Post: #1

Just wondering if you guys come accross girls who aren't game for a ONS / 2nd or 3rd date bang.

Maybe I don't screen girls properly enough to tell beforehand? Perhaps so, they could be avoided by sufficient screening.

But surely these type of girls do exist, they tend to be more cautious and less slutty of course. They do have their advantages because it usually means they are fresh meat and haven't been pounded by many others. They tend to be classier as well...


Do you guys avoid these are they are too time consuming?

I was thinking that maybe my game isn't strong enough? But SOME Chinese girls simply won't give out so soon (some easily do though..).

Post: #2

Girls who bang on the first date or after 2 or 3 dates will be good to include in your harem. They probably have been pounded by many guys and will be good fuck material, but nothing more.

If the girl is Asian, living in Asia, and still virgin, don't go after her if you don't plan on making it a LTR. First, you will need to spend shitloads of money / time / meet people / etc. to get the bang, and secondly, you will burn a good girl.

If the girl is not virgin but simply won't give up that easily, I'd suggest you simply next her.

Post: #3

(11-07-2014 03:25 AM)alex3948 Wrote:  Girls who bang on the first date or after 2 or 3 dates will be good to include in your harem. They probably have been pounded by many guys and will be good fuck material, but nothing more.

If the girl is Asian, living in Asia, and still virgin, don't go after her if you don't plan on making it a LTR. First, you will need to spend shitloads of money / time / meet people / etc. to get the bang, and secondly, you will burn a good girl.

If the girl is not virgin but simply won't give up that easily, I'd suggest you simply next her.

I took a 19 year old Chinese models (in terms of Chinese she was a 10) V quite easily actually, was pretty much the opposite of what you said. But there were some other crazy things that occured after it, like super attachment...

Post: #4

(11-07-2014 03:25 AM)alex3948 Wrote:  Girls who bang on the first date or after 2 or 3 dates will be good to include in your harem. They probably have been pounded by many guys and will be good fuck material, but nothing more.

If the girl is Asian, living in Asia, and still virgin, don't go after her if you don't plan on making it a LTR. First, you will need to spend shitloads of money / time / meet people / etc. to get the bang, and secondly, you will burn a good girl.

If the girl is not virgin but simply won't give up that easily, I'd suggest you simply next her.

Thats some IRT or a Thai equivalent nationalist denial shit right there

Post: #5

(11-07-2014 04:09 AM)calihunter Wrote:  

(11-07-2014 03:25 AM)alex3948 Wrote:  Girls who bang on the first date or after 2 or 3 dates will be good to include in your harem. They probably have been pounded by many guys and will be good fuck material, but nothing more.

If the girl is Asian, living in Asia, and still virgin, don't go after her if you don't plan on making it a LTR. First, you will need to spend shitloads of money / time / meet people / etc. to get the bang, and secondly, you will burn a good girl.

If the girl is not virgin but simply won't give up that easily, I'd suggest you simply next her.

Thats some IRT or a Thai equivalent nationalist denial shit right there

I'm not a Thai national, but I've been living there for a while. My post reflects my opinion only for Asian girls; in the West, that's completly different.

I've never been into ONSing virgins in Asia, because it makes things harder and longer, and you won't get the experience of a girl having done that and knowing what she wants. I think we should keep those girls for gf material.

There are so many experienced girls that are easier to get and that are just waiting for the cock, if what you want is a ONS or a 2-3 date bang, that's the kind of girl you should chase.

Post: #6

http://therationalmale.com/2012/01/19/next/

Post: #7

(11-07-2014 01:36 AM)Lanky0 Wrote:  Just wondering if you guys come accross girls who aren't game for a ONS / 2nd or 3rd date bang.

Maybe I don't screen girls properly enough to tell beforehand? Perhaps so, they could be avoided by sufficient screening.

But surely these type of girls do exist, they tend to be more cautious and less slutty of course. They do have their advantages because it usually means they are fresh meat and haven't been pounded by many others. They tend to be classier as well...


Do you guys avoid these are they are too time consuming?

I was thinking that maybe my game isn't strong enough? But SOME Chinese girls simply won't give out so soon (some easily do though..).

Might get more advice on the Travel Board.

In the west
- gauge your interest
- gauge her interest
- spin plates
- reduce her priority

If you're banging other chicks, waiting a long time for one particular chick is of no consequence. Definitely decrease your resource investment though.

Hang Out
DVD's
Coffee

as opposed to

expensive dinners
nights out dancing
exciting type dates

Probably wouldn't hurt to cut some of your dates short.
"I'm seeing a friend"

I just don't know enough about the Chinese girl psyche.

The problem with foreign girls is that everyone claims that they're more chaste and less likely to fuck on the 1st date. I honestly don't think women are vastly different from one another, so I have to believe that there's a Fei Long out their banging these Chun Li's on the low and not coming out the pocket to knock it © Ice Cube.

WIA

Post: #8

Some girls just don't get the whole "dating" thing. They don't associate you taking them out with sex. It's crazy I know but it's true.

Post: #9

I've run into this, sure - we all have. Not all girls are straight easy lays and pump n, dump material. I don' have any experience with SEA girls either but from the consensus of people here who do I'd say they are generally a little more reserved and less liberal with their sexuality than Western women. The Western world promotes sexual freedom and hook-up culture so 1st-date lays are quite common but not absolute.

At the end of the day it really depends on what you want out of your interactions with a particular woman or women in general. Just looking to get a nut with some fresh pussy, take someone home to mom, or somewhere in between? The Western world is considered to be a place of generally poor quality women but good for easy sex. The more "traditional" cultures of the world are considered to be good for finding quality women who are more pleasurable to spend time with and be around. I'm talking about what our community values, of course.

I'll tell you a brief story thats relevant:

Earlier this year I was hooking up with girls off of OKC. I was really just looking to secure some easy low-investment bangs with cute girls (aren't we all?). I banged 3 or 4 girls off of there SNL and was looking forward to getting a few more. I had a couple dates lined up one particular week - both were met somewhere public and we walked around and talked. I clicked well with both of them. One of them I brought back to my house that night and she sucked and fucked me real good. The other one I only made out with. The girl that didn't give it up still hadn't given it up on date 3 and she actually cut me off when shooting for date 4 because she could tell I was really looking to get in her pants and she didn't want that 'so soon'.

Fast forward 8 months and I ended up in a mini-relationship with the easy girl. She broke me off recently because she didn't see us working out in the long run and no longer wanted to continue as a casual relationship... since I got a lot of that banging out of my system earlier in the year then got somewhat locked in with a girl for half a year I find myself in relationship-mode and actually really wish that cute reserved tight-bodied black girl hadn't moved to Miami back in July.

Currently I see myself valuing the sweet reserved girl who doesn't give it up easy and is a pleasure to be around as opposed to a snarky easy lay.