Post: #26

(01-05-2015 08:42 AM)griffinmill Wrote:  "my idea anyway to wait five dates". Disclaimer: I say this to most women on the first date, part irony, and reverse psychology.

Don't even bother bringing up sex. Focus on having a good time while flirting and escalating. "It just happened" is the name of the game.

Post: #27

^ Yep whether it's been a virgin or a huge slut I feel there is no need to bring up sex before the bang. If she does first it's fine, but playing into it too much especially if she asks personal questions about your stances on sex is something you want to get out of ASAP.

Always better to communicate sexual intent by physically escalating and let her mumble out whatever she wants. What she says is really unimportant it is how she responds physically.

Post: #28

(01-05-2015 05:06 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  I cannot second all of these posts enough! I'm 43 and by far the most difficult women to lay for me are those between 30 and my age, especially if they have never been married yet. I have had countless ones on my bed, my fingers knuckle deep into their pussies and when I try to escalate from there they have the mental strength of Gandhi and can cooly pull up their panties and walk away never to be seen again. Of course many of those women even refuse to come home with me in the first place. Everything about them screams bitterness, cynicism and a hardened outlook towards men and dating in general. I can also concur that women in their 20's have virtually none of this baggage and women in their mid to later 40's are almost as easy, especially if they have recently come out of a LTR and just want some no strings attached D. Every once in a while I'll pick off one in who's in her mid 30's but they're few and far between.

I'm glad this topic is being addressed as it's a very real phenomenon out there!

Excellent point of exception "Never been married" girls of that age. The women I was banging in that age range were all divorcees or still married.

Post: #29

(01-07-2015 10:42 AM)Dr. Howard Wrote:  

(01-05-2015 05:06 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  I cannot second all of these posts enough! I'm 43 and by far the most difficult women to lay for me are those between 30 and my age, especially if they have never been married yet. I have had countless ones on my bed, my fingers knuckle deep into their pussies and when I try to escalate from there they have the mental strength of Gandhi and can cooly pull up their panties and walk away never to be seen again. Of course many of those women even refuse to come home with me in the first place. Everything about them screams bitterness, cynicism and a hardened outlook towards men and dating in general. I can also concur that women in their 20's have virtually none of this baggage and women in their mid to later 40's are almost as easy, especially if they have recently come out of a LTR and just want some no strings attached D. Every once in a while I'll pick off one in who's in her mid 30's but they're few and far between.

I'm glad this topic is being addressed as it's a very real phenomenon out there!

Excellent point of exception "Never been married" girls of that age. The women I was banging in that age range were all divorcees or still married.

Dr. Howard, I think the reason behind that is that the never married girls have weathered a lifetime on the carousel and are now grizzled veterans at game. Women who are divorced (or still married) are in many cases sex starved and haven't had a good pounding in years. I especially like the ones who reveal that they are 'separated', just hearing that gives me a semi chub!

Post: #30

Ditto this thread. Had a 33 Irish girl on our second actual date but third meet rock up wearing huge hoop earnings mid riff top and skin tight black pants. Huge LMR after dry hump session and I ejected...... Weeks go by of her trying the same lame "date without skin in the game" approach with other guys..... Then she messages me to see what I'm doing. I went nuclear and asked if she was ready to put skin in the game and she acted as though her company was all I could bargain for. Sadly, she goes to my gym so I see her all the time and can't help but laugh.

I have noticed that 50% of 30+ are like my Irish girl with LMR and dating rules.... Reformed riders.....

The other 50% sleep with you on the first date at the first sign of you making a move - they know they can't be difficult as they have no youth left to bargain with.

Post: #31

This is not limited to reformed whore types. I was recently seeing a very fit, never married, no kids 35yo who was brought up in a strict Christian household, was a virgin until she was 28 (really), and has been with a limited number of guys since then. I plowed through some relatively mild LMR for a first date bang but ran into similar every time we were together. She would also have been happy to lock me down but in her case I believe the association of sex outside marriage with guilt from her upbringing was equally responsible for the behavior. I know a lot of guys here would find this a desirable trait for a potential partner to have, so this is something to consider.

I live in the northeast, I imagine that in the south, midwest, Utah, and other more conservative areas these types of girls could make up an even larger percentage of persistent LMR types.