Post: #1

I'd like to have one but I realised I am bad at cultivating a relationship early on. From a communication standpoint, do you guys do anything different when you go about getting a gf?

Post: #2

(04-24-2011 11:22 PM)kickboxer Wrote:  I'd like to have one but I realised I am bad at cultivating a relationship early on. From a communication standpoint, do you guys do anything different when you go about getting a gf?

I avoided turning my last LTR into one, but was pressured into it one drunken night. Obviously, you'll need to communicate more often and see her more than one night a week (I limit mine to two). Other than that, not really anything too different. It should happen naturally as you spend time with a woman as long as you don't distance yourself too much.

Post: #3

Sharon Stone once said:

"Women are masters at faking orgasms, but men can fake entire relationships".

I have 3 girlfriends.


Mixx

Post: #4

(04-25-2011 08:07 AM)MiXX Wrote:  Sharon Stone once said:

"Women are masters at faking orgasms, but men can fake entire relationships".

I have 3 girlfriends.


Mixx

How do you deal with them on Valentine's Day, Mixx? I find that Valentine's day is usually when I lose a few of them because they expect a high level of committment on Valentine's day and I cannot be with more than one of them at the same time since I work a regular shift (which they know) which limits Valentine's celebration to the evening.

No matter what I tell them on Valentine's day, they suspect I'm with another woman. I've told them usually that I don't respect or acknowledge government inflicted holidays..but women will believe what they want to believe.

So my new approach is to keep it loose and let them know it's a casual thing. It means I lose out on a lot more that will trade sex for committment but the ones that stick around will be more consistent since they have no high expectations..

Post: #5

(04-25-2011 08:24 AM)Moma Wrote:  

(04-25-2011 08:07 AM)MiXX Wrote:  Sharon Stone once said:

"Women are masters at faking orgasms, but men can fake entire relationships".

I have 3 girlfriends.


Mixx

How do you deal with them on Valentine's Day, Mixx? I find that Valentine's day is usually when I lose a few of them because they expect a high level of committment on Valentine's day and I cannot be with more than one of them at the same time since I work a regular shift (which they know) which limits Valentine's celebration to the evening.

No matter what I tell them on Valentine's day, they suspect I'm with another woman. I've told them usually that I don't respect or acknowledge government inflicted holidays..but women will believe what they want to believe.

So my new approach is to keep it loose and let them know it's a casual thing. It means I lose out on a lot more that will trade sex for committment but the ones that stick around will be more consistent since they have no high expectations..

Meet with them early (the weekend before) and tell them you are too busy with work on V-day but really want to "see them." Keep their expectations low and they won't ever demand anything like this from you. Be a skittles man.

Post: #6

(04-25-2011 08:24 AM)Moma Wrote:  

(04-25-2011 08:07 AM)MiXX Wrote:  Sharon Stone once said:

"Women are masters at faking orgasms, but men can fake entire relationships".

I have 3 girlfriends.


Mixx

How do you deal with them on Valentine's Day, Mixx? I find that Valentine's day is usually when I lose a few of them because they expect a high level of committment on Valentine's day and I cannot be with more than one of them at the same time since I work a regular shift (which they know) which limits Valentine's celebration to the evening.

No matter what I tell them on Valentine's day, they suspect I'm with another woman. I've told them usually that I don't respect or acknowledge government inflicted holidays..but women will believe what they want to believe.

So my new approach is to keep it loose and let them know it's a casual thing. It means I lose out on a lot more that will trade sex for committment but the ones that stick around will be more consistent since they have no high expectations..

Easy: go out of town.

Preferably go surfing down in Mex, ie somewhere with bad cell phone service.

That way you wont even have to field a bunch of sappy phone calls like 99% of guys out there.

Smooth.

Post: #7

(04-25-2011 10:41 AM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(04-25-2011 08:24 AM)Moma Wrote:  

(04-25-2011 08:07 AM)MiXX Wrote:  Sharon Stone once said:

"Women are masters at faking orgasms, but men can fake entire relationships".

I have 3 girlfriends.


Mixx

How do you deal with them on Valentine's Day, Mixx? I find that Valentine's day is usually when I lose a few of them because they expect a high level of committment on Valentine's day and I cannot be with more than one of them at the same time since I work a regular shift (which they know) which limits Valentine's celebration to the evening.

No matter what I tell them on Valentine's day, they suspect I'm with another woman. I've told them usually that I don't respect or acknowledge government inflicted holidays..but women will believe what they want to believe.

So my new approach is to keep it loose and let them know it's a casual thing. It means I lose out on a lot more that will trade sex for committment but the ones that stick around will be more consistent since they have no high expectations..

Easy: go out of town.

Preferably go surfing down in Mex, ie somewhere with bad cell phone service.

That way you wont even have to field a bunch of sappy phone calls like 99% of guys out there.

Smooth.

Nah. Not practical at all. If I could afford to go surfing in Mex whenever a silly holiday came up, I wouldn't even need to think up a lie to tell these lizards. I'd just tell them to blow me...

Post: #8

Moma -

"Not practical at all"

I guess it depends on where you live.

If you live in Southern California, Mex is a few gallons of gas away.

Post: #9

(04-25-2011 11:25 AM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  Moma -

"Not practical at all"

I guess it depends on where you live.

If you live in Southern California, Mex is a few gallons of gas away.

You know I live in Canada, fam. I am working with limited resources here. I have to be extremely cunning to make shyt work out here.

A friend of mine from New York visited me here during the Caribana. He asked me, how on earth would I be able to run multiple streams of game here when it's so small. Even though it's a big city, people tend to go to the same spots so you tend to run into the same women. I have ran into exes (who we broke up in unfavourable fashion) and all sorts on new dates.

Post: #10

I've a gf locally (doesnt stop me from gaming locally) and a few fuck buddies in cities that my business takes me to.

Post: #11

I've got a girl that I've been seeing and she's really giving me the hard press to be exclusive. Right now she suspects (correctly) that I'm seeing other girls, she just has no idea the scope of it. At any rate, some girl will start wanting to take up all your time, if you start seeing her more than 2 x a week, she is going to think you are serious about her and then she's going to think you're an item. My last gf pigeonholed me into a LTR that lasted 4 years. I was able to game other girls in the beginning but she KEPT FINDING OUT. It was like an act of God came and showed her some bit of evidence. Then she was on to me. I'd have an eyebrow hair out of place and she'd know I fucked some other girl. I'd add a girl to fb (back when I was on fb) and she could tell something was up even if I just added 5 guys before and after with few other girls mixed in. Once I was in Alabama and some bitch recognized me, looked me up, found the "in a relationship" thing and then messaged my gf. Fucking cunt. That was back before a lot of the privacy features were in place. Anyway, I always thought it would be cool to work for the CIA but what scares the shit out of me is people like my ex who are so good about finding information and picking up on subtle tells.

Post: #12

When you guys (me included) get your pimp swag up entirely, you will be able to update so regularly with fresh and appealing reptilian talent, that you won't even need to pretend you have to be friends with a girl.
You can swoop a new one on a need to bang basis and even put a few way as an investment to mature when you are feeling your oats. Those that enjoy being with you and in acknowledgement of your freelancing will accept it because they realise that's a cheap fee to hang out and be updated by an alpha.

Me included, I have had to lead on a few 'nice' women through 'LTR's..to get through the droughts but I usually lust their female friends and relatives so strongly in the process

Plus, women are very wicked as they will now want you once they know you are hitched to someone..it's like they can smell the poon juice on you...

Post: #13

I've run into a string where I've kinda lucked (I guess it's lucky) into banging girls that already have a boyfriend. Every one has told me this after I've banged them, but it's better that way.

I have no interest in having a serious relationship, so I'm somewhat curious as to why you would want that KB? I understand Mixx's reasons, as he's already experienced more than most of us can ever dream to, plus he's rotating three. However, I feel my time is best used trying to sleep with as many women as possible for now.

Post: #14

This is a serious question - How do you all find the time for working on so many girls at once, actively? Between work, personal time, and just one girl right now I'm spread pretty thin. Granted I cant bang on the weekdays because of my current living situation but this is gonna change soon (hopefully)

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Post: #15

(04-25-2011 05:41 PM)Chad Daring Wrote:  This is a serious question - How do you all find the time for working on so many girls at once, actively? Between work, personal time, and just one girl right now I'm spread pretty thin. Granted I cant bang on the weekdays because of my current living situation but this is gonna change soon (hopefully)

I work 40-60 hrs a week avg, but I'm usually out by 2-4 at the latest. Between working out and the occasional social event I have most of my nights free, especially now that I've dropped the one LTR. I don't always go out every night, but lately I have been 5-6 nights a week. Gonna dial it back a little bit for the finances with my trip coming up next month.

Post: #16

(04-25-2011 06:47 PM)Gmac Wrote:  I work 40-60 hrs a week avg, but I'm usually out by 2-4 at the latest. Between working out and the occasional social event I have most of my nights free, especially now that I've dropped the one LTR. I don't always go out every night, but lately I have been 5-6 nights a week. Gonna dial it back a little bit for the finances with my trip coming up next month.

You must start work really early then to get those hours in. 5AM? How do you maintain the energy to be up early and stay out to the prime hours (i.e. 11 and after)?

Post: #17

(04-25-2011 07:01 PM)Menace Wrote:  

(04-25-2011 06:47 PM)Gmac Wrote:  I work 40-60 hrs a week avg, but I'm usually out by 2-4 at the latest. Between working out and the occasional social event I have most of my nights free, especially now that I've dropped the one LTR. I don't always go out every night, but lately I have been 5-6 nights a week. Gonna dial it back a little bit for the finances with my trip coming up next month.

You must start work really early then to get those hours in. 5AM? How do you maintain the energy to be up early and stay out to the prime hours (i.e. 11 and after)?

This is me right now, I get up at 5am and after work to straight to the gym and after all that I'm home and showered and its already 5pm.

I think my issue might be location. Living where I live there's nothing to do nearby, Im looking at 20 min one way to get to something decent. It might be fanciful thinking of a midwest man, but I imagine living in an urban area with "corner" coffee shops and bars would make the whole process simpler.

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Post: #18

(04-25-2011 07:01 PM)Menace Wrote:  

(04-25-2011 06:47 PM)Gmac Wrote:  I work 40-60 hrs a week avg, but I'm usually out by 2-4 at the latest. Between working out and the occasional social event I have most of my nights free, especially now that I've dropped the one LTR. I don't always go out every night, but lately I have been 5-6 nights a week. Gonna dial it back a little bit for the finances with my trip coming up next month.

You must start work really early then to get those hours in. 5AM? How do you maintain the energy to be up early and stay out to the prime hours (i.e. 11 and after)?

I'm used to only sleeping 4-6 hours a night. I nap in the afternoon for an hour or two or catch up on the weekends if I have to.

Post: #19

(04-25-2011 08:18 PM)Chad Daring Wrote:  This is me right now, I get up at 5am and after work to straight to the gym and after all that I'm home and showered and its already 5pm.

I think my issue might be location. Living where I live there's nothing to do nearby, Im looking at 20 min one way to get to something decent. It might be fanciful thinking of a midwest man, but I imagine living in an urban area with "corner" coffee shops and bars would make the whole process simpler.

Chad, well you know where I live, and for me it is about a 30 min Metro ride into DC nightlife areas. If you want to live in DC, you will probably want to share a place with someone or someones. People are going to be moving out soon because school is out, so now's not a bad time to start looking.

Post: #20

Right now Metro Center is a 20 min drive to Shady Grove station then an hour ride into the city....

I'm looking in the Bethesda area right now, its not IN the city, but its a lot closer, I'm actually surprised at some of the rent prices I'm finding for an area I was told was very expensive

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Post: #21

funny how stuff works out. Chilling with my new roommate and the girl he took on a date and before i leave she says "i have a friend who really wants a boyfriend" She showed me the pics of the girl and she's pretty attractive. so she took a pic of me, told her my last name(which is french) and sent it to her friend who replied with yummy. game on!