Post: #1

Can too much Public Display of Affection (PDA) equate to being a beta? Think hand holding, kissing, cuddling, or being in close proximity to a girl.

I know I have a tendency to do too much PDA especially on in the early part of dating.
Would you guys agree that too much PDA early on can be fatal to seduction?

Post: #2

You gotta balance the PDA and indifference while being in public. Also when holding or kissing, do it like a man, and what I mean by this is that you gotta project alphaness and huge confidence to your ''audience'', its a little hard to explain. You might want to leave cuddling for another scenario though.

Post: #3

I never PDA unless it's to do so in front of a potential target. This is done so my target's "female pre-approved" receptors kick-in before I approach her later. You would think women would be turned off by a guy approaching her with his girl nearby...how wrong you are!

Nothing excites a woman more than the potential of stealing a man from another (pretty) woman. It's a huge ego boost for them.

How much of an ego boost would you have if Tyra Banks and Shakira were competing for your attention? That's the same rush women feel when "stealing" a man.

Ripleys: believe it or not!

Mixx

Post: #4

I don't have any problem with PDA. Usually it's the girls who feel uncomfortable, so I just back off until I think I can force it (usually kissing). I've had so many girls tell me they don't do X or Y in public or on the first date, etc.; and yet when you go for that PDA aggressively it usually pays off in the form of a quicker lay. The last three girls I banged all said I was "too aggressive" in public but guess what, they all gave it up.

As for hand-holding, I don't see the big deal. Cuddling in public can be pretty gay/beta though. I think it all depends on your angle. If you're building attraction, go for it. If you're just maintaining a relationship, small doses.

Post: #5

I hate doing it but every time I have, I can feel that sexual energy come around. It will help u get the pussy faster.

Post: #6

PDA is only beta is you keep it lame and just hold hands or kiss. If you go semi-sexual in public, not only does it accelerate things toward the bang (as guys have already pointed out), it makes you come off as manly, comfortable, and pre-selected.

I see young Latin cats in my city doing this right all the time, usually with smoking hot, little numbers. They feel them up, keep their hand on ass, or sit them on their dicks while they talk on their cell phones. That's totally fine.

I once saw a young guy at the park chilling with this hella cute high-school girl under some trees. I saw they were PDA-ing and I was like whatever. Next thing I know, I look over and he's pulling down her pants--exposing an anatomical masterpiece of an ass--and started doggystyling her right there! The park was pretty empty, but she knew they were some people there. I couldn't believe that shit.

That's an extreme, but you get from that how certain PDAs don't make you look beta at all.