Post: #1

Yes, I know it's beta to have a female friend, but this girl I knew before my red pill years and she's close to me.

Anyway, we were just talking about who in our old school we would bang and she said. "Don't want to be awkward, but to be honest, you."

I have never been romantic with this girl, yet I do lust after her. She is a solid 6.5 in my book. How do I escalate this to the point that I get the bang? I want it to remain a friends with benefits situation.

I would have escalated if we were talking in person, but it was over Facebook Messenger.

Post: #2

I'd say "Maybe we should continue this conversation in person" or 'Up for a quick drink"

Post: #3

(02-26-2015 09:39 PM)Stratos Wrote:  I'd say "Maybe we should continue this conversation in person" or 'Up for a quick drink"

Oops. Should have made it clear that she lives across the country. We are meeting up at a gathering this May, though.

Post: #4

Same thing applies. Stratos provided you a good line to use to hopefully plant that seed for later. As the weeks draw close keep the lines of communication open

Since it's a gathering I'm going to assume the drinks will be flowing

Let her see you be social with everyone in attendance, by the end of the night isolate, break the touch barrier, proceed as usual

The scenario couldn't be better - neutral location + girl who has the hots for you + her opportunity to live out an old school girl crush

Post: #5

I don't know man. If she really is a good friend (I know that's rare with females but there are exceptions), you might want to lay off this one. In a fucked up way, part of why you guys can be close is because you're not physically involved. It's a weird dynamic b/c in certain ways having a sexual relationship with someone makes you closer but in other ways it can create chasms in certain regards that weren't there before. I only have your brief description to go on, but tread carefully

Post: #6

I'm with nek on this one. Only you know how close of a friend she is but I don't have many close female friends so for me, she'd have to be more than a 6.5 to blow that one out. The flip side is that you have an easy out due to the long distance situation in case she wanted a relationship. It would also depend on your situation and how long it's been since you got your dick wet.

Post: #7

Why are you even asking us what to do. Shes given you a clear come on sign.

Post: #8

Yeah, this deal is pretty much sealed. She sent me a pic of her tits last night.

Post: #9

Damn, I wish I had female friends who overtly said they'd do me. Since the OP says she lives across the country from him, I'd say go for it.

Post: #10

(02-26-2015 09:41 PM)Krusyos Wrote:  Oops. Should have made it clear that she lives across the country. We are meeting up at a gathering this May, though.

You'll be done with your 90 day challenge by then although this is clearly in the bag just show her your new self and use everything you've learned here

Post: #11

(02-27-2015 09:07 AM)Krusyos Wrote:  Yeah, this deal is pretty much sealed. She sent me a pic of her tits last night.

For May?

LMR, ASD, and something something about "chickens before they're hatched"

Post: #12

No offense but 6.5 Isn't "solid" IMHO

You should be gaming hotter girls, and they're right 90 day challenge.

Go out and approach a shit ton of girls. Go bang other girls.

Maintain text with this girl till you see her. Amp her up little by little, then tease the fuck out of her right before you two meet.

Post: #13

(02-27-2015 12:20 PM)kaotic Wrote:  No offense but 6.5 Isn't "solid" IMHO

You should be gaming hotter girls, and they're right 90 day challenge.

Go out and approach a shit ton of girls. Go bang other girls.

Maintain text with this girl till you see her. Amp her up little by little, then tease the fuck out of her right before you two meet.

You haven't been acquainted with my situation. I'm 18 years old in my senior year of online school. My mom keeps very close tabs on me and I don't have my license yet. And I live off of a highway away from any civilization... so...

Post: #14

Oh, if she is long distance that completely changes things. The game is her planting sexual seeds to get your attention. I'd just respond with a or "cool!" and when you see each other in person in the spring act enthusiastic but non sexual and leave her wondering if you view her sexually.

If you show up all sexual and expecting to hook up with her it falls into her trap - and not in a good way! she'll soak up your attention and find someone else to hook up with.

so much of the time at gatherings and conferences women are away from home and you'll get titty rubs (when they rub up against you when you're walking somewhere) or flirts but you lose the game as soon as you show public interest. you win if you can keep it a bit of a mystery what your intentions are until you're alone together.

Post: #15

(02-27-2015 09:07 AM)Krusyos Wrote:  Yeah, this deal is pretty much sealed. She sent me a pic of her tits last night.

Reply with a pic of a banana sticking out of your pants. "USDA recommends 2-4 servings of fruit a day"

Post: #16

(02-27-2015 01:38 PM)Krusyos Wrote:  

(02-27-2015 12:20 PM)kaotic Wrote:  No offense but 6.5 Isn't "solid" IMHO

You should be gaming hotter girls, and they're right 90 day challenge.

Go out and approach a shit ton of girls. Go bang other girls.

Maintain text with this girl till you see her. Amp her up little by little, then tease the fuck out of her right before you two meet.

You haven't been acquainted with my situation. I'm 18 years old in my senior year of online school. My mom keeps very close tabs on me and I don't have my license yet. And I live off of a highway away from any civilization... so...

Well there goes that, perhaps online game ? Have a girl pick you up to go on dates and bang ?

Or do you have a curfew or super restrictive parents ?

Post: #17

Have drinks with your friend

End up at your place or hers at the end of your night

Bang

-Edit-

You live at home and your parents are strict AND no license

This is gonna be good man, you'll have to find some place for it

What about natural parks? I don't mean like a playground but a kinda nature preserve. Somewhere you can wander off and find a nice secluded spot, maybe overlooking some water.

Really though, you have to think about your area. Where is a secluded place you could take her?

I knew in my neighborhood there was this one road that for some reason ended in a dead end in the middle of the woods. I banged a bunch of girls there when I was young and didn't wanna bring them home. I had a car though.

Late night at public parks or down by some waterfront are also good spots when you have nowhere to go.

Or you could just "hide in plain sight" and bring her over to your house during the day with your parents knowing, and hope they just give you privacy in your room. Put on some music or the TV and just bang on the floor so there's less creaking than the bed.

Post: #18

I have close female friends I've had sex with. It doesn't need to interfere in any way.

Post: #19

(02-28-2015 03:49 PM)Manwhore Wrote:  I have close female friends I've had sex with. It doesn't need to interfere in any way.

I fully expect sex with all of my female friends.

Unless that are some immaculate value of purity and virtue, they've had one night stands, sucked random guys dick and made total assholes very happy in bed.

Since I'm their friend, I deserve just as much.