Post: #1

Quote:"The goal of feminism is to remove all constraints on female sexuality while maximally restricting male sexuality."

- Roissy

Quote:"I'm an ugly girl,
My face makes you hurl,
Sad I have it,
I should bag it.
Acne everywhere,
Unwanted facial hair.
I'm a relation to Frankenstein's creation."

- Weird Al Yankovic, Ugly Girl

Long-time observers of the feminist/progressivist/social-justivist cirque-jerk du freak will have noticed that it is an ideological tendency that never declares victory.

However impressive their successes in pushing back the boundaries of all that is good and decent, SJW's are never satisfied. Nothing you can do will ever make them happy, because they are fundamentally unhappy people and their politics is merely a symptom of that.

That's why the trajectory of normal society trying to accomodate feminist demands over the past forty years has gone something like this:

Quote:Men: "Good news, ladies! We passed that equal pay legislation you asked for. You were right, so now we've put that unpleasantness behind us, we can get back to business."

Feminists: "The fuck?!? What about changing divorce law so women can get whatever they want?"

Men: "Uh, OK. We've changed that too. We cool?"

Feminists: "No fucking way, mister! It's time you let girls be soldiers and firemen too!"

Men: "But that's --- never mind, we'll allow it if it makes you happy."

Feminists: "You heartless bastards! What about the rape culture you're perpetrating!"

Men: "What rape culture?"

Feminists: "STOP RAPING ME!!!!!11"

And so on.



So the question is, what do you do if you're a feminist, proggy, social justice warrior and normal society finally caves in and accepts your longstanding demands on lesbian and gay relationships having the same validity as heterosexual ones, and allows them to get married and raise kids, and punishes discrimination against them by law?

Obviously, society has failed your shit test, so you escalate the stakes. Only this time, with trannies and genderqueers and otherkin and anything else that might be found in Pandora's big box of deviant craziness.



That's where we are now, and the push to normalise Buffalo Bill impersonators like Brianna Wu has provided us with much lols. But there are other fart-bubbles rising out of the feminist cauldron that also deserve our attention, because no doubt they'll soon be breaking out of their Tumblr Phantom Zone and materialising in the real world.

One of these is polyamory. Let me show you something:

http://everydayfeminism.com/2015/03/comi...lyamorous/

Quote:So you’ve figured out that you’re polyamorous. Awesome!

But you’re also currently in a monogamous relationship. Uh-oh.

Becoming poly from a previously monogamous relationship can take work – but not only is it not impossible, it also can lead to healthier, more fulfilling relationships!

Check out this comic to learn how to talk to your partner about your polyamory.

With Love,
The Editors at Everyday Feminism

So what, right? You might be tempted to assume this just means swinging.

Wrong. It means cuckolding. Check out the cartoon the Everyday Feminists have helpfully drawn, using their mad art college skills:


"I love him so much... but I want my snatch pounded by other men!"


"I love you... but my pussy isn't going to have another man's love goo dripping out of it by itself, is it?"


"We make the rules" = her pussy makes the rules


And to think they shot those Charlie Hebdo guys for less.

Now you may be thinking: "What manner of foul beast produced this dreck?

This beast:



Sorry, I mean... this beast:

Quote:Anna Bongiovanni is a Contributing Comic Artist for Everyday Feminism. They

Sic.

Quote:are a genderqueer cartoonist, zine-maker, and educator living in Minneapolis. They draw comics on gender, feminism, and queer issues. Besides Everyday Feminism, they also draw monthly comics for Autostraddle. A graduate in Comic Art from Minneapolis,

Clown college was full.

Quote:they are currently working on their second graphic novel. More of their art can be seen on Patreon.com

Patreon! Betcha didn't see that coming!

Nor is this just a random outlier. As Slate put it,

Quote:polyamory is intertwined with the rise of feminism [...] Women are in many ways the driving force behind polyamory [...] a sizable number of polyamorous households consist of more men than women

http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/d...oots_.html

Told you. It's an attempt to normalise cuckoldry. Maximal constraints on male sexuality, zero restraint for female sexuality.

Other pro-feminist sites, like Jezebel, the Guardian, and xoJane have been getting in on that sweet polyfugly action too. "It's just another way of organising life, love and who does the dishes", opines professional feminist Laurie Penny.

It it time we all admit to ourselves that polyfags are vile and disgusting. In conclusion, I will leave you with this: if you think the polyamorist bushpig problem is not a serious one...



Think again.

Post: #2

I'm still laughing at the thread title

Post: #3

That thread title though!

Post: #4

steve, although i agree very much with what you say in your post, i would simply point out that there are a couple of distractions going on here.

first the title of your thread (my reaction):


second, this pic:

(03-10-2015 03:40 PM)SteveMcMahon Wrote:  

the sight of a 40s era wonder woman "comfortably" tying someone up in chains and cuffs to a bed is all kinds of win.

Post: #5

This reminds me of the thread where a girl wanted to have an open relationship when she went to Europe so she could bang other guys. I bet all of these "poly" women scream and kick when they can't lock down 4 guys a piece.

Post: #6

Those cartoons, what terrible propaganda. She 'loves' the guy? And her hamster-rationalisation that she has a 'big heart', which is Hamsterese(sic?) for "I have a hungry snatch, it needs a lot of cock".

It really does seem like there is an agenda to debase monogamy, or the traditional family. Hopefully one of the more articulate members can break it down.

Post: #7

It's not enough for these hamsters to divorce-rape one man at a time, now they're going for a hat trick!

Post: #8

If a woman ever asks for an open relationship, the only thing you need to show her is the door.

OR

Better yet, flip the script on her, and see how fast her hamster spins into a rage.

(Then show her the door)

Post: #9

(03-10-2015 05:02 PM)kaotic Wrote:  If a woman ever asks for an open relationship, the only thing you need to show her is the door.

OR

Better yet, flip the script on her, and see how fast her hamster spins into a rage.

(Then show her the door)

or inform her as follows: "i expected you to say that, so much so that i've been sleeping with three girls on the side for the last month and a half" and watch her hamster ascend to the heavens atop a 50 kiloton mushroom cloud.`

Post: #10

Just another Cultural Marxist Borg trying to destroy the pillars that once held us up.

Even though that cartoon was a crock of shit, it deliberately made the "man" the feminine one in the relationship which as Steve and others said "The goal of feminism is to remove all constraints on female sexuality while maximally restricting male sexuality."

Also I notice they have made the "guy" a Feminist as well as has the symbol on his sleeve of his jacket.

p.s As a Scot I object to you using a picture of the Proclaimers in the same article..I find it rather triggering

Post: #11

(03-10-2015 05:02 PM)kaotic Wrote:  If a woman ever asks for an open relationship, the only thing you need to show her is the door.

OR

Better yet, flip the script on her, and see how fast her hamster spins into a rage.

(Then show her the door)

A man who is happy with this is only able to get scraps.

Any man with any sense of worth would leave her on the kerb to fuck other women. I've seen both of these scenarios played out. The guy who was all for an open relationship either ended up being a cuck or suicidal.

The man who left the girl to her open relationship went onto better things.

This entire scenario relies on the man being a bitch or a man.

Post: #12

Yup cuckholding, plain and SIMPle.

Post: #13

Just to add.

If you ever experience a hamster on roids you haven't seen a swinger hamster in overdrive. I struggle to hold in my dinner when the woman goes on about how she loves her man and how he is comfortable fucking other men, including threeways and orgies.

Its even more hilarious when you talk to partners who swing evenly; where the man gets action too. You can see them wanting to outdo each other so some sort of balance is kept. A way of keeping your relationship sane.

Post: #14

I used to troll the reddit polyamory sub. Most of it is a bit boring with bitches having emotional fits and asking questions but once or twice a week there would be one doozy of a question related to things that would get all the male feminist hamsters in a spin. It usually had to do with paternity, their girl getting raw dogged, or how to deal with finding out that the other partner has a bigger dick or is better in bed.

Also, one of the constant complaints from the women was about "unicorn hunting" which is where a couple is exclusively looking for a girl to be the third wheel in threesomes and exclusive to the couple.

These feminist cunts hate that because in their mind being poly means have a harem (lol, don't think that word works for women) of alpha males and beta providers to care for them. For many of them this was a bit of a pipe dream. On the other hand, the guys biggest complaints were that they could be super duper involved in the poly community and go months or even years without every finding a girl. All the while their wife or gf is juggling a constant stream of male attention.

This drove the single guys insane because they outnumbered the single females like 10 to one and a very significant portion of the single women, especially the hotter ones (god only know what that means) get snatched up by unicorn hunters.

So, there are obviously some alpha males or guys with game manipulating even that small community.

I suspect a lot of it has to do with the bleed over into the BDSM community. From what I understand in BDSM there is a huge number of male subs and female subs, a slightly larger number of female doms, and an incredibly small number of male doms. The male doms have the pick of the litter and the male subs often turn out gay to get their fetish of submission played into by the gay male doms. Or they get into the cuckold scene.

Sick shit all around.

In the same amount of time that I have seen Polyamory on my radar, I have no idea how long it has actually been around, it seems to be growing at a 1 to 1 ratio with cuckold porn.

Disturbing to say the least.

Here is a new post that doesn't have any comments yet:

http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/commen...d_skipped/

My partner canceled my birthday scene and skipped my birthday party to be with her new sweetie

Quote:"It just hurts. I understand that she's heavily in NRE and she and her new partner have a strong connection. I didn't ask for a party or a scene, she arranged them because "you should get to have things too" (I've been feeling really discouraged about not being able to find dates for a few years). It feels like it just hammers in that no, I don't get to have things. I know that she's happy and in love. I wish I didn't feel unhappy about this. I get what I get, and I don't get what I don't get, and I understand that if no one chooses to fuck or play with me that's just how life is it doesn't decrease my value as a person. And I understand that I'm not entitled to anything from her or anyone. And that I shouldn't take it personally.

With everyone's busy schedule it really isn't possible to schedule another scene anytime within the next few months. I don't need a birthday scene, I'm trying to convince myself it's not a big deal and it's nothing to be upset about. But I do feel upset.

I don't really like poly very much. It feels humiliating and degrading that no one wants to date, fuck or play with me, and even my own partner prefers someone else. (She says she doesn't actually "prefer" someone else, it's just that her behavior is focused on the other sweetie right now because she feels strongly for them). I believe that people should be free to pursue and cultivate love at every opportunity, but I am sad that I do not get to have those opportunities. I am just really, really sad and I'm trying not to cry at work, and I feel like I am just overreacting."

Damn, his girl cancelled his birthday party to get rawdogged by her lover.

Here is a post that I found a couple years ago that woke me up to the poly scene a bit:
http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/commen...issue_and/

To be fair, a number of commenters to give her shit.

Wanting to have a baby. Paternity Issue and Jealousy Issues with husband

Quote:Hubby and I are both 28. Married for 4 years/Together for 7 years. No kids yet

We've been poly for the last 10 months and we haven't really had any issues with jealousy or anything until now. We have been thinking about starting our family since the beginning of the year. We are still sort of new to this so I'm sorry if I messed up any terminology.

Since we opened up our marriage my husband has had a bunch of short relationships and he has had fun. I have been happy for him. I haven't been jealous at all. My husband has had to work through some jealousy issues but he has tried to be supportive. I've been with my current secondary since the fall and we have a fun, exciting relationship.

I've never put too much stock into paternity. It doesn't really matter in the big picture who's DNA you have. Its who loves you. My husband would always be the baby's father. Our issue is he is adamant if we want to try for the baby I have to stop seeing my secondary. What I told him is we could just let things happen. There is no need to check the paternity ever in my opinion. I don't have a preference as to who the father is. My husband would be a great father regardless and he is smart and gorgeous and his baby would be wonderful. My boyfriend is healthy and beautiful and his baby would be fine as well. I honestly have no preference.

My husband and I had our worst fight ever when I proposed this and I've backed off it since. It hasn't mattered to him and he has been furious that I would even consider the idea that it could be my boyfriends. My boyfriend says its up to me on whether to do. We have been having constant arguments for the last two weeks since this time. My husband has started to just be a jerk since I proposed this. We agreed we would let each other know when we see someone else and he has been secretive since the fight. It feels like he is trying to get back at me. I don't know what to do. He has been on a rage mode since we had the talk. Prior to that he was excited for the baby.

UPDATE/EDIT

My husband sent me an email. Like I said we've been arguing about this for the last two weeks on and off. I have no clue what to think. It looks like he is breaking up our marriage over email. Which is so mature... I do not want to get divorced. I know this isn't r/relationships but if you all wouldn't mind giving me some advice on how to respond. I don't want to beg but I do want to get him back. Please if you are just going to say something like, "he is better off without you" don't respond. I guess I have been a little stubborn on this but I don't want to lose my husband over it. I really am willing to reason with him.

BabyConfusion,

This is not working. I know it. You know it. I think you are happier with "boyfriend". I am happier away from you. I think this argument over the baby is just a symptom of everything else that is wrong in our marriage. I want to be with someone who wants to be with me. Whether you admit it or not you don't want me. I think the open marriage was fun in the short term but detrimental to us long term. I cannot even grasp how you would think it is okay to become pregnant by another man and have me raise it. You do realize this is absolute craziness. I think we can and should handle this process responsibly and we don't need to let this descend into chaos. I think it is best if you move out as soon as possible. Whether it be to "boyfriend" or your parents or a hotel. This would be easier on all of us. I know this must sound rushed but I've thought about it for a long time. We both deserve to be happy. You cannot give me what I want and need. I cannot handle this anymore. If we end things now we can leave on a relative high point. We will always have the great memories we had together. I think you have changed as a person. We just aren't as compatible as we were. I don't want to feel the way I do about you. Its not fair to you or me. We both deserve to be with people that love us. I'm not going to come home until Thursday. That should give you some time to pack things up. If you need more time let me know. Once we separate things I got a name from "Mutual Friend" and we can talk to him about how to move on with the divorce. This is hard. But we have to do it. For us.

Here is a much more recent example:

http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/commen...ld_you_do/

What would you do?

I am not posting the actual question, she is asking what to do if she get's pregnant by one of her guys and want to keep it. Look at the comments though.

Quote:sorted by: best

[–]menatmeinhof 14 points 3 months ago

If a kid is what I wanted, I'd have a kid regardless of who's genetics information my body is using for blueprints.

If i were her husband and I wanted a kid, I would raise the kid with Felicia and only worry about who's genetics the kid has InSo far as knowledge of family medical history.
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[–]Ken_Breadbox 3 points 3 months ago

Exactly. I know this is an outlying opinion, but if I'd had kids--we tried, and so much pain happened--it wouldn't have mattered whose genetic material went into them. Do I really need to look at my kid and see someone who can't look back at me because his eyes are fucked up like mine?
That's why we tried to adopt. More pain--we got right to the end of the two year process only to be told our "house doesn't feel like a house with kids in it" and rejected.
Anyway, from a DNA standpoint my attitude is suicidal. From society at large's standpoint--the whole point of having children is to raise them and equip them to be the best people they can be. Genes don't matter.

[–]AbomodAM(F)M Vee + Baby 8 points 3 months ago

If I wanted the baby, I'd have it. Let Noel and Ben decide if they want to stay and be supportive. Then I'd get a DNA test done after the birth(prenatal testing is so expensive, I'd rather put that money towards raising the baby). If the bio Dad chose to bail on the pregnancy, I'd pursue child support.

I was Felicity, except I struggled with infertility. Right now my bf and I are in the process of putting our three month old son to bed, while his other Dad is having an early night do he'll be ready for work tomorrow.

The social struggles are not nearly as bad as I expected. And the practical benefits of having an extra adult outweigh any negatives by far. Even if both guys had decided to bail, I'd still have kept the baby. For me personally, after having miscarried in the past, I could never bring myself to terminate a pregnancy.

Felicity needs to make the decision for herself.

Here's another one (I don't have a link to the poly episode, but he give a good description...maybe he can be saved...or maybe not, Poly women seem to have a long history of destroying men in their wake from what I have read.)

http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/commen...nd_a_baby/

[b]TLD Strange Sex segment, "Two Boyfriends and a Baby" regarding successful Polyamory
[/b]

Quote:[Edit: The Learning Channel (TLC) not TLD]

The "Two Boyfriends and a Baby" segment offers a generally favorable portrayal of a successful polyamorous relationship. A woman lives with two men and has a bay by one of them. The father dates outside the live-in relationship, but neither of the others date outside the established relationship.

After watching the segment, I struggled sleeping.

Background: When I was a young adult, I dated a young woman who was openly dating and heaving sex with another fellow. She was with the other guy before she started dating me, while she dated me, and after she dated me.

At the time, I experienced zero jealousy even though I was monogamous with her. To the extent I thought about it at all, I basically thought, "I am better off to have the relationship than not, and I don't have the right to ask her to chose. I am the new guy. She offers herself to me on her terms, and I can take them or leave them."

In reality, I didn't think about it much. I was just happy to have a lover. There were a few uncomfortable moments when I dropped her off at home, and the other guy's car was already in her driveway. There was a time when we were both sexually frustrated due to prolonged lack of privacy, and she made a comment as we hugged goodbye to the effect that she was going to enjoy imminent sex with the other guy.

I think I considered her a pleasant addition to my social life as opposed to a potential life mate. I don't know if that makes sense, but I suppose I always assumed there was no long term future because of the other guy. My unconscious assumption eventually came true (self fulfilling?). We parted generally amicably, but she said some things in the end that damaged my ego and my sexual confidence. She was a little too fond of comparing me to other people.

Now, years later, I wake in cold sweats and tremble with anxiety after dreaming that my current mutually monogomous SO is with or even just wants to be with a man other than me. I am struggling with hidden abandonment issues/anxiety. I wonder if my youthful experience has left me with the unshakable belief that I will always be someone's second choice at best?

Anyway, the "Two Boyfriends and a Baby" segment slightly elaborated on the baby making scenario described. Basically, the young woman had been with guy 1 for about 8 years, and she was "baby crazy." He didn't want to make a baby. She brought the guy 2 home to live with them a year into her new relationship with guy 2. A year after that, they all lived together, but she was no longer having sex with guy 1 due to disagreements about baby making. Lo and behold, she becomes pregnant with guy 2's baby. I gather paternity was not in question.

It was unclear in the segment whether the young woman ever resumed sex with guy 1, but I assume she did. The three adults are now raising the child as a cohesive family under one roof.

While I'm happy for everyone depicted in the segment including the baby who is being raised in a nurturing environment, I wake from recurring nightmares involving the scenario depicted. I fear sexual estrangement. I fear being asked to accept and remain faithful in the face of a pregnancy that doesn't involve me. It's all irrational because my SO isn't having sex with anyone else.

I long assumed that I was compatible with polyamory because of my early experience. I have never had more than one sexual relationship at a time, but I assumed I would be compatible with such an arrangement. My nightmares and anxiety have surprised me. They don't seem consistent with my conception of myself.

I haven't told my SO about these fears. I am not in therapy or anything. Apart for becoming sleep deprived, the feelings are not ruining my life. I am just surprised and shocked and even a bit disappointed with myself. I wonder where it is all coming from after all this time?

Has anyone else experienced something like this? How can I dig deeper to find out what is "really" bothering me? I feel anxiety and fear, but are those the root feelings? I suspect something deeper and subconscious is involved.

I raise the questions now because I am on the verge of ending an otherwise loving and satisfying relationship because of irrational fear and anxiety.

Post: #15

Poly is just a emotional cover and tampon for women to be hoes.

Polyamory is big here in godless Toronto, and all the campy femenists here all try to troll on it since is the cool thing to do. I tried to troll as a Poly for a bit but realizes its a scam. Because you have to put in all the garbage of a regular relationship (dates, Netflix, wasting time together, listening to her talk) but you don't get exclusive access to her pussy, nor is priority given either. Not a dudes in that set up are equal. Poly Pamela can have her "primary" partner who is her main guy. He might be the cuckolded simp or the bad boy who she does not want to loose. I've seen it go both ways. One dude I know trolled as a Poly to locked down a girl he liked. He is simping hard for her. KW but they are basically a couple even though they fuck other people. I could fuck her (attempted to game a while bevfkre they were together), but I ain't trying to entertain some hoe like that.

I learned quick its a massive scam to let women be sluts but give them floaters so they drown. Women with no safety net when they let themselves be whkres end up crazed and loving cats, being a slut damages women and history has to many examples to point too.

But my revolving theme is that dudes are cool with this (thirsty dudes let women get away with this shit). Generally a woman will always have more luck with Poly then a man. A man still has to game and peruse women even if they are Poly. One girl just might be monogonmous with you (harem building.. Ideal) but then your baiscsllt just with her and have to do all the jumping jacks when trying to build the other relationships. A girl though can just stick her finger in the wind and thirsty dudes will line up to be part of her female whore pack.

What will this girl do with marriage and a child on the table? Some ugly femenist I know with big fits (only thing she has and she will show them any chance she can) just married her man, they are young, not even 22-26, but they still have a open relationship. A girl with a poky triad or group who could she navigate that? Legally it would be polygamy, and what if some random secondary dude pumps a baby in her but her and her primary partner raise the kid? A lot of messed up legal issues come about that dinst subscribe to femenist hamster farts.

Poly women are the worst to approach because none know what they are doing. Its just a trend or ideal they follow back by hamster feels so they have a checklist of steps they must follow for Poly relationships a while being slaves to tingles and feels. A lot of dudes are mistaking Poly broads for being sluts, which they are. But that tainted pussy has way more hoops for a man to jump through and 99% of those girls are damaged in some shape or form.

There is no male true equivalent to Polyamoury. A man with abundance has a harrem and he is a man of value or worth who can establish that. The harrem isn't a fest for the average man but a average man is capable of just getting a girl for himself if he can work at it. The poly thing is more work for less rewards and goes against any traits in classic civilization or nature we see. When women start hold court with harrems the marketplace for sex is on its head.

Post: #16

^^

Kosko, I don't know what it is like in Toronto, I would suspect worse than where I am, but here in the south the poly/BDSM/swinging community seems to be a mix between fat and chubby college aged feminist sluts with neon hair, a smaller group of highly tatted up scene girls, and a even smaller group of drug addicted redneck guys and fags who post, or used to year ago when I stepped in that scene for a little while, classifieds at the local porn shops and on CG. They really do seem to be about 90%+ bottom of the barrel types. A mixture of trailer trash, feminist cunts, fat wives, divorce women, and a bunch of thirsty simps who would fuck almost anything, and all the bi-sexual (re: fags) guys.

Post: #17

(03-10-2015 05:02 PM)kaotic Wrote:  If a woman ever asks for an open relationship, the only thing you need to show her is the door.

OR

Better yet, flip the script on her, and see how fast her hamster spins into a rage.

(Then show her the door)

Even if a woman asks for a 'relationship', you need to ask her to define exactly what she believes a relationship to be.

Otherwise the man goes into default monogamous mode which he believes will drift towards marriage while the woman, safe in the knowledge that he's not seeing anyone else, chooses Plans B and C etc for when she starts feeling that 'there is nothing wrong with the relationship, but it just doesn't feel right' and takes B's or C's cock into her mouth.

Post: #18

Notice the book Ethical Slut? That's a contradiction.





Feminist ethics hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah!

Post: #19

The title isn't much, but...

Quote:"I love you... but my pussy isn't going to have another man's love goo dripping out of it by itself, is it?"

You're killing me!!!

Post: #20

(03-11-2015 09:24 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  The title isn't much, but...

Post: #21

Wow, these bitches are just pushing and pushing. I feel sorry and disgusted at the same time for any man that falls for this crap.

Post: #22

Post: #23

(03-11-2015 12:13 PM)Snowplow Wrote:  

Did you make this? Because it's the best hamster gif I've seen so far.

Post: #24

I know one poly couple. Every cliche you can think of is there...

The shebeast:
-Overweight
-Short hair
-Hair dyed pink
-Hipster glasses
-Writes a sex blog(There is an entry about her seeking sex on a cruise ship and pegging LOL)
-Bullshit "media" job
-Feminist(obviously)

The manboob:
-Overweight
-Neckbeard
-Nerd
-"Studies cultural media" or what ever the fuck that is
-No social skills

The guy could NEVER get laid if it wasn't for the shebeast. Obiously the shebeast fucks him with a strapon on regular basis.

Post: #25

(03-11-2015 01:23 PM)Ocelot Wrote:  

(03-11-2015 12:13 PM)Snowplow Wrote:  

Did you make this? Because it's the best hamster gif I've seen so far.

No, saw it on another forum and had the same thought! Figured it was perfect for here.