Post: #26

(02-18-2015 05:03 PM)Fortis Wrote:  Anyway, how does a guy like him even develop more of a "cool factor?" Seems like lots of guys are getting on him for his voice and such. He does sound sort of gay with the mild upward ending inflection, but beyond that what would you guys do (beyond just telling me to learn some game) to make him cool enough to snag mediocre, homely white teachers?

Only three ways a dorky black guy can get a LTR with an average, mediocre looking white chick:
1. Make a shit ton of money (at least 200,000 a year more than her)
2. Engage in cool white guy activities (play guitar, climb mountains, skateboard or some shit)
3. Develop a better sense of style (dress better, work on body language, etc.)

That simple, really. #1 is the most helpful obviously. Likely at least two of the above would maximize his efforts.
He's too dorky to act "black" and that probably wouldn't appeal to this type of chick anyhow.

Post: #27

^ Lol, kind of funny. I remember seeing football all-star dudes with busted to average looking white girls on their arms. Funny shit. I don't think it's actually all that hard; it really depends on where the white girl is from, but I live in an area that has some of the highest numbers of bi-racial (black and white) couples in the country.

I do think 2 and 3 could really do it for him. He looks so fucking beta when they're taking that selfie and he's leaning into her like that while she's all stiff and awkward.
The black nerd is between a rock and hard place because he isn't rough enough for a lot of black chicks, but he's still too foreign for white girls, but not foreign enough to really appeal to any sort of philia she might have.

Post: #28

(02-18-2015 05:35 PM)Fortis Wrote:  The black nerd is between a rock and hard place because he isn't rough enough for a lot of black chicks, but he's still too foreign for white girls, but not foreign enough to really appeal to any sort of philia she might have.

This x 1000.

That was me growing up.

Post: #29

(02-18-2015 05:03 PM)Fortis Wrote:  He's probably ingested so much public school propaganda that he thinks sounding like a 13 year old girl will make him less "threatening" to women.

That's also the main reason you see so many Black dudes wearing clear lens glasses as so-called fashion statements. The personal stylists started it with the athletes, making them look more tame, less threatening.

Post: #30

(02-18-2015 07:01 PM)jariel Wrote:  

(02-18-2015 05:03 PM)Fortis Wrote:  He's probably ingested so much public school propaganda that he thinks sounding like a 13 year old girl will make him less "threatening" to women.

That's also the main reason you see so many Black dudes wearing clear lens glasses as so-called fashion statements. The personal stylists started it with the athletes, making them look more tame, less threatening.

Interesting. You think so? That black dudes are wearing glasses they don't need so that they seem less threatening? You may be right.

I always thought it was just the influence of hipster culture. But I could be wrong.

Post: #31

(02-18-2015 06:01 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

(02-18-2015 05:35 PM)Fortis Wrote:  The black nerd is between a rock and hard place because he isn't rough enough for a lot of black chicks, but he's still too foreign for white girls, but not foreign enough to really appeal to any sort of philia she might have.

This x 1000.

That was me growing up.

Likewise. I think we all learn to hide our nerd power level, though.

I never considered that idea about glasses. I think glasses typically look bad unless you need them for sight. I do think a tall lanky black guy in hipster glasses can probably do well with those sorts of girls -- if he's up on that whole way of doing things. I've definitely seen it.

Post: #32

(02-18-2015 05:03 PM)Fortis Wrote:  That was a frumpy-ass white girl. Damn. Don't get me wrong, we all dumpster dive (I know I have), but she was hard to look at. I feel bad for the fellow, honestly; he's one of those blue-pill black guys who is legitimately a good guy who just wants a solid girl and is even willing to look past her plain style to see something more. WHenever I meet a guy like him I am reminded of myself from a couple of years ago. The struggle is real. He's probably ingested so much public school propaganda that he thinks sounding like a 13 year old girl will make him less "threatening" to women. If only safety made it wet.

Didn't know they still made fellows like that.



Anyway, how does a guy like him even develop more of a "cool factor?" Seems like lots of guys are getting on him for his voice and such. He does sound sort of gay with the mild upward ending inflection, but beyond that what would you guys do (beyond just telling me to learn some game) to make him cool enough to snag mediocre, homely white teachers?

roosh was an STEM employee that went to UMD. How do you make him cool enough to snag white teachers?

Bang, Day Bang, and a methodical year off to travel.

Post: #33

(02-18-2015 05:35 PM)Fortis Wrote:  ^ Lol, kind of funny. I remember seeing football all-star dudes with busted to average looking white girls on their arms. Funny shit. I don't think it's actually all that hard; it really depends on where the white girl is from, but I live in an area that has some of the highest numbers of bi-racial (black and white) couples in the country.

I do think 2 and 3 could really do it for him. He looks so fucking beta when they're taking that selfie and he's leaning into her like that while she's all stiff and awkward.
The black nerd is between a rock and hard place because he isn't rough enough for a lot of black chicks, but he's still too foreign for white girls, but not foreign enough to really appeal to any sort of philia she might have.

Are you in the south?

Post: #34

(02-18-2015 05:16 PM)Lion of Judah Wrote:  

(02-18-2015 05:03 PM)Fortis Wrote:  Anyway, how does a guy like him even develop more of a "cool factor?" Seems like lots of guys are getting on him for his voice and such. He does sound sort of gay with the mild upward ending inflection, but beyond that what would you guys do (beyond just telling me to learn some game) to make him cool enough to snag mediocre, homely white teachers?

Only three ways a dorky black guy can get a LTR with an average, mediocre looking white chick:
1. Make a shit ton of money (at least 200,000 a year more than her)
2. Engage in cool white guy activities (play guitar, climb mountains, skateboard or some shit)
3. Develop a better sense of style (dress better, work on body language, etc.)

That simple, really. #1 is the most helpful obviously. Likely at least two of the above would maximize his efforts.
He's too dorky to act "black" and that probably wouldn't appeal to this type of chick anyhow.

Cool factor alone does not lead to bangs or dates. Gotta have solid game and exploit their weaknesses. Numbers 1 and 2 are unnecessary, but help no doubt. 3 is big. If you notice that black guy in the video had terrible body posture. He looked inadequate and uncomfortable. Being bashful around hardened women, especially black and white, is an instant disqualification. Chest out chin up. Steady eyes. Stable voice. No giggling. No inflections. Basic masculine frame stuff.

Dude was leaning back, he wiggled his neck at the very beginning. His eyes blinked too much to match what he was saying. He needs an overhaul on posture, mannerisms, game, fuck he needs help with the whole gambit of things. Most blue pill guys are usually not lacking in that many areas in this regard.

Think about what they ordered to eat. The chick ordered a steak. He ordered a salmon. If you dating a countryside built gal like that, better get that steak as well and get it medium rare. Women love a meat and potatoes kind of man. Especially if you have the arms and chest to match it. Remember they will never tell you this. They may tell you the opposite in fact. Doesn't matter. Never listen to what hoes say. What makes the pussy wet is what counts. The rest is just bullshit.

I bet this dude tapped his mouth with the napkin with 3 fingers. He could not have casually tossed it on the table when done with it. Women pay attention to all these piddly things we do not think about.

Watching this guy in the video for the second time really revealed to me that he is a great example of what NOT to do as opposed to the other black guy that has the Youtube videos of him making out and approaching women. I forgot his name, but Jariel has a thread on him. His relaxed and excellent posture gives the right vibe to the women. That's what you want to emulate.

Post: #35

(02-18-2015 07:30 PM)floor7 Wrote:  

(02-18-2015 05:35 PM)Fortis Wrote:  ^ Lol, kind of funny. I remember seeing football all-star dudes with busted to average looking white girls on their arms. Funny shit. I don't think it's actually all that hard; it really depends on where the white girl is from, but I live in an area that has some of the highest numbers of bi-racial (black and white) couples in the country.

I do think 2 and 3 could really do it for him. He looks so fucking beta when they're taking that selfie and he's leaning into her like that while she's all stiff and awkward.
The black nerd is between a rock and hard place because he isn't rough enough for a lot of black chicks, but he's still too foreign for white girls, but not foreign enough to really appeal to any sort of philia she might have.

Are you in the south?

Northeastern United states. Surprisingly, eh?

Post: #36

I left out that I had a dorky black friend from high school who ended up marrying a white chick... but he was freakishly smart and the chick he ended up marrying was a nerd he met in graduate school. They dated for several years before they married and took things slow. I'm not sure what you would call that other than "nerd game".

Post: #37

(02-18-2015 07:16 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

(02-18-2015 07:01 PM)jariel Wrote:  

(02-18-2015 05:03 PM)Fortis Wrote:  He's probably ingested so much public school propaganda that he thinks sounding like a 13 year old girl will make him less "threatening" to women.

That's also the main reason you see so many Black dudes wearing clear lens glasses as so-called fashion statements. The personal stylists started it with the athletes, making them look more tame, less threatening.

Interesting. You think so? That black dudes are wearing glasses they don't need so that they seem less threatening? You may be right.

I always thought it was just the influence of hipster culture. But I could be wrong.

I have read about it too - seen it happening as well. DistantLight has created that black hipster vibe with success.

Glasses generally work against almost all men - exceptions are some highly masculine black men, also really massive Bodybuilders as well as men with overly masculine faces. For those groups glasses can tone it down and make it easier to approach high value girls (as in hot young girls with options) - in some instances they work as counter-indicators against the pre-conceptions that girls have.

Post: #38

The educated hipster like look has caught on in cities.
I noticed a lot of educated brothers pulling this style off and making it look good.
These guys aren't nerdy types either. They are driven, but not giving up their style.. they just don't want to be perceived as ghetto.

An area where you wouldn't expect it , is the pro black area.
Look at people like Cornell West and Spike Lee.



Dudes dressing like they are off to deliver a message from the officer are pulling left and right for both black and white women.
And they arent "acting white"





And the hipster glasses style is moving in.



We know for a fact...Childish is pulling chicks from all races even though he puts of a nerdy awkward look.

But these guys still have style and an edge of confidence.

There is no excuse that dudes whtat arent dressed like chris brown can't pull

Post: #39

(02-18-2015 11:32 AM)eradicator Wrote:  She'd be hot if only she got into shape. She isn't terrible, but my god, half the time it seems like date lab is determined to set up low value women(fatties) with high value guys.

all of these leads me to believe that DC is hell for dating.

That's because having any physical standards for a woman is now considered sexist/misogynist.

Also, I bet they are matched on traits based on feminist criteria. Both are based on their job, where they live, where they went to school, et al, even though one side cares FAR more about those attributes than the other.

Post: #40

I've finally watched this video.

Homeboy is clearly gay or Bi. I don't think he sounds much like an
Urkel nerd type, he sounds more like a sassy gay dude.

His energy/mannerism and inflections were more feminine than hers.

"They talked in the restaurant until the place shut down and they shut out the lights", on a first date?
Sounds more like she was hanging out with one of her gal pals then on a date with a dude that had any intention of getting some ass......ever.

I think if you take race out of the equation, a white dude that went on this
same date and exhibited the mannerisms of Lance Bass, or Mario Lopez would have had the same outcome. The chick was no prize and in a sane world has no right to be choosy, but even she had enough gaydar to put dude in the friend zone.

Post: #41

(02-18-2015 12:52 AM)Basil Ransom Wrote:  looooooool. By far the that black dude has the nerdiest voice I have ever heard coming out of a black man's throat. If I heard only the voice, not in a million years would I imagine it coming from a black man. Plus a strong gay twang. And she is fugly.

Yep.

I was shocked to find out the guy who did the voice of Elmo was a black man.

Turns out that dude was gay too. He's also from Maryland, I wonder if he knows the brotha from the date lab video...