Like I said in the Travel subforum, do not go to Latvia. Black guys are not welcome there.

Read that post. Sounds Brutal. Can you expand on what happened there?

I don't know about those bodybuilding brothers, but I have always dated white women because they are the first type of women I dated and stuck with for years when sisters shitted on me growing up. Its more of just what I'm used to rather than seeking out a trophy.

When I was in NYC in June I did try to swipe on some sisters to see if I could get a date but my Tinder game isnt SUPER strong in general (only have 2 Tinder bangs) so that flopped.

The African girls out here in Germany just don't do it for me. AA girls blow them out of the water looks wise.

(08-28-2018 03:36 AM)mikado Wrote:  Like I said in the Travel subforum, do not go to Latvia. Black guys are not welcome there.

I read your post, honestly it sounds a bit exaggerated.

Quote:Had several occurences of racism towards me.

- Guys insulting me in russian because I accidentally stepped on a broken bottle on the street.

Can you elaborate on that? When I was in Saint Petersburg for example, I was once chased through the streets by a homeless krokodil addict throwing bottles at me, for absolutely no reason. If you were in that situation, you probably would have called that racism. But as it is, he was just a mentally deranged asshole.

Quote:- Guys coming at me to try to start a fight because I dropped a cigarette on the floor in the street.

Throwing your cigarette buds or half smoked cigarettes on the street is just disgusting. Maybe that shit flies in Paris or something, but I don't see how people calling you out for this is racism. Maybe they just don't like people, especially foreigners, polluting their public spaces.

Quote:- People being rude for no season, or at best indifferent like a couple of people whose grocery bags they dropped accidently in the supermarket. I pick it and give them back with a smile, not even a look towards me, or even a Thanks. Happened thrice.

It's Eastern Europe. People are cold and unfriendly, and just overall stand-offish. You come from a different culture, you can't expect people to act in a way you're used to and comfortable with everywhere you go.

Quote:-Russian guys looking at me silly, with angry gestures in a bar where I had a date with a russian girl.

Local guys being jealous and mate-guarding, happens everywhere in the world. Literally in every single country, White, Black, Brown, Asian, you name it. The only thing that changes is how they do it, depending on the culture. Some are super aggressive and in your face, some are passive-aggressive, but absolutely nobody likes it. I do acknowledge that you're at a disadvantage though because it's so easy to identify you as a foreigner. But the behavior is pretty universal.

Quote:-Being face controlled in the club, with a bouncer asking for my ID and pretending that a friend of me at the entrance asked for me.

It's the FSU. Everybody gets face controlled. That's just how it is there, and very often it absolutely makes no sense, there's no pattern, no obvious criteria, you just don't get in. What can you do. Maybe arrive to the venue with two or three fly girls, but even that doesn't work sometimes. Face control is a riddle, wrapped in a mystery, inside an enigma.


Now, you were there and I wasn't.
Every instance you described could very well have been racism. But based on what you wrote, it's equally possible that it wasn't.

I remember when I was in Russia, I was often astonished on a daily basis by how rude, unfriendly and impolite these people can be for absolutely no reason whatsoever.
And I'm not black.

Real racism exists in Eastern Europe, but I don't see it in your examples. There's a huge difference between what you described, and mulatto's fucked up story for example.

interrcial is in! get with the times! lol

but yeah, bad chicks, no matter the race, need more than just muscles. theses bodybuilding type dudes probably have weak game

(08-28-2018 03:36 AM)mikado Wrote:  Like I said in the Travel subforum, do not go to Latvia. Black guys are not welcome there.

Each to their own.

I got nothing but love when I was there a few years back. Tinder bang on the first night. 2nd night I had a another tinder date lined up but flaked on her because I met another girl I eventually went on to have a long distance relationship with.

I can only speak for Riga; it's not the prettiest of cities and it's been infested by UK stag parties but fear of racism isn't a valid reason to avoid in my opinion.

Any brothers in here planning on having kids?

I help take care of my relatives. I just can’t help but wonder who will take care of me when I can’t bathe myself, feed myself, etc.

Do you guys get stopped frequently in the airports by TSA when travelling internationally? When I'm at the airport in another country I always have to do the random explosives test right after I go through the scanner and my bags are scanned. I also get pulled out of the passport line where you enter in your info on the machine and I'm brought to the slow traditional line where I have to sit and watch security check to see if my name is listed on their list of names. It's frustrating especially when you're rushing to catch a flight.

I can’t necessarily speak to international travel but I traveled a LOT domestically here in the states where we eat, shit & sleep unconscious bias. I noticed how white businessmen were treated compared to myself and picked up on certain commonalities. Now, whenever I travel, I wear what I call my “white man’s uniform,” tan slacks, loafers, blue oxford shirt and blazer. No exceptions. I almost NEVER get questioned extensively, or any sort of pushback whenever I request something whether it’s to change my seat or inquiring about upgrades.
As I said before, much (not all) of the way we’re treated has to do with managing perceptions. I call it deception by perception. They’re trained to read body language and if your giving off that “I hope I don’t get fuxed with” vibe they will inevitably fux with you. I once read a powerful quote that said something like “carry yourself with the confidence and entitlement of a mediocre YT man” that really resonated with me.

(08-28-2018 01:52 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  I can’t necessarily speak to international travel but I traveled a LOT domestically here in the states where we eat, shit & sleep unconscious bias. I noticed how white businessmen were treated compared to myself and picked up on certain commonalities. Now, whenever I travel, I wear what I call my “white man’s uniform,” tan slacks, loafers, blue oxford shirt and blazer. No exceptions. I almost NEVER get questioned extensively, or any sort of pushback whenever I request something whether it’s to change my seat or inquiring about upgrades.
As I said before, much (not all) of the way we’re treated has to do with managing perceptions. I call it deception by perception. They’re trained to read body language and if your giving off that “I hope I don’t get fuxed with” vibe they will inevitably fux with you. I once read a powerful quote that said something like “carry yourself with the confidence and entitlement of a mediocre YT man” that really resonated with me.

Yeah. If you are looking good, in good shape & sharp (whether dressed GQ or even slightly edgy like with a muscle T-Shirt with designer jeans), then you might end up getting the treatment of the gentleman at the 2:32 mark of this video clip from the 2004 cult classic Soul Plane.

Gotcha. I'm in good shape but I'm not about to dress up for a flight so I guess I'll just live with the hassle. Sweats and a t-shirt work best for those cramped seats cause I don't have money to be in first class lol nor would I spend the extra money to be in there if I did.

BasketBounce,

Have some kids then.

I never understood the hangup.

I’ve always liked kids though and seeing the culture on the continent, they don’t limit the same way people in the States think they do.

You get a nanny and some help and off you go.

I think guys over think these things a lot and try to find the One but realistically if she’s solid and has Good Mother traits then what is the issue.

If it doesn’t work out long term then no big deal, the kids will be alright and y’all will always have some sexual tension cause there’s a hard reminder of y’all smashing running around.

(08-28-2018 05:13 AM)Belgrano Wrote:  

(08-28-2018 03:36 AM)mikado Wrote:  Like I said in the Travel subforum, do not go to Latvia. Black guys are not welcome there.

I read your post, honestly it sounds a bit exaggerated.

Quote:Had several occurences of racism towards me.

- Guys insulting me in russian because I accidentally stepped on a broken bottle on the street.

Can you elaborate on that? When I was in Saint Petersburg for example, I was once chased through the streets by a homeless krokodil addict throwing bottles at me, for absolutely no reason. If you were in that situation, you probably would have called that racism. But as it is, he was just a mentally deranged asshole.

Quote:- Guys coming at me to try to start a fight because I dropped a cigarette on the floor in the street.

Throwing your cigarette buds or half smoked cigarettes on the street is just disgusting. Maybe that shit flies in Paris or something, but I don't see how people calling you out for this is racism. Maybe they just don't like people, especially foreigners, polluting their public spaces.

Quote:- People being rude for no season, or at best indifferent like a couple of people whose grocery bags they dropped accidently in the supermarket. I pick it and give them back with a smile, not even a look towards me, or even a Thanks. Happened thrice.

It's Eastern Europe. People are cold and unfriendly, and just overall stand-offish. You come from a different culture, you can't expect people to act in a way you're used to and comfortable with everywhere you go.

Quote:-Russian guys looking at me silly, with angry gestures in a bar where I had a date with a russian girl.

Local guys being jealous and mate-guarding, happens everywhere in the world. Literally in every single country, White, Black, Brown, Asian, you name it. The only thing that changes is how they do it, depending on the culture. Some are super aggressive and in your face, some are passive-aggressive, but absolutely nobody likes it. I do acknowledge that you're at a disadvantage though because it's so easy to identify you as a foreigner. But the behavior is pretty universal.

Quote:-Being face controlled in the club, with a bouncer asking for my ID and pretending that a friend of me at the entrance asked for me.

It's the FSU. Everybody gets face controlled. That's just how it is there, and very often it absolutely makes no sense, there's no pattern, no obvious criteria, you just don't get in. What can you do. Maybe arrive to the venue with two or three fly girls, but even that doesn't work sometimes. Face control is a riddle, wrapped in a mystery, inside an enigma.


Now, you were there and I wasn't.
Every instance you described could very well have been racism. But based on what you wrote, it's equally possible that it wasn't.

I remember when I was in Russia, I was often astonished on a daily basis by how rude, unfriendly and impolite these people can be for absolutely no reason whatsoever.
And I'm not black.

Real racism exists in Eastern Europe, but I don't see it in your examples. There's a huge difference between what you described, and mulatto's fucked up story for example.

Obviously I was not beaten up, so it is not like Mulatto's story. However I think, excuse me, if you are not black (especially really really dark) then it might be hard to relate.

Why do you think that guys (who looked like local workers) 20m away from me would come to me, and insult me in Russian in a street with several half broken bottles on the floor, and not even acknowledge my friend (of Eastern Europe origin)? I don't see what that has to do with "mentally deranged" people.

About the cigarette thing: yes it's not a perfect thing to do. However why was I the ONLY person harassed about it? I noticed several people doing it (actually I did not even throw the cigarette, I just put it out with my feet and looked for a bin to throw it, but in no time I got harassed). It's not like I was polluting anything. Again, kinda weak explanation.

Okay, there are cultural differences. And there were indeed some cool places where nothing bad happened. However there is a difference between not liking foreigners (it's OK), and exchanging knowing glances and discussing angrily about why this foreigner is here with a russian girl (she translated it to me).

And finally about the face control: I was there with belgian guys, inside of the club for like 1h already (clearly foreigners): I was not even approaching at the time, just smoking and chilling in the smoking area. Bouncer looks at me, comes, asks ME ONLY to show my ID, and bullshits about someone wanting to see me. The Belgians did not get even acknowledged. During the ENTIRE night (till 7 AM) I saw no other occurences of that. So much for your "everyone gets face controlled".

This is not a thing about general racism from Eastern Europe, I was perfectly treated in Tallinn and Vilnius. Even hung out in a skinhead bar without problem, and women responded very very positively.

Excuse me but your post seems kinda patronizing. Anyway you can do whatever you want with it. Just wanted to give my experience as a black guy (not American). I don't know how it works for non-blacks. (PS: fuck british stag parties)

I understand what you're saying, Mikado. I'm not sure if Belgrano is American but us Americans have been conditioned to accept things the way that they are. Most of us in the states are doing our best to put on what one poster said earlier "white man uniform" just to get rejected at the door.

I just recently got kicked out of a club this past weekend with my friend. He said he was going to the bar so I handed him a $5 bill to get me a beer...next thing I know I'm being escorted out per the owners request. He thought I was dealing drugs lol. I didn't cause a scene and just left a bad review online for the place so hopefully if any other brothers or sisters see it they decide to skip out on handing that type of place their money. I appreciate your warning and will it take into account if I ever think about going to Latvia.

Yet another example of the western caste system.

TDK.

(08-28-2018 11:34 AM)BasketBounce Wrote:  Any brothers in here planning on having kids?

I help take care of my relatives. I just can’t help but wonder who will take care of me when I can’t bathe myself, feed myself, etc.

No. At least not in Western countries. I have no intention on raising children where they're minorities. Maybe I'm too much of a Garveyite for my own good.

(08-29-2018 02:23 PM)TheKongoEmpire Wrote:  

(08-28-2018 11:34 AM)BasketBounce Wrote:  Any brothers in here planning on having kids?

I help take care of my relatives. I just can’t help but wonder who will take care of me when I can’t bathe myself, feed myself, etc.

No. At least not in Western countries. I have no intention on raising children where they're minorities. Maybe I'm too much of a Garveyite for my own good.

No I’m the same. Raising your children in a toxic society, which trains them to be entertainers, prisoners and/or self haters.

No thanks

TDK

Any other brothers out here isolationists?

I recently started renting a one bedroom flat so I have a space where I can just be me. At work I have to conform and hide my nuts, but at least at home I have a sanctuary.

I have a date with a Congolese physiotherapist tomorrow. It will take place at a Pizza Hut five minutes from my flat. I miss athletically built sisters, so here is hoping I get to smash. That being said, if she has potential, I'd happily date her some more. With black women, it opens up a bonus level in a video game. ( relationship).

Weekend just gone, I had a date with a chick from a very conservative culture (part of Asia) . She was alright but told me about some of our Nigerian brothers selling drugs and being involved in human trafficking. She explained how her parents told her to not date us, as we are, disloyal, amoral and hedonistic. I know we don't care but it's good to know the standard point these asian cultures are coming from when interacting with our black asses.

TDK

(08-29-2018 03:01 PM)thedarkknight Wrote:  Weekend just gone, I had a date with a chick from a very conservative culture (part of Asia) . She was alright but told me about some of our Nigerian brothers selling drugs and being involved in human trafficking. She explained how her parents told her to not date us, as we are, disloyal, amoral and hedonistic. I know we don't care but it's good to know the standard point these asian cultures are coming from when interacting with our black asses.

TDK

This is a little bit hypocritical when I know there are Chinese Triads, Japanese Yakuza and other criminal element involved with all kinds of stuff in Asia, etc. In the USA there are definitely Asians that engage in the sex trafficking business via the massage parlor network. The typical entry / gateway neighborhood is Flushing, Queens, NYC. And California too to an extent. They advertise jobs to hopeless chicks in Asia, bring them to the States, confiscate their passport & then pimp them out in dingy parlors nationwide for a while until they generate enough revenue to get their passport back. LoL.

I make it a rule to check a random dude's posting history.

If you look at mine, 90% game.

WIA

(08-29-2018 02:23 PM)TheKongoEmpire Wrote:  

(08-28-2018 11:34 AM)BasketBounce Wrote:  Any brothers in here planning on having kids?

I help take care of my relatives. I just can’t help but wonder who will take care of me when I can’t bathe myself, feed myself, etc.

No. At least not in Western countries. I have no intention on raising children where they're minorities. Maybe I'm too much of a Garveyite for my own good.

LOL.

It's like choosing between the lesser of two evils.

You can find a good woman in the states/in the West - but then as a black man, you gotta contend with the West.

Do everything right, live in the black hood - bad schools and your life is in jeopardy from cops and criminals,

or

live in a white hood - schools that are bad for your black children, and your life is in jeopardy from neighbors and cops.

or

live out in the sticks, and send your kids to be brainwashed by Red State Text Books and folks that don't have you and yours best interest at heart.

Go any place else - now you gotta deal with being a stranger in a strangeland.

Before Venezuela went apocalyptic, it was as good as Colombia and Brazil for brothers. Imagine 10 years ago, you find yourself a nice chick, establish your life in Caracas, making decent Venezuela money, sending your kid to private school - and then now have to deal with this current thing? Game can't prepare you for that.

Tradeoffs to everything.

On the podcast I know Rudebwoy and I have talked about going back to the islands, but both of us know - Jamaicans coming home are TARGETS. You're lucky if it's strangers trying to swindle you or rob you. I got thieves in my own family, lol.

WIA

(08-29-2018 03:01 PM)thedarkknight Wrote:  Any other brothers out here isolationists?

I recently started renting a one bedroom flat so I have a space where I can just be me. At work I have to conform and hide my nuts, but at least at home I have a sanctuary.

I have a date with a Congolese physiotherapist tomorrow. It will take place at a Pizza Hut five minutes from my flat. I miss athletically built sisters, so here is hoping I get to smash. That being said, if she has potential, I'd happily date her some more. With black women, it opens up a bonus level in a video game. ( relationship).

Weekend just gone, I had a date with a chick from a very conservative culture (part of Asia) . She was alright but told me about some of our Nigerian brothers selling drugs and being involved in human trafficking. She explained how her parents told her to not date us, as we are, disloyal, amoral and hedonistic. I know we don't care but it's good to know the standard point these asian cultures are coming from when interacting with our black asses.

TDK

Where did you find the Congolese lizard? You seem to do well with snagging Asians (at least for dates), how do you pull it off?

I have a theory,

-I'm conservative and they're conservative
-White women and western black women, I have very little, if any sort of rapport
-White women scare me. I do not trust them at all and do not touch them. Haughty and superior attitude.
-These chicks were born outside of west
-The hood stereotype is actually unattractive to those women
- they all loved and adored their father

Moma, I have quite a serious and no non-sense face. I'm quiet as well. I've found white women want the minstrel, as opposed to quiet and mysterious black man. That's been my experience. They also hate it when a brother is close or wants to be close to his roots or cares about his people. But man, white women. No way, not even once. I work with so many and I just don't see the appeal. The arrogance, entitlement and condescending attitude they have towards brothers, acting like were retarded children. My bro is with this white chick. Patronising cow. When she found out I'm educated, it was like she got offended.

TDK

(08-30-2018 12:48 AM)thedarkknight Wrote:  I have a theory,

-I'm conservative and they're conservative
-White women and western black women, I have very little, if any sort of rapport
-White women scare me. I do not trust them at all and do not touch them. Haughty and superior attitude.
-These chicks were born outside of west
-The hood stereotype is actually unattractive to those women
- they all loved and adored their father

Moma, I have quite a serious and no non-sense face. I'm quiet as well. I've found white women want the minstrel, as opposed to quiet and mysterious black man. That's been my experience. They also hate it when a brother is close or wants to be close to his roots or cares about his people. But man, white women. No way, not even once. I work with so many and I just don't see the appeal. The arrogance, entitlement and condescending attitude they have towards brothers, acting like were retarded children. My bro is with this white chick. Patronising cow. When she found out I'm educated, it was like she got offended.

TDK

Ain't that the truth, son.

It's funny, almost whenever I see a black guy/white gal couple, the guy seems to be of the entertaining type, sometimes the stereotypical freshly incoming migrant with a strong ass accent, hip hop or rap lover/dresser, or sportsman. Like, all the classical stereotype. And them chicks (just like yesterday night) will boast about being non racist, have several "renois et rebeus" (Noirs et Arabes in reverse) friends , and talk like they also feel the struggle of black people. Mostly because they listen to trap music LOL. Not a trace of the highly educated, almost accentless, not necessarily fan of hip hop, or just introvert (non weed smoker) black guy. Are they like that, or do they just do what is working for brothers?

I have to play this role to bang girls 22+. The only parade I have found yet is to hit on extremely young ones IRL and internet (18 to 21. My game is strongest in that age category). With them I can be silly, and use my cocky poetic style of game.

Chasing pussy is good, but we should not modify our personality that much to please the women. Keep following your style and own mantras brother.

Does anyone listen to the Alpha Male Strategies podcasts? I don't agree with everything he says but it's like a refresher on game topics in cold hard plain English for brothers.

I am subscribed to his Patreon. His stuff is gold.

There are some flaws in what he says but overall hes the best ive ever seen at explaining game topics. I used his strategies for the first time on a Russian plate I been spinning and the results have been amazing.