Post: #26

Once a woman pushes for a threesome, wants to fuck girls, all while in a relationship for you, she's automatically downgraded to a plate and not LTR material.

Absolutely use and abuse that, but just know there isn't anything else that will come of it. If she's going to fuck other girls, you can be damn sure she'll be wanting to fuck other guys also.

Always push for a threesome or turn the relationship into an open one (if you're secure enough to do that). Of course this doesn't mean LTR material at all also.

Post: #27

Disclaimer, I have no actual experience in this. I just know my gut reaction and it seems to be counter to everyone elses.

I would only allow this to happen with a girl that I was in an LTR with that lived with me. She could bang the girl at my place only, with just her and the girl present. There is no 'girls night out', no going to the 3rd girls house etc. If it gets outside of the confines of my home then it becomes too much of 'her' thing vs. a treat for her that I'm allowing.

If it got off site into the 3rd girls place or they were out making out at bars there would be too much risk of shit like "oh I went over to Candy's house and her friend Little Dark was there and one thing just kind of led to another and I don't know what happened"

Post: #28

Turkishcandy, you know how we're best friends?

Push her to do it, follow them and record them outside the window, actually fuck that! Face time me my brother and let your boy view that shit.

Don't worry about getting caught, I'll do the talking

I've always been very persuasive

Think about it:

Post: #29

To me there are two types of girlfriend:
A girl I like to keep around to have sex;
Or a girl I want to keep for a while, living with her and making things together (having a car, an house or a kid).

If she stands in the category that I use to get sex... Of course I'll let her go with a girl and hope it'll result in a threesome.

If she's a girl I want to spend my life with... I may consider changing my plans since she want to cheat on me. And go for the threesome then dump her to get someone I can trust.

Bi-sexual girls are too wild to keep at home.

Post: #30

No. IMO it's just as disrespectful as cheating with a man.

Post: #31

If I'm not invited then she's getting dumped.

If I'm invited and I can't make it, then I don't mind.

Post: #32

So this may be kind of a stupid question, but does a girl claiming she's "bi-sexual" automatically disqualify her from being anything more than just a pump and dump or fuck buddy? You guys wouldn't believe the amount of girls around here that claim to be bi-sexual or are going through a "curious" phase, it almost seems like one out of every three girls I meet, but it's probably worse here in NorCal then most other places.

Post: #33

Probably not worse they are just more open about it.

Here in the supposedly conservative south I've heard many stories about girls at high school sleepovers, college girls in dorms, sorority sisters, party girl friends, married women ,etc occasionally indulging in the bi side.

When I'm hanging out and drinking with social groups and the subject of sex comes up , I like to tell the women " The only difference between a straight girl and a bi girl is three strawberry daquiris." It's amazing how often they will giggle and nod with a smirk and a knowing look in their eyes.

Post: #34

It happened to me, like 8 years ago.
My GF wanted to fuck a girl, to explore her bisexuality.
I agreed, not even thinking and talking about a possible threesome: this lowered my frame, she dumped me a few weeks after.

My advice: if no threesome is possible, deny.
Make your ho understand she's yours.

Post: #35

Its a test in many ways

Just say yes, and see what happens.

I'd guess it never happens.

The chicks you want to keep around self-police.

Post: #36

Fuck no. If she brings it up, she's demoted to fuck buddy.

Post: #37

I would only accept it if a threesome is assured. Nevertheless, she would immediately be demoted from her rank of girlfriend to a much-lesser one which would imply she is not suitable for marriage or any permanent relationship.

Oh yes, I'm so privileged you literally can't even.
Interested in joining the FFL? I tried (and failed).

Post: #38

This question goes wrong with "cheat". If I don't know about it then she's cheating.

Now if you're asking "would I be OK if she asked", it's still no, not in an LTR. If it's a girlfriend, then she's branded herself fuckbuddy material. I have friends right now where the wife is carrying on with another girl on the side and it's fucked up. You put yourself onto a slippery slope when you entertain that. Every "open relationship" I've ever known has some degree of cheating, regardless of how much they swear they tell their partner everything. A chick wants to fuck. If you give her permission for a little thing, she's going to push that and find out exactly where the line is. Better to draw the line conservatively.