Post: #1

Met a girl. She knew of me already / I was pre-selected. We met at a bar with common friends. Spit game, walked her to her car, had a sess. and banged at mine.

I see this girl on a regular basis outside of work now. When we met at the bar, I was a bit loose, but still DHV'd and played aloof not interested etc. etc.

Now we don't talk, as I discarded her eventually for not passing any compliance tests after we banged (she thought I was chasing her, to the point where I had to let her know I was the prize, by freezing her out). I ignored her for the most part, but was still polite when we saw each other (small talk etc.) She always initiated conversation. I kept giving her chances for me to reward her so I could end the freeze out, but after a while I started to notice something troubling. It was as if she was trying to adapt to my "personality" by using my own tactics against me. I don't know if she thinks I'm pretending, as I was so "lively and energetic at the bar that first night" (Bourbon does that to us), and is butthurt I'm not like this all time, or if she thinks I'm deliberately trying to game her. In either case, the shroud of mystery and/or evidence of me gaming her, should be working to my advantage.

When we do talk, she tries so hard to be blunt, and non-flirty (just as I was right after we banged). I can literally sense her trying to insult me or "neg" as some might call it at every possible turn. Normally, I just proceed as usual and shrug it off or walk away without saying anything. I have to admit though, it's starting to get to me. It's starting to get to me in a way that I'm very fucking interested in what's going on in her brain, the actual female mentality/perspective of the situation. I'm smart enough to not give into yet another sad excuse for a seduction attempt, but it's still sparking my interest on a conceptual level.

This went to the extreme the other night, as we all went out again. I did the usual and ignored her and only engaged in small talk. Her and two other girls were the only ones there, and she isn't friends with them. I was having a good time making my rounds to the guys, and even meeting a few new people. The entire night I could just sense she had some sinister vibe against me. Like out of the corner of my eye she would grill me, not to mention whenever I got close to her, I would make her very uncomfortable/nervous, as she would immediately cross her arms, and eventually even cross her legs while standing up. (She even started biting her lip at one point) So everyone is starting to go home, I text her saying "where are you staying tonight" "IdK" "Come back with us (me), we'll probably end it at my place".

So not only does this bitch not answer back (after immediately responding with "Idk", pretty much giving me the green light to invite her back), she proceeds to show some other shmuck at the bar we arrived with, the text I just sent her...directly in front of me, and yes, she had that "yeah see I told you he wants me" look on her face. I thought the orbiter she showed was about to pat her on the back...

I feel like I'm just over-thinking it here, as she's probably all butthurt that I ignore her now after we banged, but the idea popped into my head about something I read in Robert Green's book on seduction, and how one of the tactics (correct me If I'm wrong, it's been a year or two), involves "getting into your skin/spirit". This is meant as a form of warming up to someone, and exemplifying/mimicking the "targets/victims" traits when you are around them. It's almost as if she wants me to be like "Hey, she's doing things that I do, because she thinks I'm super fucking cool, let me reward her for thinking I'm super fucking cool by throwing her a bone" I almost feel like she's trying to use my own game, to game me back.

Have any of you guys ever experienced this? Heard of it? Seen it? Can comment on it? I am apt to think that girls will do this and it's normal, but I need confirmation, as I will be one proud son of a bitch for noticing this on my own, in a real-life situation, not to mention the implications of this could be endless.

TL : DR = Chicks trying to use your own tactics against you, especially after you shut them out after the bang.

Post: #2

drop that ho. She ain't gonna be more into you and you're hamsterising too much about one pissy pussy

Also from what you wrote it's difficult to ascertain what frame you gamed her from (fun preselected guy from her social circle) and then correct me if I'm wrong, perhaps switched to a blunt asshole straight after getting yours. That would make any human being upset. Cause you're being overt at treating her as a cum dumpster. Maybe I'm reading it wrong

Post: #3

why are you wasting time pondering how to claw back a girl playing ridiculous games.... that you've already banged?

by the way, as soon as you're genuinely and fully not interested in her, she'll be back into you.

Post: #4

(11-07-2014 12:26 AM)Griprip08 Wrote:  TL : DR = Treated girl like shit after banging her, then she acts disinterested. Then I text her at a social event when I'm WITHIN SIGHT. Wonder why she acts like a bitch to me

There, fixed that up there for you

Post: #5

Good input there. You had a great thing, a girl in the social circle you banged and no one knew. She's playing it cool like college when everybody fooled around and was light-hearted about it. Leave it at that and go bang another chic.

Quote:I feel like I'm just over-thinking it here

^^You know what you're doing...get over it.

Edit:
I've been in your situation. I banged a social circle girl, she was young and cute, thought maybe LTR. She wasn't interested, it pissed me off, and was one of the best learning experiences of my life. I'd say besides divorce, that experience, which didn't seem major at the time, shaped my relationships with women forever.

One more thing...Is this the one situation where a girl can out-game a man?

Post: #6

To answer your real question here - from my experiences yes some girls do this. Some girls will try to "game-back" to your aloofness once they realize being attentive isn't making you any warmer to her. If you come off as indifferent/assholish then she will want to try to win you over. If she can't after a certain point then she may sort of accept that she is chasing you and it's not exactly working so she will try to see if you'll chase her and maybe "1-up" your aloof game. Generally if a broad does this it means she already has one foot out the door with you because if she was legitimately into you then she wouldn't be able to hold up the charade of acting aloof and indifferent towards you.

Along the lines of what everyone else has already said, it does sound like perhaps your demeanor change after banging her has made her sour. She wants to think fucking will make you warmer to her, after all besides just being fun, sex is supposed to strengthen bonds on a psychological level.

EDIT: And yes drop her ass. Nothing more annoying than a girl playing aloof. Not worth the fucking effort or worry. She is not a prize to chase after remember that.

Post: #7

As was pointed out you have already banged this girl, let her come back into your orbit on her own while you continue to meet other girls.

So what she showed another orbitor your text, that's what guys do; end of the night, you got some drinks in you and you wanna fuck something. You can afford to be smug, since you have already planted your flag.

Nothing to be ashamed of, you're not chasing. Remember you've already scored with her. You just want to tap that ass again; Anything else is extra gravy on the biscuit

Scoreboard:

Griprip08: 1

Annoying Girl: 0

Post: #8

Yup eject, better pastures await you my friend.

Post: #9

All great stuff. Stalin, that was truly what I was wondering about, but thanks to the rest of you for virtually slapping my silly ass and reminding me to keep on reeling them in.

Good shit Bro's.

Post: #10

So then this bitch ask me if I know where the pet store is!!