Post: #101

(11-20-2014 03:48 AM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  

(11-20-2014 01:22 AM)Travesty444 Wrote:  This man has conviction!

If he was a troll he'd be winning against of us like Little Dark vs. The 30 White Knights...

Well, the fact that OP has NOT yet been banned may cause some RVF'ers to believe that OP is legit, and with some kind of legit scenario that he is describing.

So, yep, OP is surely beating our asses with what seems to be a stupid-ass scenario that makes little to no sense in the real world regarding what guys should be striving to pursue in long term relationships.

Short term relations may be another story, but even then, I would find it somewhat troubling to be involved in relations that are inviting other guys.. and allowing my participation to be minimized and seemingly marginalized... Call it insecurity or whatever, but I like to participate and direct significant and material aspects of my relationships with women, and when they seem to be calling a large majority of the shots, I lose my sense of manliness... and even sense that the girl loses her respect and/or deference towards me and my preferences when she is given too much latitude and control in our relationship.

In other words, I likely would NOT agree, and I likely would put my foot down, unless there were to be some way to frame the situation in such a way in which the girl is fulfilling various needs and desires that I truly want fulfilled.

I believe TravelerKai made several good points well in his above post.

Thanks good to know some people do take me seriously and believe in what this post is all about. I know I'm new here but surely you'll see in the near future if I'm a bullshitter or not. I read through the rules of trolling and personally I think people who troll / make things up as they go along are pathetic! I thought this tread would be more positive than people trying to figure me out as a troll or not...lol!
I the type of guy that's very straight forward and straight to the point, I don't sugar coat anything to make it seem better than what it is.
Anyway with that said I'd be grateful if there are any other who only have positive feed back on this subject....thanks again! Mike..

Post: #102

Mike,

You have to understand the sheer number of ridiculous stories that new posters come here with trying to troll us.

With that said, I'm curious how this idea even came about.

Was it your idea? Did she bring it up somehow with a subtle hint and let you run with it?

I'm in the camp that thinks its bad news and not worth the money (i really doubt you'll make much but who knows)

Give us some more background on what the impetus was.

Post: #103

(11-20-2014 04:56 AM)Fisto Wrote:  Mike,

You have to understand the sheer number of ridiculous stories that new posters come here with trying to troll us.

With that said, I'm curious how this idea even came about.

Was it your idea? Did she bring it up somehow with a subtle hint and let you run with it?

I'm in the camp that thinks its bad news and not worth the money (i really doubt you'll make much but who knows)

Give us some more background on what the impetus was.

Fisto to be purely honest I came up with the idea first and approached my wife with the idea. I've known my wife now for 17 years now and we both know each other inside out, if you know what I mean.
We are struggling financially at this stage as well and its just a side line thing to get us back on our feet again. With my wife that's done stripping in her past before we hooked up it made perfect sense for to do some webcam modelling to make ends meat for our family. I made a 100% sure that she's comfortable with it before going ahead and she is. Hell I would do it myself but male models are mostly for gay men and that my friend is beyond my reach.
I trust my wife and she trust me completely, I will never let her do something that's against her will.
This will only continue if successful for about 3 to 4 years so that my little ones can be old enough to help mommy around the house and keep themselves entertained. Then I will be seeking work abroad again, most probably in any sort of war zone where the money is good. I have nearly 4 years experience working in Afghanistan for private contractors who supported NATO. We both currently work but we spending more than what we earning if that makes any sense.
So there you have it bro, didn't want to start of the tread with my life store but it seems that it was inevitable it would surface.

Post: #104

Well, it sounds like you've made the decision to try it already so I hope it goes your way.

I don't know much about it but I remember an article posted here about some girl that would fuck her doll.

She would carry on like they had a real relationship and talk to it and whatnot. There was also some horror element to it that I don't remember.

Anyway the point is that she needed to specialize in something in order to stand out.

She started doing the doll thing and built a hige following.

Find some niche.

Post: #105

(11-20-2014 05:18 AM)Fisto Wrote:  Well, it sounds like you've made the decision to try it already so I hope it goes your way.

I don't know much about it but I remember an article posted here about some girl that would fuck her doll.

She would carry on like they had a real relationship and talk to it and whatnot. There was also some horror element to it that I don't remember.

Anyway the point is that she needed to specialize in something in order to stand out.

She started doing the doll thing and built a hige following.

Find some niche.

Yes you right we are currently checking all the options on dress wear and story line if you will. So far we know there are also stick rules joining these agencies like..... No giving out your personal contact information, No violence, No bestiality, No rape...and the list goes on. So we very happy about those kinda things. My wife will of course first joint a non nudity site and then we'll take it from there..

Post: #106

Slay me for suggesting this, as some in this thread seem liberated to doing this shit.

But this sounds like a great way to Kamikaze your marriage.

I've had 6-7 threesomes. Webcaming IMO is the precursor to an entirely "open" lifestyle.

Half were with girls I could care less about, those were great, a little awkward at points, but enlightening.

The other half were with women closer to me, and it definitely fucked things up.

I understand where Patrice O'Neal comes from, getting over your ego and shit, yet in my experience it plants a seed that fucks things up for people you're close to, or want to be.

Post: #107

This is a good idea but not with the wife. As an earlier posted stated it would be better to just use your wife to recruit the type of girls who would be willing to do this. BE THE PIMP. Splitting profits and making this happen with various women would be able to make your income from various sources. The other issue is beating out the already free came horse and porn. Bring incentive.

Post: #108

Google hbo sex now. I am working off a funky tablet or else I would link and do all that jazz. It was about web camming and money. If you are in a tight spot I guess you do what you have to without judgement. But as many have mentioned down the road you may have issues.

Now comes the warning for others. When a woman feels like she needs bowling balls for boobs it is a sign of massive insecurity. Massive insecurity = poor decision making. I am not saying this is the case in this situation. Just like 99.9 percent of the time.

I don't know how someone who is ok with webcamming won't be ok with banging someone for a million dollars. Think of that demi Moore movie indecent proposal.

OP good luck, be as careful as you can. Like I said you do what you have to in order to make ends meet. But most people are unable to see too far into the future.

Post: #109

(11-20-2014 10:18 AM)hwuzhere Wrote:  This is a good idea but not with the wife. As an earlier posted stated it would be better to just use your wife to recruit the type of girls who would be willing to do this. BE THE PIMP. Splitting profits and making this happen with various women would be able to make your income from various sources. The other issue is beating out the already free came horse and porn. Bring incentive.

Cam whores*

Post: #110

Oh I wonder what happened to OP...

Surprising that he lasted so long with those stupid-ass ideas, and s/he was NOT even very innovative with the presentation of the ideas....

it was like suggesting... how do I fuck up my emotional life and give up game and let women decide the dynamics of my relationships with them... YEAH right!

Post: #111

(11-20-2014 03:17 PM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  Oh I wonder what happened to OP...

Surprising that he lasted so long with those stupid-ass ideas, and s/he was NOT even very innovative with the presentation of the ideas....

it was like suggesting... how do I fuck up my emotional life and give up game and let women decide the dynamics of my relationships with them... YEAH right!

Well dropping a bunch of F bombs directed at us, probably was not the wisest of moves.... I imagine that did him in more so than his hairbrained ideas.

Post: #112

Why not just cut down his expenses?

It seems like you're away quite a bit, contracting abroad.

Why be married if you're going to be away so long and so often?

Better yet, you believe your now-camgirl ex-stripper wife didn't cheat on you while you were away