Post: #1

I know I should have done this a long time ago, but that fear of getting rejected stopped me. What made me start relying on game is that I started envying guys here who would smash lizards off of game whereas I just relied on my aesthetics.

So here goes!

Approach #1

Saw this light haired brunette walking, noticed she had some phrase on the back of her shirt. I laughed out loud

McCoy: Hey

Her: *turn around*

McCoy: Stand still because I'm going to take a snap of your shirt.

Her: haha, okay. Her back now to me

I placed my hand on her shoulder (broke the touch barrier, got a boner)

McCoy: Its hilarious but true

her: Yeah most people can relate. I like your eyes by the way (how original, minus 10 points)

McCoy: The sun is what makes them green (didn't know what else to say)

her: What's your ethnicity?

McCoy: I'm Asian

her: No seriously

McCoy: I'm serious

her: You aren't Asian

McCoy: what gave it away?

her: Just a hunch

McCoy: My class is right here and I'm already late. See ya.

her: bye

Damn.

Approach #2 not really an approach but more like an attempt

In class I'm trying to open a orange but I can't and this bird from girl from Sweden asks me if I need help.

mccoy: yeah

Swede: walks over and sits down and I hand her my orange

mccoy: This is why I like apples. I don't have to peal. I had no idea of what else to say so I said "hope your hands aren't dirty." She just looked at me with a weird expression

mccoy: I'm going to be putting that in my mouth (Surely, I can do better?) She just nodded and at this point I'm getting annoyed by the Scandinavian behavioral patterns.

mccoy: "your hair is very blonde but your eyebrows are dark." This has gone so bad that I'm stating observations

swede: hahaha, she turned red and I think its due to allergies.

I gave up and just brought out my phone and sent a couple of texts and she handed me my orange slices.

Damn.

Will be updating this thread. I'm disappointed because I did two approaches and I've got nothing.

Post: #2

(10-10-2014 04:18 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  I'm disappointed because I did two approaches and I've got nothing.

You're kidding right?

Post: #3

(10-10-2014 05:39 PM)cobrantula Wrote:  

(10-10-2014 04:18 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  I'm disappointed because I did two approaches and I've got nothing.

You're kidding right?

No I am not.

After all of my time here I haven't learned enough which is precisely why I made this thread. I'm trying to better myself

Post: #4

(10-10-2014 07:00 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  

(10-10-2014 05:39 PM)cobrantula Wrote:  

(10-10-2014 04:18 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  I'm disappointed because I did two approaches and I've got nothing.

You're kidding right?

No I am not.

After all of my time here I haven't learned enough which is precisely why I made this thread. I'm trying to better myself

Don't let two approaches get you down. Don't let twenty approaches get you down. I've been reading this shit for years, but actually going out there and applying it is a completely different animal. The important thing is that you're doing it. Keep it up, man.

Post: #5

(10-10-2014 07:14 PM)cobrantula Wrote:  

(10-10-2014 07:00 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  

(10-10-2014 05:39 PM)cobrantula Wrote:  

(10-10-2014 04:18 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  I'm disappointed because I did two approaches and I've got nothing.

You're kidding right?

No I am not.

After all of my time here I haven't learned enough which is precisely why I made this thread. I'm trying to better myself

Don't let two approaches get you down. Don't let twenty approaches get you down. I've been reading this shit for years, but actually going out there and applying it is a completely different animal. The important thing is that you're doing it. Keep it up, man.

Appreciate the feedback. Feel free to criticize my interactions, there will be more

Post: #6

Approach #3

Rocker

Saw this girl walking by and it completely threw me off; no idea of what to say

mccoy: hey you look you know some terrible music (god kill me now)

her: what

mccoy: I need to annoy a neighbor and you look like you know some music that will sound like nails on a chalk board

her: oh my god (laughing out loud) Ive never had someone come up to me like this

mccoy: Well you turned to me like you were going to kill me so....

her: haha

her: why do you want to annoy him?

mccoy: No peace in my unit, I actually pissed him off enough to get him to tell me to "go get fucked in the ear."

her:

her: oh hahaha, because you have tunnels?!

She laughed for like 30 seconds at my expense, pretty sure I broke a game rule here

mccoy: I've actually got to get going but put your number in my phone and I'll text you.

her: okay

Texted her saying "hey" and got a "hey "

I feel like I got the # in spite of game; she was probably just into my look. Thoughts on how I'm doing so far?

Post: #7

Dude... YOU ended approach number one, she was keen!

'Approach' number two you just stopped because she was red? Should have just kept going, she was probably into you if she came up to you.

Approach number three - who says she was laughing at your expense?

I think you're over thinking things. These girls seem to be into you. Assume they are and go from there... At the moment the only issue you have is your own pessimism.

Post: #8

seems like a confidence issue starting out, always assume they want the dick and if they don't, convince that they do. keep plugging away, approaching is a big piece of the puzzle

Post: #9

I sense a troll. But I hope it's not. You're fine. If you're new to this red shirt yourself for 100 approaches and just feel the interaction. That means don't get hung up on results. Most guys will approach 100 times and get nothing. Most important thing is that you learn. Keep talking and talking and talking even after its gone awkward and your intuition is screaming at you to leave keep talking. You'll learn to read a girls body language, learn how to direct a conversation and learn how to be more dominant. You're a guy and you've read a lot about pick up so it's on you to initiate, on you to ask for the number, on you to set up the date and on you to escalate. First 100 approaches is learning how to properly do just that

Post: #10

(10-13-2014 03:38 AM)KsockZ Wrote:  seems like a confidence issue starting out, always assume they want the dick and if they don't, convince that they do. keep plugging away, approaching is a big piece of the puzzle

Always! Its just hard because all of my life I've always relied on girls coming to me in a way but now I'm making the initiative and I'm reading all these successful posts and I'm thinking damn

I think my problem like some other posts stated, is that they're interested but I'm too quick to eject

Post: #11

Approaches #4 and #5

I don't know if these count as approaches but I decided to shit where I eat and hit on this Latina in one of my classes. Got her number because there are a dozen things to talk about.

#5 was this chubby girl with a very pretty face in class. I thought why not get a BJ? My boner convinced me on that one since it was the morning

Don't feel like I used game as we just talked and laughed a little.

Looking forward to making some real approaches

I still bitch out a lot