Post: #1

When running night game my successes have often been when I've managed to build up attraction very fast so I could kiss/make out with her within maybe 2 minutes of meeting her. The exception might be if I happen to meet a social circle girl with whom it feels more natural to speak to for a while before escalating.

After I've made out and maybe groped for a little while I don't mind to talk with her more and get to know her. It's just that it frustrates me doing the opposite order. Needless to say this hinders my night game success.

I was pleased to read about the fast escalation/kissing/making out culture in South America and I think that would suit me very well. Now the problem is that I can't just move there like that. I may need to find a way to become more patient, however that could happen?

As a side note, what European and Asian girls are closest to the SA culture of fast escalation?

Post: #2

I think its a mistake to rush escalation. Physical escalation is gradual process and should be somewhat mysterious to her. Its about getting her to that sweet spot where all thats going through her head is" when is he going to kiss me??" .

Every interaction has its climax time to finally go in for it. Go in for it before and she will get turned off, take your sweet as time and go in for it post-climax and she becomes quickly disinterested.
Of course you can make out with the club slut who has made out with 4 other guys before you in minutes, but personally these insta-make outs is where it starts and where it ends (granted I never experienced the American college scene).

Most of my notches were a result of gradual escalation that extended over a time-span that was never a matter of minutes. This escalation also translates into the bedroom, rush the seduction process in the bedroom is the difference between getting laid and your left hand.

In regards to European and Asian women I cannot comment, but I will say that in Mexico (close enough to SA), you can go out any given night and make out with a hand full of women within minutes, which Im sure some of them will eventually go home with you. Being a foreigner in these countries gives you a sort of celebrity-status. In Mexico, I had 8+ women coming up to me asking my why I hadnt come up to them yet. I was blown away.

Post: #3

^^^

I attribute most of my fast kissing situations to being able to build up attraction very fast. The conversion rate to bangs aren't bad so I doubt that they've made out with "4 other guys before you in minutes".

Of course building up that kind of attraction that fast far from always work, so you are right that you shouldn't rush escalation.

Problem is that I become like a child who's impatiently waiting for his candy. When waiting impatiently I don't enjoy the interaction much (recipe for possible failure) and more intellectually thinking when I waited enough to escalate, instead of acting when I just feel like it. Again, problem is that I feel like escalating/kissing earlier than the non SA/Mexican culture usually allows.