Post: #1

I have been saying hi to a girl who works near me for a month now. She is a biracial chubby 6. She smiles at me and complements me. However she told me she has a boyfriend but my gut tells me she likes me.

So finally I balled up and asked for number. She gave it to me but then quickly told me about a girl she works with who is single. Do I proceed to text her and ask her out or do I quit? Is it all just a shit test? Do I target her fat single friend?

Post: #2

(11-19-2014 02:13 AM)Pride male Wrote:  I have been saying hi to a girl who works near me for a month now. She is a biracial chubby 6. She smiles at me and complements me. However she told me she has a boyfriend but my gut tells me she likes me.

So finally I balled up and asked for number. She gave it to me but then quickly told me about a girl she works with who is single. Do I proceed to text her and ask her out or do I quit? Is it all just a shit test? Do I target her fat single friend?

No your frame is fucked up. Don't shit where you eat, and don't be stupid. Abundance mentality is all we have.

Post: #3

Why do you want a chubby or a fat girl?

Post: #4

I think we need more Info to help you out. Did you hug close her?

Post: #5

no, don't bother with either of the fat women.

Post: #6

(11-19-2014 02:13 AM)Pride male Wrote:  I have been saying hi to a girl who works near me for a month now. She is a biracial chubby 6. She smiles at me and complements me. However she told me she has a boyfriend but my gut tells me she likes me.

So finally I balled up and asked for number. She gave it to me but then quickly told me about a girl she works with who is single. Do I proceed to text her and ask her out or do I quit? Is it all just a shit test? Do I target her fat single friend?

Pride Male where are you based in SA?

Post: #7

she likes you (she gave her number), but she doesn't really want to get with you (she hints towards another single girl and she has a boyfriend).

now, if you'd game her and push it you may or may not get it. if it were me....i wouldn't bother. just hug close and move on. there's an abundance of girls as mentioned before in this thread.

Post: #8

No I didn't hug close. I stay in Cape Town Salt River. The chubby girl had a cute face. You are right I should move on. I will fuck the fat friend if its an easy kill. I really hate it when a girl is 'just being friendly' and gives me false hope.

Post: #9

Text her in the evening some night and ask if she wants to come over. If she does, she likes you. If she won't come over, but she does like you, it doesn't matter because you don't like her very much anyways.

Post: #10

(11-19-2014 03:18 AM)seabridge Wrote:  I think we need more Info to help you out. Did you hug close her?

(11-19-2014 04:39 AM)Pride male Wrote:  No I didn't hug close. I stay in Cape Town Salt River. The chubby girl had a cute face. You are right I should move on. I will fuck the fat friend if its an easy kill. I really hate it when a girl is 'just being friendly' and gives me false hope.

Even you admit you can do better than that, get some better standards man, you deserve it for yourself.

Post: #11

Overthinking a situation about a chubby girl/fat girl. Making a thread about it on RVF.

No abudance theory here.

Post: #12

"hug-close"

Post: #13

(11-19-2014 02:13 AM)Pride male Wrote:  I have been saying hi to a girl who works near me for a month now. She is a biracial chubby 6. She smiles at me and complements me. However she told me she has a boyfriend but my gut tells me she likes me.

So finally I balled up and asked for number. She gave it to me but then quickly told me about a girl she works with who is single. Do I proceed to text her and ask her out or do I quit? Is it all just a shit test? Do I target her fat single friend?

1) if you like her, you like her
2) don't target the fat single friend. Not because it's an easy kill, but because your target is pawning you off on her.
3) use the #

If she really respected her boyfriend and cared about him, she wouldn't have given you the #.

So now, you need a reason for you guys to talk/chat, and then a reason to hang out. And then you let nature take it's course.

WIA

Post: #14

(11-19-2014 03:18 AM)seabridge Wrote:  I think we need more Info to help you out. Did you hug close her?

Is she chubby to the point where hug-close is impossible? If so, reply "Dropped".

Post: #15

^^She is not that fat. I can definitely hug close her.

Post: #16

(11-20-2014 02:28 AM)Pride male Wrote:  ^^She is not that fat. I can definitely hug close her.

It's a forum joke for a now banned troll:

Am I being too alpha ?

Post: #17

I think the 1 month waiting period was WAY too long: you're in her nice-guy-timid-friend zone.
To me everything is lost, so don't hesitate: go ask her for a drink and if she says yes, try to kiss / bang her the same day.
If she says no, no big deal: there are 3.5 billion other women on this planet.