Post: #26

Maybe I'm the outlier here, but all the Chinese girls I've met were quite serious, grounded and mature, though also feminine and cheerful. I never got this sense of them being "childish" like other members did. But again, these were native Chinese girls travelling over Europe. Maybe it's different in their home country.

Post: #27

(03-29-2015 10:17 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  I also find it interesting Vincent finds that some Chinese women to have big tits as well. Me and a few others here have posted about that before on the forum, but that still does not seem to be a universal observation. Are things changing even faster within a 1-3 years timespan? Enigma and I posted about the milkteas they be drinking these days. It's basically their pumpkin spice latte. All that aside, many stuff their bras in China, it's very popular to buy the flesh colored molds on Taobao, so we should not be fooled while looking as well.

We talking DDD's, or big tits for a chick that's 4'10?

Post: #28

(03-29-2015 12:47 AM)VincentVinturi Wrote:  It's deliberate.

Women act childish to activate the male protective instinct.

The more defenseless, ditzy, and utterly incapable of doing anything for herself that a woman can pretend to be, the stronger is the male drive to offer her resources, take care of her, do everything for her, and generally take her life in his strong, capable hands.

This is a ploy which plays on the male ego, and it's total bullshit.

These women known exactly what they're doing and they play the part so consistently that men actually believe these women are as puerile as they seem.

Next time an Asian girl makes her complaining whimper sound, imitate the sound back to her.

You'll see her face turn into a smirk because she knows that you know all about her facade.

Man, some of you guys are hard to please. What would you prefer in a girl?

I love these kind of girls. And I'm not sure it's always a facade either. Maybe some do it deliberately. Others are just sweet natured but sheltered girls that want to please you. In many Asian cultures, guys like these kind of girls. The girls are just doing what is considered attractive. Much better than a girl who busts your balls over every little thing.

In Japan, for example, women considered "strong" or simply "scary" are actively shamed. Men will reject women as serious partners who show these unattractive traits. For a girl then, it's better to let the guy seem superior, agree with what he says, follow his lead etc. If I meet a Japanese girl who doesn't do this she is getting the boot fairly early on. I suspect Chinese guys have a similar screening process.

By the way, I'm no expert on the Chinese but they always appear considerably less childish/cutesy than the Japanese who take the cake in that department. If you think Chinese girls are bad then check out the rest of East Asia...Taiwanese are immature as hell (usually dependent on Daddy until late 20s) and the Koreans seem more whiney, but maybe that's just the sound of their language. They annoy the hell out of me. Haha.

Some of you might do better to roll with the differences and keep an open mind. You may be surprised how your preferences change with time.

Post: #29

(03-29-2015 01:22 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

(03-29-2015 10:17 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  I also find it interesting Vincent finds that some Chinese women to have big tits as well. Me and a few others here have posted about that before on the forum, but that still does not seem to be a universal observation. Are things changing even faster within a 1-3 years timespan? Enigma and I posted about the milkteas they be drinking these days. It's basically their pumpkin spice latte. All that aside, many stuff their bras in China, it's very popular to buy the flesh colored molds on Taobao, so we should not be fooled while looking as well.

We talking DDD's, or big tits for a chick that's 4'10?

/thread-18824-...#pid331714 (just this post)
/thread-40892-...#pid970860 (the video is gone now but it was a show about large breasted women)
/thread-40892-...#pid971445 (my post and Enigma's replies)


My wife is a D cup and 5'2 and a size 2 dress. I met several that were C cups before her at that even surprised me back then, but my wife was the first bigger than that. As we were waiting for the wedding, I started meeting more with chests like a C, but I also found that some were fraud. (Bra stuffing)

Chongqing, Anhui, and Beijing seem to have bigger than usual chested women, but it is not always a sure thing. It's kinda inconsistent and hard to pin down. Every time I go back, I see more for sure, but that is partially because I want to see if my eyes can tell the difference between the stuffers and the real as I learn more about them.

I think the main culprit is the soy in the milk tea. I do not have hard scientific proof or back up, but I am sticking to it. That and they like green papaya and that fruit has been used for lactating mothers to produce more milk, that part of it is scientifically proven, but Chinese women for whatever reason thinks it grows the breast permanently, so they like to eat it or have it blended in with milk tea.

Japanese women have been on the bigger breast tip for at least 5 years now, drinking similar stuff. Chinese women are usually behind about 5 years to anything Japanese women are doing, trend wise. Same kinda goes for Taiwanese too.

Post: #30

^^ Viva la soya!

On the Asian tits topic, I got a silver landing here in Bangkok from a girl with some ridiculous melons. Probably top 3 of all time for me. Zero sag too. Shame that her face was pretty rough. I mostly kept my eyes on her tits and ass which she didn't seem to mind.

Post: #31

Um, don't you mean top 2? Otherwise, thats some Total Recall shit.

(03-29-2015 02:11 PM)dreambig Wrote:  ^^ Viva la soya!

On the Asian tits topic, I got a silver landing here in Bangkok from a girl with some ridiculous melons. Probably top 3 of all time for me. Zero sag too. Shame that her face was pretty rough. I mostly kept my eyes on her tits and ass which she didn't seem to mind.

Post: #32

Out of curiosity, where do you guys mostly source your Chinese girls from? In my experience there is a huge difference between the various "types."

Your average Chinese university girl is more than likely to be "shy" and downright virginal. The FOB girl I dated in the US was a virgin and she did not hide her contempt at what she called the "sluts" that frequent nightlife venues. A lot of her friends were virgins as well, some even after finishing university. Sounds crazy to Westerners but such things are quite common in China, I'd go so far as say more common than not.

On the other hand, girls you meet in bars and clubs basically are sluts. It happened so many times where you had these girls sitting there with their Chinese boyfriends, and then they would start getting handsy with me or my friends while their boyfriend was just sitting there and acting all content and shit. Most of the "club" girls, at least in my experience in Shanghai, are either students (although most students aren't club girls) or (especially in "local" clubs) just really hot young girls who use their beauty to try an catch a rich young Chinese guy. That latter category is fuking infuriating! Neither myself or my friends ever had any luck hooking up with those girls when we went to local clubs like M1 or Mint etc, but damn they're hot! I'm going to have to break the code when I move back to Shanghai in a few weeks, because those chicks have insane figures and dress sexy as hell!

Then you have the Wechat girls. These range the spectrum but lean heavily towards the "slut" category. As with everything in life that requires little effort, you'll be unlikely to find any stunners throwing their pussy around via "lookaround," but it's certainly an easy and painless way to score lots of dates and practice your Chinese.

Personally, I prefer the "shy" university girls even if they do require a bit more time investment to get the lay. I've never been very good at night game since I can't dance to save my life, so I tend to view going out to clubs as an exercise in having fun and getting drunk with my buddies with an incidental chance of getting laid in the process. Happened a few times but not as many as I'd have liked. Sadly, the bulk of my lays have come off of Wechat.

How about the rest of you China hands on here? How do you meet most of your girls?

Post: #33

Let's not pretend that Chinese girls are hard at all. Once you break the comfort barrier with them, something that usually requires some language skill, then their pants are off pretty quickly. This applies to pretty much all of them, assuming that you have looks or height (Chinese girls like ugly tall guys). Most of the Chinese girls I've banged have had less than 5 guys in their lives as well and I don't pick up girls in clubs really.

The reason Chinese girls are so damn immature is because they've been locked in their rooms studying math and science for the first 22 years of their life. They want to have fun, they just don't know how to do it.

Still China is a country with 700 million women and zero competition. If you can't get laid there, then you need to read Bang 40 times. I knew a 300+ pound, extremely unattractive American in Changchun and he was married and still was cheating on his wife. He honestly might have been 400 pounds.

Post: #34

(03-30-2015 12:22 AM)elcidcampeador Wrote:  Let's not pretend that Chinese girls are hard at all. Once you break the comfort barrier with them, something that usually requires some language skill, then their pants are off pretty quickly. This applies to pretty much all of them, assuming that you have looks or height (Chinese girls like ugly tall guys). Most of the Chinese girls I've banged have had less than 5 guys in their lives as well and I don't pick up girls in clubs really.

The reason Chinese girls are so damn immature is because they've been locked in their rooms studying math and science for the first 22 years of their life. They want to have fun, they just don't know how to do it.

Still China is a country with 700 million women and zero competition. If you can't get laid there, then you need to read Bang 40 times. I knew a 300+ pound, extremely unattractive American in Changchun and he was married and still was cheating on his wife. He honestly might have been 400 pounds.

I've seen a few grossly out of shape fat dudes with skinny Chinese cuties. Mostly in the 2nd tier cities though. I imagine that shit wouldn't fly so much in Shanghai or Beijing. Especially in the club scene, you usually have to be over 6 feet tall, thin, good looking blonde guy if you want to slay ridiculous amounts of pussy every time you go out.

But yeah, it is generally like shooting fish in a barrel in terms of easiness.

Post: #35

(03-30-2015 12:08 AM)Fast Eddie Wrote:  Out of curiosity, where do you guys mostly source your Chinese girls from? In my experience there is a huge difference between the various "types."

Your average Chinese university girl is more than likely to be "shy" and downright virginal. The FOB girl I dated in the US was a virgin and she did not hide her contempt at what she called the "sluts" that frequent nightlife venues. A lot of her friends were virgins as well, some even after finishing university. Sounds crazy to Westerners but such things are quite common in China, I'd go so far as say more common than not.

On the other hand, girls you meet in bars and clubs basically are sluts. It happened so many times where you had these girls sitting there with their Chinese boyfriends, and then they would start getting handsy with me or my friends while their boyfriend was just sitting there and acting all content and shit. Most of the "club" girls, at least in my experience in Shanghai, are either students (although most students aren't club girls) or (especially in "local" clubs) just really hot young girls who use their beauty to try an catch a rich young Chinese guy. That latter category is fuking infuriating! Neither myself or my friends ever had any luck hooking up with those girls when we went to local clubs like M1 or Mint etc, but damn they're hot! I'm going to have to break the code when I move back to Shanghai in a few weeks, because those chicks have insane figures and dress sexy as hell!

How about the rest of you China hands on here? How do you meet most of your girls?

Have you tried reserving tables at those Chinese clubs, or some of the higher end ones? I've never tried myself, but a friend of mine swears by it. Says it will usually get your foot in the door for getting attention from those girls. At the very least, they'll probably come up to your table and drink with you.

As for your other question, I've nailed girls from WeChat/other apps, day game, and clubs.

Post: #36

A sense of child like play is something I'd actively look for since I lean further towards the serious side. Who cares if it's fake as long as you recognize it as such. I'll fake enthusiasm when necessary haha.

Given:

This


VS

This



I'll take 100 cry babies.

Post: #37

It's called sā jiāo:

   

Like many Chinese cultural concepts there's no direct English translation, but a Chinese girl once told me:

Quote:sa jiao is a way of expressing feelings of the Chinese people, westerners can't understand, they seek is a direct expression

Quote:if some girls say :你很讨厌 (Nǐ hěn tǎoyàn / I hate you!). this is 撒娇

Quote:she dont hate u...in fact ..this is a way to show love to u

Some links and quotes:
http://www.echinacities.com/expat-corner...nd-Sa-Jiao

Quote:And whereas most Western men do not find weak and childish behaviour particularly attractive in a woman, Chinese men are big fans of sa jiao. Having a woman who engages in such behaviour can, according to one Chinese man, make them feel strong and manly.

http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/cndy/2010-0...848087.htm

Quote:First and foremost, you know you're in a Chinese cross-cultural relationship when sajiao rears its pretty, or ugly, depending on your taste, little head. This distinctive set of behaviors, perpetrated by Chinese females, often takes the unsuspecting Western male by surprise. Sajiao is hard to define, but you'll certainly know it when you see it.

Its literal meaning - "to unleash coquettishness" - doesn't divulge much. Ask a fan of Chinese coquettishness and he will probably tell you that he just "can't get enough of the stuff", referring to the feminine voice, tender gestures, and girlish protestations. Talk to someone less keen on the sajiao and he's likely to shudder and say, "I can't stand it!" citing the whining, clinging, and childish tantrums as just some of the annoying features of sajiao.

Quote:One of the fundamental concepts in a Chinese relationship is zhaogu, or "taking care of". Although Chinese women take care of their men, the implicit and explicit cultural consensus is that it is a man's job to take care of his woman with the attentiveness of a father doting on his little girl. Therefore, sajiao manifests as a means of inducing zhaogu behavior when it is lacking, or to pander the male ego as a reward.

Taking zhaogu a step further, some Chinese other halves strongly believe in "spoiling" - guan. It's not uncommon to hear Chinese girlfriends asking their western boyfriends to spoil them. While the request sounds unreasonably absurd in English, in the Chinese language and to the Chinese frame of mind, it's as natural as asking your partner for "support."

http://sgforums.com/forums/96/topics/29430

Quote:Haven't you guys notice that if ladies stopped sa jiao to you, she'll dump you for sure (within a wk) Laughing So sa jiao is cool, coz
it signifies that you (men) are still being loved.

Quote:To get attention. If they do not get attention, they walk.

Quote:Sa jiao is an important element to a relationship ok… its true that if a lady stop sa jiao to a guy.. it is likely that she will run away very soon.

Related:
   

Post: #38

(03-29-2015 01:52 PM)dreambig Wrote:  

(03-29-2015 12:47 AM)VincentVinturi Wrote:  It's deliberate.

Women act childish to activate the male protective instinct.

The more defenseless, ditzy, and utterly incapable of doing anything for herself that a woman can pretend to be, the stronger is the male drive to offer her resources, take care of her, do everything for her, and generally take her life in his strong, capable hands.

This is a ploy which plays on the male ego, and it's total bullshit.

These women known exactly what they're doing and they play the part so consistently that men actually believe these women are as puerile as they seem.

Next time an Asian girl makes her complaining whimper sound, imitate the sound back to her.

You'll see her face turn into a smirk because she knows that you know all about her facade.

Man, some of you guys are hard to please. What would you prefer in a girl?

I love these kind of girls. And I'm not sure it's always a facade either. Maybe some do it deliberately. Others are just sweet natured but sheltered girls that want to please you. In many Asian cultures, guys like these kind of girls. The girls are just doing what is considered attractive. Much better than a girl who busts your balls over every little thing.

In Japan, for example, women considered "strong" or simply "scary" are actively shamed. Men will reject women as serious partners who show these unattractive traits. For a girl then, it's better to let the guy seem superior, agree with what he says, follow his lead etc. If I meet a Japanese girl who doesn't do this she is getting the boot fairly early on. I suspect Chinese guys have a similar screening process.

By the way, I'm no expert on the Chinese but they always appear considerably less childish/cutesy than the Japanese who take the cake in that department. If you think Chinese girls are bad then check out the rest of East Asia...Taiwanese are immature as hell (usually dependent on Daddy until late 20s) and the Koreans seem more whiney, but maybe that's just the sound of their language. They annoy the hell out of me. Haha.

Some of you might do better to roll with the differences and keep an open mind. You may be surprised how your preferences change with time.

Ok I should clarify:

I like the cute act (even if it's subconscious and the girl isn't aware of it being an act - but it is), it's very endearing and makes me horny.

All I'm saying is: don't get sucked into spending time and money or committing because you aren't paying attention to how well this cute act exploits your desire to protect and prove your manhood.

That's how they getcha.

Post: #39

(03-30-2015 02:46 AM)VincentVinturi Wrote:  Ok I should clarify:

I like the cute act (even if it's subconscious and the girl isn't aware of it being an act - but it is), it's very endearing and makes me horny.

All I'm saying is: don't get sucked into spending time and money or committing because you aren't paying attention to how well this cute act exploits your desire to protect and prove your manhood.

That's how they getcha.

Most of us like the cute acting.
But of course we know that there is a calculating woman behind that girly act.

Being Red Pill around here we don't fall for that.

Sometimes Western girls who are submissive around their man act like that too - in a way this can be a form of submissiveness, a compliment even as in some cases a woman lets herself be more immature and girly around you. I honestly believe that women like that - I have sometimes seen business women behave that way around their man when at home. Being a woman means being submissive and cutesy. Modern Western women are broken, because they have killed that part within them trying to emulate men.

Post: #40

God, VV you are so on point.

I just run this point process subconciously.

I've run through most asian girls- phillipinas, thais, cambodians, chinese, taiwanese, japanese, korean, laos and burmah???.

Most "cutesy"-
1) J girls
2) Taiwanese (half-way between Chinese and Japanese)
3) Thai (more needy and cute)
4) chinese (HK/Shanghai girls are down the list tbh)
5) Korean (more naggy than cutesy)
6) Phillipinas (more warm and sweet than ditsy)
7) Cambodians (cute but somewhat rougher around the edges)
8) Laos/Burmah (not big enough sample size)

Post: #41

(03-28-2015 09:20 PM)Dusty Wrote:  I find a lot of FOB Asian girls to act immature. I think it's their way of appearing cute. They're into Hello Kitty and teddy bears, and will affect a childish manner when they are trying get your approval and affection. Even some of the American born Asians have an element of that.

A Chinese-American woman I’m banging right now has a sponge shaped like a teddy bear and Hello Kitty bath towels. I’ve had Chinese FOB mention Mr Bean a lot to me too (I’m from UK).

(03-29-2015 12:11 AM)Fast Eddie Wrote:  As an aside, I found that at least the Chinese FOB university girls I dated in the USA have some pretty sharp minds under that veneer of immaturity. My first ever girlfriend was a rich FOB exchange student who ended up scoring a perfect 800 on the GRE math. This girl would be acting "cute" one moment, but the next moment I could be having a deep, red-pill debate with her that would have ended up with me being reported to the police as a racist sexist cis/het unicorn-slaying supremacist were a white bitch standing around overhearing it. Haven't looked back since and never regretted it. Team Asia all the way.

In my experience many Chinese FOB women expect men to fuck around and see it as normal, as long as you don’t bring it up. I was teased by 2 FOB ex-colleagues of mine because I never slept with prostitutes in Dongguan. They thought I was weird.

(03-29-2015 02:02 PM)TravelerKai Wrote:  Japanese women have been on the bigger breast tip for at least 5 years now, drinking similar stuff. Chinese women are usually behind about 5 years to anything Japanese women are doing, trend wise. Same kinda goes for Taiwanese too.

On my trip to Tokyo last year, I can’t say I saw any women with really big titties. I was actively looking for them. Chinese women with a big arses do exist too, but they are rare!

I'm currently banging Chinese girls with C and D cups, but let's be honest here, the average Chinese girl is pretty flat compared to western women. A big titted Chinese girl is a glorious thing!

(03-30-2015 01:36 AM)Sooth Wrote:  A sense of child like play is something I'd actively look for since I lean further towards the serious side. Who cares if it's fake as long as you recognize it as such. I'll fake enthusiasm when necessary haha.

Given:

This


VS

This



I'll take 100 cry babies.

I'd rather date the crybaby, but I bet Nicki Minaj would ride me harder.

(03-30-2015 04:28 AM)Zelcorpion Wrote:  Sometimes Western girls who are submissive around their man act like that too - in a way this can be a form of submissiveness, a compliment even as in some cases a woman lets herself be more immature and girly around you. I honestly believe that women like that - I have sometimes seen business women behave that way around their man when at home. Being a woman means being submissive and cutesy. Modern Western women are broken, because they have killed that part within them trying to emulate men.

I’m no defender of Western women, but I’m wondering if guys here are being too harsh on them. If a Western girl acts all ditzy and cute, people think she’s a dumb shallow bitch. However, it’s cool if a FOB Chinese does it? Even so, I'd still rather be with a Chinese woman than a Western woman!

Post: #42

(03-30-2015 02:16 AM)physiqueking Wrote:  It's called sā jiāo:



Like many Chinese cultural concepts there's no direct English translation, but a Chinese girl once told me:

Quote:sa jiao is a way of expressing feelings of the Chinese people, westerners can't understand, they seek is a direct expression

Quote:if some girls say :你很讨厌 (Nǐ hěn tǎoyàn / I hate you!). this is 撒娇

Quote:she dont hate u...in fact ..this is a way to show love to u

Some links and quotes:
http://www.echinacities.com/expat-corner...nd-Sa-Jiao

Quote:And whereas most Western men do not find weak and childish behaviour particularly attractive in a woman, Chinese men are big fans of sa jiao. Having a woman who engages in such behaviour can, according to one Chinese man, make them feel strong and manly.

http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/cndy/2010-0...848087.htm

Quote:First and foremost, you know you're in a Chinese cross-cultural relationship when sajiao rears its pretty, or ugly, depending on your taste, little head. This distinctive set of behaviors, perpetrated by Chinese females, often takes the unsuspecting Western male by surprise. Sajiao is hard to define, but you'll certainly know it when you see it.

Its literal meaning - "to unleash coquettishness" - doesn't divulge much. Ask a fan of Chinese coquettishness and he will probably tell you that he just "can't get enough of the stuff", referring to the feminine voice, tender gestures, and girlish protestations. Talk to someone less keen on the sajiao and he's likely to shudder and say, "I can't stand it!" citing the whining, clinging, and childish tantrums as just some of the annoying features of sajiao.

Quote:One of the fundamental concepts in a Chinese relationship is zhaogu, or "taking care of". Although Chinese women take care of their men, the implicit and explicit cultural consensus is that it is a man's job to take care of his woman with the attentiveness of a father doting on his little girl. Therefore, sajiao manifests as a means of inducing zhaogu behavior when it is lacking, or to pander the male ego as a reward.

Taking zhaogu a step further, some Chinese other halves strongly believe in "spoiling" - guan. It's not uncommon to hear Chinese girlfriends asking their western boyfriends to spoil them. While the request sounds unreasonably absurd in English, in the Chinese language and to the Chinese frame of mind, it's as natural as asking your partner for "support."

http://sgforums.com/forums/96/topics/29430

Quote:Haven't you guys notice that if ladies stopped sa jiao to you, she'll dump you for sure (within a wk) Laughing So sa jiao is cool, coz
it signifies that you (men) are still being loved.

Quote:To get attention. If they do not get attention, they walk.

Quote:Sa jiao is an important element to a relationship ok… its true that if a lady stop sa jiao to a guy.. it is likely that she will run away very soon.

Related:

Careful!

Tolerating Sa jiao is a very good way to turn a girl into a Tiger. It's okay with your casual non serious girlfriends that you do not mind dumping at a moments notice, but stamp that shit out quickly with your LTR/wife candidates. The reason why some silly Chinese men tolerate that shit is because they are either beta as fuck, love pain, or they get their rocks off with other women outside and find it funny to laugh at their ultra pouty gf/wife, almost like they are trolling them.

These girls are so stupid I thought for a while because how could they not know? The guys rarely if ever get pussy from them, but as long as they get their handbags, shoes, cars, and other material things, those girls do not care, because they always "get their way". Then I realized later that many of them did know the guy screws around or sees xiaojie because they are a spoiled bitch that never puts out. The girls are usually guanxi marriages or trophies. Pure madness.

Post: #43

Quote:In my experience many Chinese FOB women expect men to fuck around and see it as normal, as long as you don’t bring it up. I was teased by 2 FOB ex-colleagues of mine because I never slept with prostitutes in Dongguan. They thought I was weird.

That may have been a shit test. Do they know you fuck around alot? I don't think your average normal Chinese person would admit to fucking whores in Dongguan, most would not be proud enough to openly discuss it.

They like to make funny jokes about Dongguan if you come from there or visit there because everyone knows it is a city famous for it's whores. They commonly egg on others from there upon finding out. It's just one of those lame jokes, like someone asking you about Big Ben or making a joke about "clam chowdah" to a Bostonian.

Post: #44

(03-30-2015 01:36 AM)Sooth Wrote:  

This is like heroin injected directly into my veins. Have such a weakness for this crap. I think in Korean it's called egyo.

Anyway, you don't have to be a damned hard ass all the time. I think it's fine to give into their antics once in a while. As long you are in charge overall, who cares. I've had a Chinese girl tell me they hate me, that they want to cut my dick off, that they will kill me, etc. Try to commit suicide (well it wasn't really going to happen, the ceiling fan would fall off). Haha. Man, good times.

Post: #45

It's copying Kpop, where it's a common occurrence called aegyo.

Why does China spawn the weirdest threads?

Post: #46

(03-30-2015 01:47 PM)WalterBlack Wrote:  In my experience many Chinese FOB women expect men to fuck around and see it as normal, as long as you don’t bring it up. I was teased by 2 FOB ex-colleagues of mine because I never slept with prostitutes in Dongguan. They thought I was weird.

You gotta love Chinese women!



"You are not banging other women? What kind of a man are you?"

Post: #47

(03-30-2015 03:30 PM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

Quote:In my experience many Chinese FOB women expect men to fuck around and see it as normal, as long as you don’t bring it up. I was teased by 2 FOB ex-colleagues of mine because I never slept with prostitutes in Dongguan. They thought I was weird.

That may have been a shit test. Do they know you fuck around alot? I don't think your average normal Chinese person would admit to fucking whores in Dongguan, most would not be proud enough to openly discuss it.

They like to make funny jokes about Dongguan if you come from there or visit there because everyone knows it is a city famous for it's whores. They commonly egg on others from there upon finding out. It's just one of those lame jokes, like someone asking you about Big Ben or making a joke about "clam chowdah" to a Bostonian.

They probably were just teasing me. I never really get shit tests from them, because they’re friends of mine. One is married and the other woman I’m not interested in. They have no idea I fuck around. I accidentally butt-dialled one of them last week when I was in a car with a woman. I hung up after 30 seconds. Later she called me back:

Her: WalterBlack, you called me, I tried talking to you, but I heard a woman’s voice. I think you must have a had a woman in your bedroom, right?
Me: How’s your new job?

She never mentioned it again. I never talk about my personal shit with women.
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I think many FOB women get emotionally involved way too early, this conversation is a with a FOB woman I banged about 2 months ago.

Look at the language she uses - this is only 3 weeks after meeting me! Prior to these screenshots in my other texts I used my typical excuse that we're too different to work long term, so we should stop seeing each other.:

   

   

   

After this she went radio silent for a week, then sent me pictures of herself in her underwear and then of her tits for me to remember her by (this same woman also goes to church on a weekly basis).

After another few weeks, she sent me a photo of her with her new hairstyle, asking me if I think she looks pretty. I said she looks nice and that was it. She wants me pretty badly, but I'm done with her.

Post: #48

Ahhhhh the memories.... I can live vicariously through you Walter. You are going to be the next gen China expert around here for sure. That reminded me of two ex gfs I had. Shit went down almost like that.

Post: #49

(03-30-2015 01:02 AM)Holy(Muff)Diver Wrote:  Have you tried reserving tables at those Chinese clubs, or some of the higher end ones? I've never tried myself, but a friend of mine swears by it. Says it will usually get your foot in the door for getting attention from those girls. At the very least, they'll probably come up to your table and drink with you.

As for your other question, I've nailed girls from WeChat/other apps, day game, and clubs.

Nope never tried that, as it didn't seem financially worthwhile. Last time I was there I was fresh out of college and hurting for $, but I've no doubt that getting a table is the way to go if you've got the money. Otherwise, in the eyes of those girls you're just another loser laowai with his dick in his hands and nothing else to offer.

Post: #50

Lol @ "You hurt my my heart"

After 3 weeks she starts talking about a woman role and man's role? Talk about a lack of subtlety.

Do Chinese women really get "attached" that damn fast? At the very least, they seem to be pretty hell bent on locking down a provider. I don't know why any guy would consider getting married to any girl who gives it up that fast.