Post: #51

(09-19-2014 10:23 PM)joker Wrote:  Ill report back in a few weeks and let you guys know whats happened

In a few weeks ? Dude why string it along THAT long ?

If I were you I'd eject now, save yourself the trouble.

In a few weeks you could be banging other girls and be happier with your life.

Post: #52

(09-22-2014 11:32 AM)kaotic Wrote:  

(09-19-2014 10:23 PM)joker Wrote:  Ill report back in a few weeks and let you guys know whats happened

In a few weeks ? Dude why string it along THAT long ?

If I were you I'd eject now, save yourself the trouble.

In a few weeks you could be banging other girls and be happier with your life.

This really means that he's not ready to eject, and he's most likely going to hang on for a few more brutal weeks.

Brother, that call to "spend the night" after she's been "clubbing" (which means sweating and swapping fluids with dudes, NOT YOU) was a perfect time to drop her.

You're setting yourself up for some real pain. I guess everyone has to learn from hanging on the cross personally.

Post: #53

Hey guys so I've dumped my girlfriend which was on Sunday the 21st. I went over to her place bumped into her as she was coming home from work we went upstairs I sat down on the bed she sat on my lap kissed me a few times I pulled back and it went like this:

Her: Whats wrong?

Me: I came here to end it

Her: Are you being serious?

Me: Yea (She gets off my lap sits next to me on the bed)

Her: You cant look past what happened? (We had already had 2 previous talks about it a couple days after it happened thats when she cried)

Me:...Nah

Her: So its over?

Me: Yea. Goodbye (I stood up wanted to say something but just said goodbye in the end)

She did not cry this time maybe cause it was so quick I was in her room less than 5 minutes. I went on a date the following Tuesday with a chick who seemed to be interviewing me for a potential husband so that was weird and she lives an hour away so I dont know if ill meet up with her again. Anyway tonite i felt really down then spoke to my dad and told him what happened and how i broke up and he said the most painful thing for me to hear. He said "You have to be tough and not like me" (because my mum left him). This broke my heart because dads the best bloke in my eyes and its sad to realise he cant give me any advice on women that i dont already know because of this site. So thats my rant and i hope you boys could give me advice how to improve myself and move forward. Cheers

Post: #54

(09-24-2014 08:35 AM)joker Wrote:  Hey guys so I've dumped my girlfriend which was on Sunday the 21st. I went over to her place bumped into her as she was coming home from work we went upstairs I sat down on the bed she sat on my lap kissed me a few times I pulled back and it went like this:

Her: Whats wrong?

Me: I came here to end it

Her: Are you being serious?

Me: Yea (She gets off my lap sits next to me on the bed)

Her: You cant look past what happened? (We had already had 2 previous talks about it a couple days after it happened thats when she cried)

Me:...Nah

Her: So its over?

Me: Yea. Goodbye (I stood up wanted to say something but just said goodbye in the end)

She did not cry this time maybe cause it was so quick I was in her room less than 5 minutes. I went on a date the following Tuesday with a chick who seemed to be interviewing me for a potential husband so that was weird and she lives an hour away so I dont know if ill meet up with her again. Anyway tonite i felt really down then spoke to my dad and told him what happened and how i broke up and he said the most painful thing for me to hear. He said "You have to be tough and not like me" (because my mum left him). This broke my heart because dads the best bloke in my eyes and its sad to realise he cant give me any advice on women that i dont already know because of this site. So thats my rant and i hope you boys could give me advice how to improve myself and move forward. Cheers

Congratulations!!!!!

This is the most Alpha way to end things with a chick. Kudos!!!



Years from now you'll look back and see this choice was the right one.

To start off:

Cut all forms of contact with her if you haven't done so already.
Facebook, twitter, IG. If your phone can, block her number. If it can't consider changing your number.
Try your absolute best to make it impossible for her to contact you. She will try at some point down the road saying she misses you. All girls who get dumped abruptly do this.

*If she shows up at your place and is acting kinda weird tell her to leave or you will call the police and start recording the interaction on your phone*


Also go on more dates. Lots more, till the point when you think about this girl you no longer have any emotion and to you she's just another girl you used to bang.

Hit up the gym for a solid 6 months 3-4 times a week. Clean up your diet. Start juicing vegetables.

Post: #55

Congrats mate, it might of been a tough choice, but think of your actions LONG TERM.

You've saved yourself from certain heartache with her. You're giving yourself a chance to meet other women.

Also you've made your first step towards self improvement, you're giving yourself a chance.

You're barely beginning to realize your self-worth.

Like Kinju stated, burn and purge everything you have with her or of her. Get off Social Media for awhile (i know it's hard, but it's worth it).

Your dad supports your decision, he realizes his mistakes and is finding redemption in you, knowing he's raising a solid son. Keep it at it !

Remember, this forum is open to you, if you're feeling down post it in the appropriate section, hell, even message us. Cheers.

Post: #56

I like the story but I think you handled it wrong. You should have texted or called her and told her to blow balls cunt and ignored her from then on the second you learned that she was doing this.

It's easy.

Her: hey mech I'm thinking about going to the concert with my friend he has tickets.

Mech: blow balls cunt

Radio silence. Then bang. Then bye bye.

If she values you she won't go or do or try that again.

Post: #57

(09-24-2014 06:52 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  I like the story but I think you handled it wrong. You should have texted or called her and told her to blow balls cunt and ignored her from then on the second you learned that she was doing this.

It's easy.

Her: hey mech I'm thinking about going to the concert with my friend he has tickets.

Mech: blow balls cunt

Radio silence. Then bang. Then bye bye.

If she values you she won't go or do or try that again.

I can see how that would send her hamster into hyper mode. Makes sense.

Post: #58

(09-24-2014 08:35 AM)joker Wrote:  Hey guys so I've dumped my girlfriend which was on Sunday the 21st. I went over to her place bumped into her as she was coming home from work we went upstairs I sat down on the bed she sat on my lap kissed me a few times I pulled back and it went like this:

Her: Whats wrong?

Me: I came here to end it

Her: Are you being serious?

Me: Yea (She gets off my lap sits next to me on the bed)

Her: You cant look past what happened? (We had already had 2 previous talks about it a couple days after it happened thats when she cried)

Me:...Nah

Her: So its over?

Me: Yea. Goodbye (I stood up wanted to say something but just said goodbye in the end)

She did not cry this time maybe cause it was so quick I was in her room less than 5 minutes. I went on a date the following Tuesday with a chick who seemed to be interviewing me for a potential husband so that was weird and she lives an hour away so I dont know if ill meet up with her again. Anyway tonite i felt really down then spoke to my dad and told him what happened and how i broke up and he said the most painful thing for me to hear. He said "You have to be tough and not like me" (because my mum left him). This broke my heart because dads the best bloke in my eyes and its sad to realise he cant give me any advice on women that i dont already know because of this site. So thats my rant and i hope you boys could give me advice how to improve myself and move forward. Cheers

Congratulations, you did the best thing for you, and while it may be sad that your dad is a great guy, being a great guy doesn't mean you don't make mistakes. How good it must be for him to recognize that you're making better decisions than him and he can be even prouder of you.

If you love your dad, include him in everything you do, one day he will be gone and imagine how great the rest of his life will be having raised a son he can be proud of.

Post: #59

You guys are a bunch of sweethearts

Post: #60

Hey guys so its been a month since the breakup and i've made no effort to contact her so she has no idea what I'm up to. Its been hard but what I don't understand and I really could use some clarity on this is why hasn't she contacted me. I really am trying to move on and even though I initiated the breakup how can I so easily be forgotten after 2 years. Some insight would be great to help me wrap my head around this.

Post: #61

why trouble yourself with asking "why hasn't she contacted me?"

That is just your ego talking. You did the right thing by dumping her, now you must shed your emotional attachment to her.

The posts above tell you all you need to know. After you bang several new girls, you will not care why she hasn't reached out.

I was dumped by my girl of 7 years who I was engaged to!! I used to ask myself how she could turn her back so quickly after all that time. Now I don't even care. I've banged a bunch of other girls and am currently seeing a hotter, more valuable girl.

Take the advise given to you and realize these things take time to heal.

Post: #62

From my little experience, women can easily switch from one guy to another.
She's probably banging someone else right now.

Go fuck a few new girls and it'll pass, with time.
Just don't contact her again, you're better than that.
And if she ever contacts you, make clear you're over her.
Try something like "who is this?".

Post: #63

(10-21-2014 08:41 AM)joker Wrote:  Hey guys so its been a month since the breakup and i've made no effort to contact her so she has no idea what I'm up to. Its been hard but what I don't understand and I really could use some clarity on this is why hasn't she contacted me. I really am trying to move on and even though I initiated the breakup how can I so easily be forgotten after 2 years. Some insight would be great to help me wrap my head around this.

She hasn't forgotten you man! But that doesn't mean she will initiate contact with you. I interviewed a few girls over this issue and all I can say: girls get over a guy MUCH faster than a man!
You are better off now and hang on there,don't try to crawl back into that relationship because time is valuable! Take it easy for a while and eventually you'll meet another girl!

Post: #64

she didn't forget you.

She's a woman, she will get another guy within days, sometimes hours of a breakup. Shes on the high of a new relationship, and new cock.That's the demand vs supply of young pussy. Nothing you can do to change the sexual dynamics of our culture. Man up and go bang chicks. It's the only way.

Agree with Latan, the "who is this" text after she reinstates contact will nuke her hamster. It's hilarious watching it go down. It's sometimes fun to follow it up with a random girls name:

"Hey you" <-- re-initiates contact
"Who's this?"
"Veronica?"
"rage hate fuck murder death kill" <-- her response, if she does respond

Post: #65

Congrats dude!

And don't worry about whether or not she wants you back, just keep finding more girls. Keep zero contact with your ex for 6 months+

Congrats again. I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years over a similar issue (we had already broken up, but we were still hooking up when she claimed she had an innocent night with another guy- BS). Went zero contact 6 months and made some of the best decisions of my life.

Post: #66

(10-21-2014 08:41 AM)joker Wrote:  Hey guys so its been a month since the breakup and i've made no effort to contact her so she has no idea what I'm up to. Its been hard but what I don't understand and I really could use some clarity on this is why hasn't she contacted me. I really am trying to move on and even though I initiated the breakup how can I so easily be forgotten after 2 years. Some insight would be great to help me wrap my head around this.

Women are not like men. Overall, when a man truly commits and has very strong feelings for a girl, those don't just go away easily.

A woman's feelings are much more variable and fleeting.

She may miss you but only for a moment.

It sucks. It can hurt, but then when you realize it is really just their nature you recognize that it's not your fault. Women are easily distracted by a new drama or emotional connection just like men are easily distracted by that nubile 18 year old cheerleader walking by in that epic short skirt.

You've just gotta internalize that. Also, pursue other girls like others have said. Only time can heal and internal fortitude keeping you on the path of moving on.

Post: #67

(10-21-2014 05:42 PM)AntiTrace Wrote:  It's sometimes fun to follow it up with a random girls name:

"Hey you" <-- re-initiates contact
"Who's this?"
"Veronica?"
"rage hate fuck murder death kill" <-- her response, if she does respond

Good one, will try it.

Post: #68

when i go out with a girl, i have a rule 'no talking to exs.' It just causes 2 many problems in a relationship.

if she wants to talk to her ex, i dump her and say, "when u have moved on from your ex let me know but i won't be waiting around"

Post: #69

1 month no contact is strong Joker, I'm stoked for you.

Girls can move on quick to the next dick, an old ex had a new BF within a month of me dumping her.
("Best way to get over one guy is to get on top of another one")

It's just how it is, she didn't forget you, she might of just "moved on" until she starts drinking or a dude "offends" her.

There isn't any clarity or logic in a woman's motives and decisions, it just is what it is.


Focus on your well being - are you hitting the gym hard ?
Start gaming other girls - have you banged any other girls ?
Schooling - College sluts are awesome - are you planning to attend ?
Educate - have you read any game books, philosophical books, business books ?

You are your savior, the pain you're going through will only mold you into a better person, you'll look back awhile from now and say "fuck, what was I thinking ?"

DO-NOT-CONTACT-THAT-BITCH !!

Post: #70

hey guys so she replied saying "hey sorry to message but i have some stuff id like to give back to you are you free anytime next week?" i havent replied. I don;t know what to say

Post: #71

You have the whole situation played out in your head. It is exactly right, consider her as a bang for fun and the game is on your side forever.
Greetings...M.worldpeace.

Post: #72

Put her in the Rolodex and find your wife. What your are going thru is this weird thing called "game".
M.worldpeace

Post: #73

(10-25-2014 03:46 AM)joker Wrote:  hey guys so she replied saying "hey sorry to message but i have some stuff id like to give back to you are you free anytime next week?" i havent replied. I don;t know what to say

Lol yeah right.

She just wants to see you and will likely put up a big act to get you back. Do not fall for this.

Post: #74

If its stuff you want, then tell her to leave it somewhere, like at your house, when your not there. Give her a window of a hour to drop it off. If its shit you can do without, then don't even respond back.

Good on you, joker, for pulling the ripcord on this. That's what a man would do. It's ok to feel like shit. But whatever happens, do not get back with her. Find a new routine with work, hitting the gym, etc.

Post: #75

Reading this post really makes me no to monogamy.