Post: #26

No way this is real. Guys cannot be that bad. And from a porn star ? Don't porn stars normally date other pornstars anyway?

Post: #27

(01-11-2015 01:14 PM)Lucario Wrote:  No way this is real. Guys cannot be that bad. And from a porn star ? Don't porn stars normally date other pornstars anyway?

I am suspicious also about this guy being real.

Post: #28

(01-11-2015 01:14 PM)Lucario Wrote:  No way this is real. Guys cannot be that bad. And from a porn star ? Don't porn stars normally date other pornstars anyway?

Well in her "interview" she did say she lost her virginity to a girl and seemed to be interested in a same-sex marriage. Granted she was probably just saying this given she was doing an interview for a porn publication. Still her email reads like she was dating a woman. I mean guys are bad, but not that bad. Does anyone even know any try-hard gay men that act like that?

Post: #29

1. This chick is crazy (had a meltdown on Opie & Anthony years back).

2. She admits to prefer dating chicks on twitter (see pic below).



2. She is approaching the wall fast (see pic below).

No makeup:


Overall, I think this story is made up to get sympathy or to attention whore. Either way, it seems fishy. This bitch used to be a smoking hot slut, but her best days are definitely behind her. Still would bang for the hell of it. However, the wall is approaching fast on this one.

Post: #30

(01-11-2015 12:25 PM)The Father Wrote:  I've never dated a porn star or even a stripper, but I imagine you'd have to game them the way PUAs suggest to game 10s...with a lot of bravado and negs.

But unlike a lot of guys, I could see myself dating one if the opportunity came up...imagine a stunning young hottie with real tits whom you've been spanking to for the past year...like August Ames...yeah I'd dinner date it! I'd be contemptuous of her past: "That fake stuff you do for money doesn't impress me...I'm interested in a woman who can passionately make love FOR REAL". Put her on the defensive. BTW I don't really talk that way..."make passionate love"...but for a girl who's been paid to fuck it seems like the right tone and a welcome change of perspective.

I think you'd also have to make some statement in there that shows you don't judge her, that you are dating her because you think she's had an interesting life not because you want an easy lay...I have to imagine a lot of them meet guys who think they are crazy sluts. But the reality is, I'd just be there for the action - most of these girls are on drugs, have been sexually abused, etc. Getting involved emotionally with that seems as wise as putting your dick in a blender and pushing the "pulse" button :/ But the trick is not to show them that. I guess it's like the old saying "treat a lady like a whore and a whore like a lady". But not too much of a lady - can't be beta. Hence my DQ above about not being impressed with her on - camera action.

Biggest fear at dating a PS: That when I pulled it out she'd giggle, or roll her eyes. At this point, I'd probably remind her that I could do pushups with my tongue...

Anyway. This is all rather silly. I likely won't be dating any porn stars. And neither will you. And that's a GOOD thing!

This is a long post talking about something you've never done.
Game porn starts like regular girls..as if you don't even know they are porn stars.
They get enough people knowing who they are and treating them like..porn stars.
they might have screws loose, but the best way to pull strippers, porn stars ect.. is to just game as usual and don't get excited about their sexual advances

Post: #31

Also, this brad have a snatch big enough to get a train into it! uggg...

Post: #32

Maybe Fleshlight is coming out with a new model in the shape of her cootch and this is part of the promotional campaign.

Post: #33

You might hate on the guy but he should be thankful for missing out on all the glorious treats a pornstar has to offer. Herpies, and not the nice one plus warts n all!

I laughed at the shaking hand part. I hate shaking the hand of a woman because it should only be done between men but to shake a womans hand on a date when it hasn't gone well will mess with her.

In a way it will make you laugh and she will hate you for it.

Post: #34

Funny thing is that even though it's most likely a fabricated lie like many of you pointed out, the one thing I believe in the story is that the guy is real. While he sounds made up, I think a lot of guys these days do at least 50% of the things this guy apparently did. And that is blue pill enough.

And it's a nice basic case study in game and what not to do.

As a subtext, I agree online game is not even close to approaching. It's tough to approach a girl (for me it is) as it challenges my inner game to the maximum. Online game requires no inner tenacity (game). The inner game is never challenged directly. It makes you lose your human side and also momentum. Going online is like slowly taking a blow torch to your inner game assuming you are a guy that has a choice to approach.

Post: #35

Yeah, you want man from the era of Clint Eastwood, I want the women from that era not you. One thing we have in common.

Post: #36

Taken as written, not trying to nail down every detail like an obsessed Redditor, here's my takeaway

Guy
- rich
- good job
- well dressed
- attractive

Still needed game to close the deal with a chick who took money to take it in the ass.

Wouldn't be surprised if the dating site in question was Seeking Arrangement, and he hired a service to do the back and forth. Wouldn't be surprised if she wasn't as hot as her pictures. Wouldn't be surprised if he just went on a lark.

But also not surprised by the "steak salad" incident. Or drinking a daquiri.

Not surprised that she primarily dates "inconsiderate jerks"

Whole thing is full of observations that confirm what we already know.

WIA

Post: #37

This porn-ho got the female equivalent of being SIF'd.

She thinks the guy is relatively attractive based on his online persona.
She meets up with him and he does pretty much the opposite of anything resembling game.
She bitches about it on the internet for attention (standard female procedure).

How about we turn the tables.

Attractive guy meets a cute girl online. He thinks shes cute and feminine, but once he arrives she's a landwhale chortling at buzzfeed articles 3 beers deep. She stands up to greet him and her FUPA flops down causing puss-stank to waft up from the skirt her muffin top is flowing over. She waddles over in her flip-flops, hugs him, then spends the rest of her date bitching about an ex-boyfriend and staring at her iphone.

In this situation would you guys still have your panties in a bunch saying the girl did nothing wrong?

Post: #38

This is almost certainly made up by a copywriter.

My guess is you'll be seeing some kind of offer in the next few weeks for a "revolutionary new product" or "complete system" on how to "be a REAL man" that this chick would fuck.

That any of us thought it's real is testament to the quality of work--hat tip to the writer--but it's designed entirely to get the male hamster running. All of the triggers are designed to get you to think "well I'M not like THAT guy--I'm a REAL man..." while also leaving some room for "hmm...maybe I'd do that too..." that would open a guy up to buying a product on how to get "the rest of the way" for the low low price of $27, I imagine.

Like I said, though, great work by the writer. It's either a chick who's had a similar experience in the past, or a dude who's very game-aware and good at what he does.

Vigo

Post: #39

I guarantee she's making some of this shit up.

Post: #40

Making due allowances for female hyperbole, misinformation, and distortions, I see this little story as actually very useful. It confirms everything we already know.

1. Women want masculine men. That polarity just is always there. She was turned off by the "feminine" vibes give off by her date (daquiri, not standing up for himself, etc.)

2. Don't take her out to dinner, ever, unless she's a girlfriend. This might have avoided highlighting some of this guy's problems, but the point is that sitting at a fucking dinner table with some chick you've never met before is a recipie for disaster. Every movement you make, every twitch of your eyebrows, every comment you say, will be analyzed, judged, and parsed out ad nauseam.

I went out on a Tinder date last night (well, it was 4:00 pm) and met her a Starbucks 5 minutes from my house. Spent $2.25, listened to her bullshit about being a former beauty pageant contestant for 30 minutes, kiss closed in Starbucks, but did not get her back to the house. Oh well. Such is life.

3. Even whores see themselves as "normal" women. I would have liked to hear if she told him what she did for a living. Correct way to play that is to ignore it...don't indulge her celebrity, don't acknowledge it, and leave doubt about your true feelings.

Q

Post: #41

(01-11-2015 03:11 PM)Quintus Curtius Wrote:  Making due allowances for female hyperbole, misinformation, and distortions, I see this little story as actually very useful. It confirms everything we already know.

1. Women want masculine men. That polarity just is always there. She was turned off by the "feminine" vibes give off by her date (daquiri, not standing up for himself, etc.)

2. Don't take her out to dinner, ever, unless she's a steady girlfriend. This might have avoided highlighting some of this guy's problems, but the point is that sitting at a fucking dinner table with some chick you've never met before is a recipie for disaster. Every movement you make, every twitch of your eyebrows, every comment you say, will be analyzed, judged, and parsed out ad nauseam.

I went out on a Tinder date last night and met her a Starbucks 5 minutes from my house. Spent $2.25, listened to her bullshit about being a former beauty pageant contestant for 30 minutes, kiss closed in Starbucks, but did not get her back to the house. Oh well. Such is life.

3. Even whores see themselves as "normal" women. I would have liked to hear if she told him what she did for a living. Correct way to play that is to ignore it...don't indulge her celebrity, don't acknowledge it, and leave doubt about your true feelings.

Q

What do you recommend for a night date?

Drinks at a bar?

Just curious how you play the food angle since it always comes up if the date gets long.

Post: #42

^^^

Yeah, drinks are fine at night. (Avoid appetizers!)

If things are going well, you can try to go back to your place to "watch TV" or "watch a movie"

Go for the kiss as you leave the bar to get the pressure of that out of the way.

Or you can bounce to another location. Going to another place, in girls' minds, is like going on whole new date, and helps build trust and comfort.

Post: #43

She sounds like a woman scorned. I bet this date went badly because she got her first taste of spinsterhood.

I doubt she put her xxx past in the online profile. So she goes into the date "not that kind of girl."

Post: #44

I just listened to some of that mental breakdown. For two seconds a light bulb hit her head that people don't respect prostitutes and she starts crying about it.

Post: #45

Her pornstar status does not discredit her on the premise. Face it gents, most western women are essentially tamed down versions of a porn star, prostitute, or stripper anyways... all the hot ones anyways.

Sounds like almost an embellished story. I mean really, actual videos of cats, sparking water, no meat on salad, phone demeanor like a bitch...hmm? Seems suspicious, but it would not surprise me.

The fag was probably surfing porn on his phone, checking into her videos as he sat at the dinner table, and realized he was catering to a porn slut.

Post: #46

(01-11-2015 03:11 PM)Quintus Curtius Wrote:  Making due allowances for female hyperbole, misinformation, and distortions, I see this little story as actually very useful. It confirms everything we already know.

1. Women want masculine men. That polarity just is always there. She was turned off by the "feminine" vibes give off by her date (daquiri, not standing up for himself, etc.)

2. Don't take her out to dinner, ever, unless she's a girlfriend. This might have avoided highlighting some of this guy's problems, but the point is that sitting at a fucking dinner table with some chick you've never met before is a recipie for disaster. Every movement you make, every twitch of your eyebrows, every comment you say, will be analyzed, judged, and parsed out ad nauseam.

I went out on a Tinder date last night (well, it was 4:00 pm) and met her a Starbucks 5 minutes from my house. Spent $2.25, listened to her bullshit about being a former beauty pageant contestant for 30 minutes, kiss closed in Starbucks, but did not get her back to the house. Oh well. Such is life.

3. Even whores see themselves as "normal" women. I would have liked to hear if she told him what she did for a living. Correct way to play that is to ignore it...don't indulge her celebrity, don't acknowledge it, and leave doubt about your true feelings.

Q

re. Starbucks girl, those are the types who start qualifying the shit out of themselves rattling off their accomplishments based on what they think you're looking for, typically suck in bed, and have land whale best friends who boost their ego's 24/7 wishing they could be their friend in looks.

Post: #47

HA..funny story. Although I am shocked she was complaining to the manager. Women tend to back down from even doing that when with a guy.

Not sure if she made stuff up, but it he behaves like he lacks interest tbh.

Post: #48

Don't think it's real, but still a lesson to be learned...

Aggressiveness is nearly always rewarded. If she's out on a date with you she's open to hooking up.

I find this mindset doesn't come naturally to most guys because of the pussifying influence of the culture. I see it over and over in several situations. Many times the way you play a sport or a game reflects your personality.

In BJJ, a lot of guys will play a more defensive sort of game and for the most part don't put enough pressure on their opponents.

In chess a lot of opponents just sit there and defend instead of counterattacking.

It's extremely common. I've had girls tell me they've gone on dates with guys and when they didn't try to fuck them they lost all interest.

The 'hard sell' (i.e. trying to bang her ASAP) should always be attempted first.

I had a job selling insurance when I was younger. When i started I was paired with the most aggressive guy in the office. Guy juiced and was huge. Jacked alpha male type. On appointments after our pitch he'd straight up tell the person to get their check book. At first I was taken aback, but he was one of the most successful guys in the office.

Post: #49

Shawna wake the fuck up, wipe the cum out of your eyes and ears, old mate saw what you do for a living and made a hasty retreat, he wants a hot chick not a chick hot from a yeast infection

Post: #50

Why do you subscribe to a pornstar's email list?