Post: #1

So,

About 3 times now girls have asked me if I have an IG or a FB. I don't have either and I don't want either. I have a FB, but it's for business purposes and I'm not friending some random chick on it. However, more than a few girls from online dating have not given me their numbers or wanted to meet up because it's "weird" that I refuse to participate in their social media delusions (let's be real; every girl has FB or IG so that thirsty dudes can like their shit and tell them how great they look, not because they want to "keep in touch" with their families.) What do you guys do when girls ask you to friend them on FB or IG?

thanks,

Fortis

Post: #2

Always number close unless you have 1k followers on IG or photos with celebs on FB. They are just trying to farm more orbiters, period.

It sounds like either
1. They are not that attracted to you
Or
2. You seem too good to be true and they want to "verify" your identity. Even then you can still number close and FaceTime / Skype instead

Women want sex as much as men. Would you ask for a girl's fb or ig instead of the number?

Keep pressing for number and meet up, if not, next. That's the game we have to play

Post: #3

Agreed with the previous and frankly, online dating is social media. It's not really any different. So if you're going to be against one, you should be against all...

But I agree with you that it's a delusion. You don't have to play on social media to be part of the game.

(11-04-2014 02:10 PM)Fortis Wrote:  So,

About 3 times now girls have asked me if I have an IG or a FB. I don't have either and I don't want either. I have a FB, but it's for business purposes and I'm not friending some random chick on it. However, more than a few girls from online dating have not given me their numbers or wanted to meet up because it's "weird" that I refuse to participate in their social media delusions (let's be real; every girl has FB or IG so that thirsty dudes can like their shit and tell them how great they look, not because they want to "keep in touch" with their families.) What do you guys do when girls ask you to friend them on FB or IG?

thanks,

Fortis

Post: #4

Get snapchat and/or whatsapp

Snapchat is quite discrete, you can have a username that doesnt link to your real name and its great your opening girls up sexually and comfort wise

Whatsapp is simply one step up from texting but is useful too.

If she doesnt accept these she is most likely unavailable/disinterested

Post: #5

Social media sluts and no one are safe from using tech i guess.

Post: #6

Maybe you just don't fit their image of someone who is not into that stuff. Not that its a bad thing, but you gotta fuel their delusions.

Post: #7

I would say no and make a joke about them needing a pacifier for being so childish. push for the number close--if she hasnt run off or registered you as a creep (translation hasnt ran off yet) shes interested at least and is open for more.

also I agree with lycosidae and dissagree. exchanging social media info is a booby trap for making you into a thristy dude. NOW with girls you meet via social media if they add you and they meet your standards add them back slide into those DMs bruh (direct messages/PMs)--think of it like them giving you the green light. If they dont respond then next them. Also If you and them and they add you back slide into those DMs bruh!!

say word son

Post: #8

How about tinder? It's online too.

I never tried using it though.

Post: #9

I just tell them I don't have a FB or IG account. If she likes you, she'll give you her number anyway; if she doesn't, too bad - you'll have one less attention whore to deal with.

Post: #10

This is happening after I get the number and try to set up plans. I should have clarified.

Post: #11

True. FB doesn't work for me, it puts a bad spell on my game, I just use it for adding girls I already banged, if they insist on friending me. Sometimes I think they invented these social networks as an anti-game tool.

Post: #12

I've gotten this plenty:

I'm a busy guy so I use Tinder, OKC, POF etc alot.

TONS of girls put their IG's on tinder, like others have said, their thirst is real for followers on social media.

FIRST: Use this to your advantage, see if they're SIF's, legit, or anything that can help you text game them. The more you know about a girl the better of an advantage you have to get her number.

My first questions are:
How are you asking for the girls numbers ?
Do you keep it light and funny before ?
Do you use any of the lines in the Tinder thread to get the number?
How long before you ask for their number ?
How do you open them, or do they open you?

When they ask for your IG or FB:
-Tell them truth "Yeah, I've got a facebook but it's for my private business only" if they ask for it say "I don't add anyone I don't know in real life" or "hey how do I know you aren't some 6'4' 500 LB dude named bubba, let's see some proof !"
-Always turn these requests on them, always make them have to prove things.
-Create an IG, post cool things but only a few pics then say "yeah I have one but I barely have time to use it" or something of that nature, flip it on her.
[email protected] is right, get a snapchat, you can text & great for nudes & whatsapp as well.

Personally I refuse to add girls on FB, but my IG has 1000+ followers and I'm doing fun shit when I'm not working, so inadvertently I've cultivated my IG to show SMV (with a bunch of girls, out having fun, extremely social, and adventurous).

I also do a burn the ships approach, I either get her number by text game I've employed via the Tinder thread OR I move on to the next match (plenty of them out there).

I will not give into a girls demands or her not giving me her number. Some great lines I've used to get numbers are as follows:

Kaotic -"So i've got an important questions before I get your number"
Girl - "Oh yeah what's that ?"
Kaotic - "What's your number?"

Kaotic - "2 miles away ? Are you stalking me !? I'm surprised you aren't texting me outside my bushes!"
-follow this train of thought to get her number-

Kaotic - "I've got 3 important questions for you"
Girl - "Hahah okay what ?"
Kaotic - "So 1. Funny/Interest Question 2. Funny/Interest Question"
Girl: "Answer 1, Answer 2, wait you didn't tell me Question 3"
Kaotic - "Answer 3 is your number"

-Challenge the girl with something to prove her self worth-
Kaotic -"Look I'll be honest you're cute but what makes you different from other girls OR (other tinder girls)"
Girl - "I'm blah blah blah"
Kaotic - "We'll see about that when we hangout, number?"

Kaotic: "You know I'd get your number but how do I know you aren't some 6'4' 500 LB dude named bubba, let's see some proof !"

-Last ditch effort-
Kaotic: "For all I know you could be some 6'4' 500 LB dude named bubba, tell you what send me a pic with you flipping me off and your tongue out and I'll believe you! -your number-"

^^^You'd be surprised that it actually works, girls love taking selfies.

ALWAYS PUSH FOR THE NUMBER CLOSE

If you don't get it, don't sweat it, try restarting it later. If not, no big deal plenty of girls online and in real life around you.

Don't ever let getting a number get to you.


EDIT:
Fortis, just read your clarification.

Since you've already number closed them online and have their numbers, you can use some of the things I talked about above.

-SnapChat for selfies and nudes (she'll forget all about IG and FB)
-Tell her your FB is ONLY for work people OR maybe if she's lucky she'll get a friend request from you.
-You'll explain in person (it's complicated) why you don't have a FB.
-Send her pics or memes or funny pics to distract her before the meet.
-Change the subject immediately.
-Flip the scripts "are you gonna creep on me !? " or "Do I need to file a restraining order already hahah"

Post: #13

great points kaotic!

change topic / distract them really os the best way to go. if they like you they will follow along and buy into your frame. you should be controlling the conversation.

Post: #14

I'm just gunna throw this in here for good measure.....

Post: #15

Mufasa,

That picture is golden!