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How do you describe a feminine girl? I was having this conversation today with friends. Unfortunately, many men in western world are getting used to masculine girls. What are in your opinion the traits of a feminine girl?

Post: #2

In shape.
Generally quiet.
Intelligent but submissive.
Can do household chores.

Obviously this is like looking for a needle in a haystack.

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Looks like this:

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Everything I have read on this (that isn't personal taste) converges on a few key points:
Beauty, youth, submissiveness (which means deferential to masculine authority), has domestic skills, and optimistic as opposed to jaded.

I think I am forgetting some but they'll come to me and others.

Post: #5

Low testosterone(but enough for her to have a sex drive).

Good hip-to-waist ratio.

Not fat.

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Speaking in terms of the ideal, both femininity and masculinity require two levels of detail. The first level is a base prerequisite for the second level.

In men, the first level is integrity, control of emotion, and commitment to a purpose. Once you have that, you layer the masculine traits in top of that: calculated aggression/confidence, never losing frame, and 'world building', which is akin to the PUA term for having all aspects of your life contributing to each other.

In women, the first level is similar: integrity (no gossip), control of emotion (no drama), and commitment to a purpose (nurturing others or being a wife)

The second level is the layering of feminity: maintaining authentic beauty, either in protecting her physical body or mental health, as well as that of the people around her. Protecting her kids from mental or physical vice.

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Wears a dress. Nothing quite as sexy as a lady in a dress. Dont know where girls wearing pants came from.

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Sweetness, a cheerfulness that's infectious, yet is vulnerable and looks to the man for leadership.

Does not look to her career for completeness ( she can have a career to pay the bills, but does not view her job as a way to feel complete). She desires a strong man and dreams of having a family and kids and would gladly give up get career for this higher calling.

Takes great care in her looks. Does not allow herself to get fat and avoids mutilating herself with ink and piercings. Dresses like a woman.

Speaks like a woman and doesn't try to use vocal fry to lower her voice to sound more masculine.

In short: doesn't suffer from penis envy. Is comfortable in being a woman and has not been brainwashed into becoming a faux male from the obese lesbians who dominate the education system and hr departments.

Post: #9

for me; makes u feel masculine,
knows how to be a partner ,
good communication skills
focus on emotional and social world

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thin, petite, soft voice, young, caring, no cussing, not into drama, wears dresses, modest etc. ... I met a girl like this once. In Portland, Ore. of all places.

I absolutely tingled around her. Even her decorations and furniture seemed feminine.

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thin, petite, soft voice, young, caring, no cussing, not into drama, wears dresses, modest etc. ...

I totally agree

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My last gf it really bothered me she had narrow hips, almost as narrow as mine. Which was a shame because her face was really cute.

A real feminine girl needs a nice hip to waist ratio

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Much has already been said. I'll add to the unicorn factor and say that she doesn't consume massive amounts of media in the form of daytime television and she might actually have a hobby that doesn't involve taking pictures with her phone.

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(03-06-2015 02:30 PM)vincentvd007 Wrote:  for me; makes u feel masculine,
knows how to be a partner ,
good communication skills
focus on emotional and social world

Physically slim with an hourglass figure, long hair, and takes pride in her appearance. As to their character they have embraced that they are naturally caretakers, they live to serve others, they are emotional/fragile without being crazy, and they enjoy sex but they aren't sluts.

So basically in the west you're looking for a...

Post: #15

This question has been asking a million times

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We can all agree on a few general feminine characteristics, the rest is personal taste.

Post: #16

Most importantly, she must not be a law student/law graduate/lawyer.

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(03-19-2015 04:28 PM)turkishcandy Wrote:  Most importantly, she must not be a law student/law graduate/lawyer.

AMEN!! Will never again date one. So SICK of the steely-eyed gaze the lay on you...they can't leave the lawyer in her at work; she comes into every minute little area of her life, like ordering brunch w/ you...it's TERRIBLE!

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(03-19-2015 04:26 PM)kaotic Wrote:  This question has been asking a million times

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We can all agree on a few general feminine characteristics, the rest is personal taste.

Those threads are slightly different.
Although they touch on this, the subjects of those threads are more about physical appearance or good places to go for girls.

I think the key, nonsubjective traits everyone seems to hold in their minds based on everything I read over the manosphere (which is not a whole lot but enough I hope) are: submissiveness, sweetness (by which is usually implied to mean a combination of optimism and kindness), social skills (which rules out media zombies), beauty, fragility that she shares with you (you needing her less than she needs you), and domesticity.

I am probably forgetting a few. Issues with drama was left off because drama means different things for different guys I find. Some guys like a fiery latina and others a quiet waif. But while there is definitely a spectrum nobody wants a psycho.

Post: #19

She's happy when her partner is happy, and behaves that way too.


i guess its tied to submissiveness but this is how I see it manifest itself often in feminine women.

Post: #20

(03-06-2015 02:30 PM)vincentvd007 Wrote:  for me; makes u feel masculine,
knows how to be a partner ,
good communication skills
focus on emotional and social world

HA! That was quick. What a faggoty little haiku.

Post: #21

A feminine girl is difficult to tame, but once you have - she is yours 100%.

She dedicates her life to improving yours, your mission becomes her mission.

A feminine woman does things that only a woman would do, she does not pursue masculine objectives.

In other words, in the modernized west - a unicorn.

Post: #22

Blair Naso did a fantastic article on the subject today:

http://www.returnofkings.com/56300/docil...femininity

Although he forgot "long hair".

Post: #23

I'd add something so simple it's sad the bar is now so low.

Being pleasant.

Most women are so aggressive, sarcastic, sloppy. Just intolerable to be around.

And I'm not even saying be socially skilled or confident. Just be pleasant.

For example, a couple of young women I work with, one in particular, are not socially skilled. Quiet, shy. But they are pleasant and nice, and keep themselves in shape. Of course they have boyfriends because guys like that. The one in particular is quite awkward, dresses a little weird and seems a bit unsure of herself. But if she broke up with her boyfriend, she'd have quality guys lined up because she's 1) slim and 2) nice and pleasant. Even this other woman I work with who is not slim (not fat, and makes up for it with big tits) yet pleasant has a boyfriend, good guy too.

Contrast that with an awkward guy I work with who is in good shape but never gets laid (he's complained to me about it at a few happy hours).

Again, a difference among the genders. A woman basically has to show up and be fit and not a cunt and she'll have offers. A guy needs to develop his social skills, assertiveness, etcetera to first get in the game.

Another reason why it's hilarious to read/hear women give advice, in general really, but especially to other women. "girl, you just need to be more confident", and various other nonsense. Because if you're a woman and you are not attracting the men you like, it really boils down to a combination of you're too annoying and not as attractive as you think you are.

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(03-20-2015 09:02 AM)CRR Wrote:  Again, a difference among the genders. A woman basically has to show up and be fit and not a cunt and she'll have offers.

Fixed for truth in North America. I see the thirst every day, and look at guys and just think, "What are you doing!?"

Post: #25

Doesn't order appetizers on drink dates
Doesn't wear sweatpants


Biggest nightmare is a girl who shows up to date in sweatpants and then proceeds to order appetizers.