Post: #76

Hahaha my biggest "game" fuck up aka missed opportunity happened in May 2013.

First time in Vegas... just graduated school.

Ran into a smoking hot milf. Blonde perfect body tight red dress. We chit chatted for a little bit.

She definitely liked me and said I was "gorgeous."

Told her my situation that I was looking to move to Vegas and had my Master's.

Told me about her husband how he was XYZ director at one of the major hotels.

She gave me her husbands e-mail and told me to send him my resume.

She kept pushing for me to join her and her friend she was with for lunch/drinks.

I decided against it because in my mind I was desperate for a job and thought it was a valuable contact.

Long story short... I e-mailed her husband a few times inquiring about employment and never heard back from him.

It would have been a slam dunk... I hope I run in to her since I live in Vegas now.

Post: #77

Failing the "we're not having sex" shit test.

Post: #78

I have more fuck ups than successes LOL. Too much of nice guy in HS and college. So many missed opportunities it's ridiculous.

Post: #79

I was such an idiot when I was young. In college there must have been 7 or 8 different nights in one semester when I would see this one girl at a night club and we would grind on each other on the dance floor and make out. She had a nerdy boyfriend that I had never met because he never went out with her and her friends.

Very late one night a big group of us ended up at an apartment in my complex. I took the girl back to my apartment, made out with her for a couple minutes on my couch, and then she starts acting tired so I took her back to her friends. I didn't want to push things too quickly with this girl (who had a boyfriend) while she was asking to go to my bedroom with a little plausible deniability. I was so clueless in my first year in college.

Post: #80

(07-20-2015 04:31 PM)birthday cat Wrote:  while she was asking to go to my bedroom with a little plausible deniability.

Yes means Yes )))

Post: #81

I have a good one. I did some lines with a girl who I later found out was a stripper who took a shower while I was waiting in her living room/bedroom (small studio apt) and when she came out, she put on her jeans in the bathroom but put on her bra in front of me(her back was to me) but we barely knew reach other. She then gave me a few beers AND GAVE ME SOME PLAYBOY AND PENTHOUSE MAGAZINES to read. We even sat on her bed with the beers but I didn't do Shit. This was before I knew anything about game and had only been with my first gf.

To be fair to myself, she lived with her bf and they had just had a fight and either broke up or were about to and supposedly he was a big jacked dude. I was paranoid he would come back at any moment.
But in hindsight, I should've done some stuff, then maybe pull to my car or somewhere else.

At the end, I just dropped her off at a local bar where she went by herself. Lone wolves at bars = GOLD

Live and learn

Post: #82

All of high school.. hate myself some days

Post: #83

Not approaching when I was younger.

Post: #84

Surprised noone has mentioned getting married as a game fuck up.

Post: #85

So many fuckups, but I guess as long as I don't repeat any of them then they have all been contributing factors to success.

One of my biggest mistakes was going to the toilet at the wrong time, it destroyed a very good situation I had created.

(Tokyo 2013)

I had met this chick (Japanese) a couple of times, kissing but didnt bang her yet, she was keen messaging me but she was about a 6-7 and I was looking for better. Anyway I'm at my usual club scouting (alone) when she comes over a spots me. Shes with her friend, so we all drink together the three of us. I tell my chick lets get out of here and go to my place I'm tired and wanna relax and have a drink back at home. She says she can't, she has to stay with her friend. So I tell her to bring her friend too, my place is big and she can sleep on a futon I've got while we take the bed. About 10 minutes of persuading and I have them both in a taxi coming to my place. I don't have a spare futon and my place is a tiny one room apartment in shinjuku so when we go inside they are surprised but it's too late, I said lets just crash on the bed. So the friend gets on the bed and immediately turns and faces the wall and pretends to be sleeping, I turn the lights off and get in the middle facing my chick and kissing and grabbing her, playing around for about 30 mins. I'm thinking how can I bring the friend into this without my chick getting pissed. Anyway I'm bursting for the toilet, so I leave the bed and go to the toilet.

When I return, her friend is standing up putting her jacket on and getting ready to leave with my chick saying shes gonna walk her to the station to get the first train. In that 2 minutes in the toilet a golden chance was ruined, I gave them the chance alone to talk and back out of the situation.

I often think about how I should have handled that situation better.

Post: #86

(07-24-2015 01:27 AM)NikuNashi Wrote:  So many fuckups, but I guess as long as I don't repeat any of them then they have all been contributing factors to success.

One of my biggest mistakes was going to the toilet at the wrong time, it destroyed a very good situation I had created.

(Tokyo 2013)

I had met this chick (Japanese) a couple of times, kissing but didnt bang her yet, she was keen messaging me but she was about a 6-7 and I was looking for better. Anyway I'm at my usual club scouting (alone) when she comes over a spots me. Shes with her friend, so we all drink together the three of us. I tell my chick lets get out of here and go to my place I'm tired and wanna relax and have a drink back at home. She says she can't, she has to stay with her friend. So I tell her to bring her friend too, my place is big and she can sleep on a futon I've got while we take the bed. About 10 minutes of persuading and I have them both in a taxi coming to my place. I don't have a spare futon and my place is a tiny one room apartment in shinjuku so when we go inside they are surprised but it's too late, I said lets just crash on the bed. So the friend gets on the bed and immediately turns and faces the wall and pretends to be sleeping, I turn the lights off and get in the middle facing my chick and kissing and grabbing her, playing around for about 30 mins. I'm thinking how can I bring the friend into this without my chick getting pissed. Anyway I'm bursting for the toilet, so I leave the bed and go to the toilet.

When I return, her friend is standing up putting her jacket on and getting ready to leave with my chick saying shes gonna walk her to the station to get the first train. In that 2 minutes in the toilet a golden chance was ruined, I gave them the chance alone to talk and back out of the situation.

I often think about how I should have handled that situation better.

Your mistake was lying about the size of your apartment. And the worst thing is that some lies can be uncovered after many weeks, months or years. Yours was about to be uncovered in 10 minutes. No one likes to be fooled and it shows desperation.
You maybe lost the girl interest completely after that.

No WC break is a game fuck up, a guy needs to go there more than he needs sex.

Post: #87

I ran into my old High School flame's best friend at a dance club while I was in college years ago. We started dancing and she was all over me. A solid 9, I'm not kidding. She was a cheerleader with my ex and tall, blonde, blue eyed, huge boobs, legs for miles, etc. Another hot 9 sees us and she starts flirting with me (pre-selection works) so now I've got 2 competing and 35 pissed off dudes wondering if I was a coke dealer or something.....

Yet somehow I blow it. Haha. Blondie wants to go "hot tubbing" and pulls me out of the joint and away from the other 9. We go to my place and commence to hot tubbing where I decide I'm going to have a conversation with her....WTF?? We kissed and talked and that was it. How many IOI's did I need???? Dirty dancing...check. Hot 9 in bathing suit with me...check. Beta...check. Good Lord. I'm embarrassed for myself on that one. Yet for some reason, I'm banging a nurse in the same tub the next weekend. Guess I was flipping Alpha/Beta and thought I'd go for the Girlfriend move with the blonde. Insanity.

Post: #88

(07-24-2015 09:49 AM)Rocha Wrote:  

(07-24-2015 01:27 AM)NikuNashi Wrote:  So many fuckups, but I guess as long as I don't repeat any of them then they have all been contributing factors to success.

One of my biggest mistakes was going to the toilet at the wrong time, it destroyed a very good situation I had created.

(Tokyo 2013)

I had met this chick (Japanese) a couple of times, kissing but didnt bang her yet, she was keen messaging me but she was about a 6-7 and I was looking for better. Anyway I'm at my usual club scouting (alone) when she comes over a spots me. Shes with her friend, so we all drink together the three of us. I tell my chick lets get out of here and go to my place I'm tired and wanna relax and have a drink back at home. She says she can't, she has to stay with her friend. So I tell her to bring her friend too, my place is big and she can sleep on a futon I've got while we take the bed. About 10 minutes of persuading and I have them both in a taxi coming to my place. I don't have a spare futon and my place is a tiny one room apartment in shinjuku so when we go inside they are surprised but it's too late, I said lets just crash on the bed. So the friend gets on the bed and immediately turns and faces the wall and pretends to be sleeping, I turn the lights off and get in the middle facing my chick and kissing and grabbing her, playing around for about 30 mins. I'm thinking how can I bring the friend into this without my chick getting pissed. Anyway I'm bursting for the toilet, so I leave the bed and go to the toilet.

When I return, her friend is standing up putting her jacket on and getting ready to leave with my chick saying shes gonna walk her to the station to get the first train. In that 2 minutes in the toilet a golden chance was ruined, I gave them the chance alone to talk and back out of the situation.

I often think about how I should have handled that situation better.

Your mistake was lying about the size of your apartment. And the worst thing is that some lies can be uncovered after many weeks, months or years. Yours was about to be uncovered in 10 minutes. No one likes to be fooled and it shows desperation.
You maybe lost the girl interest completely after that.

No WC break is a game fuck up, a guy needs to go there more than he needs sex.

I didn't lose the interest of the main chick, I banged her a couple of times afterwards, shes was very keen. Once shed walked her friend to the train station she came back to my place. But the threesome opportunity was certainly lost.

If I had been honest and said that I have a small apartment with one bed then the girls friend would never have come back in the first place.

If you have threesome experience it would be good to hear your advice on persuading two chicks to come back to your place, or how you would have handled this situation.

Post: #89

(07-20-2015 02:11 AM)StrengthBySonny Wrote:  Hahaha my biggest "game" fuck up aka missed opportunity happened in May 2013.

First time in Vegas... just graduated school.

Ran into a smoking hot milf. Blonde perfect body tight red dress. We chit chatted for a little bit.

She definitely liked me and said I was "gorgeous."

Told her my situation that I was looking to move to Vegas and had my Master's.

Told me about her husband how he was XYZ director at one of the major hotels.

She gave me her husbands e-mail and told me to send him my resume.

She kept pushing for me to join her and her friend she was with for lunch/drinks.

I decided against it because in my mind I was desperate for a job and thought it was a valuable contact.

Long story short... I e-mailed her husband a few times inquiring about employment and never heard back from him.

It would have been a slam dunk... I hope I run in to her since I live in Vegas now.

The truth is homie, if you had fucked her, I'm sure she would have bugged the fuck out of her husband to reply to you and give you a chance.

Gotta pay to play the game.

Post: #90

(07-27-2015 12:49 AM)NikuNashi Wrote:  

(07-24-2015 09:49 AM)Rocha Wrote:  

(07-24-2015 01:27 AM)NikuNashi Wrote:  So many fuckups, but I guess as long as I don't repeat any of them then they have all been contributing factors to success.

One of my biggest mistakes was going to the toilet at the wrong time, it destroyed a very good situation I had created.

(Tokyo 2013)

I had met this chick (Japanese) a couple of times, kissing but didnt bang her yet, she was keen messaging me but she was about a 6-7 and I was looking for better. Anyway I'm at my usual club scouting (alone) when she comes over a spots me. Shes with her friend, so we all drink together the three of us. I tell my chick lets get out of here and go to my place I'm tired and wanna relax and have a drink back at home. She says she can't, she has to stay with her friend. So I tell her to bring her friend too, my place is big and she can sleep on a futon I've got while we take the bed. About 10 minutes of persuading and I have them both in a taxi coming to my place. I don't have a spare futon and my place is a tiny one room apartment in shinjuku so when we go inside they are surprised but it's too late, I said lets just crash on the bed. So the friend gets on the bed and immediately turns and faces the wall and pretends to be sleeping, I turn the lights off and get in the middle facing my chick and kissing and grabbing her, playing around for about 30 mins. I'm thinking how can I bring the friend into this without my chick getting pissed. Anyway I'm bursting for the toilet, so I leave the bed and go to the toilet.

When I return, her friend is standing up putting her jacket on and getting ready to leave with my chick saying shes gonna walk her to the station to get the first train. In that 2 minutes in the toilet a golden chance was ruined, I gave them the chance alone to talk and back out of the situation.

I often think about how I should have handled that situation better.

Your mistake was lying about the size of your apartment. And the worst thing is that some lies can be uncovered after many weeks, months or years. Yours was about to be uncovered in 10 minutes. No one likes to be fooled and it shows desperation.
You maybe lost the girl interest completely after that.

No WC break is a game fuck up, a guy needs to go there more than he needs sex.

I didn't lose the interest of the main chick, I banged her a couple of times afterwards, shes was very keen. Once shed walked her friend to the train station she came back to my place. But the threesome opportunity was certainly lost.

If I had been honest and said that I have a small apartment with one bed then the girls friend would never have come back in the first place.

If you have threesome experience it would be good to hear your advice on persuading two chicks to come back to your place, or how you would have handled this situation.

Sure.

I have had two threesomes and two 2guys x 2 girls situations.
I will detail the last threesome wich is the one I am.most proud of, it was against all odds, and I was playing alone in the minefield of Lisbon/Portugal, wich is the worst place for men in the western part of the world. It started with me picking up an Irish girl in the club, she was a 6, she was also in the company of another 2 girlfriends also Irish and all in the 6 range. Well at the end of the venue, the two others where hooking with a trio of younger and good looking Portuguese guys, so the guys conviced the girls to do an after party in the girls apartment, it was a 3 on 3 situation, but I pulled mine and put her inside my nice car wich was strategically located in tbe parking lot outside of the club, all that people would not fit in a single taxi, so I offered ride to the girls also. Only mine, wich I did not yet even kissed, came. Once in the car I took her to nice part of town with a magnificent view to the city as it was already coming the morning and the amazing sunrise of Lisbon, started making out heavily with her, and then her friends started to call every 5 minutes asking where she was, if she would take long time etc...she gained time as she was feeling good with me. After this minutes of heavy make out and sensing she was crazy, I told her I would leave her home and then will bail out, because the guys who where there where a bunch of typical stupid Lisbon kids, and did not had age and patience to hang out with those kind of guys, she insisted that I came and we started making out again, with all this more than an hour had passed. After some more while, her friend called and said had already left and where a bunch of assholes, mine saying she was so lucky to have met the best men in the world...I agreed to come to their apartment.
On arrival at the entrance of the apartment...there was mess, full of white powder from the fire extinguisher, and the house was a mess, full of glasses still with red wine and dirty floor, girls saw the mess outside and started cleaning it all, I gave them a little hand, all 3 of them seemed in love with me and praising mine for having found such a wonder...guys where assholes, after seeing things would not be easier as it seemed earlier started to make a mess and exposing their frustration (typical Lisbon young men behaviour...these guys have zero game). So after cleaning, two girls go to sleep each one in a different room, and I stayed with mine in the living room drinking wine and then making good sex. After some cuddle she invites to go to bed with her, where one of her friends was also sleeping, I agreed. In bed we started again, and her friend woke up and joined without saying a word and without previous discussion. I felt like a king.
Another threesome was with two sluts in Kharkov that I invited for wine at my apartment, and the 2x2 was many years ago with some Portuguese older sluts and with heavy drinking involved.

Regarding your post, or it was explained well, or it was incomplete, because I did not get everything of the situation.

Post: #91

Yea just one of those things where you live and learn.

Post: #92

I've had many many own goals to count.

The worst was a girl who I had oneitis for like 3 years ago. I had known her from school and hit her up on Twitter to smoke some weed out of the blue. She agrees but then my brother and another friend hear about it (mutual friends) we just have a get together. The night goes well however no escalation except some hugging.

She comes over again a few days later and it's just me. My brother dips out of the house with 2 friends moments before she got to my house. Upon coming in I just feel awkward and tense. She says "I just saw your brother leaving" I say yeah he's going to a pub or whatever. She proceeds to sit down on the single chair and I'm on the sofa. Awkwardness ensues for a while and I'm acting beta as fuck. Netflix decides to not work and I say it should be working on my tv in my room. She says ok goes to my room which is just a single bed and a tv. She proceeds to sit on the floor while I'm on the bed. She then texts one of her orbiters to come pick her up and she leaves.

I fucking hated my self for a while after that.

Post: #93

I fuck up more often than not, but this one is a good story:

Me and a buddy are in a bar, sitting on two couches, each with a 7.5, the two of them having approached us.

girl: How old are you?
me: guess
girl: (being polite) 28?
me: You're too kind... 32.
girl: kay, now you guess my age
me: I'll go you one better, I'll guess your exact date of birth
girl: (incredulous) okay, go
me: ..... September.... 15.... 1985?
girl: (goes ghost white)..... September 15, '89.

(I managed to guess her birthday but thought she was four years older than she actually is)

Post: #94

"I fuck up more often than not, but this one is a good story:

Me and a buddy are in a bar, sitting on two couches, each with a 7.5, the two of them having approached us.

girl: How old are you?
me: guess
girl: (being polite) 28?
me: You're too kind... 32.
girl: kay, now you guess my age
me: I'll go you one better, I'll guess your exact date of birth
girl: (incredulous) okay, go
me: ..... September.... 15.... 1985?
girl: (goes ghost white)..... September 15, '89.

(I managed to guess her birthday but thought she was four years older than she actually is)"

She looks 4 years older than she is and hasn't admitted it to herself. She then got pissy at you for making an honest guess. She sounds like a bitchy anglo women to me. That's her problem not your problem.

Post: #95

I consider my biggest game fuckups the ones where I've had a girl at my place on a date and did not even try to escalate. I always thought that the vibe would magically turn sexual just by talking and waiting, or I was waiting for the perfect moment (never comes, just do it) to make a move.

Post: #96

Live and Learn...I'm still VERY young and can ALWAYS improve my game

I had an extremely hot Turkish girl out one night at a bar one night. Even though she talks too much, I wanted to fuck her and I knew she wanted me. For some reason I was being a little bitch about it, I even walked her home, kissed her on the cheek then left. WTF was I thinking. Fast forward a few months after I left the country, she drunk writes me on Facebook telling me I should've taken her up to her apartment and fucked her brains out.

Post: #97

My first week in Thailand 2014 I went raw with 2 different girls on back to back nights... and then got a real bad cold for about a week. I ended up googling 'HIV symptoms'.

Got checked in London (after going raw several more times... yeah I know...) and to my disbelief I was completely clean. Nothing.

Cue to a few weeks later to Bucharest and I had a solid 8 out on a date for the first time. Ended up inviting her back to my place to listen to some music.

She was typing in a band she liked into the computer that started with 'H'... and up pops 'HIV symptoms'. I freaked out... closed the computer... she said I was acting weird and left.

I now make sure I clear my internet history on the reg. You live and you learn lol.

Post: #98

Reading these game fuck ups are hilarious. I posted this in another thread as a learning experience, but I'll post it here as well as it still makes me think what if? to this day.

I remember during the summer I went out approaching solo at Venice Beach and ended up skateboarding down on my cruiser board to Santa Monica Beach. While on the Santa Monica Pier I approached this fine ass white girl with a skin tight black and white referee looking dress with her big ass and tittayz on display. My dick did not let me pass her by and I ended up gaming her while she was with her friend. I said some cool shit and ended up making out with her very passionate and aggressively while her friend was watching a people were walking. It was the second best make out I have had all year.

I did not give a Fuck who was there that's why they call me LA Savage!!!

I have the video evidence to prove this clearly and anybody who is in LA I will gladly show it to you on my phone.

It was an insane moment that had my dick harder than titanium.

I fucked up big time doe because I couldn't isolate her since her friend was there and logistics was not in my favor since my car was a Venice Beach and we were in Santa Monica. It was the evening and still super bright at the beach with the pier being insanely packed so I couldn't pull her for a same day lay.

The part that sealed the deal to my fuck up is me not getting her phone number so that I could fuck her later on that night/week as she told me she was leaving that weekend to move away to college.

I just took my L like a man and learned from the experience.

Post: #99

My background is that I was a shy, virginal little kid with some social anxiety until the age of about 20. When I began growing into my looks I started to receive some attention from women, but because I lacked any positive reference experiences, or had any kind of experience whatsoever, I failed to capitalise on the attention.

One of many pitiful examples is my first week at university in Ireland, met this cute little chick from Nebraska. Went on a date with her, and then arranged a second date back at hers. She cooked me dinner, and then afterwards, invited me to her room. I hardly meet women now who make it that fucking easy for me.

But what did I do? Nothing. Did I make a move, sitting on her bed? Nope. That is a good example of how clueless I was - even at the age of 20. I can only hang my head in shame at how badly I let this girl down.

Post: #100

(05-08-2015 08:29 AM)CH-Toronto Wrote:  

(05-08-2015 08:10 AM)forever_beta Wrote:  -A woman can be really into you now and lose all interest in 5 seconds if you fuck it up

I think this is a relatively new concept in Western Society.

I've had some 'major' fuck ups in my day. On two separate occasions I've been with girls who were completely naked and I just simply didn't take my clothes off because I had just froze- the situation had just felt weird. To be fair - the one girl prior to taking off her clothes said verbatim crying, "Please don't rape me", and the other girl thanked me for "not raping her".

I wish I could be making that up.

That's some scary shit. Girls brains simply don't work in a way that any man would consider normal.

I had a girl here in China that was the start of a relationship and she was a virgin, but a very enthusiastic learner: buying good looking lingerie, trying to be better at BJs, etc. After a few weeks she's ready to fuck and I do as much foreplay as possible, the bed is soaking wet. I get ready to fuck her and her whole body is tense from her toes to her forehead, like a rock. So I take some time to try and relax her, play around, tell some jokes, but she is being a nasty bitch, telling me im a pussy for not fucking her, etc, completely incongruent with her personality, like she was taken over by the devil, telling me to fuck her like a man, Im a little girl, etc. So I push her down and fuck the hell out of her, which is a terrible idea, since she is clenched everywhere, a tiny girl, like 90lbs and a virgin. Result is screaming and blood fucking everywhere, pouring out of her. I ripped her vagina something fierce, I believe because she was as clenched as possible. Obviously she starts balling her eyes out, Im trying to get towels and put on my clothes.

A horrible experience. I took her to the hospital, she was feinting from blood loss and the woman doctor was yelling at me in Chinese in front of a bunch of people. Fuck, even now its not good.

Fuck stupid bitches.