Post: #1

Okay so after 83 approaches documented on this thread (/thread-42914.html ) I’ve finally managed to net myself my first game aware date tomorrow.

However there’s a affair amount of obstacles I’ll have to surmount if I am to achieve my first game aware bang with this one.

Firstly there is a possibility that she will flake, I’ve already accepted this and should it occur I’d definitely be disappointed but I’d bounce back on the number farm immediately. If there’s one thing I’ve internalised so far in my quest to change my life it’s an abundance mentality.

If she does show, there is a problem, firstly, I have no idea where to take her. I’m not really a bar guy , and I haven’t really done the footwork to find any places that have the laid back vibe that I’m looking for .

There is this one bar that I went to a couple times with some co-workers that has a very discreet and cool atmosphere ( It has comfortable sofas and the way it is laid out ensures there is maximum privacy ) . However I don’t know it’s opening hours and I have to be open to the possibility that it may not be open during the daytime.

Can anyone recommend types of venues that offer this laid back, discreet atmosphere during afternoons?

I’ve been on many dates before but this will be my first game aware date , I’ll feel abit comfortable running my material in a bustling starbucks within direct earshot of curious on-lookers . I know I should have a IDGAF mentality but again , I’m a beginner , I’d like a more comfortable venue where I’d be able to escalate in peace .

Secondly there’s logistics , this girl cannot come home with me . Okay technically she can , but it’s not very feasible . I live in a small house with numerous family members . I’ve had girlfriends in the past but I was in boarding school in a different country . I’ve never had to bring a girl home . They aren't opposed to me bringing girls home , but sex is a taboo subject in my household .
Based on the times of the date , by the time I bring her home the whole family will be back from school/work . This wouldn't be a problem if I had my own room but I share a room with my brother .

To make a long story short, she can come back home but we won’t be able to bang so I’ve ruled that out .

From what I’ve heard, she also lives with her mother , I started a thread here (/thread-43773.html ) about getting into a girls home during night game and I think the advice given is relevant here , but if anyone has anymore advice please don’t hesitate to share .

Lastly , please don’t hesitate to point me to any first date routines I can add to my material . I’ve heard Carlos mention the “love test” which seems interesting to me . If anyone has any more please don’t hesitate to share .

I’ve added our text conversation below for context :

* Yoo it’s Sensei did I text the right number ?
- Aha yeah you did lol
* Why you got two numbers tho , im sure you’ve got a double life I don’t know about
* On some 007 shit
- Not even looool
- No I don’t honestly
* Whatever you say mrs bond
* Aye lets hang out later this week
- Yeah thats cool
* This weekend kinda crazy tho.. slide through for drinks on Monday , I got some new recipes I wanna try
- Lol okay
- That’s cool
* I’ll text you Sunday to send a time so don’t go on any top secret missions until then
- Looool
- What are you doing
* Summoning raindows and chasing leprechauns
- Lol
- U smoke weed init
* I used to smoke everyday I don’t blaze too often now
- Lol are you serious

Blah blah blah

* Hang out tomorrow around 1 ?
- Got class
- Till 3
* Ite I’ll see you after class around 3.30, I might be a few minutes late tho
- Yeah thats okay
* ***** Station
- okay

Post: #2

I apologise for the double post , I've tried to delete one of the threads but it says I don't have the right to

Post: #3

You seem way too invested in this date. I have one big suggestion: exercise beforehand. Lift, do some wind sprints. These will calm you down and make you relaxed. Otherwise, I can see you coming off very nervous (don't worry, all of us have been there before).

Post: #4

You're doing this with one hand tied behind your back.

Your logistics are a mess; you need to figure out NOW where you can bang this girl so you have a plan...car, motel, hotel, holiday inn...wherever!

Just relax man and don't forget to escalate, escalate, escalate.

Post: #5

Oh shit...just noticed the date of this thread...

what happened?

Post: #6

(02-10-2015 06:30 AM)Kissinger2014 Wrote:  You seem way too invested in this date. I have one big suggestion: exercise beforehand. Lift, do some wind sprints. These will calm you down and make you relaxed. Otherwise, I can see you coming off very nervous (don't worry, all of us have been there before).

I'd also like to add get into a chatty mood before the date as well. Talk with people at or near the venue with random conversation. Believe it or not, I've done well for some reason on the dates where I was nervous beforehand. It all goes away once you and the girl start talking.

Post: #7

Well the date was yesterday evening and she flaked .

I had anticipated the possibility that she might and so yesterday during my morning uni break I approached 6 women and got 2 numbers .

Today I took a day of uni and approached girls the entire day . I approached 30 girls and got 6 numbers . Im in the process of writing those up in proper form for my approach thread .

On a positive note my number of approaches has gone past 100 . I've officially completed the 100 approach challenge , I know the first bang is not too far away if I keep pushing .