(04-16-2019 03:53 PM)Beirut Wrote:  griffin did you stay in touch while away or just vanished and resurfaced after 2 monthes?

It was always me initiating, so found it tiresome to keep finding reasons to re-engage. But there were texts exchanged over the two months, mostly me checking in.

(04-16-2019 05:05 PM)griffinmill Wrote:  

(04-16-2019 03:53 PM)Beirut Wrote:  griffin did you stay in touch while away or just vanished and resurfaced after 2 monthes?

It was always me initiating, so found it tiresome to keep finding reasons to re-engage. But there were texts exchanged over the two months, mostly me checking in.

Sounds like you were the one more invested in these girls than they were in you. At least you banged them for the time you did, fuck them if they just wanna be pumped and dumped.

Usually after I bang a girl here I take a backseat and let her do most of the work. I'd say 9/10 times the girl contacts me after and starts to put in more effort than me. Once I get the bang I usually feel far less into the girl and I guess they sense that I really don't give much of a fuck.

c´mon guys, i see a bit of pessimism in this thread, it is true that things have changed, we are in 2019 not in 2006 when you were the first foreigner walking in Poland, but things (in my opinion) are still easier in comparison with other european countries. For example guys, you cannot imagine how is the situation now in my country (Spain) and how difficult is to flirt. Spanish girls have a huge line of desperate guys waiting for them. If you are not a 8 out of 10 guy... forget to bang. Even a fat girl can choose, belive me... and if you play daygame probably the girl will call the police, we are invaded buy the feminism fever, everyting is considered sexist

Anyway, in your opinion, what city in Poland for you is the best to bang? or at least to have more opportunities? Warsaw? Krakow? Wroclaw?

(04-16-2019 02:32 PM)griffinmill Wrote:  I was dating 3 girls the last time I was in Poland (two from Tinder, one from daygame). I stayed with these girls in their apartments and even went on a mini-break to Munich with one.

I had to leave for 10 weeks, but when I returned to Poland guess how many actually met with me again?

Zero.

I tried to set things up with all of them, but was given non-commital answers and one girl even stopped talking to me mid-conversation on Whatsapp when she asked when she could see me again and I suggested a time. She ghosted at that exact moment. After what seemed like investment on her part.

So, three girls who I rawdogged and practically lived with 10 weeks ago had zero inclination to see me again, for whatever reason. Perhaps I need to run more comfort game during my absence, or perhaps they're just whores. These chicks were all low to high 7s, 10 years younger than me. Perhaps that's the problem.

No idea how guys can keep regulars in foreign cities.

I have a girl in Vegas I met like 1.5 years ago, we still stay in touch and every now and then she will text me. I'm suppose to go back in a couple months to see her for the first time returning. My relationship with her is more than just sex though, and I think that helps me, but when I return I will be sleeping in her bed. I don't ask her if she's dating or has a boyfriend, I don't care as long as she's clean she knows I'm getting inside.

What worked for me, and mind you this is only 1 girl in a city far away from me is if the girl truly values you as different. The brief time I spent with that girl in Vegas on my (4 day trip) was something she had not experienced before, we did vivid things that will stay rooted in her mind. She cannot find someone that can replace that experience that she had with me--at least that is my thinking.

Also besides game it depends on the character of the girl. If she doesn't value a partnership of any kind and wants to move on there isn't much you can do. Some girls do value and will keep in touch.

(04-09-2019 09:49 AM)Barron Wrote:  This thread ranks second for Most Blackpilled only to the Trump thread.

The only reason I can think of for this is because people are still reading Bang Poland (a good thing) but frequenting 1st tier cities instead of doing the work and digging into second tier cities (like the book suggests) to find action.

But you know, SNL or Fail. apparently that's the prevailing paradigm here

If you are normal looking and expect to do some decent, but nothing too crazy, work for a 6 then it's kind of a white pill.

Ok so I have been in Poland for a couple of months and this place has been quite perplexing despite the info from this thread. But first, some info to add based on my location in the Tri-city and travel to other places in Poland:

Do NOT come to the tricity for nightlife except during the summer, most places in Gdansk are not recommended in general by locals, everybody goes to Sopot and even then its way overpriced for the mediocre nightlife outside summer - but if you must just head to Monte Cassino street and good luck avoiding the girls selling you entries to strip clubs, the SKM local train runs 24hr. And during the summer, do not expect to meet locals. They are not fond of the foreigner influx at all. They tend to avoid dealing with them if possible and leave for their summer cottages.

Foreigners in Poland, in general have lost their 'exotic' value although there are very few foreigners around. To date I have only seen 1 Chinese looking dude with a Polish girl, although in a lot of places, it seemed I was the only visible foreigner around. They prefer getting your fb contact to your number so be aware of what you want from the interaction. Met up with the rare latin american dude living here but they do not seem to have great success although the low cost of living is attractive for lots of people. Some scandinavians have gotten into long term relationships so the stereotype of the tanned look may not be valid. Any foreigner is going to be screened hard as a long term prospect. I actually saw more mixed couples in the Czech Republic but thats for another thread.

People, atleast in the Tri-city are still getting into relationships very early and if they aren't they are still looking for Polish guys. You will struggle to find prospects although you might claim to be here mid/long term.

Contrary to what the above posts have stated, I found the proportion of well dressed girls higher in Warsaw than in the tri-city. They might actually be more receptive to foreigners although I may have more insight when I visit Warsaw again.

Guys in their 30s now have managed to punch well beyond their league in the past. It may not be true anymore, guys in Uni can now be seen dating way down.

I am not sure how some posters in the thread claim Polish guys are not as well put together in terms of clothing style/fitness. I don't see any difference where I am compared to guys in 2nd tier UK for example.

Local guys here like to talk about getting girls a lot more for some reason, again comparing to the UK or even Australia. Makes me wonder if the thirst is real. On the other hand, its not like every other girl is walking around with Rafael.



Would be great to hear from others who have/are living in Poland on some of the following:

How have you guys gotten into social circles? Almost all the foreigners, mostly Europeans I have met claim that it wasnt easy knowing Polish peoples. The only way was through their polish partner.

How have your success in daygame been? You get IOIs but when you approach and start talking , it gets no where. It's almost as if they don't understand english. Do girls expect you to speak Polish instead and get disappointed when they find out you dont?
What's been more successful first date ideas, coffee or drinks?

Also, is there a stigma towards dating foreign guys recently? Judging from all the hype about all those Southern european and latin guys, it seems to be a complete opposite on the ground.

Cheers

(08-12-2015 04:24 AM)Simeon_Strangelight Wrote:  I have an update on Sopot and the surrounding areas.


I have been there a few times off-season and it wasn't so bad back then. But boy did we encounter some unforeseen problems.

The place was surreal. You could see multiple 8-9s, several Polish minor celebrities, a few businessmen, former misses (one buddy of ours got excited over seeing Miss World 1992 - we were not since she was in her 50s and was sporting a mid 30s toyboy with her). Many guys were jacked, plenty were good-looking, some were quite wealthy even by international standards. But after a time you see what's up with the place:

+ many men there were either working selling drugs, illegal sexual performance enhancers (since the coke they sell is laced with massive amounts of amphetamines and gets you noodle-dick) or they make their money at pimping
+ it is not uncommon to see multiple guys enter the toilet together to snort some coke or talk about the next level Viagra - or they talk about doing a gang-bang together - probably after having talked with an escort at the club
+ 60% of the 8-9s there were escorts and unfortunately they were not the youngest either
+ we got approached multiple times by some girls asking us for some coke
+ 30% of the prettiest ones work at the club and 100% of them have boyfriends - we did our dirty deed nonetheless ("Boyfriend eh? You want to have a man?" or other such moves about being "discrete.) But it did not work despite getting numbers - was awkward sometimes as we saw them with their boyfriends 8 hours later in the morning. Those were the normal ones.
+ 2-10% at the most were some pretty girls who happened to come upon this strange establishment where supposedly the "elite of Poland" parties. When a normal non-working 8 stumbles into the place, then you have to strike fast. I can guarantee you that within 20 minutes there will be 2 guys on her who try their coke brains on her.

So essentially there was generally a lack of leads at the place. Actually that was the most basic tenet of Sopot itself. It's possible that it was better one day, but even at more regular clubs like ZLA KOBIETA, CZEKOLADA or EGO you could only get older women (30+) with apparent ease. The younger ones are of course available, but the logistics at night were terrible. The reason for this is that younger girls go out at night in groups and are usually from Gdansk. Several times we got our dates whisked away by their male rides, by their girlfriends etc.

During the day solo-girls are few and far in between. Any walk down Krakow, Wroclaw or Warsaw even during summer will give you 100 times more leads, since Sopot is so incredibly small. The prettiest cutest girls work at restaurants and clubs. They can be gamed, but they generally have boyfriends and are not corrupted enough to start fucking around on them (despite obvious temptations).

Maybe Sopot is better off-season and especially better if you don't mind banging 35+ year olds or banging escorts for coke and cash. My estimation is that the Sopot night life is better during student season, but even then it is nothing to brag about. Clubs like Zla Kobieta and the like will give you some leads, but given the fact that we like them young and unspoilt, the logistics are a tough sell.

During the day you have the occasional solo tourist, but those are very rare since Sopot is too expensive for many girls. My estimation is also that many young girls in summer work in the EU, to save some cash. It also seems to be recent development in Poland - the last 2-3 years. I also remember seeing some infield videos of good Polish pro PUAs, which were done in Sopot a few years ago. Some clubs back then were packed in summer while now those terraces (around Czekolada) are closed. They are actually closed so that means that Sopot nightlife in summer has become way more quiet in recent times. If RSD is doing bootcamps there, then they haven't gotten the message that the place has changed.

So they either visit their parents, work away from Poland, travel on the cheap (also away from Poland). The rarest breed visits Sopot for R&R. I am sure that quite a few strippers and escorts eat their breakfast at the Zatoka Sztuki and you can game them if you are into fake lips, fake tits and a fake smile coming from some dead shark-eyes.

But generally you have to travel far and wide for the occasional cute girl - something that is all prevalent during Daygame in other cities in summer. When we returned to Warsaw later and saw the plentiful pussy buffet spread out before us in the busy streets - we heaved a sigh of relief. The Polish beaches are good for sightseeing, but for Game there are better places.

As I mentioned before - been there off season and while there were less girls, those that came to Sopot were more willing to fuck. Strangely also some clubs were more packed than in summer probably due to local student girls which were lacking during peak season. Though to be fair if you invest 5k in some coke, you could probably get laid via coke game, but it won't be cheap and gets into the P4P territory (though not quite).

(08-13-2015 04:06 AM)spalex Wrote:  Yeah I go to Sopot about 10 times per year. I agree that it is good for looking at girls, and not much else. You can have some fun out in the bars and clubs with your mates if you are not too fussed about picking up, but its very expensive.
It is actually the only place that is EXACTLY like my home town in Sydney (Cronulla), Nice place, shit people.
Plus, its not really a place where single girls will go for a weekend trip. Actually none of the beach spots are. Polish cultures dictates that this is only a thing that couples do alone or with other couples. Even if you go to Łeba or Świnoujście its just couples and fat / hideous people.

Hey guys, after a few months in the Tri-city, my time here is coming to an end and I got to decide if I want to continue summer in the Tri city or move on.

I agree with Simeon and Spalex that Sopot in the the off season has been disappointing, too many club promoters and the experience is not competitive. Its only the students who will be partying and the logistics and travel between the 3 cities afterwards is a mess. Its mostly a couples/double dates scene consisting of walking on the beach and having a drink at a bar as mentioned above. And lots of middle aged hen parties coming from down south and from Sweden. I recommend staying in the Gdansk/Gdynia and hitting the limited bars/pubs in there and getting numbers for later dates instead. Hitting the clubs is a waste of time and money IMO.

But, is the above true during the last couple summers? Some of the recent expats claim that summers in Sopot are filled with beach parties and crazy nightlife but is it all a smokeshow in terms of actually meeting /dating people? Curious to know more about the make-up of tourists during the summer is? Is it like a Stag-fest like some of the southern cities?

I am open to move if necessary but with the Uni vacation, I find it hard to see how places like Krakow and Wroclaw would be busy then, apart from the stag/hen parties.

Any questions pls ask. Lets get the Poland thread running again!

Hey guys! I just got to Wroclaw and trying to figure out the best nightlife spots on Wednesday and Thursday with plenty of pretty polish girls and so I can run some game. Trying to avoid pasaz niepolda and the overrun spots. Maybe a student party is happening somewhere? Anyone have any updated intel!?!