Post: #1

Hey guys, I go to this casino often and there's this dealer I think is really cute. I remembered her name from her name tag and found her on facebook. Supposedly they can't date clients and its a really good job for her probably so I wouldn't want to fuck that up.

But anyways since there's not much space to hit on her in person I wanted to send her a message on facebook. This kind of alpha friend that knows her told me to message her "hey... last time I played with you I bought a notepad and a pen so I could remember your name... you owe me 4 bucks.

Dunno if this is a good message? I don't think its something I'd say but it mixes messages like I cared enough to remember her name but I needed to write it down to remember it... and I'm asking for the money back so I guess thats funny?

The little conversation I made with her was about one of her fingers that was blackish because she slammed her finger in a door.... hmmm maybe I can send a message jokingly referring to that.


So yea just wanted to ask for some advice.... thanks!

Post: #2

I always find its best to throw jokes related to stuff she told you about , or were part of a previous conversation you had. It kind of returns the vibe and frame back so you don't have to ''start over''. So I guess you could come up with something about her finger, something new and good.

Regarding to facebook, I'm not sure. I'm not a big fan of that, I don't see anything good coming from the fact that you actually searched for her and found her but who knows, it might work, and thats just me. If you really want to fuck her, run game everytime you see her at the casino but also allow the strict dealer-client frame to jump in from time to time. Try to taking her to a bar after her shift at the casino is over or something like that, something that will make her less likely to flake.

Post: #3

Is this cool to do these days? I'm not one for mixing my dating and facebook, plus I always thought that kind of move was semi-creepy/stalkerish, but the times are a changin' I guess.

Post: #4

(05-11-2011 01:12 AM)CJ Wrote:  Is this cool to do these days? I'm not one for mixing my dating and facebook, plus I always thought that kind of move was semi-creepy/stalkerish, but the times are a changin' I guess.

I was gonna say the same thing. This seems like a real creepy move since you dont know her last name so to look her up required at least some semi stalkerish behavior. With that being said though Im 31 so there could be some kind of generational divide on this.

I dont want to just point out the problem without some positive feedback as well though so I think your best move is to continue trying to game her when youre there in person. This takes repeated trips and time to build rapport but it does work. (I hooked up with one of the Hells Bell dealers at the Hard Rock this way) Key to remember is dont be like every other asshole hitting on her. When it comes to hot dealers, cocktail waitresses, bartenders and the like theyve heard it all a million fucking times so youve got to stand out and be different. I figured theyve heard it all about their looks from drunks so I just went the general conversation route with less overt flirting (so she at least knew what I was trying to do) which led to deeper conversation and put her more at ease to eventually be around me in a non work environment.

Post: #5

Thing is its not that creepy cause her name tag is right there, and I cant really talk much in person unless its a convo everyone can hear and then someone might tease me that I like her haha.

Ther thing would be when she is shifting turns to stop her and try and do something but Idk I'm paranoid about the cameras having mircophones or somehow screwing it up cause they're very strict about the staff not seeing clients.

Post: #6

(05-11-2011 12:55 AM)Riker Wrote:  Hey guys, I go to this casino often and there's this dealer I think is really cute. I remembered her name from her name tag and found her on facebook. Supposedly they can't date clients and its a really good job for her probably so I wouldn't want to fuck that up.

But anyways since there's not much space to hit on her in person I wanted to send her a message on facebook. This kind of alpha friend that knows her told me to message her "hey... last time I played with you I bought a notepad and a pen so I could remember your name... you owe me 4 bucks.

Dunno if this is a good message? I don't think its something I'd say but it mixes messages like I cared enough to remember her name but I needed to write it down to remember it... and I'm asking for the money back so I guess thats funny?

The little conversation I made with her was about one of her fingers that was blackish because she slammed her finger in a door.... hmmm maybe I can send a message jokingly referring to that.


So yea just wanted to ask for some advice.... thanks!

What do you have to lose? Nothing. I like the comment your buddy recommended:

"hey... last time I played with you I bought a notepad and a pen so I could remember your name... you owe me 4 bucks." -- Sounds like something I'd say.

Send her a message WITHOUT adding her, that is the key.

But I agree with Fret, you have a better shot interacting with her in person if you can get away with it. I'm not a big fan of facebook.

Post: #7

I guess we can all agree that facebook is a bad idea, I just finished reading this thread and even though I did not posted a comment on it, I think that facebook was a clear mistake there.