Post: #26

I'm coming in from Santa Monica tomorrow at 5pm if you'll be out and about

Post: #27

Having spent the day driving around town, I took a 15 minute power nap, did a bit of work, then got suited up for a Friday night on the town.

I poked my head into a few venues. It was early, around 7pm, but things were starting to pop off already. San Diego seems to get the party started earlier than other cities.

Then out of nowhere, my txts started working again. I heard back from my pipeline girl. I apologized for being "busy" (ha), and asked her to be spontaneous and come meet me for a drink in gaslamp. To my surprise, she agreed.

She shows up and joins me on the leather couches for a cocktail. She's Lithuanian born. I think having spent some time is the FSU, I've developed an ever so slight cultural understanding of the women, which draws them in when in the US. Lithuania is very tall, with a huge rack, and angular model face features. She could loose 10 lbs, especially with her on camera profession. But I think she's sexy.

As luck would have it, the conversation flows nicely. I touch her arms and knees during the high points. On the couches, I make sure my body isn't facing towards her as much, simply turning my head occasionally to make eye contact. This eventually gets her legs & body turned more open toward me over time.

We go for 3 rounds of drinks over 2 hours; an ample amount to all but guarantee her coming back to my place. I give her the option, and she agrees. Back at the pad, we talk more in the living room. 3 hours in. I take my laptop, and tell her to follow me into the bedroom. She eyes me suspiciously, but she follows. On the bed I'm showing her videos, and massaging her back, but her body is not melting into my touch. She's simply tolerating it. More work to do here.

I go for the makeout, and I get head turned. More youtube videos. I try again, this time cradling her chin with my hand, and I feel her surrender. She melts into the kiss.

We makeout passionately for a few minutes. But when she falls onto her back, she becomes too aware, sits up quickly, and "has to go". It's 3am, and I tell her to just crash here, but she's adamant. I would normally persist 13 different ways, but I don't because she asks me if I'm available tomorrow night to go to the zoo. Scoring a girl go to the zoo & sea world with is one of my goals this week, so I accept her proposal. I kiss her off to the uber car, and struggle trying to fall asleep with a sever case of blue balls.


Next morning, I catch up with a forumer for brunch. Very cool cat. He drops some some SD intel, and we make tentative plans for later in the evening in case Lithuania flakes. He heads off to work. I bounce to the baseball stadium.

There's a 3 set of wholesome brunettes with dogs, chilling on the mound overlooking the park. I'm hovering, pondering how to possibly extract 1 and get an instadate. Before I can figure it out, a baseball cap wearing bro rolls up from his wolfpack and opens smoothly by talking sports. Well played baseball bro. Well played. He's in like flynn, so I bounce to find a good solo target. It's a beautiful sunny day. NYC eat your heart out.


2. Up around the big Westfield shopping center is a decent weekend crowd. I spot a blue polka dot dress with a bare exposed back. My attraction-o-meter spikes, and I hustle to cross the street to intercept; "excuse me! Is there a good sushi place nearby?"

She stops, hair touches, eyes break down submissively and she smiles. Very pretty early 20's, chestnut hair, with a perfect figure. Exactly my type.

She doesn't know a good spot, but she's still stopped and talking to me. I ask her if she's from the neighborhood, and I get a bit of background. She asks about me, with another hair touch and smile. After 2 minutes we have an awkward silence, and she reaches out to shake my hand to say goodbye. I keep holding it, and she doesn't let go either. I say "you seem interesting. I'd like to invite you to sushi with me. What do you say?" Enthusiastically she accepts.

I can't find a place, so I settle on pulling her into a little cafe. I ask her what she's drinking, but after the coffee's come, she beats me to paying the cashier. In my experience, when a girl takes initiative to pay in Europe, it means she's not interested. However in the US, it means we are going to have sex in the near future.

I lead her to a couch. She's pretty nervous, so I'm trying to say the most normal, non-gamey stuff possible. Over the next hour, I learn that she just moved back to SD after getting divorced. She's still financially supporting her ex. Does charity work. A giver, through & through. Doesn't date. Doesn't know many people. Lives with 3 cats.

My phone is dying, and I have a date scheduled with Lithuania soon, so I suggest drinks for tomorrow night. She agrees, and we exchange numbers. Thinking about it now, I probably could have bounced her to the park. Maybe Lithuania will flake? Game is filled with tough decisions.

She's still pretty shy when we say goodbye. I tease her for being a bad hugger. She takes it as a challenge, and gives me a beter hug. "we'll work on it tomorrow night." She giggles. I tell her to wear a nice dress. She's excited.

I'm really into this chick. I never meet this type of sweet girl from night game. But with her being so nervous, who knows if she'll follow up. I forgot to tell her to text me when we number exchanged, so I don't know if anything will come of it.

Onward...

Post: #28

(12-06-2014 06:07 PM)Courage Reborn Wrote:  On the couches, I make sure my body isn't facing towards her as much, simply turning my head occasionally to make eye contact. This eventually gets her legs & body turned more open toward me over time.

...

I say "you seem interesting. I'd like to invite you to sushi with me. What do you say?" Enthusiastically he accepts.

Both golden the way you handled.

Post: #29

"There's a 3 set of wholesome brunettes with dogs, chilling on the mound overlooking the park. I'm hovering, pondering how to possibly extract 1 and get an instadate. Before I can figure it out, a baseball cap wearing bro rolls up from his wolfpack and opens smoothly by talking sports. Well played baseball bro. Well played. He's in like flynn, so I bounce to find a good solo target."

I wonder if he was one of these Real Social Dynamics PUA guys. Rolling to a 3 set of girls with no wing is near mission impossible. Very impressive!

Post: #30

Where are you hitting tonight? Downtown, OB..?

Post: #31

Great work! The plot thickens....this is gonna be good...

Post: #32

Awesome can you night game in Garnet Ave in Pacific Beach? I'd be curious about your take and experience there.

Post: #33

(12-06-2014 10:28 PM)Sonoma Wrote:  Where are you hitting tonight? Downtown, OB..?

2 place in SD I know little about North Park and OB.

Is OB just the hippier more alternative version of PB?

Post: #34

Maybe a bit older than PB too

Post: #35

Yes, OB is basically a hippier version of PB. I went out on Saturday night, was very little talent. On the upside, cheaper and more relaxed than downtown (no dress codes, no club feel)

Post: #36

Update;

My brunette girl next door hasn't gotten back to me I THINK, due to having issues with my phone service again. It's been extremely stressful trying to operate with unreliable communication.

I had plans with Lithuania for afternoon, but she goes radio silence the entire day. The last text I sent was about a nice massage waiting for her after work. 10 minutes no response. 30. 1 hour. Was it too forward? My phone is semi on the fritz, so I'm torn between pulling out all the stops to get in touch via facebook/whatsapp/skype, but I resist the urge and distract myself by inventing a new work project to accomplish.

It's almost 10pm, and I'm feeling depressed. When I fool around with a girl, but I don't seal the deal, a feeling of obsession clouds my thoughts. I have trouble shifting my focus to hitting up fresh prospects. A singular vision of finishing what I started takes over. It feels like a countdown to the inevitable window of opportunity closing forever.

Then finally, after 10pm I get a surprise. A successful text, that she's outside my apartment.

She's all dolled up like a movie star. Designer everything. Long fake eyelashes.

I lead her upstairs. I haven't busted a nut in weeks, so I'm physically trembling at the thought of banging a pretty blonde with massive torpedo tits. She wants to know where we're going. The lyrics to R. Kellys "You must be used to me spending..." Go through my head, cause all I can think is "...I'm fuckin you to tonight"

She wants wine & dine, but there is no way we're leaving my apartment now. "We're not having sex. I'm not that type. So if that's what you want, you can get it from another girl"

There was too much time and nuance to explain here, but after a late night until 4am, her underwear finally came off, and my Lithuanian flag was acquired in southern california. The next day we went at it 2 more times, had a feast of a breakfast, and saw an epic movie together.

My energy is super low now due to all the sex and little sleep. I realize I've hijacked my original daygame mission here. Not proud of it, but it is what it is. If I do any more approaches, I'll update. I am curious to try PB, but I need an intersection to post up on to make it work. Thanks in advance.

Post: #37

(12-08-2014 11:33 PM)Courage Reborn Wrote:  There was too much time and nuance to explain here, but after a late night until 4am, her underwear finally came off.

Congratulations! Nicely concise description of how it often works.

Post: #38

(12-08-2014 11:33 PM)Courage Reborn Wrote:  I am curious to try PB, but I need an intersection to post up on to make it work. Thanks in advance.

Where You Post Up In PB

Post: #39

Where would people recommend staying in SD? For younger (18-21) girls or so. Looking on airbnb at the moment mostly downtown and PB. Even tho i like younger girls not sure id like the "bro" scene it sounds like PB has.

Post: #40

(12-09-2014 03:48 AM)Travesty444 Wrote:  Where You Post Up In PB

Sweet. Thanks!

Post: #41

^^ Next to San Diego State and any popular college bars nearby.

Post: #42

Courage after posting at that intersection, could you do night game on that street (Garnet) on Fri or Sat night (after 11pm when it gets popping) and then write about thoughts, advice, disgust, etc? I think it would be really cool to hear your take on it.

Post: #43

Nice job way to get it done. Am a bit suprised that she waited so long to get back to you and then shows up on your doorstep - guess that was pretty confusing to you. Wondering what sort of things she was doing to keep u up until 4am before it was on....

Post: #44

"We're not having sex tonight"... yeah, ASD, easily defeated. They all say that.

Congrats on your flag!

I'd like to know, when she said that, what was your answer?

Post: #45

(12-10-2014 12:16 AM)alex3948 Wrote:  "We're not having sex tonight"... yeah, ASD, easily defeated. They all say that.

Congrats on your flag!

I'd like to know, when she said that, what was your answer?

"get your mind outta the gutter"

Post: #46

I've set up shop in PB. Ocean view. The whole 9. Now I just need to find some company.

Many more 2 sets of young girls walking around. Unfortunately, I have extreme difficulty making anything happen during the day with duos.

3. 2 set seated at Starbucks. The blonde is a solid 9 for me. The girls are having an in depth conversation though. Very difficult approach. I walk around the block a few times, and hover while talking on my phone, waiting for an opportunity.

In doesn't come, so I decide to approach indirect. "Hey guys. I just moved to the neighborhood. What's a good place to grab a bite?"

The less hot friend takes control of the conversation. She gives me a highly logical, direct response. I try to make convo with the hot big tittie blonde, but her friend isn't having it. I eject.

Has anyone here solo pulled a girl from a duo during the day?

Post: #47

4. Cute brunette 7 watching the sunset solo. "Excuse me. Can you take a picture of me?". She struggles with my camera phone. I tease her for a few. " where are you from...what do you do...". 10 minutes of convo. She's under 21 and doesn't know where to drink. She mentions her bf back at the dorms. I tell her not to talk about her bf or I will stop flirting with her. She laughs. She really has no personality. Eventually I get bored, and tell her I'll see her around.

Post: #48

^ Lots of SD and SoCal people (especially natives that hate to admit it or have no introspection to realize it) have very limited personalities or very surfacey ones. To compound this problem they also have a slight sense of superiority when often times barely ever having gotten outside SoCal, Vegas, and Mexican beach towns.

Especially whites.

It is a painful cost of the beauty here.

I often befriend non-whites and transplants.

Mixed and minority girls from lower middle class inland cities that don't have drug problems or tatts seem to have the best personalities and are often undervalued for beach blondes.

Post: #49

I'd say give up on day-game and hit up night game, suit up and play the money game at the upscale lounges. If that fails there's always online game.

Post: #50

(12-07-2014 01:59 PM)POASTER Wrote:  Awesome can you night game in Garnet Ave in Pacific Beach? I'd be curious about your take and experience there.

nobody there