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Merry Christmas. This one’s going to sting.

Here in the manosphere, we are often accused of chauvinism, writing as though women ruined society and men are fantastic at everything. People moan about how badly they want a good girl but just cannot find a viable candidate. Well, let’s not get ahead of ourselves. Who said you deserved one yourself?

The cold reality is that the modern American man is not much better than the modern American woman. If you really believe that patriarchy is the natural order of things, then realize that feminism only exists because men allowed it. Let that sink in. You are the ones that create the monster of the modern western woman. You complain about how terrible the modern western woman is, but you are the ones that permits them to be this way.

It’s Your Fault

You can go on the internet and complain like there is no hope, but feminism would end in a generation if men started acting like they had a dick in their pants. You think most women really want to be ball-cutting, independent sluts? Women have no idea what they really want. Deep down they all have a Disney princess fantasy, and the average nubile co-ed would gladly drop out of college if she found a man who actually made her happy.

Women want to possessed by a man. It is in their nature to be unable to articulate what they really want, but frankly it should be obvious to the menfolk who by nature are expected to lead. If American Jane can be manipulated by faceless propaganda, how much more so by a man whom she is absolutely in love with and could not imagine her life without?

Shakespeare’s Taming of the Shrew has been loved for generations because it gives hope to both sexes. Petruchio was greedy and selfish, and Katherine was ugly and had a terrible personality, but by the end of it all, they had both found a deeper appreciation for each other than any of the other characters who were acting on their passions (Lucentio) or desperation (Hortensio).

Not only did they fall deeply in love with each other, but they finally gained respect from their peers. Think about it: Katherine, the most miserable harpy in English literature, was admired, lauded, and radically happy after spending only a few days with the first man she ever met who didn’t try to coddle or appease her.

It Isn’t Hard

The manosphere shouldn’t even have to exist. Getting a girlfriend is not hard: you just ask girls out, and eventually one of them says yes. And if she doesn’t work out, then you move on, because she’s just a girl and they make plenty of those. Why do you need an elaborate network of websites to teach you what is obvious? All you need to know is, “Girls like guys who are confident and charismatic.” You do not even need a real job anymore, considering how many millennials are working in retail well into their twenties.

Girls want to be asked out, and they want to have sex, just like the normal people. Get to know a girl for five minutes and then ask if you can take her out sometime. With even the most awkward game, you’ll get a date maybe 10% of the time.

By the age of 20, if you have not figured out that there is something deeply warped about the way society today mates, then it is your own fault if you can’t get laid or if you find yourself in a miserable relationship. Even if you cannot figure out what exactly is wrong, you should sense that something is toxic about it. Everybody who has been married is either divorced or miserable. So if you do literally anything else, the worst case scenario is that you will have just as much failure.

And even if a girl has personality flaws, they can often be conditioned out. Remember that at heart they are looking for you to guide them. If she has a pissy fit over something small, walk away and don’t return until she begs. And once she begs, graciously give her that second chance she so desires. Communicate that you do not need her but may enjoy her if she behaves.

Make her work. Make her want to be feminine. Women show so little respect to men because they realize that most men will take whatever they can get. That is to say, men no longer demand respect. If you really are the high-status man every woman masturbates to in whatever Hollywood vomit romcom is currently in theaters, if you really are that high-status man, then she will realize that she cannot be insane if she is to obtain the man of her dreams.

Communication

Show just, like, a little confidence and communication and see the miracles it will accomplish. “Dear, when you cut your hair short, it makes you look like a man. Don’t you want to be able to really turn me on?” This is just one of any number of negative traits, but the same thing applies to fat girls, which is why I’ll date them if they have other redeeming qualities.

When you finally confront your girl about her dumpy looks or character traits, likely your voice will be quivery when you say it, but that is your fault for not having the conversation at the beginning of the relationship. Now that you have waited a year in, she will rant and rave at not getting what she wants for once. Say nothing and look her dead in the eye. When she finishes, repeat exactly what you said both gently and firmly at the same time. If she refuses to change, then dump her then and there.

If she then apologizes and begs for you to take her back, then do so, because now you have seen that she is willing to admit to her mistakes. Finally you have shown some actual masculinity, and you have increased your value enough to make her want to increase her value. And if she does not apologize and make the necessary changes, then it was best to get rid of her sooner than later. Some girls are so damaged that no amount of conditioning can fix them.

Sure, the rare girl with humility may be…well, rare, but you cannot just sit around and hope she falls into your lap. If you want the ever-elusive marital bliss, you have got to approach it like a part-time job. If you are lazy in your pursuits, then you will only get women who are lazy in their commitments. Most people who are divorced either do not know how to pick a wife or do not know how to manage a woman after he has gotten her.

And when your wife left you, did you wish her well? Perhaps buy her kitchen appliances to help her in her new found independence? If she threatens divorce, laugh her down and remind her that no one wants to marry a woman who is divorced, a mother, or over 30 (she is likely all three). Then walk out of the room still chuckling before she can elicit sympathy.

Do not look back or check back in. Crush her false sense of self-esteem and make her realize how much she needs you. It’s not like you have anything to lose, and at any rate women rarely leave a man because he doesn’t show her enough respect. Maybe send her statistics about how children of divorce grow up to be dysfunctional. Granted, I cannot guarantee that she will stay with you, but it’s certainly more effective than begging and bargaining. Even when your wife is leaving, you still bow down and kiss the feet of the tyrant.

You’re Just As Hedonistic

And of course you can claim that all women today are whores, but that is not true either. There are many women who still have a sense of dignity and only give away their sex selectively, since that is what women naturally want to do. True, there are not many virgins outside of the freshmen at Christian colleges in the southern states, but that does not mean that every woman allows herself to be the town bicycle. Maybe the reason you think every single Western girl is a tramp is because you keep searching for girls on ladies night in bars. Go volunteer for a boring non-profit that makes for a bad photo shoot, and you will be more likely to find the wife you are looking for.

Contrary to popular myth, feminism did not invent the slut. Men even have always had a way to get their rocks off before settling down. For example, the samba in Brazil provided a context to meet easy women long before the 1960s.

“You can’t find a wife in a brothel,” as my grandfather always said, and it was as true when he was a child as it is today. The world’s oldest profession is nothing new, but today they get paid in martinis instead of cash. And who buys them the martinis? You do. At least the old-style whore knew what she was getting from the deal, but you are encouraging Jane Slut to continue sucking resources from men and pressuring other women to do the same.

You rant about how lustful women are, but how much better are you yourself? All you care about is increasing your notch count no matter what the consequences. You sleep with fat girls, you sleep with career-obsessed women, you sleep with androgynous women, and then you wonder why there are so many of them around.

Quit being an enabler. Let them know that you only validate feminine women, and the fatties and Hillarys will force themselves to change. There is a reason that gluttony—and hence lust—is a sin in every major world religion. Everyone wants to get laid in a way that isn’t desperate and miserable, so put a higher value on your sex. It’s not like you are even having a good time seducing them, considering how much you complain about them. If you feed the geese, they are only going to breed and shit everywhere. Offensive, yes, but the manosphere does not exist to affirm your ego and sense of irreproachability.

Furthermore, do you have any real marketable skills? You say you want a stay-at-home wife, but what have you accomplished to provide that? Laziness is also a sin in most world religions, so instead of living in an apartment with your Call of Duty buddies “because the economy is just that bad,” spend a year in vocational school and learn a trade.

Yes, your family will look down on you because “you are so smart and have so much potential, and you’re going to spend it building houses?” Fuck that sideways. This isn’t the 1950s, and most four-year degrees will get you exactly nothing. Don’t participate in the madman credentialism game your parents’ generation created. Forget about finding the job of your dreams and focus on finding a skill you can bond with. Maybe you will marry, or maybe you will decide to milk the player lifestyle as long as you can, but at least you will be able to afford to live autonomously.

Final Thoughts

So quit your entitlement. I was red-tinted purple pill before I ever came across the manosphere and figured I was alone. Sure, some of the material on these sites is very cerebral and takes years to synthesize, but most of it is garnered through plain observation or natural consequences. You’ve got a dick in your pants, so go make the world you want for yourself.

Become the high-status man who can make women want to change, learn a (real) skill, and buy the house with the white picket fence. Or if you want to play the field forever and never get married, then drop your pretentiousness anyway. Women will not suddenly put away their destructive choices by their own volition.

Read More: Feed A Western Woman The Red Pill

Posted on Thu, 25 Dec 2014 13:00:24 +0000 at http://www.returnofkings.com/49257/most-...able-woman
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Post: #2

Is the shrew related to the hamster

Shakespeare was ahead of his time.

Post: #3

I like this article. It's the kind of thing men need to hear.

Post: #4

Sounds like the author has a lot more swallowing to do (no pun intended) because this reads like something a woman would write.

Post: #5

I think he is spot on. All of the legislation and the laws that have benefited feminism has been created mostly by men. What, do people really think Gloria Steinem just woke up one day and led a grassroots revolution of angry housewives against the patriarchy? The financing, the media support, the legal protection had to come from somewhere in order to make it successful. Not to mention the white knight culture and the get-laid-at-all-costs attitude prevalent among men have allowed women to get away with almost anything and have given validation to even the fattest and ugliest of females.

Post: #6

"only give away their sex selectively, since that is what women naturally want to do"

When RoK gets trolled.

Lame.

WIA

Post: #7

I agree with this article. Men have always had power and the most beta cities are that way because of the men not because of the lizards. All the feminist policies that are created but most importantly, enforced are done so by men.

Feminism is the bed that men have made and hence, we must sleep in it.

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(12-26-2014 08:59 AM)Moma Wrote:  I agree with this article. Men have always had power and the most beta cities are that way because of the men not because of the lizards. All the feminist policies that are created but most importantly, enforced are done so by men.

Feminism is the bed that men have made and hence, we must sleep in it.

I think feminism is inevitable in a capitalistic free market environment like America. As men move up the ladder and make more money they spoil their daughters hoping if they have all the latest toys and fashions that they'll marry up to the next level of society. Of course that doesn't always work out so well. Because we all know money doesn't buy you class. What happens is we get a few generations of useless priviledged cum dumpsters like the Hiltons and Kardashians.

And once the party winds down and they approach the wall they look for a way to extend the party for as long as they can. And feminism is there to fill that role. It's the Patriarchy!! It's all my father's fault!! That's really what feminism is. A bunch of spoiled cunty women with daddy issues.

Post: #9

The title is good. Comes from the right place. But the arguments are weak. An inexperienced dude could probably come away confused after reading it.

I say that because the article initially concentrates on marriage, but then addresses sex outside of marriage:

Blair Naso Wrote:You rant about how lustful women are, but how much better are you yourself? All you care about is increasing your notch count no matter what the consequences. You sleep with fat girls, you sleep with career-obsessed women, you sleep with androgynous women, and then you wonder why there are so many of them around.

Quit being an enabler. Let them know that you only validate feminine women, and the fatties and Hillarys will force themselves to change.

So much off here. That bolded sentence is especially fantastic. By fantastic, I mean that the idea that a stranger has the power to change her that profoundly is a fantasy. It's too optimistic about the impact any of us could have on a girl, and ignores the reality that these girls are damaged to begin with.

The trash being churned out today is built in the household. It's the parents' responsibility to not enable their little princesses and teach them the value of their chastity. A girl either knows it or not. This is why I've come across a handful of virgins in my gaming path of destruction, and elected not to pillage them. They wanted it, but I knew immediately they were on the correct path to find Mr. Right, so I steered clear knowing I wasn't that.

Players are not enabling sluts by sleeping with them. It's the herbs who marry the girls who rode the carousel throughout her prime years that are enabling them. And then Herb is surprised when he walks in on his hog being porked by the village butcher.

Any number of players on this forum who are or have been married could have dropped a more realistic take on why most guys don't deserve the unicorns. The few I'm thinking of could have nailed the sobering tone this article was going for, without coming off so sanctimonious.

One of the coolest posts I've found in this forum is linked in my signature, a post by Jevioso precisely about how a man deserves the trash he wifes up:

Jevioso Wrote:To the majority of women, every man is a rapist, an abuser, a cheater until proven otherwise. For those of us in the game, we understand that women are all bitches, sluts, whores, gold diggers etc until proven otherwise.

Men of the game, understand that men have something to offer women, far more valuable than they have to offer us. For lack of a better word, we give women purpose and passion, something that their feminized world, regardless of how powerful and significant it becomes, has failed to give them. And unlike most betas, we put a value on that.

As a man, whether you're married or not, a woman serves as an accomplice to your goals. To upgrade her to a level of WIFE, means that she aught to have overcome several obstacles to reach such a high level in your life. No army, or commander in chief, looks for some random dude off the street, and says to himself, "I want this bum to be my general." No, that bum needs to move up the ranks and start at the bottom, no matter how strong or tall he might appear. He has to go through the obstacles so when he reaches the top, he'll value the position that's been given to him.

Now when you're sitting back a couple months or years from now, , and your woman's either being a pain, or she's handing you divorce papers; don't you dare cry. Stand up, go to your bathroom, and look in the mirror; then say to yourself, "It's my fault." It will be your fault because you gave a woman a position in your life, that she didn't earn. And the reason why you gave her that position wasn't because she was great, but because you my friend, were mentally weak.

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(12-25-2014 08:15 AM)Return Of Kings Wrote:  If you really believe that patriarchy is the natural order of things, then realize that feminism only exists because men allowed it. Let that sink in. You are the ones that create the monster of the modern western woman. You complain about how terrible the modern western woman is, but you are the ones that permits them to be this way.

It’s Your Fault

There's a big difference between creating and permitting. After I read this paragraph I knew the rest of the article would be junk because the writer lacks a solid awareness of what feminism is.

Feminism was born almost a century ago because women felt unfulfilled with their place in society and they didn't have an answer. The old answer of domesticity simply didn't do it for them anymore.

Not knowing how to progress to a higher level of feminine they instead looked at their husband's and decided he had it good. Men have the power, they call the shots, they are the opposite of everything women are so that must be the answer.

So the desire for women to act like men in the world was born. It started small with the right to vote, then to work, then to divorce and take everything, then to be single and pregnant and take everything, and on, and on until our society no celebrates slutiness, cheating, and castration of the masculine in general.

Of course women don't know the first thing about what it means to be a developed masculine so they instead act like adolescent boys. It's all rather sickening to watch and they still aren't fulfilled and all the Prada, Vodka, and random cocks don't just lead to more emptiness.

Men did not create this monster, however men did permit it, and went further into becoming more feminine themselves. Weak, little boys who are afraid to stand up, and take control. Often too selfish to sacrifice their own individual lives for the sake of something greater. Not all men are like this, especially not the old ones, but the youth of today is truly lost.

The masculine has fallen on hard times and has lost faith in itself to get it back, but that's changing with every post and every new reader of this forum. It's slow, but once it picks up steam the world may change very quickly.

(12-25-2014 11:19 PM)MdWanderer Wrote:  I think he is spot on. All of the legislation and the laws that have benefited feminism has been created mostly by men. What, do people really think Gloria Steinem just woke up one day and led a grassroots revolution of angry housewives against the patriarchy? The financing, the media support, the legal protection had to come from somewhere in order to make it successful. Not to mention the white knight culture and the get-laid-at-all-costs attitude prevalent among men have allowed women to get away with almost anything and have given validation to even the fattest and ugliest of females.

Once women got the power to vote, the power to have their own money, then the male politicians and corporations that back them sold out for profits and position.

(12-26-2014 09:29 AM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

(12-26-2014 08:59 AM)Moma Wrote:  I agree with this article. Men have always had power and the most beta cities are that way because of the men not because of the lizards. All the feminist policies that are created but most importantly, enforced are done so by men.

Feminism is the bed that men have made and hence, we must sleep in it.

I think feminism is inevitable in a capitalistic free market environment like America. As men move up the ladder and make more money they spoil their daughters hoping if they have all the latest toys and fashions that they'll marry up to the next level of society. Of course that doesn't always work out so well. Because we all know money doesn't buy you class. What happens is we get a few generations of useless priviledged cum dumpsters like the Hiltons and Kardashians.

And once the party winds down and they approach the wall they look for a way to extend the party for as long as they can. And feminism is there to fill that role. It's the Patriarchy!! It's all my father's fault!! That's really what feminism is. A bunch of spoiled cunty women with daddy issues.

I think they spoil their daughters because they try to keep them innocent. To keep them the baby. The pure and innocent feminine that doesn't exist in their wives. Their daughter is the last taste of it and it's fleeting, especially if he ever dares to take off his rose-colored glasses to see her for what she really is.

Post: #12

I like the general message of the article, though not the article itself. That should have been expressed better.