Post: #1

I'm in my late 20s and still a virgin. A while back, I went on a date with a girl who wanted to sleep with me. I guess I was able to fake my confidence good enough that she thought I had a reasonable amount of prior dating experience. However, because I'm a virgin and was nervous about what this girl would've thought of me for being a virgin/inexperienced and I wouldn't really know what to do even if we got into a bedroom together, I kind of froze/hesitated, and lost my chance at sleeping with this girl. I think that if I had used prostitutes before, I would've felt more confident/comfortable with taking the next steps with this girls after she gave off obvious signs of interest in sleeping with me because I would've had a better idea of how to have sex

I'm in the US, but a short flight away from Mexico, and Thanksgiving break and winter vacation are coming up. I'm thinking of using a pro now, or waiting until the breaks to get one in Mexico. What do you guys think?

Does anyone here have experience using pros, in the US and/or Mexico? How would I find a good one?

Post: #2

Giving advice on pros isn't something that we really discuss here. Go search for a "punting" site or something like that. You're in the wrong place for questions like that.

Now if you want advice on how to get laid without paying, make your way on over to the Newbie forum.

Post: #3

We don't pay to play here. Unfortunately, I smell a ban hammer coming.

Post: #4

(11-21-2014 06:51 PM)kongzi Wrote:  I'm in my late 20s and still a virgin. A while back, I went on a date with a girl who wanted to sleep with me. I guess I was able to fake my confidence good enough that she thought I had a reasonable amount of prior dating experience. However, because I'm a virgin and was nervous about what this girl would've thought of me for being a virgin/inexperienced and I wouldn't really know what to do even if we got into a bedroom together, I kind of froze/hesitated, and lost my chance at sleeping with this girl. I think that if I had used prostitutes before, I would've felt more confident/comfortable with taking the next steps with this girls after she gave off obvious signs of interest in sleeping with me because I would've had a better idea of how to have sex

I'm in the US, but a short flight away from Mexico, and Thanksgiving break and winter vacation are coming up. I'm thinking of using a pro now, or waiting until the breaks to get one in Mexico. What do you guys think?

Does anyone here have experience using pros, in the US and/or Mexico? How would I find a good one?

Not the forum for discussing pros. Many have lost their virginity much later than you. Losing your virginity is not that big of a deal. It's not like you're not going to know where to stick it in. There's tons of porn and primers on that. What else do you have to worry about? Not being a sex god? Guess what, none of us were born with an inherent knowledge of how exactly to be good in bed, it is learned...through experience. Now go out and find yourself some.

Post: #5

Sorry, I didn't know that I shouldn't ask about hookers on this forum. That being said, I just heard that most girls, especially attractive ones (and unfortunately especially American females) would not date a guy in his 20s who has no sexual experience. I do not think they will be forgiving towards a guy who does not know what to do in bed.

Post: #6

I doubt they will know you have experience or not. It's not like they're going to ask you for the dickfax or something.

Your first time having sex will happen so fast that it will end before you even know it.

Post: #7

(11-21-2014 07:18 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  I doubt they will know you have experience or not. It's not like they're going to ask you for the dickfax or something.

Your first time having sex will happen so fast that it will end before you even know it.

Post: #8

(11-21-2014 07:16 PM)kongzi Wrote:  Sorry, I didn't know that I shouldn't ask about hookers on this forum. That being said, I just heard that most girls, especially attractive ones (and unfortunately especially American females) would not date a guy in his 20s who has no sexual experience. I do not think they will be forgiving towards a guy who does not know what to do in bed.

Well, a lot of guys that DO get laid don't give a shit about what to do in bed. So if that's your concern you should go ahead and forget about it.

Assuming you have no serious physical aberrations; you're not obese, you're not less than 5'4", you're not sporting a combover, you don't have warts or major acne scars, you don't have a 3" dick, then there's no reason why you shouldn't feel comfortable and confident fucking a girl.

I understand your first time you might be nervous, and I'm not really sure what the magic words for a guy in your situation, all I can say is if you get a girl to the point where she WOULD have sex with you, then it probably means she WANTS to have sex with you.

There's more than enough literature on the forum on how to pace your getting physical. The rule of thumb is, "Keep pushing until you hit a red light." If you're making out and you're grabbing her ass and she's into it, that's a green light to get her on top of you and straddling you. If you reach under her shirt and start squeezing her tits, that's a green light to take her top off. If you starting sucking on her nipple and she's into it, that's a green light to carry her to your bed and pull her pants off. Keep taking each step to the next until you hit a red light, and when you hit a red light don't move backwards, but just stay there a little longer until the light turns green again.

If it helps, just remember that you're one human doing something that many many humans have done before you and it's completely normal and really not all that special. Don't build it up to be this big deal.

I'd say there's quite a few guys on this forum that have done p4p in one form or another, but that's a completely different topic and it's not the solution for you. It's not talked about because it doesn't help a man's game.

Post: #9

OP I would advise doing approaches and posting facts on them as well as your inner thoughts in the approach thread and we will help you get better. As far as gaming girls, I consider myself a newbie as well.

You may even consider meeting up with an experienced forum member around you and have him analyze your game. There are some analyses in the "Analysis of RVF members game" thread.

Once you know what to improve from there, start making adjustments and keep going. I'm on that journey and it's challenging yet extremely rewarding.

Post: #10

(11-21-2014 07:19 PM)presidentcarter Wrote:  

(11-21-2014 07:18 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  I doubt they will know you have experience or not. It's not like they're going to ask you for the dickfax or something.

Your first time having sex will happen so fast that it will end before you even know it.

I was inspired by this:

Post: #11

This DickFax and VagFax are great ideas. I'm going to copy-write and patent that shit tomorrow.

OP, if you go to a prostitute I'm sure you'll regret it. They aren't like Julia Roberts.

Save up some money, vacation time and go the Philippines. There you are very likely to find a much better, real girl who's not a pro. Even their pros would be a way better experience than the US versions I'm sure, but you won't need to do that.

Post: #12

Try Phillipines first as suggested if that trip fails....

Going against the grain and into warning level.

If you are 20 or older as a male I advise if you really have that much anxiety, go do it. First is the hardest. It will increase your confidence and help you out. You've probably struggled since puberty knowing peers have had sex and you have not. Time to end it pronto.

You will feel better, and if I did it I'd bang a handful to give yourself more sexual reference points, just wear protection and make sure you are in great health when you do it to limit chance of an STD.

Do your research make sure they are all super hot so you have a positive experience. Pay more if you have to to get a top shelf experience.

Go with your gut.

Post: #13

Damn, just saw that OP got banned. And here I was .....hoping he would post a TJ datasheet.