... that may be a stupid question, not familiar with what your military schedule dictates during your days.

Post: #3

Are you at the DLI?Anyway, head down to Salinas (lots of hot mex chicks) or go up to Santa Cruz or just a little south Capitola.Stay the night and its not as far as SF.Get a cheap motorcycle!I think there is a place in Seaside you can get one on payments temp.I used to live in PG so if you need some intel let me know

Post: #4

best advice i can give you is text ur buddy and let him know u need the room for the night when u have a grl. he will understand and just crash at a friends pad.

Post: #5

(05-16-2011 08:23 PM)Dash Global Wrote:  best advice i can give you is text ur buddy and let him know u need the room for the night when u have a grl. he will understand and just crash at a friends pad.

Not possible. No civilians are allowed in the barracks. You can't have visitors, even other servicemembers, in your room after 10 pm. When you do have a visitor, your door has to remain open.

No sex allowed in barracks.

This is the shit I'm dealing with. Guys living in their parents basement have it better.

Post: #6

(05-16-2011 08:36 PM)cool Wrote:  

(05-16-2011 08:23 PM)Dash Global Wrote:  best advice i can give you is text ur buddy and let him know u need the room for the night when u have a grl. he will understand and just crash at a friends pad.

Not possible. No civilians are allowed in the barracks. You can't have visitors, even other servicemembers, in your room after 10 pm. When you do have a visitor, your door has to remain open.

No sex allowed in barracks.

This is the shit I'm dealing with. Guys living in their parents basement have it better.

holy shit! i did not know that!!!! that sucks major ass!!! i dont even know what to tell you. i guess only spit game at grls with there own pad....

Post: #7

(05-16-2011 07:48 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  Are you at the DLI?Anyway, head down to Salinas (lots of hot mex chicks) or go up to Santa Cruz or just a little south Capitola.Stay the night and its not as far as SF.Get a cheap motorcycle!I think there is a place in Seaside you can get one on payments temp.I used to live in PG so if you need some intel let me know

Yeah, I'm into latinas.

If you have any data on Salinas, Santa Cruz, or Capitola nightlife, please pm me or post it here. Should I stay at a hotel or are there cheaper options?

It doesn't take much to get the lay of the land in Monterey. I've found a few places where girls actually dress nice. I don't know if it's worth going to the clubs here...Hippodrome, Blue Fin, or Luxe. I've seen skanks and wannabe thugs going in there and some hotties.

Post: #8

Is there anyplace on the base where you can "sneak" a girl into? I think many girls would be turned on by the prospect of sneaking on a military base. Even if it's b.s., you could play up the danger / adventure angle. Otherwise, you'll just have to set it up that you're going back to her place.

But the bottom line is not to worry too much about it. Stressing out over logistics affects your confidence and will have negative impact on your game. Just get her DTF and the logistics will work out (you'll go back to her place, get a room, etc.)

Post: #9

(05-16-2011 07:31 PM)CJ Wrote:  Have you tried day game?

Err... that may be a stupid question, not familiar with what your military schedule dictates during your days.

This is a sticking point. I probably see more bangable girls at the farmers market I go to every Tuesday night than on a weekend night.

During the week I can't daygame. I have to put everything into Saturday and Sunday.

Post: #10

(05-16-2011 08:51 PM)cool Wrote:  

(05-16-2011 07:31 PM)CJ Wrote:  Have you tried day game?

Err... that may be a stupid question, not familiar with what your military schedule dictates during your days.

This is a sticking point. I probably see more bangable girls at the farmers market I go to every Tuesday night than on a weekend night.

During the week I can't daygame. I have to put everything into Saturday and Sunday.

And there you have it ladies and gentlemen, Uncle Sam's way of basically forcing you to get married if you want to get laid while enlisted.

Post: #11

I've never had it as bad as you do, but I faced a similar situation when I lived in Chile with a host family (no car, absolutely no bringing back girls under any circumstances). You need to either go to her place or get a hotel room (easier to pull off in Latin America than in the US since the culture considers sex motels to be less sleazy). Take cabs to get around or have her drive you.

Post: #12

I'd plan to get a hotel room, maybe find one good hotel in the area and get friendly with the front desk, get them on lockdown so you can step away and get a room ready over the phone, dont want to check in with the girl and make her feel like a hooker. If you go out on the weekend and you got a prospect and she wants to know whats up with the hotel you're with the military just passing through for the week/month/whatever

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Post: #13

(05-16-2011 08:54 PM)CJ Wrote:  

(05-16-2011 08:51 PM)cool Wrote:  

(05-16-2011 07:31 PM)CJ Wrote:  Have you tried day game?

Err... that may be a stupid question, not familiar with what your military schedule dictates during your days.

This is a sticking point. I probably see more bangable girls at the farmers market I go to every Tuesday night than on a weekend night.

During the week I can't daygame. I have to put everything into Saturday and Sunday.

And there you have it ladies and gentlemen, Uncle Sam's way of basically forcing you to get married if you want to get laid while enlisted.

Sadly, this is true.

I've seen many very young soldiers rush off and marry a nothing-to-write-home-about military chick. There are many perks though. They get to live off base, get money to buy good food, and get to live a somewhat normal life when not on duty.

For all the bs the army espouses about supporting families, it incentivizes unhealthy relationships.

Post: #14

^ Bro, I had a good friend get married pretty much that way. That one didn't last very long. I'd love to see the divorce rate on those marriages. I'm sure it's ridiculous. Plus, the guy I knew had a kid with the girl pretty fast.

Post: #15

I know how that place is and you really need wheels.Alot of military guys I met there wanted to hang with locals.Start surfing!!!that place has local vibe and when you start meeting people house parties will provide more quality ass than you can imagine!Try to go to any big event in pebble beach you can. PGA,etc. I hate to say this but,don't be afraid to go to gay bars.Lots of gay guys there with lots of hot girlfriends you would'nt believe how many hot strait girls hang in those places.

Santa Cruz is way better in so many ways.Just go there with no lodging and party ,you can always find people to hang out with and crash at their pad if you're sociable.Hit the boardwalk/beaches,downtown arcade lots of cool bars,Capitola village and some local bars in the SC mountians.

I don't remember the exact names of most of places I went to because of the chronic weed and my excessive drinking etc.

Don't discount the smaller towns ,if you can hit them.. like Prunedale,Carmel valley etc,lots of cool local places to hang out if you look for them.

Salinas used to be the no1 or 2 cruise spot in the US a long time ago.Its very spread out so wheels is almost a must.But its loaded with Hot mexican girls!Its also alot cheaper....Whats wrong with Mcflys?Its right down the street?The girls there know you cant have visitors at the base anyway