Post: #26

(11-14-2014 03:24 AM)lowside Wrote:  this is like reading about these high school kids that get to tap their hot teacher's ass: damn, why the hell does this shit never happen to me????

these girls are out there, my numbers are pretty low but I have had 2 girls in rotation at different points that were into this shit to some degree. Seems like maybe 10% of women are into this stuff to an extent.

It was a bit of a trip for me to take the plunge and take ownership of the pussy, but I was rewarded handsomely in both cases.

I actually have trouble doing this with girls I am actually into. I am pedestrianizing a bit I suppose.

Post: #27

I say bone her, and take her money off her.

Post: #28

Go to urban dictionary, look up some of the weird terms,(ex. alligator fuckhouse, angry pirate, dirty air pump), use them.

Post: #29

You have to decide how far you want to go with this. Many girls can be turned into slaves, among other things. Next time you are fucking her, degrade her a bit. Call her your personal slut ect. Chances are she will like it. Those types of words alone may make her cum. You have to mean it though. If you're into being a master and she is the right kind of sub then you can fuck other girls on the side and she can't say anything about it-- she's you're slave. Many women can get addicted to this kind of relationship.

Don't ever ask her anything, just tell her. She will like it.

You probably won't get much emotional fulfillment out of it (or maybe you will) but you will own her.

Post: #30

A good book on it. -> /thread-40722.html

Post: #31

You may do well to find a mentor--a more experienced master who has owned and trained many slaves. There are men who have their own harems, and you may have your own someday.

I highly recommend talking to Goreans. They are fans of John Norman's book series, which features a society in which women are trained and used in this manner. Plus, Goreans are pretty cool.

In exchange for the mentorship, you offer your mentor occasional use of your slave. If she truly is your slave, then she will be happy to serve other men if you order her to do so. It established your authority over her. You could even tell her that you are offering to improve her cocksucking skills.

It's really the ultimate test of ownership. If she is willing to be loaned out, then she truly is a slave. If she is a slave, then she will suck any penis you put in her mouth (not just yours).

And the question is: are you secure enough in your ownership of her to do that? Are you secure enough that you will loan her out and she will still come back to you? Are you proud enough of her that you are willing to share her with other men? Are you confident that you have trained her well enough that she will please any man who gets to use her?

Order a pizza. In lieu of a monetary tip, tell her to go the door in a bikini or underwear and offer the deliver driver a blow job.

In summary, she's not your property until you allow someone else to use her.

Post: #32

Another common thing is that almost all owned slaves wear something at all times. It could be a ring, a collar, a bracelet. It may be something that is innocent enough to everyone else. If she doesn't have a pierced tongue, then you could get her one of those. It serves as a constant reminder of what she is.

Take it further, and you may get her a tattoo or even a brand. You could also put a chastity belt on her and take full control of her orgasms. The great thing about chastity belts is that you can still use her mouth easily.

I'd also whip her at least once a week. Ritual is important to these things.

Get on Fetlife and look up the Goreans. They're definitely the coolest people in the BDSM world. While many in the kink community are very leftist, Goreans are very much red-pill. Goreans would be very sympathetic to this site.

Post: #33

I don't know anything about this bsdm stuff, but I'll make a new chick stick a dildo up her ass and go buy me beer at the store. That counts as something right

Post: #34

(11-16-2014 10:55 PM)Feo Wrote:  I don't know anything about this bsdm stuff, but I'll make a new girl stick a dildo up her ass and go buy me beer at the store. That counts as something right

If she wants to be dominated then you are going to have to do better than that - you have to literally own them from head to toe even into their little hamster-wheel mind, what you just described was humiliation and you will have to go further than that depending on her limits.

Post: #35

That was a joke bro. Anyways..all jokes aside, I prefer "turning" a chick into mine slowly rather than getting one that's pre-packaged. Just my own preference

Post: #36

ohhhh for a minute there I wasn't sure - I did have a laugh though, last sub I had her go to work with a plug for the whole day......apparently she got funny looks the whole time (one can only imagine the facial expressions)

my apologies

Post: #37

I don't know how well they hold up, but you may want to have her sign a contract. Contracts are great because they summarize what is and isn't allowed. Every girl has limits.

Post: #38

(11-16-2014 04:12 PM)puckerman Wrote:  You may do well to find a mentor--a more experienced master who has owned and trained many slaves. There are men who have their own harems, and you may have your own someday.

I highly recommend talking to Goreans. They are fans of John Norman's book series, which features a society in which women are trained and used in this manner. Plus, Goreans are pretty cool.

In exchange for the mentorship, you offer your mentor occasional use of your slave. If she truly is your slave, then she will be happy to serve other men if you order her to do so. It established your authority over her. You could even tell her that you are offering to improve her cocksucking skills.

It's really the ultimate test of ownership. If she is willing to be loaned out, then she truly is a slave. If she is a slave, then she will suck any penis you put in her mouth (not just yours).

And the question is: are you secure enough in your ownership of her to do that? Are you secure enough that you will loan her out and she will still come back to you? Are you proud enough of her that you are willing to share her with other men? Are you confident that you have trained her well enough that she will please any man who gets to use her?

Order a pizza. In lieu of a monetary tip, tell her to go the door in a bikini or underwear and offer the deliver driver a blow job.

In summary, she's not your property until you allow someone else to use her.

This is completely accurate. Your ability to do this will also show yourself whether or not you truly believe you are her master.

I have done these things with women in the past. It's how I know I own them. If I can't do it, then I don't. It's very subconscious.

At times I have also lost ownership. It seems like a giant headfuck because it is.

Post: #39

have we not all learned by now. you can never truly own a woman.

Post: #40

(11-17-2014 06:12 PM)Mr. Butterworth Wrote:  have we not all learned by now. you can never truly own a woman.

in this instance it is no different (however a more extreme version) of running mind games with a woman. She for her part gives up control and wants to (severity differs between slave and sub - I have been learning REAL fast) where the sub would be able to question (so very much like an old-school version of relationships where you as the dom are the boss) your word is still law, a slave however has no real limits - by her nature YOU define everything; her limits, what you will and will not do etc. etc.

overly-generalized but long story short you CAN own a woman but I think Eddie Murphy put it well;

"You don't own that pussy, you just have it on lease.......with an option to buy"

Post: #41

Most of these relationships don't last. But you can still enjoy it while you have it.

Post: #42

If its not some inclination that you have, and only something that youre doing to keep her, it seems to me itll end up being exhausting and needlessly tiresome.

Big difference between rough sex and acting roles all day long.

You'd be changing your behavior to fit hers. Who's dominating who then (overly dramatic question but i think it has a point).

But if you feel yourself drawn to it, as in you want to be that person regardless of the girl, go for it.

Post: #43

A consensual power exchange such as this has responsibilities on both ends. Hers are clear - obey.

yours on the other hand are bigger and deeper. her well being is your responsibility now. you have to learn about her and find her edges of boundaries. then you have to creatively and safely push those boundaries.

If you don't push boundaries you're not going to keep her. she has to feel like you're teaching her things and showing her the way, all the while truly taking care of her.

its far more of a commitment then just being a dominant prick in general.

the top/master/dom often (always) works harder than the slave because it takes planning and consideration.
you will have to read up.

If Safe Sane Consensual doesn't mean something to you yet, you need to read up and learn.

I have lots of experiences with this. chicks in dog cages. chicks waiting naked in dark hotel rooms for me for hours until i show up to fuck her. beatings. choking. staged rapes. cooking, cleaning, shopping, rubbing, scratching...being utterly devoted.

It takes energy and effort and caution yet abandon.

And finally, be wary of the "tourist" the girl who thinks she wants to try it but really doesn't know what she is getting into. She could end up resenting you and acting out as she realizes this isnt for her. Because frankly, it is not for most.


Some guys think that having hand in general in a relationship can be trying, this is the ultimate test.

Post: #44

Just wanted to echo something said upthread - this girl has revealed either her inexperience or mental problems because girls that have done this before know that calling someone master or daddy has real meaning. it doesn't get handed out without real trust and belief that you are worthy.

throwing it out first or second date say she is inexperienced and/or really needs to fill a certain gap in her psyche.

Post: #45

I've potentially found a few girls like this on tinder, I said fuck it last night and just started sending out first massages that say I'm not looking for anything serious, if you'd like to meet a dominant man we should talk.

I see it as hard screening, and the girls either don't respond, respond sarcastically, or show interest. Over the last day with this I've had 4 girls show interest.

I'm wondering if there would be a more effective first message then what I'm sending, anyone have ideas/advice?

I'm also wondering how to proceed once they show interest. One girl told me she likes to be slapped and beat with a belt, we've exchanged numbers, I'd like to get her to send me nudes, should I switch over to normal mode at some point to build some comfort or should I just stick to this dominant sexual frame with these girls? I'm not really looking for a slave, just a FWB who open to bdsm, Dom/Sub etc.