Post: #4901

So I live in the midwest and St. Patrick's day is next weekend.



Current plan is to:

- Learn basic Irish river stomping from YouTube
- Drop some Reginald D Hunter jokes to screen for girls that are with it
- Troll people until they invite me to a house party
- Smash at said house party
- Bounce

Ideas on what I should wear? I want to communicate that I'm aware of their culture, and I'm also separate from it.

Going for a casual look

Thinking of rocking some Naija colors cause Nigeria and Ireland share green and white on their flag. Maybe a hat or some socks?

@kirkdiesel: I don't have any suggestions, that's not my element. You'll get some strange tho, someone's gotta have experience with that. maybe look into Christian mcQueen's posts. also thegmanifesto, they're on some upper echelon stuff.

Post: #4902

Family, I had a debate with a potna of mine who said his harem has doubled by him becoming "more patient" with chicks.
He further explained, whereas he was quick to next chicks for not returning texts or phone calls promptly, now he's a bit more lenient because he understands bishes have other shit going on just like guys.

Personally, I struggle with feigning interest and staying engaged with chics who do not show the same level of interest or more in me and eventually stop hitting them up.

I know chics get far more attention than most of us, but I guess I'm just not comfortable with being an orbiter just waiting for an opening. Then again, the alternative is a fist full of pride and an empty bed.

How are you guys balancing this enigma if at all?

Post: #4903

If they don't show the same interest that I show then I back off. The girl ALWAYS has to be the one showing more interest or else you'll become an orbiter.

Its a delicate balance I always try to keep.

Post: #4904

(03-10-2017 03:57 PM)kirdiesel Wrote:  If they don't show the same interest that I show then I back off. The girl ALWAYS has to be the one showing more interest or else you'll become an orbiter.

Its a delicate balance I always try to keep.

I'm thinking the same thing but when I hit a dry spell I wonder if it matters that much. I guess my buddy is saying he just fakes interest when they do eventually resurface.
Lately, I've pulled back with the unreciprocated contact, however, when they do resurface, I reward them with quality attention I know they're craving so she leaves the convo/interaction wanting more. I'm still trying to develop a solid method, but you're right, no more chasing hoes.

Post: #4905

If you want to keep the chick on her toes, you gotta be conscious of how much attention you give her.

That's exhausting, unless you're just built that way. Much easier to be honest with the chick, but not care if she comes or goes.

In my experience, both options are hard, but the not giving a fuck option/willingness to let the broad fly off into the ether - means the difficulty is a sprint not a marathon.

WIA

Post: #4906

Those are good points...There's also difference between being an orbiter and being patient
and investing time into a relationship or opportunity.

An orbiter for example comments on every single post she makes,
validates her whenever she needs it...and offers that eternal shoulder
to cry on...

That's the opposite of what you want. Instead of constantly orbiting,
you really just have great conversations with her that are fun and enjoyable.
The rest of the time, you are getting on with your life and paying her no attention.

And the moment you both have time to get together just feels more natural
and not coming from thirst or urgency...

Obviously you don't do this all the time...it depends on a lot of things...Some girls
are just too busy to meet right away while others will expect you to be snappy about
calling them and setting up a date.

Post: #4907

Girls don't get shoulders to cry on unless they give me pussy to go balls deep in. No free rides. Ass or cash.

Post: #4908

(03-11-2017 11:27 AM)Fortis Wrote:  Girls don't get shoulders to cry on unless they give me pussy to go balls deep in. No free rides. Ass or cash.

I also subscribe to this. Its why I dont have many female friends.

Post: #4909

I once wore a pocket square a year ago and guy pointed it out and just handed me one of his beers in his hand. Pocket squares always get noticed when you go out. Get one that matches up with your shirt.

Post: #4910

I'm doing errands in the city and ended up warming up in a hotel lobby. Hotel bars might be worth trying in the future.

Post: #4911

CMQ has this appart of his night game routine before heading out. That and the bars of those expensive ass places that make those small ass portioned meals.

Quality of women is probably much better, and the hotels could/should mean finding women with a more nsa mentality know what I mean

Post: #4912

I'm in the cinema about to watch moonlight. I am apprehensive about a film showcasing black faggotry but it's a virtually all black cast so i will watch it.

Post: #4913

(03-11-2017 04:48 PM)thedarkknight Wrote:  I'm in the cinema about to watch moonlight. I am apprehensive about a film showcasing black faggotry but it's a virtually all black cast so i will watch it.

Leave now.
If that's how you're coming at the movie, guarantee you won't like it, much less get it.

WIA

Post: #4914

Ok.

What is there to get?

I'm curious. You can PM me to save spoilers for those who haven't seen it.

And yes, I didn't like it.

Post: #4915

Im experimenting heavy with sweet talking for the last month-ish and the results have been a mixed bag so far. TBH at this point in its development I think its causing girls to put me in the LTR material/alpha provider type box. when I started it was at a point where girls would volunteer their numbers but would not kiss me. At this point I've progressed it to where we will makeup, ass grab, etc and are leaving together.

Ive used it on about 20ish girls with about the last 3 really taking the interaction towards leaving together. (one of the girls I had fucked before but she seemed to like the change. The other two went cold but at the point told me they wanted to see me again. One in san antonio that I drunk txt bombed her phone so that lead is dead, the other is from last night but I haven't texted her today yet. Last night she said she definitely wants to see me again)

Beyond the sweet talking I'd say the game and frame is solid but at some point during the reaction she goes from "I want to fuck this guy now" to "I can't fuck him because I want him to think I'm a good girl" (i think..) I think this is the final frontier....until its not lol...I'll keep doing it for the hood though.

Things Ive noticed:

• Game needs to be ran typically upfront. Around the time touch and the undertone of the interaction gets sexual/intimate is a good time to bring out the complements. I'll usually make an awkward complement-- "you have nice teeth", or "I like your teeth", "you're eyes are intense" or a quick shpeil about eye dilation in attraction
• there is a point where the girl says "you don't even know me." or a "I want to get to know you better" that seems to be the point of no return as far as getting a SNL. I think this may her moving me to LTR material/alpha provider type box but on both occasions I went to their place where they have the option to "kick me out" so it may be this variable as well. for now thats my immediate fix.
• After the sexual nature has been established eye contact must be that of a stone cold assassin. Creates the frame that you are telling her these things that are genuinely your thoughts but must always be backed up with something sexual. An ass grab, stroking her back, feeling her leg, wrapping her hands around your shoulders.
• They don't stop smiling ever
• She needs to feel submissive to you through outright verbal confirmation, physical genetic dominance (height, muscles, etc), one I used last night was the "hand hold test". Grab her hand both of you facing the same way and have it so her hand it on top. Ask her which is more comfortable that one--then switch to your hand on top and yours on the bottom. She should say the one with her hand on the bottom. I can't remember what I said last night but it was something along the lines of me being the leader or some shit.
  

I wanted to share this because I've been trying to throw in here and there things that we are told not to do as beginners in the game--complements. Another one is beta/supplicating behavior almost as a parody of the people that are actually simping like that--sitting on laps, fake poor frame in texting, fake poor frame in speech and body language, fake asking for permission, etc. Shit obviously requires solid frame control and confidence


Thoughts?

Post: #4916

If getting the bang is the objective, and these tactics have gotten you kino & the chick puts up resistance, it doesn't seem to be worth it.

Post: #4917

Getting laid isn't an issue.
finding a way to have more fun with girls while still getting laid is the objective.

Post: #4918

Watched the black horror film 'Get out' starring the London black guy of Ugandan descent. It was a good film for me and I think it's a deterrent for interacial dating lol!

Post: #4919

(03-12-2017 02:40 AM)Moma Wrote:  Watched the black horror film 'Get out' starring the London black guy of Ugandan descent. It was a good film for me and I think it's a deterrent for interacial dating lol!

Just saw it tonight.
Damn Allison Williams is hot. I always thought she was cute, but praise Allah....

The writing was superb.

WIA

Post: #4920

Ya, "Get Out" was a great movie! It reminded me in little ways of my interracial dating experiences. For instance, I vividly remember trying to express adverse interactions w/ YT folks and her rationalizing and brushing that shit off. I will never go there again. (Will still bang, but no LTR's)

On another note, I finally picked up some new jeans yesterday. I got a pair of Armani Exchange strait fit which look damn near like skinny jeans, but fit surprisingly well. Also, a pair of dark denim Hart Schaffner Marx. I have no clue if these brands are relevant but I picked them up on clearance for $25 ea. marked down from over $150 at a high end department store.
Now is the time to pick up some good bargains since the season is changing.

Post: #4921

(03-12-2017 11:21 AM)DimeBait Wrote:  Ya, "Get Out" was a great movie! It reminded me in little ways of my interracial dating experiences. For instance, I vividly remember trying to express adverse interactions w/ YT folks and her rationalizing and brushing that shit off. I will never go there again. (Will still bang, but no LTR's)

On another note, I finally picked up some new jeans yesterday. I got a pair of Armani Exchange strait fit which look damn near like skinny jeans, but fit surprisingly well. Also, a pair of dark denim Hart Schaffner Marx. I have no clue if these brands are relevant but I picked them up on clearance for $25 ea. marked down from over $150 at a high end department store.
Now is the time to pick up some good bargains since the season is changing.

What's YT?

Thanks for the Jeans suggestions. I'm looking for new jeans for the summer. I think Jeans are the most important item you can buy since you can wear the same pair of jeans 2x week for like 3 years straight.

Post: #4922

^Iso, spell YT out lol.
^^Dimebait, now that's a good bargain my man.

Post: #4923

I went to one of my white lizard's parents house. It was a four hour drive away similar to the film. It was cool but the dad asked me where in 9ja I am from. I could tell he didn't have a clue about the layout of the country but he was just trying to protect his daughter. I could have told him Zamunda and he would have nodded an 'ok'. But to be honest, I have been very good at steering away from those convos and it has never gone there.

Regarding when the aunt squeezed the protagonist's arm like he was livestock, I had that with one of my white lizard's female friends. About four of them visited her house once after I had finished stroking her and they were all married. I was wearing shorts and a vest. One of them inched close to squeeze my arm and said "Ooh, that's what it's like".
I should have brandished the pipe but I still have this thing where I respect the institution of marriage...

Post: #4924

"It's cool to be black now"
"I would have voted for Obama for a third term"
"...genetic makeup"
"They got me out here..."
The Japanese dude, lol

And his boy had me rolling.

WIA

Post: #4925

Get Out - did Peele read the first 35-40 pages of this thread?