Post: #5776

(06-15-2017 10:13 AM)raynman Wrote:  An 8 at best

I'll take an 8 any day of the week.

Post: #5777

What's your plan for attending a Meetup dot com type event?
- online
- public gathering
- not sure who's going to show?

WIA

Post: #5778

What is a meetup dot com event?

Post: #5779

(06-20-2017 10:11 AM)rudebwoy Wrote:  What is a meetup dot com event?

They have groups about generally any subject/topic/activity under the sun that meets up and unites people. Waaaaay long ago I started a PUA meetup in my city and we would meet up and bar hop. Unfortunately, no real identifiable talent showed, just folks looking for free advice and crutch/wings.

OAN, I wan't to learn how to play poker. Anyone have any suggestions?

Post: #5780

FYI, In relation to what we were discussing (raw numbers) in the Dating in today's age topic.

Post: #5781

(06-20-2017 10:55 AM)DimeBait Wrote:  

(06-20-2017 10:11 AM)rudebwoy Wrote:  What is a meetup dot com event?

They have groups about generally any subject/topic/activity under the sun that meets up and unites people. Waaaaay long ago I started a PUA meetup in my city and we would meet up and bar hop. Unfortunately, no real identifiable talent showed, just folks looking for free advice and crutch/wings.

OAN, I wan't to learn how to play poker. Anyone have any suggestions?

I don't know why you want to learn poker. But try setting up $20 tournament with some friends. Go on the net to learn hands, set up a PLAY MONEY account on pokerstars.com or a site of your choice... Go on YouTube

There are plenty of books. The game has gotten very tough because everyone knows how to play. The strategy is super advanced now.

Being a Poker Player is the worst to get chicks. Roosh wrote an article about this back in the day. He's dead on...

I think every guy should know how to play to save his life. But to get good is a time waster if you don't go the whole way...

PS: The House Always Wins...

Post: #5782

(06-20-2017 02:19 PM)crdr Wrote:  I don't know why you want to learn poker. But try setting up $20 tournament with some friends. Go on the net to learn hands, set up a PLAY MONEY account on pokerstars.com or a site of your choice... Go on YouTube

There are plenty of books. The game has gotten very tough because everyone knows how to play. The strategy is super advanced now.

Being a Poker Player is the worst to get chicks. Roosh wrote an article about this back in the day. He's dead on...

I think every guy should know how to play to save his life. But to get good is a time waster if you don't go the whole way...

PS: The House Always Wins...

Yea, another buddy of mine who plays regularly mentioned getting the app as well to learn. I want to learn how to play for the networking opportunities. Lots of Big Whigs play poker where I'm at and I wanna get inside those rooms!

Post: #5783

(06-20-2017 02:31 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  

(06-20-2017 02:19 PM)crdr Wrote:  I don't know why you want to learn poker. But try setting up $20 tournament with some friends. Go on the net to learn hands, set up a PLAY MONEY account on pokerstars.com or a site of your choice... Go on YouTube

There are plenty of books. The game has gotten very tough because everyone knows how to play. The strategy is super advanced now.

Being a Poker Player is the worst to get chicks. Roosh wrote an article about this back in the day. He's dead on...

I think every guy should know how to play to save his life. But to get good is a time waster if you don't go the whole way...

PS: The House Always Wins...

Yea, another buddy of mine who plays regularly mentioned getting the app as well to learn. I want to learn how to play for the networking opportunities. Lots of Big Whigs play poker where I'm at and I wanna get inside those rooms!

Uh Oh...

Post: #5784

Get out there an Holla!

Post: #5785

(06-20-2017 02:11 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  FYI, In relation to what we were discussing (raw numbers) in the Dating in today's age topic.

BGS IMOR.

I love that brother.

Post: #5786

^Looks, height and penis size for physical "alpha".

Income, education, single/no kids for "beta".

A lady friend of mine told me girls like a 666 - 6 figures, 6 feet tall and 6 inches in the trouser. The girl is single I might add.

Good video btw....

Post: #5787

This Friday I have a date with a Nigerian family doctor trainee. My West Indian doctor pal hocked me up. He sent her my photo and I saw her's. We agreed to investigate further.

It's gonna be in central London so logistics won't be good for a first date smash but we shall see. I've been listening to a lot of Alan Rodger Curie and I think his mode one philosophy is effective.

First date with a black girl in a while.

I'll keep you guys posted.

Post: #5788

We need to revisit mode one.
My idea of what that looks like in the field is nuanced.

WIA

Post: #5789

(Yesterday 12:48 PM)thedarkknight Wrote:  This Friday I have a date with a Nigerian family doctor trainee. My West Indian doctor pal hocked me up. He sent her my photo and I saw her's. We agreed to investigate further.

It's gonna be in central London so logistics won't be good for a first date smash but we shall see. I've been listening to a lot of Alan Rodger Curie and I think his mode one philosophy is effective.

First date with a black girl in a while.

I'll keep you guys posted.

Nigerian? First/second generation or from the homeland?

Each are different animals. Fuck I'd love to date a Nigerian chick as a girlfriend. Can't wait til my money is up in a few years and I spend some time in Lagos on some Playboy/Entourage shit. Swear to God I'm gonna impregnate half of Lekki Island.

Post: #5790

Just resurrected my meetup dot com account and had a few messages in there from random chics. I think this will be gold. It's full of women new to an area and looking to meet new folks. I have a meetup tomorrow at a venue literally across the street from my building.

Post: #5791

(06-20-2017 03:27 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  Get out there an Holla!

I have always preached this. Doubly so for black men. I haven't used any online dating since 2015. NEVER HAD BETTER GAME OR MORE CONFIDENCE. Fuck online dating.

Also i've seen that BGS ibmor video you posted before I fuck with the black manosphere hard. It's a tragic comedy that the man that MOST women want is a small percentage of all men on the entire planet.

Also in my experience with westernized black women, they judge way harder for alpha/bad boy traits than other races. They're WAY harsher when it comes to height, attractriveness, dick size, and physical appearance overall than their white/asian/Latina counterparts. Especially when it comes to casual hook ups.

Post: #5792

(Yesterday 01:17 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  We need to revisit mode one.
My idea of what that looks like in the field is nuanced.

WIA

I don't see how Mode One can ever work in a non-nightlife setting. I listened to podcasts from the Mode One creator, but I sensed BS when he said he was banging a girl 15 minutes after meeting her in the grocery store.

Post: #5793

(Yesterday 01:39 PM)Darkwing Buck Wrote:  I have always preached this. Doubly so for black men. I haven't used any online dating since 2015. NEVER HAD BETTER GAME OR MORE CONFIDENCE. Fuck online dating.

Also i've seen that BGS ibmor video you posted before I fuck with the black manosphere hard. It's a tragic comedy that the man that MOST women want is a small percentage of all men on the entire planet.

Also in my experience with westernized black women, they judge way harder for alpha/bad boy traits than other races. They're WAY harsher when it comes to height, attractriveness, dick size, and physical appearance overall than their white/asian/Latina counterparts. Especially when it comes to casual hook ups.

Yeah man, I've been in an LTR for the past few years and hadn't been back in the game for awhile. I naively thought online dating was like it was when I left around 2011. I learned quickly how further this was from the truth. Like I said before, that shit can play with your self-esteem if you let it.
Oshay made a good point that bishes who fux with online dating sites are usually hoes who date and phuck alot. Someone else pointed out that, the women on dating sites are still a relatively small number of the population, so there are still decent bishes out here, just not there.
Black women, especially those who use dating sites, are delusional and are the main ones checking for that hyper masculinity bullshit.

Post: #5794

(Yesterday 01:53 PM)Iso Wrote:  

(Yesterday 01:17 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  We need to revisit mode one.
My idea of what that looks like in the field is nuanced.

WIA

I don't see how Mode One can ever work in a non-nightlife setting. I listened to podcasts from the Mode One creator, but I sensed BS when he said he was banging a girl 15 minutes after meeting her in the grocery store.

I don't trust mode one either. It's prescribing a hammer for every situation when sometimes you might need a wrench.

I sense Alan Roger Currie is FULL OF FUCKING SHIT. There's no way Mode 1 works for guys without really good looks or high status. It's totally nonsensical.

Yes it helps filter out girls who aren't down from the jump, but for a guy who isn't genetically blessed, he's going to get blown out by most girls immediately so the only girls it would regularly work with is on women who are significantly lower in SMV.

Post: #5795

The thing that I like about mode one, was that the other modes were delusional, common delusions that I and many men have gone through.

So the idea of mode one is honesty. Being honest about your intentions. The problem I saw with it, was that he wants you to tell a chick straight up I'm trying to fuck. And somehow the chick is supposed to dig your radical honesty and automatically want to get in her back. Not saying that this doesn't happen, but it's not a method.

Currie communicates to the girl, but game has always been about subcommunication. Let's say that you are early in a long term relationship. The heat is still there.

You take that chick out for hot wings and some ice cream but you know that she's going to be screaming for Jesus later that night. Every move you make that night screams, I'm gonna tear it up and you're going to take it. She wants that too. But you don't spoil the mood by discussing facials as you dip a drummette into blue cheese dressing. Like the tension in Inglorious Bastards, with the Waltz and the dude hiding folks under the floor, they both know what's about to go down - but the conversation is banal.

Mode One, the crucial piece, to me is *not* being verbally honest with the chick, but emotionally honest with YOURSELF. Aligning your rational thoughts with your animal desires, but letting them come to the surface in your tone and movement - your body language to her and your subcoms should be mode one honest.

The words themselves, if a chick ain't in to you, the words turn her off, make her feel disgust, etc.

The balance that I try to reach is one where it is clear what's on my mind, but I pull her in and push her away.

There are basically three points
- getting the conversation open
- getting her engaged on an emotional level
And finally
- getting the juices flowing

I think that's the natural flow of all connections, any time of day, any setting. The last one, if she's on 3, you need to get her someplace alone so she can go to 10.

So I don't get the impression that Currie really knows the pick up literature, and the sheer number of guys that have tried radically honesty in the form of direct approaching. He reminds me very much of player supreme and Tariq Nasheed, and their promotion of pimp lite stuff to the mass. (, Not like my brand of pimp lite! Lol)

WIA

Post: #5796

WIA,
You make a good point and I think it addresses the general skepticism with Mode One. It's designed for when the pump is already primed, not to prime the pump. Once I'm kissing a bish, whether we're leaving a venue or in the parking garage, and I whisper "I want to phuck you," it only serves to make my desires crystal clear so there's no confusion. So when I ask her up for cake (like someone once pointed out, lol) she knows what time it is.

Post: #5797

(Yesterday 03:49 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  WIA,
You make a good point and I think it addresses the general skepticism with Mode One. It's designed for when the pump is already primed, not to prime the pump. Once I'm kissing a bish, whether we're leaving a venue or in the parking garage, and I whisper "I want to phuck you," it only serves to make my desires crystal clear so there's no confusion. So when I ask her up for cake (like someone once pointed out, lol) she knows what time it is.

Agreed. Which is why in my post I pointed out Mode One is effective for quickly filtering out bitches that aren't looking to get fucked.

Goodlooking Loser built up his pick up style and website/approach game around a similar concept and I think he articulates it better and more honestly. He basically says get muscles, get status, look cool and approach women directly and honestly and if you approach enough you will get laid. He admits you will get rejected a lot, but you will get laid.

I don't like Currie's style because he makes it seem as if Mode One in and of itself will actually improve game or catch more bitches. It does the opposite. It filters out non-DTF bitches and increases rejection but the bitches who don't reject you, are going to be hot and ready. When I see Currie promoting Mode One however, it comes off to me as if he's trying to push the idea that doing this will put you on some smooth pimp player shit.

Goodlooking Loser however says that a lot of times pulling bitches is awkward because it takes two be smooth. The girl has to be comfortable and you have to be comfortable.

I'd rather have an awkward (for her) interaction that leads to sex than a "smooth" interaction that doesn't.

So even though Mode One and Goodlooking Loser promote similar styles of direct game, I prefer GLL because he explains it better and has a more honest presentation. He's VERY up front about the importance of looks and style and about rejection rates and how it won't always appear smooth. Shit half his website is about increasing how good you can look he even says don't bother approaching if you're fat just get in shape and get cool style then worry about pulling bitches. Way more honest and effective than Alan despite their philosophies ultimately boiling down to the same shit.

Post: #5798

On the red meat tip, both them Jersey shore chicks are suburban mommies. There is no downside to being a party girl, but plenty of downside to being a career girl.

*Ponders*

WIA

Post: #5799

I posted this in the text thread, but I want to get eyes from any brothas who may have experience with girls from Hungary, specifically. Would appreciate it.

I was in Hungary recently, and went out with a very, very attractive Hungarian chick. Lets call her Nina. We met on Tinder, messaged for a bit, and when I asked to meet up she says she likes to get to know a guy for a long time before meeting him. We start talking on FB messenger, and then WhatsApp, I spit some shit and get her to agree to meet two days later.

We meet up and she's even hotter in person. A nine. We chat for a couple hours at a restaurant, then go on a walk. My usual M.O. is to go for the kiss mid-date, so I do. This time while we're walking. We make out for a bit, then we walk around Budapest for a while holding hands while she shows me some of the sights. Kiss some more, etc., then I walk her to the bus stop and she goes home. Total date time maybe 3 hours.

When we first made out, she mentioned right after that she doesnt like to kiss on the first date, and if this is how I usually do it with american girls. Didnt stop her from continuing to kiss and put her arms around me throughout the night.

We msg again that night, and she says she had a great time and she'd love to go out again. Everythings gucci. We talk the next day too. Still gucci.

Today, I get a random msg on whatsapp. This is what it says:



The first part was congruent with what I know about her. From our conversation before we met, she had all her prior boyfriends had started as friends and she moves slow into relationships. But the last part of the text, the friendzone part, was a bitch. So I asked if she meant she wanted to go slow, or is she meant she didnt feel anything more than friends. She said





I know this is bullshit, and I know the reason for the text in spite of me being "handsome funny clever" is because those things don't necessarily tickle a vagina. I tried to get her to say it, but obviously no dice.

My initial thought is that I was simply too nice on the date - hence the use of "nice and likeable" in the first text, which in most circumstances is a death note.

What's getting to me isn't that she said it, but that being nice/funny was my strategy for her, and I could have easily adjusted it had I known this would happen. I had just come to Hungary from Scandinavia, where nice/funny game got me laid 3 times in 4 dates. Maybe I didn't adjust to the region.

She says she doesnt know why she didnt feel anything but she already said it in her text. And to me, confirmed it in one of her next texts, after I told her she wouldn't think of me as a friend for long if we kept seeing each other. It said

"Okay but please dont talk about it. I don't wanna hurt u "

Fuck. Me. Now that is a friendzone.

Do any of you guys have experience with hot Hungarian girls like this? Her last boyfriend she said she stuck around with for a year after deciding he was unmotivated and no good. My theory is because he was not a nice guy, which she liked, and he fucked the shit outta her, which she liked.

I could now just begin asshole game, but it would be incongruent with what she knows from me, and that last text about not wanting to hurt me (fuck) signals her mind is now deep into the friendzone. Everything seemed amazing on the date. As good as it could have gone without smashing. And afterwards, still acting on my jock.

Then the bomb today.

Would appreciate any thoughts or insights to Hungarian girls (or EE girls in general) and if anything like this has happened to one of you before.

Post: #5800

^I have dated a few Hungarian girls and actually talking to one now.

Plain and simple, pushing for the kiss and holding hands on a first date was too much.

She let you know in a very sweet way, that you were too aggressive. Of course she knows you will expect sex on the next date.

These girls aren't Western girls, so asshole game and all that nonsense doesn't work on them. Trust me on this, I learnt the hard way.

Your a foreigner, so it doesn't matter what her ex Hungarian boyfriends did or didn't do.