Post: #1

I went to a party last night with my boy. We were getting some drinks when some girl walked in with her man (holding hands). She started making drinks for everyone when she started rubbing up against me to get some cups and staring at me asking where I was from. She did this a few times and I would of did what I had to do if her beta boyfriend wasn't there (holding her purse and picking up some shit she dropped). It was obvious she was doing it on purpose, she could of easily went around me or told me to hand her the shit. My question is what do yall do in this situation? Just leave her alone since the dudes right there?

Post: #2

Tough situation. You need to isolate and close as fast as possible by giving her a way to discreetly disappear to keep the boyfriend or white knights from fucking it up. Having your friend run interference by keeping the boyfriend occupied might have been an option. The key is to provide logistics that make it easy for her to make an impulsive decision without having the face judgment by her friend and the boyfriend (not immediately, anyway).

Also consider that she also might have been pissed at her boyfriend and was deliberately flirting in front of him to get back at him for something.

As a side note, I just had a somewhat similar experience. My friend and I had 3 girls I know from college over, and I went back to my apartment with the one that has a boyfriend after separating her from her friends at the bar. Unfortunately, I forgot that my friend had the key so I had to go get it from him (after 10 minutes of scraping the shit out of my arm trying to open the door from the inside by going through the mail slot) and by the time I did he and the other girls were already on their way back. She still let me fuck her but I could tell she was pissed that her friends were in the other room, and they got really mad at her for it. I guess the moral of the story is that girls will still cheat with shitty logistics provided they're horny enough, but it's still very important to limit their exposure to possible shame/embarrassment. My sense is that I'm damn lucky I still got the notch after my key-forgetting fuckup.

Post: #3

Talk to her like you don't give a damn because you shouldn't. You may not get her number but it'll dhv you to other girls at the party. She's just jerking the guy around because she can, the good news is that she'll like you because you seem unjerkable to her. She'll say "well aren't you going to get me a drink"? and you can ask her "Am I dressed as a butler"? Then point at her bf and say "that guy looks like the servant type to me, have him do it"

Case and point, I was at this bar rolling dolo a while back and this cute little brunette with big brown eyes, pale skin and the straight bangs thing walked up impersonally to order a drink. I struck up an conversation and she said she was waiting for her "friend". We cont'd speaking when some doofuss came up and poked her shoulder. She turned around and introduced me, I said "what's up" and cont'd talking to her and she just ignored this guy for at least 5 minutes while we spoke. He made up some reason to leave and said he'd be back. Again, he comes back and just stands there while we talk and then says "I'm leaving" and walks away. She looks kind of guilty and I roll my eyes "I bet you a drink he'll be back" she says "no, he's gone. That's what a real man does" I say "we'll see". Less than 10 mins later he comes back and says he left something in her car. I smirk at her and she can't help but smile too. She gives him the keys to her car and as he walks away I down my drink and say "boy am I thirsty"! We kino and I escalate, I go to the bathroom to send out some txts and when I come back, there's a guy talking to her at the bar real close. I walk up and grab his shoulder and turn him and say "what's up man"? with a wink. He just kind of looks at me like he doesn't know what to do. I just say "I'm trying to have a conversation, do you mind"? Then I pick back up where I left off and eventually get the snl.

Did I step on some toes? Yeah. Could it have caused some shit? Yeah, could have. Do I care? Hell no.

Post: #4

Hey Fisto, whats your take if you were in the position of the guy who you grabbed his shoulders?

Post: #5

(04-09-2011 05:35 PM)FretDancer Wrote:  Hey Fisto, whats your take if you were in the position of the guy who you grabbed his shoulders?

Just reread what I wrote and I want to clarify, I didn't manhandle the guy(I wouldn't do that unless I'd been shown disrespect) , I got his attention. Probably the same way you would if you wanted to ask someone a question.

If I were on the receiving end, I would ask the girl "Do you know this guy"? "Oh no? well I'm trying to have a conversation too".

That's assuming I felt like the juice was worth the squeeze. I'm also very pro-next so it all depends.

Just wanted to point out that being considerate of some girls bf that you don't know is absurd. If she goes with you she was never his to begin with. And, if the guy is a standup dude and not some bitch, you'll probably make a friend.