Post: #1

You're at a club. A bar. You meet, begin hooking up. For whatever reasons the bang doesnt work out that night, but you set up a night a few days later to meet for drinks or whatever. The moment you see her the next night, give her a kiss,or hug only. Dumb question, perhaps, but I've done both. Sometimes the kiss would be awkward, other times it was awkward that I didnt.

Post: #2

(05-09-2011 12:33 PM)evanb Wrote:  You're at a club. A bar. You meet, begin hooking up. For whatever reasons the bang doesnt work out that night, but you set up a night a few days later to meet for drinks or whatever. The moment you see her the next night, give her a kiss,or hug only. Dumb question, perhaps, but I've done both. Sometimes the kiss would be awkward, other times it was awkward that I didnt.

I didn't see a question, but I assume you are asking... "Do you kiss or hug on a follow up date?"

Depends on the amount of attraction built. I always go for the kiss but if I get too much resistance I let it land on the cheek.

Post: #3

This is a pretty good question, as you want to lay your ground work early on meeting 2.

-If you didn't kiss her the night you met her, the longer you wait to do so, the more awkward things will get. I've gone down that road in the past, barring a miracle you'll never bang her. Remember though, the fact that she's hanging out with you a second time should ease your nerves, she obviously wants to be kissed.

-If you did make out when you met her, things should be easy. I wouldn't necessarily go for the make out right away when you see her again, but I would be pretty physical, and let her brain gradually get used to you touching her.

-If you banged her when you met her, then you really don't have to worry about anything.

Post: #4

Good question.

I always go for a "two kisses" greeting on the 2nd meeting.

Even if it was super on from the time before.

I think it is a good "down shift" and shows you are in control and not desperate.

Then from there, "up shift" thru the date.

Post: #5

(05-09-2011 07:17 PM)CJ Wrote:  This is a pretty good question, as you want to lay your ground work early on meeting 2.

-If you didn't kiss her the night you met her, the longer you wait to do so, the more awkward things will get. I've gone down that road in the past, barring a miracle you'll never bang her. Remember though, the fact that she's hanging out with you a second time should ease your nerves, she obviously wants to be kissed.

-If you did make out when you met her, things should be easy. I wouldn't necessarily go for the make out right away when you see her again, but I would be pretty physical, and let her brain gradually get used to you touching her.

-If you banged her when you met her, then you really don't have to worry about anything.

good pointers...we made out for a while when we met originally, my question was when meeting for a 1st date after that...thanks!

Post: #6

(05-09-2011 08:51 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  Good question.

I always go for a "two kisses" greeting on the 2nd meeting.

Even if it was super on from the time before.

I think it is a good "down shift" and shows you are in control and not desperate.

Then from there, "up shift" thru the date.

Thanks! 2 kisses, you mean like two pecks on the lip, or one on each cheek thing...?