Post: #1

What do you do when you get shut down? Walk away playing it cool or say something smart to her?

Post: #2

Depends on the situation.

If it's in a club with plenty of other options, and out of earshot of others I'll just walk away. No need to spend more energy on them if the vibe isn't right.

Post: #3

Make sure you go out in style. Something like "Ooookay, it was nice meeting ya" added with the best sarcasm you can possibly come up with.

Post: #4

throw a drink in her face

Post: #5

if you're thinking about what to say, then you're caring too much.

Post: #6

I like to use, "I'm gonna get back to my much cooler friends now" and walk away.

50% of the time they stop you and re-open or find you later. Perfect delivery and confidence is key.

Post: #7

"Make sure you go out in style. Something like "Ooookay, it was nice meeting ya" added with the best sarcasm you can possibly come up with."

^^^This is key.

I don't see why you should give a shit if some chick you barely even know turns you down. Plenty of other fish in the sea. Just say something like what fret said and move on.

Post: #8

"What do you do when you get shut down? "

Nothing. Next. It doesn't matter.

Get your Game right and your mind right where you really do think its her loss. You have to believe that.

That is the key. Once you get that under wraps, nothing can stop you.

Post: #9

Last night I got in this huge line with a friend to get into a club in BA and I asked the girls in front "So is it really worth it to wait this line?" One girl said "yes" rudely and ignored me... anyways after that when we finally got to the front they asked for IDs and they couldn't get in. I said " Guess it wasn't worth the wait huh?" lol i got the dirtiest look it was awesome.

But yea what you can do since you sometimes can't help feeling bad when you are starting off is make a joke about it like " Oh god I think I'm going to cry in a corner now" while smiling and laughing. I think when you stop taking it so seriously you slowly get over it and the next time it won't feel as bad.

Post: #10

Thanks everyone for the advice. I tend to get mad when a girl is rude and blows me off like a bitch but I'm working on it.

Post: #11

You: So let's get together sometime

Her: Not interested

You: Why?

Her: I have a boyfriend

You: *looks confused* Wait....are you trying to say....you want to have a torrid affair??

Her: *laughs* No! I'm just with someone

You: In that case I'll ask you again in a month *winks and walks away*