Post: #1

When you meet up with them, they act defensive and raise their bitch shield up.

For example I just went on an okcupid date with a girl who brought up getting together about 15 messages in, 2 days. She also mentioned if it would be cheeky to meet up, throwing in some sexual vibes. So I meet up with her and then we start talking and she's not personable and kind of dickish, I'm 23 and she's about 32 skinny half black half European, about a 7. Any advice or wisdom will be appreciated, what's their deal, and how do you deal with them. Personally I get really turned off when a girl acts like that and hesitant to escalate.

Post: #2

Attention whoring and gold digging.

At 32 hitting the wall, the feel good of having a young guy taking you to a date and paying for stuff must be ecstatic. All the while she doesn't have to commit to anything. Wow I wonder why every girls aren't doing this

Escalate hard and maintain your sexual frame. If she doesn't squeeze, get up and leave. Don't waste your time being an attention-giving ATM machine

Post: #3

The moment she started to act like a child or like she didn't know why you were both there you should have walked.

At that point you have very little invested so the loss of walking is low. The more time you invest the the lower you 'game margin' will be.

Post: #4

(10-28-2014 08:22 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  Attention whoring and gold digging.

At 32 hitting the wall, the feel good of having a young guy taking you to a date and paying for stuff must be ecstatic. All the while she doesn't have to commit to anything. Wow I wonder why every girls aren't doing this

Escalate hard and maintain your sexual frame. If she doesn't squeeze, get up and leave. Don't waste your time being an attention-giving ATM machine

The attention whoring part does seem legit. She didn't even want a drink, I just payed for myself, 1 drink. I'll definitely try escalating harder next time I get this, just to see what happens.

Post: #5

(10-28-2014 08:25 AM)SJE Wrote:  The moment she started to act like a child or like she didn't know why you were both there you should have walked.

At that point you have very little invested so the loss of walking is low. The more time you invest the the lower you 'game margin' will be.

That makes a lot of sense, I've been on great dates where the girls make things easy and these kind of dates are new to me. A bit more aggression on my part wouldn't hurt.

Post: #6

Some girls/people are just socially retarded.

You've just been unlucky I reckon.

Post: #7

If she was a fat/chubby chick would you have put up with it? Regardless of meeting in person or not.

You need to see through her looks and tight body.

Post: #8

(10-28-2014 08:08 AM)zombiejimmorrison Wrote:  When you meet up with them, they act defensive and raise their bitch shield up.

For example I just went on an okcupid date with a girl who brought up getting together about 15 messages in, 2 days. She also mentioned if it would be cheeky to meet up, throwing in some sexual vibes. So I meet up with her and then we start talking and she's not personable and kind of dickish, I'm 23 and she's about 32 skinny half black half European, about a 7. Any advice or wisdom will be appreciated, what's their deal, and how do you deal with them. Personally I get really turned off when a girl acts like that and hesitant to escalate.

Date younger.
Plenty of ways to have her drop the bitch shield (use the search).
If she's not being personable, leave.
15 messages in 2 days ? Faster and shorter.

Post: #9

She met you in person and didn't like you.

That's the inherent weakness of online game.

That fact that you're 10 years her junior didn't help your cause either.

WIA

Post: #10

Attention whoring. Ignore that. If she's that much shit, just leave the place, you have no obligation to stay.