Post: #10426

(05-12-2019 12:27 PM)NextStop100 Wrote:  I've had multiple black women tell me I look like the type of black guy that only dates white women. What do you think that says about me?

I got this a fucking ton in high school and college, because i was a black boy from the suburbs that didn't have an urban affect or dress urban. As a grown as man i don't think a sista has ever made that utterance to me.

What I've graduated to now is women, particularly white women, wanting to see a picture of my child. Not to see my legacy but to see if the child is mixed lol. My child is not mixed. My child is visibly full black to avg black person but white people can't always tell. Any these women display outward disappointment when they find out my kid is full black and not mixed. Subtly reminding them im in for fun not a relationship

Post: #10427

I always get the, where are your kids? Lol.

People exhaust me. But what's the alternative?

WIA

Post: #10428

(05-14-2019 03:14 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  I always get the, where are your kids? Lol.

People exhaust me. But what's the alternative?

WIA

Well some people do think it's odd for a man of a certain age to not have kids, at least one. It's like genetic insurance and ensures your legacy will be passed on. For one to walk around without insurance is like one walking around in the jungle without any form of protection, it's really like casting one's fate to chance.

I remember speaking to a lizard once that was cute and had a nice figure but was older than I realised (about to turn 40). She said she wouldn't date men with kids (which didn't make sense since if she were to date men near her age, the chances of them having at least one kid would statistically be much higher). I started to think to myself, what would be more of a turnoff to me, a lizard of that age (40) with kids or a lizard of that age without kids. I think that woman of that age without kids is more of the oddball.

It's not the case for men since our window for healthy reproduction is larger (yet not infinite).

Post: #10429

(05-14-2019 05:11 PM)Moma Wrote:  I remember speaking to a lizard once that was cute and had a nice figure but was older than I realised (about to turn 40). She said she wouldn't date men with kids (which didn't make sense since if she were to date men near her age, the chances of them having at least one kid would statistically be much higher). I started to think to myself, what would be more of a turnoff to me, a lizard of that age (40) with kids or a lizard of that age without kids. I think that woman of that age without kids is more of the oddball.

I mostly deal with professional women, and a childless chick at 40 is typical for the career type girls. Seeing chicks with these great careers, but only live for the job, or lying to themselves about it....it's a damn shame.

If she's 40 and still looks good, never been married, no kids, etc - she's probably been burned A LOT. A well socialized and intelligent black man that will sweat her weave out is almost TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE.

WIA

Post: #10430

(05-14-2019 12:54 PM)quaker13 Wrote:  

(05-12-2019 12:27 PM)NextStop100 Wrote:  I've had multiple black women tell me I look like the type of black guy that only dates white women. What do you think that says about me?

I got this a fucking ton in high school and college, because i was a black boy from the suburbs that didn't have an urban affect or dress urban. As a grown as man i don't think a sista has ever made that utterance to me.

What I've graduated to now is women, particularly white women, wanting to see a picture of my child. Not to see my legacy but to see if the child is mixed lol. My child is not mixed. My child is visibly full black to avg black person but white people can't always tell. Any these women display outward disappointment when they find out my kid is full black and not mixed. Subtly reminding them im in for fun not a relationship

My 5th lifetime bang was this mixed-chick from college who could pass as full black.

The morning after she told me "I thought you were cute, but my friends thought you didn't like black girls."

Couldn't re-bang.

Post: #10431

(05-13-2019 06:30 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  I had an epiphany the other day.

All the women I'm talking to are boring, they don't lead lives that I would consider exciting.

Yet, I'm sure they think some decent guy will be fortunate to have them.

I love rubbing it in their faces, I'm a man who does shit.

This is why socal media means so much to them. It's nothing but a facade.

Post: #10432

(05-14-2019 09:02 AM)Ogunn Wrote:  

(05-12-2019 09:31 AM)floridaboiii Wrote:  Last night I was able to spit Spanish game in a Spanish club, first time using Spanish language since I’ve been back in the USA. I got a 7/10 Peruvian programmer with 5,000 followers on IG. Her gay friend grabbed me and said he had a friend for me. She was getting smashed about 30 minutes later on the pullout couch in my hotel.

What city did this happen in?

This was in DC.

I read a few threads about DC being shitty but it seems good to me. That spanish girl has been my only lay but the British girl is still texting me and has asked to see me one last time before I leave.

I had multiple girls ask to meet up on Hinge but I've been pretty busy, plus my face. I think I had like 50 matches and like 40 of them were responsive with multiple 8s and 9s in there as well. I don't swipe on the app at all, I wait until the app shows that a girl has liked me. I'm guessing they gave me preferred status because my hinge was so active? I deleted it and made it again and they gave me preferred status again. YMMV but I have a profile that really appeals to chicks in a place like DC, all you guys who travel and have lived overseas should as well.

There is George Washington, Howard, American U, and Georgetown in like a five mile radius... There is a bunch of NGO/nonprofit type chicks (these chicks get around... trust me), who are open to all types of guys.

I've been in San Francisco and New York as well in the past month.

San Fran seemed like it would be good, I got approached and online game was popping.

I don't think I was in NY long enough to do any real damage.

(05-13-2019 09:00 PM)PrettyBoyAJ Wrote:  ^What happened to you? How bad wasn’t it?

If your that self consious about it then you shouldn’t have gone out on the dates. I think you just wasted time and money. The reason I say that is because you didn’t even try to set something up after the date? I don’t know what yalls purpose of dating is but my goal on a date is to get laid. So to not try is just a waste imo.

It was pretty bad man. I got in an accident.

The white girl took me for a walk and I went to a free museum with the other girl. I bought a drink for the english girl so 10$ over three dates? I don't see anything wrong with practicing, I was overseas for a minute. This month has been about re-calibration to the USA. I think everything is good now.

Post: #10433

(05-14-2019 10:09 PM)floridaboiii Wrote:  

(05-14-2019 09:02 AM)Ogunn Wrote:  

(05-12-2019 09:31 AM)floridaboiii Wrote:  Last night I was able to spit Spanish game in a Spanish club, first time using Spanish language since I’ve been back in the USA. I got a 7/10 Peruvian programmer with 5,000 followers on IG. Her gay friend grabbed me and said he had a friend for me. She was getting smashed about 30 minutes later on the pullout couch in my hotel.

What city did this happen in?

This was in DC.

I read a few threads about DC being shitty but it seems good to me. That spanish girl has been my only lay but the British girl is still texting me and has asked to see me one last time before I leave.

I had multiple girls ask to meet up on Hinge but I've been pretty busy, plus my face. I think I had like 50 matches and like 40 of them were responsive with multiple 8s and 9s in there as well. I don't swipe on the app at all, I wait until the app shows that a girl has liked me. I'm guessing they gave me preferred status because my hinge was so active? I deleted it and made it again and they gave me preferred status again. YMMV but I have a profile that really appeals to chicks in a place like DC, all you guys who travel and have lived overseas should as well.

There is George Washington, Howard, American U, and Georgetown in like a five mile radius... There is a bunch of NGO/nonprofit type chicks (these chicks get around... trust me), who are open to all types of guys.

I've been in San Francisco and New York as well in the past month.

San Fran seemed like it would be good, I got approached and online game was popping.

I don't think I was in NY long enough to do any real damage.

(05-13-2019 09:00 PM)PrettyBoyAJ Wrote:  ^What happened to you? How bad wasn’t it?

If your that self consious about it then you shouldn’t have gone out on the dates. I think you just wasted time and money. The reason I say that is because you didn’t even try to set something up after the date? I don’t know what yalls purpose of dating is but my goal on a date is to get laid. So to not try is just a waste imo.

It was pretty bad man. I got in an accident.

The white girl took me for a walk and I went to a free museum with the other girl. I bought a drink for the english girl so 10$ over three dates? I don't see anything wrong with practicing, I was overseas for a minute. This month has been about re-calibration to the USA. I think everything is good now.

Every white girl I've smashed for the first time in DC has been a long term thing.

While I've smashed multiple YTs, my only white LTR I met while in DC for a short period of time. A FWB situation with the wealthiest white girl I've smashed, met her in DC.

I dunno what it is. But DC has been good for my "game" even before I knew what game was.

Post: #10434

(05-15-2019 12:08 AM)MaceTyrell Wrote:  

(05-14-2019 10:09 PM)floridaboiii Wrote:  

(05-14-2019 09:02 AM)Ogunn Wrote:  

(05-12-2019 09:31 AM)floridaboiii Wrote:  Last night I was able to spit Spanish game in a Spanish club, first time using Spanish language since I’ve been back in the USA. I got a 7/10 Peruvian programmer with 5,000 followers on IG. Her gay friend grabbed me and said he had a friend for me. She was getting smashed about 30 minutes later on the pullout couch in my hotel.

What city did this happen in?

This was in DC.

I read a few threads about DC being shitty but it seems good to me. That spanish girl has been my only lay but the British girl is still texting me and has asked to see me one last time before I leave.

I had multiple girls ask to meet up on Hinge but I've been pretty busy, plus my face. I think I had like 50 matches and like 40 of them were responsive with multiple 8s and 9s in there as well. I don't swipe on the app at all, I wait until the app shows that a girl has liked me. I'm guessing they gave me preferred status because my hinge was so active? I deleted it and made it again and they gave me preferred status again. YMMV but I have a profile that really appeals to chicks in a place like DC, all you guys who travel and have lived overseas should as well.

There is George Washington, Howard, American U, and Georgetown in like a five mile radius... There is a bunch of NGO/nonprofit type chicks (these chicks get around... trust me), who are open to all types of guys.

I've been in San Francisco and New York as well in the past month.

San Fran seemed like it would be good, I got approached and online game was popping.

I don't think I was in NY long enough to do any real damage.

(05-13-2019 09:00 PM)PrettyBoyAJ Wrote:  ^What happened to you? How bad wasn’t it?

If your that self consious about it then you shouldn’t have gone out on the dates. I think you just wasted time and money. The reason I say that is because you didn’t even try to set something up after the date? I don’t know what yalls purpose of dating is but my goal on a date is to get laid. So to not try is just a waste imo.

It was pretty bad man. I got in an accident.

The white girl took me for a walk and I went to a free museum with the other girl. I bought a drink for the english girl so 10$ over three dates? I don't see anything wrong with practicing, I was overseas for a minute. This month has been about re-calibration to the USA. I think everything is good now.

Every white girl I've smashed for the first time in DC has been a long term thing.

While I've smashed multiple YTs, my only white LTR I met while in DC for a short period of time. A FWB situation with the wealthiest white girl I've smashed, met her in DC.

I dunno what it is. But DC has been good for my "game" even before I knew what game was.

I'm in DC too and it gets a bad rap. I think the white boys don't even try. Most of the time I go out the white boys are slovenly dressed and the ones who aren't stick out like a sore thumb. Granted the women here don't look like they do in LA, NYC, Miami or Atl but there are a bunch of good looking women here.

I think the men who complain about the women here are probably not putting their best foot forward in terms of their overall appearance. I liken it to whenever I hear men talk about how fat Western girls are and they themselves have dad bods or worse. Sorry homey, you aren't in a position to complain about fat bitches. I can complain about fat bitches till the cows come home cause im fit. Don't hold women to a higher standard than you hold yourself

Post: #10435

Most of the sistas I have dated recently are all apart of the "used to" sorrority. They used to workout, but their career is too demanding. They used to cook daily, but their career is too demanding. They used to fuck daily, but their career is too demanding. You see a pattern?

Post: #10436

(05-15-2019 05:42 PM)lunchmoney Wrote:  Most of the sistas I have dated recently are all apart of the "used to" sorrority. They used to workout, but their career is too demanding. They used to cook daily, but their career is too demanding. They used to fuck daily, but their career is too demanding. You see a pattern?

It's rare to see a sista in the gym, especially one over the age of 25 or 30. When I do see a sista who does squats and is in shape, she instantly vaults to an 8 to me. There is nothing in bed like sista who works out and has a squat booty.

Post: #10437

It’s what we all suspect, but I had a woman flat out tell me she doesn’t work out because she doesn’t want to mess up here hair, meanwhile she’s as thick as a Arby’s double roast beef sandwich and not in a good way.
On a recent google research rabbit hole, I came across a study that said [American] black women’s bodies, on average, burn less energy as their YT counterparts. Meaning that, on even a 2k calorie diet, their bodies will still not convert it all into energy and store the rest as fat. I suspect it has something to do with generational genetics dating back as far back as the middle passage and slavery where we had to function and survive on far less. Sadly, this only means they have to work twice as hard with nutrition and fitness just to maintain. The article made lots of sense, I wish more of them knew. More importantly, I just wish more of us men would hold them to higher standards instead of glorifying this “thick” shit.

Post: #10438

I would have to slightly disagree with you there.

Black people have a completely different make up, certain foods are toxic for us.
Our bodies don't process white flour, white sugar and white salt. It's no secret why there is a high rate of obesity, diabetes and hypertension in our communities.
Dairy can be added to the list as many of us are lactose intolerant.

TV commercials always have black people featured in junk food ads.This is by design, the same way they sell crappy food in the hood.

The western diet isn't for us, I'm sure some of you have heard of Dr Sebi, the man was taken out for the information he was spreading.
Mind you, the list of foods he recommends isn't exciting to say the least.

Post: #10439

(05-15-2019 09:00 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  The western diet isn't for us, I'm sure some of you have heard of Dr Sebi, the man was taken out for the information he was spreading.
Mind you, the list of foods he recommends aren't exciting to say the least.

Yes, I agree with you but it takes a while for the tastebuds to become accustomed to food that is good for us. Eat well for long enough and the foods that are bad for us will taste horrible when we put them into our mouths.

Post: #10440

I think most people who are lactose intolerant are generally asian actually, black diet can be quite healthy. For example a lot of caribbean food is quite good for you. I think blacks have faster metabolisms and more fast twitch muscles.

Post: #10441

(05-15-2019 09:00 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  I would have to slightly disagree with you there.

Black people have a completely different make up, certain foods are toxic for us.
Our bodies don't process white flour, white sugar and white salt. It's no secret why there is a high rate of obesity, diabetes and hypertension in our communities.
Dairy can be added to the list as many of us are lactose intolerant.

TV commercials always have black people featured in junk food ads.This is by design, the same way they sell crappy food in the hood.

The western diet isn't for us, I'm sure some of you have heard of Dr Sebi, the man was taken out for the information he was spreading.
Mind you, the list of foods he recommends isn't exciting to say the least.

Agreed

TDK

Post: #10442

Fun story.

So girl I've been working on, we're on our third get together and I've been ramping it up each time we kick it. I figure this time or next it is in the bag but I'm taking it slow cause she's a bit timid and sometimes slow burn is just more fun.

I've got another chick crashing at my spot so I can't bring her back to mine.

So we bounce around on my usual circuit. Hit the beach late afternoon till the sun sets then swap to a local open air bar for $1 40s and $2 packs of cigs. Kick it there for a bit then I drive her back towards her place.

We park around the corner on a quiet side street then move backseat and she climbs on my lap and we neck for a bit. I've got the top of her dress of and going to round for home when the car door opens and ol copper dude shines his flashlight in.

He shows me his ID and is like "this is bad, what the fuck are you doing having sex in public" and I'm like "well technically we weren't having sex yet"

His partner gets in the front seat and they say they're going to take us to the station. I tell them it's not that serious and we can figure something out without all the hassle.

So we start driving around and partner guy is asking basic questions and I'm joking around with him or whatever. My girl is quietly freaking out but I just tell her to chill and that I'll handle it.

So eventually we stop and I get out and start chating these dudes and they're like "well what do we do from here?"

So I tell them either we can go to the station and I'll have to call my uncle the minister and he'll waste everyone's time before eventually getting us out where they won't get paid at all OR they can take this 50 bucks I have on me and we can all go on our merry way. They think 50 isnt enough but I say it is all I got so take it or leave it. They take it.

I jump back in the car and whip back to drop my girl off but not before I ask her if she wants round two.

So it goes on the Continent.

I'm thinking of copping another small place for these kinds of situs.

Post: #10443

^Why do you have a girl crashing with you?

Post: #10444

Women who dont wanna workout because they dont wanna sweat out their hair = no go for me.

Post: #10445

Came across an IG page @_afroselfies.

Damn, those Brazilian ladies are fire.

Post: #10446

(05-15-2019 10:37 PM)burncushlikewood Wrote:  I think most people who are lactose intolerant are generally asian actually, black diet can be quite healthy. For example a lot of caribbean food is quite good for you. I think blacks have faster metabolisms and more fast twitch muscles.

Sub-saharan and East/South East Asian origins populations tend to lack the ability to have the enzymes to break down lactose properly. Cow dairy isn't a natural part of either areas diets. There is no such thing as cheese for example in traditional African and Asian cuisine.

Personally, I wish I knew between classic alternatives, especially for calcium I haven't connected the dots on how African populations attained calcium in abundance within the diet without dairy.

Post: #10447

Isn't calcium in most leaf veggies and also a lot of meats? I don't think most people here are lacking in nutrition. A lot are real fit from working and the rest are thick (not Fat like the West though)

Mace,

Was another girl from out of town I had over and was going to come back to later but also had a meet set up for later.

Post: #10448

Vitamin D and the sun does alot for people of colour.

People in Africa and the Caribbean are eating organic, not GMO.

Fruits and Veggies, give you most of what you need.

Most of us don't consume enough of these.

Post: #10449

Yeah I lost like 10-15 lbs even though I'm hitting the gym harder than in the states and low key eating more.

Post: #10450

The problem in Africa is that fruits are expensive as hell, I am currently in Douala Cameroon, fruits is luxury here. In montreal, they are pretty affordable, for more $$$ you can get the "organic " ones

I cannot even begin to imagine the psyche of
advanced players. Options is truly king. Since I started to approach 1-5 girls/day, I can't be bothered when I am rejected, flaked on, etc... I just get up and approach the next lizard that gives me a boner.