Post: #1

Hi guys , first post
help me out with some advice

alright so i met a girl on FB, she lives in Venezuela. We have been randomly talking over FB over the last 2 years..then last year she added me on her BBM we talk about every other week or so.

my buddies were planning a trip to South America and i convinced them to drop by Venezuela. i told her that i would be interested in checking out the country one day and shes like that would be great "June would be good, i will be done my studies by than"...

i just don't know how to come across this like i don't want to waste money travelling to another country just to get some AS* she is super hot though(implants, big butt, the works)...so like should i tell her my expectations(maybe not so directly lol) ?..last thing i would want is if i showed up there and she like ignores me or something

Post: #2

Personally, I wouldn't go to a country you don't want to go just for a girl.
If you like the country and want to see then it's fine though. But I heard Venezuela is not so safe when compared to other countries nearby.

Post: #3

Quote:Personally, I wouldn't go to a country you don't want to go just for a girl.
If you like the country and want to see then it's fine though.

Same. Going all the way to Venezuela in the hope you're going to hook up with a girl you met on FB could lead to big dissapointment.

Post: #4

Well since you've been talking to her for 2 years, I'm pretty sure you're going to go anyway regardless of what guys here say, but I feel bad for your friends that you're dragging them to what is now a shithole.

What's the best that can happen? You fuck her a few times. Unless she's your dream girl, why bother?

Post: #5

(04-02-2011 02:08 PM)Roosh Wrote:  Well since you've been talking to her for 2 years, I'm pretty sure you're going to go anyway regardless of what guys here say, but I feel bad for your friends that you're dragging them to what is now a shithole.

What's the best that can happen? You fuck her a few times. Unless she's your dream girl, why bother?

I agree... you are dragging your friends to a shit-hole for a potentials fuck with a girl you met on Facebook. If it's your big love, go alone. In the other case you are selling out friendship for a potential fuck.

South America gives you enough options to fuck. She's probably working or searching a visa, as I can't imaging a South American girl chatting up for 2 years with a stranger & is still interested in hooking up. The implants don't help the story either.

Post: #6

(04-02-2011 02:08 PM)Roosh Wrote:  Well since you've been talking to her for 2 years, I'm pretty sure you're going to go anyway regardless of what guys here say, but I feel bad for your friends that you're dragging them to what is now a shithole.

What's the best that can happen? You fuck her a few times. Unless she's your dream girl, why bother?

yeah true, but i wasn't "dragging" them they wanted to go to S.A. i just said we could drop by there...whats up with VEnezuela being a shthole ?
haven't done much research on the place

Post: #7

If it does not work with her, you will find someone else. enjoy the trip.

Post: #8

As far as I know there are a lot of beautiful places in Venezuela but the capital Caracas is not very tourist friendly. You go onto any travel forum and you'll hear lots of stories about being mugged and beaten in broad daylight, the tourist cops bribing you (sometimes even planting drugs), hassle from customs officials etc. Doesn't seem worth the hassle especially when there's much more friendly countries out there in South America to visit.

Post: #9

You could dip out on your friends and spend 1-2 days there with her then meet back up with your boys. No guarantee on smashing though, so I'd plan to make the most of it while you're there.

Post: #10

IMO, you are fucked either way. The OP's post stinks of insecurities, and not just for travelling to Venezuela, but wondering if he shows up there "she like ignores him or something" as he said. Does not matter where he travels to, it could be an all-girls college, with no other dick in sight....that lack of self-confidence is gonna blow him out the water.

Also, is it just me? but why the fuck would anyone talk to a girl on FB for 2 years without making a move in the first 30 days in person? You fucking kidding me? Lord knows how many times she's rode the cock carousel in the last 24 months. Venezuelan women are no saints when it comes to multiple sex partners, like their Colombian neighbors. That is the most beta move or act of desperate pleasing to a woman a guy could come to. I don't care if it's just a random text message every other day by BBM, she has no respect or value for you. Therefore, you are cheap entertainment to her at this point, and it got worse as the days passed and you did not establish a solid physical, and sexual connection fast which is why the OP is worried she may ignore him or not like him when he gets there.

So yeah, if you have not made a move the first 2 months you "met her", move on.

Yet another reason why Facebook is the biggest fucking waste of time on the planet....a social network? pleeease.

Facebook sucks!!

So, my recommendation since you already pulled your buddies into this. Head down to Maracaibo, Isla Margarita, and have a fucking blast, and tell this bee-yoch to meet you there...but be careful, Venezuela is dangerous. Take the same precautions you would take walking the streets of South Central LA. I doubt it's the love of his life as a result, that shit just does not happen on Facebook.

Mixx

Post: #11

(04-02-2011 05:09 AM)Shennie Wrote:  Hi guys , first post
help me out with some advice

alright so i met a girl on FB, she lives in Venezuela. We have been randomly talking over FB over the last 2 years..then last year she added me on her BBM we talk about every other week or so.

my buddies were planning a trip to South America and i convinced them to drop by Venezuela. i told her that i would be interested in checking out the country one day and shes like that would be great "June would be good, i will be done my studies by than"...

i just don't know how to come across this like i don't want to waste money travelling to another country just to get some AS* she is super hot though(implants, big butt, the works)...so like should i tell her my expectations(maybe not so directly lol) ?..last thing i would want is if i showed up there and she like ignores me or something

I work this in reverse...I pick cities/countries that I want to visit, and then try to find local women as a bonus. I line up my agenda for what I want to see and do, so if the hookup with the chick doesn't happen, I'm not hung out to dry and have my agenda laid out. I only go to cities where there's something to see or do. Unless the lay is as close to guaranteed as it can be, I don't roll into town just to fuck. I've had it both ways - I went down to Merida, Mexico and stayed with a chick for a few days and fucked, and she openly stated she was recently divorced, hadn't been with someone in a while, and wanted me. She took me on a tour of the Mayan Ruins also - best of both worlds. For London, there's so much to see that the chick was a bonus, and I didn't need her to show me around. I fit her into MY schedule, and still got the bang. After we wrote back and forth and chatted for a while, SHE asked when I was coming to London - she put it out there that she wanted to meet, so I had to take it from there. The positive sign for you is that she suggested the time to come, and that she'd have time for you. I would have made the move earlier than two years though...chicks have short attention spans, and since you're a foreigner, there's ALWAYS the chance someone local will step in and snatch her up. Her adding you to BBM is positive also, but you should be in touch more often (I have a couple of chicks in the Netherlands on my BBM - one in Amsterdam has a boyfriend, but still chats, and the other is single in Nijmegen and I'm working for a potential visit and bang. I never go more than 3 or 4 days without dropping a message or two, and they both always respond). Take advantage of easy communication - people almost ALWAYS have their phones no more than a foot away from them. FB has video calling now too, so see if you can get face time with her also. I have a handful of chicks worldwide, as far as Singapore and the Philippines that I get on cam. You need to get a better idea of where her head is at and if she's feeling you THAT way. What city in Venezuela does she live? On the coast? If so, you could still have a nice time on the beach with bikinis running around. If not...you need to have a better idea if she's down to fuck. Otherwise it could be an empty trip.

Post: #12

agree with the above post...don't go there for her. go there because u want to go to venezuela. she is just a bonus.

the amount of losers that fly down to colombia becuause of a girl is hysterical. they fly down spend time witht he girl, pay for everything, buy her gifts. meanwhile shes fucking her colombian bf and every other gringo in town. the dork honestly believes she loves him. some even continue to send them money via western union etc etc...it reaks of desperation and colombians are the best at exploiting it
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go to veenzula as mixx said the islands and a little uni town up North merida (loads of pussy) have a blast...and hook up with ur girl. dont go just for a girl.

Post: #13

"i just don't know how to come across this like i don't want to waste money travelling to another country just to get some AS* she is super hot though(implants, big butt, the works)...so like should i tell her my expectations(maybe not so directly lol) ?..last thing i would want is if i showed up there and she like ignores me or something"

Bro...there's no shame in going somewhere JUST for the ass...if you have reasonable certainty that the ass is attainable. If she lives in a podunk town and there's nothing else to do, you need to know you'll be fucking. If she lives in a nicer city, at least there will be other things to do. I would think a chick that has implants is definitely trying to attract men, and if she's bothering to communicate at all, you need to try to be THAT guy. Let me know what the implants feel like...

Post: #14

(10-26-2011 10:44 AM)Timoteo Wrote:  "i just don't know how to come across this like i don't want to waste money travelling to another country just to get some AS* she is super hot though(implants, big butt, the works)...so like should i tell her my expectations(maybe not so directly lol) ?..last thing i would want is if i showed up there and she like ignores me or something"

Bro...there's no shame in going somewhere JUST for the ass...if you have reasonable certainty that the ass is attainable. If she lives in a podunk town and there's nothing else to do, you need to know you'll be fucking. If she lives in a nicer city, at least there will be other things to do. I would think a chick that has implants is definitely trying to attract men, and if she's bothering to communicate at all, you need to try to be THAT guy. Let me know what the implants feel like...

ill let u know...they feel shit...hard...they suck. naturals feel WAY better

but hell fake ones look good!

Post: #15

I've done this before, but...

1. We met in person.

2. She paid for the ticket, I stayed in her house, ate her food, left my blastings on her sheets for three days, then came back to the States.

My biggest expense the entire trip was the Super Shuttle to/from my house.

Post: #16

(10-28-2011 12:52 AM)jariel Wrote:  I've done this before, but...

1. We met in person.

2. She paid for the ticket, I stayed in her house, ate her food, left my blastings on her sheets for three days, then came back to the States.

My biggest expense the entire trip was the Super Shuttle to/from my house.

I've had the free lodging and food set-up, but you got her to buy you a ticket too? SWEET. Lodging and grub are usually the biggest expenses, so if you can get that offer, the rest is gravy.

Post: #17

Unless the interaction is sexy talk and she's already sent you dirty pics or you had video sex, I'd say you're chances of banging her are slim to none. I've made this mistake before - girls like the attention but she probably sees you as a pen-pal.

But as long as you're happy to visit Venezuela and not get laid, go for it.