Random but felt like posting this while I was out.

Wanted to number close a cashier I felt some IOIs from but couldn't muster it up. I have 15 notches and wouldn't say pussy is a struggle...but the whole "asking for a stranger's number" angle is still so clunky and foreign to me.

How might I get past that?? For reference, AA male.

(07-15-2016 09:01 PM)MaceTyrell Wrote:  Random but felt like posting this while I was out.

Wanted to number close a cashier I felt some IOIs from but couldn't muster it up. I have 15 notches and wouldn't say pussy is a struggle...but the whole "asking for a stranger's number" angle is still so clunky and foreign to me.

How might I get past that?? For reference, AA male.

If you have been quiet all day and not an overly extrovert person to begin with, I suggest you start having small convos with random people throughout the day. After a while it will become second nature, and will fine tune your game because you'll have to adapt quickly to different people, different topics and different responses. Try that for a few weeks and see what happens. In short: experience helps you get past that. Just have to go out and do it.

-CD

Found out that one of the homies is getting the divorced and chick wants half his stuff.

He has a lot of stuff. Lots of zeroes. She will be able to retire. She wasn't with him when he was practicing his threes in the gym

Typical blue pill player.

To paraphrase Biggie,

" This rule is totally underrated, keep your woman/women and money completely separated."

It hurts my heart because I've had player interventions with him. My whole squad and his family have stepped up to him on this.

WIA

(07-14-2016 05:28 PM)WalkingMan Wrote:  

(07-14-2016 05:25 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  @WM

So no instadate?

When you call/text do you expect her to be in the same good mood as when you pulled her?

WIA

"Matter fact, gimme my phone back. Hop on."

*I put her on my back piggyback style and we run straight to my apartment.*

On a more serious note, there seem to be 3 schools of thought on this:

1. Instadate, pull her to your place. Assuming you are close by.

2. pull her back to your home as soon as possible, essentially making your place the instadate. Assuming you are close by.

3. Get her number and leave if you are far from your place.


I assumed I wasn't close enough to walk to my spot in your scenario, so I picked option 3.

(07-15-2016 10:01 PM)coverdoc Wrote:  

(07-15-2016 09:01 PM)MaceTyrell Wrote:  Random but felt like posting this while I was out.

Wanted to number close a cashier I felt some IOIs from but couldn't muster it up. I have 15 notches and wouldn't say pussy is a struggle...but the whole "asking for a stranger's number" angle is still so clunky and foreign to me.

How might I get past that?? For reference, AA male.

If you have been quiet all day and not an overly extrovert person to begin with, I suggest you start having small convos with random people throughout the day. After a while it will become second nature, and will fine tune your game because you'll have to adapt quickly to different people, different topics and different responses. Try that for a few weeks and see what happens. In short: experience helps you get past that. Just have to go out and do it.

-CD

This is key right here. The best solution is to talk and slip a number to 15 other cashiers before you meet her.

Oh no we were very chatty - I literally just felt uncomfortable asking for new number, that feeling is what i'm asking about on how to alleviate.

Has anybody used an app called SoulSwipe? I guess it's supposed to be Tinder for Black people, sort of how JSwipe is Tinder for Jewish people.

I instadate to build more impact on the chick. If you really hit it off, and you know the area well, you can keep extending the date til you get home.

Mind first, body later

WIA

(07-12-2016 12:01 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  You guys need to start thinking of BLM openers.

"Say baby maybe we can get together and talk about the revolution being televised."

Shout out to Kaneda of Akira fame

WIA

TETSUOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Thanks @WestindidianArchie I understand the delivery and flow Means much more than the content now.

The body language the eyes all of that is much more important

You want to have small convos with people for the fuck it play pokemon go.. It's conversation gold.

Some of you might think you're to young
I see 70 year Olds play

Too young 5 year Olds do it

No one won't judge you shit I got a girl number last night by playing the damn game.. We sat there for 30 min jus Talking. If you have problems just talking with random people then use the app. I genuinely like pokemon idc how old I am

Way ahead of you!

https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-56890...pid1349849

Cute girls walking around one of my nearest parks tonight.

I wanted to loan some game aspect to this that I tried.

The other day during my lunch break, I went to Amscot and I noticed the cashier was a lizard of Haitian extract (the badge on her blouse read her name as well as 'Je parle Francais'.
As I waited for her to process my order, I visually scanned her and thought she looked pleasant enough to poke.

After she finished processing my needs, I said to her:

"Donne moi ton numero, s'il vous plait" which translates to 'Give me your number, please".
She smiled and said "What for?"
I said "Parce-que c'est destiny"

I often just swop in English words for vocabulary I don't know and put a French accent on it to substitute which draws a grin from Francophones.

She said something in quick French and asked me "Vous comprendez?"

I said "No".
She said that she is at work and nodded slightly towards the cameras that perused us from above and behind her.
I smiled and said "Pas problem. Just write it down on some receipt and pass it to me"
She smiled again and shook her head and looked towards another customer.

The point of that tale is just to remind you lot that you can spit game at any moment. It's not always about that you got the number or not, it's that you keep playing and the averages will reward you.

Blend that in WIA's advice to really think about what you are doing and you can hardly go wrong.

(07-16-2016 09:44 PM)Topshelfhemp Wrote:  Thanks @WestindidianArchie I understand the delivery and flow Means much more than the content now.

The body language the eyes all of that is much more important

I'm also forcing myself to speak slower. This gets easier the more girls I talk to during the day. I'm less in my head and more comfortable. It's hard to keep eye contact when you're walking with a chick while she's talking though. But I'd rather give it a shot than not.

The latest revolutionary..I mean cop killer was reading Sphere stuff?

http://convoswithcosmo.com

WIA

(07-18-2016 10:51 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  The latest revolutionary..I mean cop killer was reading Sphere stuff?

http://convoswithcosmo.com

WIA

I peeped that, especially when he kept referring to himself as alpha. I read an opinion from a well known commentator that ironically equated the PUA/manosphere to right-wing views.

It's very unfortunate that self improvement has political dimensions.

WIA

@walkingman

Bro I talk slow as fuck.
I was with my girl today playing pokemon go and
I caught the eyes of this Lil white chick
Her face was hurt but her body was decent.
Eye contact is real af
Body language is half the battle.

Also no lie I always got a chick talking Bulls hit.
More than talking some logical nonsense

^lol good to know. Would you be able to give an example of how slow you talk? Maybe do a vocaroo and post it here? Or a youtube video example?

@walkingman I talk slow like moma I also carry my words out a bit

I got the grass is greener syndrome... life is funny!

When I lived in NYC I had an insatiable appetite for European women... now that I've been in Europe for years I'm dying for an American woman... you can't win! haha

@Kirdiesel

What do you find are the differences?

I've only dealt with a few Euro minorities and Eastern Europeans. Regular western Europeans, I'm clueless about. (Well not clueless..)

WIA

I want to drill a Ruskie and a Hungarian to see what the howl is about. I heard many of you lot say they are stoosh on another level.

Glossary:

Stoosh = Stuck-up/Standoffish

Moma - for a veteran like you, those women won't put you off the scent.

My ex told me to lose her number and don't call her again in the beginning. Fast forward a year later, she was bringing me breakfast in bed and washing my briefs.

Women is women.

Glossary:

Briefs = underwear

(07-19-2016 04:13 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  @Kirdiesel

What do you find are the differences?

I've only dealt with a few Euro minorities and Eastern Europeans. Regular western Europeans, I'm clueless about. (Well not clueless..)

WIA

As previously mentioned.. women are women no matter where you are..

What I miss are commonalities in culture. Someone who knows where I come from and shares the same or the similar background as me.

The cultural differences between American and German women wear you down after a while...

I want someone when I wake up in the morning who will make and wants to make pancakes, eggs and sausage.. not cold cuts and hard crusty rolls

I want someone who I can watch a movie in the original format with and not have to switch over to german because they cant understand whats being said.

Crazy enough I miss speaking to a native english speaker and hear the American accent when I speak to a girl.

Someone who just gets it.

Just a little rant..... But I bet.. give me 6 months in the US I'd be probably clawing my way back here.