Post: #1

It just never ceases to amaze me how chicks I banged and had written off as uninterested because of the passage of time, boyfriends, husbands, etc., keep coming back for the occasional fuck. Its nice to have poon pay poon dividends even after you’ve stopped hitting it on the regular. Which makes me question, is there a lack of men out there to lay down the D correctly? Its always good to hit it again, its almost a novelty. Plus its cool to see if it lives up to or exceeds your memories. Any of you guys into recycling? Or is it just pump and dump and never see ya? As for me, I’ve gone green.

Post: #2

Recycling these girls is spinning plates, DTF regulars, which in my book is a necessity. Every man should have a harem (and use fucking condoms).

Some of these girls will stay or come into the rotation once in awhile, I don't mind that at all, however it does require a bit of text maintenance.

Considering most men don't have the knowledge or willpower to change like we do on the forum, I'd say yes - a lot of men aren't fucking girls right AND aren't behaving/gaming girls right.

I have a main HB 8 i've been dating for a year, I'm spinning a few plates and moving girls in and out of the rotation, I also have a reserve, in case my harem collapses.

HOWEVER, if a girl wasn't that great, sure, pump and dump, or let her make the next move.

You SHOULD be out hunting and gaming new pussy though.

Post: #3

(01-06-2015 04:40 PM)MMM Wrote:  It just never ceases to amaze me how chicks I banged and had written off as uninterested because of the passage of time, boyfriends, husbands, etc., keep coming back for the occasional fuck. Its nice to have poon pay poon dividends even after you’ve stopped hitting it on the regular. Which makes me question, is there a lack of men out there to lay down the D correctly? Its always good to hit it again, its almost a novelty. Plus its cool to see if it lives up to or exceeds your memories. Any of you guys into recycling? Or is it just pump and dump and never see ya? As for me, I’ve gone green.

I think as long as she remembers you laying it down right and being a fun guy she's always thinking of hitting you up; all it takes is a fight with the LTR or a bit of loneliness to make it happen.

Without Facebook to vet and scan recent photos, I'd say I'd probably welcome a 'DTF?' call or text from maybe 50% of the women I've ever been involved with.

I recycle when the opportunity allows...but rarely ever is it as good as the first time around (although a recent exception; last month I banged a girl who I first fucked in May before she dropped off, and after the first time I banged her I was kinda let down; sure she was cute enough [I'm always happy to bang a girl that's 5'3, <100 with hair down to near her ass] but had a crazy hairy pussy, just laid there, no blowjob, doggy couldn't get it in etc,. but this time she did all of that, let me hit raw and had a nice trimmed-up little box). I have quite a few girls on WeChat and QQ that I forget where I met them that will occasionally send me a 'test' message, but it's hard to convert on this.

When I was 23 I met a girl and we sort of 'dated' for about two months, but then we stopped but kept in touch. Even as we both moved on (she's married now), I could usually count on her to hit me up at least four or five times a year - go grab drinks somewhere, puff a joint in the park or see a movie, back home for sex, not bad. I last fucked her in 2012 just before I came to China.

Last summer (2013) when I was home I banged an ex-LTR I hadn't seen in four years...not as young, hot and tight as she was (She was a good 8 when she was 21, maybe a 7 at 25 - too much working, partying and shitty processed food) but better in bed. The same summer the same thing almost happened, with the one I really wanted, but she just happened to message me when I was in California, such is life.

Even if I get a girlfriend over here (more like when, it's highly likely at some point), you can bet your ass I'm trying to retain any regulars I have around; if you get a girlfriend here and drop your regulars, what do you think happens when honey has a 'family emergency' and her to go to her hometown for 2-4 weeks (happens a lot more often than you think)? Flipping coins hunting and jacking off.

Bottom line: You should always be out looking for new talent, but nothing wrong with a trip down memory lane from time to time.

Post: #4

K-Man, I don’t know if I’d cast these girls as plates, as there was very little to no maintenance involved. Maybe plates spinning themselves, so to speak. They just popped in for the D and popped out again. But you’re absolutely right, we do have to keep feeding the pipeline with fresh leads, since who knows when the recycled poon is going to come and go?

Post: #5

I don't ever recycle. Once a girl is out of my life, she's dead to me.

Post: #6

(01-06-2015 06:34 PM)Americas Wrote:  I don't ever recycle. Once a girl is out of my life, she's dead to me.

Are you talking about relationships ? Or are you talking pumping and dumping ?

I don't see any harm coming from girls you've banged, coming around for seconds. Why would they be dead to you if you aren't emotionally attached ?

Post: #7

Recycling girls.. It happens in my personal opinion it is all based on the guy and the women he knew. For me all the girls I have ever had sex with, except one which is because of the heartless way I had to cut her off but I digress, all have hit me up for some of the D. Being able to hook up with them again allowed me to see how beta other males can be. For example an xgf of mine had moved in with her boyfriend, but he never gave her any attention so she used to call me almost every weekend without fail and have me pick her from their house. I played it call made small talk with him pretended to be his friend, and even invited him on occasions to further lower his guard, but he allows declined because he would've rather stay home and play video games than to go out. So me and her would leave go out with some of my or her friends and at the end of the night I would end up banging her into a coma and sending her back home to him. But I guess he got suspicious because he made her stop talking to me.lol.

Another girl that I knew in college would invite me over to her apartment whenever she was horny and we would bang for hours. She thought she was playing me for a fool by making it seem like I was a side hoe.lol. but I knew the entire time that she had a bf so when she called to tell me this I laughed at her and said I know yet I dgaf. She was so thirsty for the D that she asked if she can come visit me while I lived in Texas in order to take vacation from her BF.

The reason women allow this to happen can only be blamed on the hamster. Irrational stooches

Post: #8

(01-06-2015 04:40 PM)MMM Wrote:  Which makes me question, is there a lack of men out there to lay down the D correctly?

It's not the D, it's the Game.

I remember this thoroughbred. Strawberry blonde chick, great tits, cute face, a little goofy, slept with a Labrador retriever.

Now my sex game is on point, and it was definitely more on point back in the day. Never a disatisified customer. But I couldn't get this chick to climax for nothing. D, Fingers, even the tongue. It was fucking with my ego.

Me - "Why do you fuck me if you never cum"
Her - "I just want to be close to you"

The more chicks you bang, the more you realize some of the game truisms.

You love her for the sex.
She sexes you for the love.

Women do not value sex the same way that we do.
Because sex is so easy for them. She can call over an Ogre Cock easily.

She fucks
- to climax
- to show her love
- out of duty - http://jezebel.com/how-to-have-maintenan...1677160234
- for a favor
- for money
- out of pity
- because she's bored
- because she feels ugly
- et cetera
- to get back at her boyfriend
- because she heard orgasms make pre-menstrual pain go away

She sexes for a million reasons

We fuck for sport, to bust a nut. That's it.

So keep that in mind when you're banging these chicks, but more importantly when you're talking to these chicks. Getting into her mind, makes it way easier to get into her pants.

You gotta do more than just have a few funny jokes and a nice comeback, coupled with an Uber account and moscato at the crib. Sound like a broken record, so I'ma chill

WIA

Post: #9

(01-06-2015 06:44 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(01-06-2015 06:34 PM)Americas Wrote:  I don't ever recycle. Once a girl is out of my life, she's dead to me.

Are you talking about relationships ? Or are you talking pumping and dumping ?

I don't see any harm coming from girls you've banged, coming around for seconds. Why would they be dead to you if you aren't emotionally attached ?

Pumping and dumping. For the record, I don't see any harm in it either.

I have just never been that guy that they go back to, that guy that sneak around with. I don't develop harems and I don't keep around girls that I am not actually interested in.

I am usually that guy they fucked that night out of the blue. And to be honest, I like it that way. Could be the way I run my game, could also be that I move from location to location a lot.

For me, if there is no emotional connection, then I don't really feel any need to keep them around. It requires effort and it's effort I don't care to put in. Besides, I can just find a new one just as easily instead of fucking some average girl that I don't give a shit about.

If she is a cool chick or really hot, sure, why not. If she is just some run of the mill skank, she can go get some regular dick from someone else.

Post: #10

There are new men out there that may hit it right but I think lizards like a familiar dyck. I think Chris Rock alluded to the 'dyck in a jar' syndrome. A lot of lizards like to have men in negotiations and when they hit a slump, they can send out that 'hey' sms to the most convenient/accessible guy and see what happens.

Obviously, if you've hit that before, you will be higher on the list for a repeat act, GENERALLY. It's really convenient sex.

I do tend to do repeats but I'm trying to get into the abundance theory so that I only do repeats if I have nothing going on when she sets the arrangement.

Post: #11

(01-06-2015 06:34 PM)Americas Wrote:  I don't ever recycle. Once a girl is out of my life, she's dead to me.

Bring on the fresh meat

Post: #12

I can see why it's one and done, it's a great push towards abundance.

I see the plates I have as not holding me back, I see it for having sex with a different girl a few days a week.

Of course if a new girl comes up for a date, I'll drop or flake on a plate.

Idk, I like best of both worlds, enjoying a main girl I have who compliments my life, spinning plates, and hunting fresh new pussy.

Post: #13

This is an easy one. I'm going to share this anecdote.

One day a week I walk to a local restaurant that has a common type of food they prepare that is somewhere between really fucking good and phenomenal. On this day their somewhat expensive for my budget (but not unreasonable) pricing is slashed, so my cost is close to half the normal price.

So, I go. I eat the same type of food. But it's damn fucking good and on top of that it's really close and a really good value.

Those are the three factors leading to good recycling value with women:

1. Quality
2. Location/Ease
3. Price/Time involvement (and the like)

If those are good, recycling is a good option.

Once a week is probably about the most often you want to recycle that particular woman, otherwise you may grow tired of something you're used to.

Post: #14

Would you guys explain your mindset behind plate spinning or keeping a soft harem?

I only do this when I'm so swamped with work I don't have time to game.

To me it just seems like a lot of work with the potential for drama.

Plus part of the fun is getting new girls.

I would get so bored with the same girls.

To me keeping a harem feels like being lazy and not trying for better girls.

But I've never been the type of guy to watch a movie more than once unless it's amazing.

Post: #15

(01-08-2015 02:52 PM)bigbait Wrote:  Would you guys explain your mindset behind plate spinning or keeping a soft harem?

I only do this when I'm so swamped with work I don't have time to game.

To me it just seems like a lot of work with the potential for drama.

Plus part of the fun is getting new girls.

I would get so bored with the same girls.

To me keeping a harem feels like being lazy and not trying for better girls.

But I've never been the type of guy to watch a movie more than once unless it's amazing.

For me, I keep a harem at all times, sometimes up to ten women even. Some of the reasons for this:

-easy and good sex (bad sex girls get put aside offcourse)
-learning, through interaction with women you learn about them, see how they respond when they know you fuck other girls, see how they get attached after you fucked them good, see how their behavior changes over time depending on your actions, it can make a good player.
-one-itis, it can happen to anyone, but a guy with a harem is a lot harder to convince to go for one girl than one without options
-pre-selection, I enter a club with a harem girl, other girls check me out. I enter with a harem girl and other harem girl sees me, possible drama, all the other girls will be like: 'wow who is this guy, he must be interesting'.
-dirtier sex, not easy to do everything you want with a girl you fuck for the first time
-options in other places: one girl in this city, another in another place, etc.
-abundance mentality, similar to the oneitis thing a bit, but for instance when im texting 5 girls that want to fuck me, that means they wont get an answer as soon as normal, they wonder why, hamster spinning, etc. that was an example, it works in many ways.

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Plate spinning I find to be essential in game, maybe not for everyone but still. And yes I agree always keep looking for new pussy. I make sure to go out atleast once in a week solo or with only guy friends.

Post: #16

Lol I expected this to be about cleaning up dirty poon and turning it into fresh attractive poon.

I'd love to see a service like this. Detritus women go in and come out with the deportment and presentation of a Thai woman.

But regarding 'pump and dump', it sucks. It either means the girl wasn't good enough to bang again, or you weren't. Exception being 'I've left the city' etc.

Post: #17

(01-07-2015 01:23 PM)kaotic Wrote:  I can see why it's one and done, it's a great push towards abundance.

I see the plates I have as not holding me back, I see it for having sex with a different girl a few days a week.

Of course if a new girl comes up for a date, I'll drop or flake on a plate.

Idk, I like best of both worlds, enjoying a main girl I have who compliments my life, spinning plates, and hunting fresh new pussy.

^^^It's the perfect setup, I've been doing it for years.

I've found single mothers are great for recycled/last minute/first to get bumped for other pussy/pussy.

Always look to add improvement (which includes flexibility) to your rotation.

Post: #18

After reading your posts I realized that I'm the one that's being lazy by not maintaining an LTR and banging on the side! Hahaha

I just know i'm going to get caught. I'm not a smart man

Post: #19

(01-09-2015 04:22 PM)bigbait Wrote:  After reading your posts I realized that I'm the one that's being lazy by not maintaining an LTR and banging on the side! Hahaha

I just know i'm going to get caught. I'm not a smart man

I'm just waiting for the day two of my more serious girls meet eachother. It will be tough, but thats the life I chose.