Post: #1

What's up.

I met this girl outside of a venue last week. Talked to her for about 10 minutes, she was giving me some serious IOI's and I knew she was into me. Got her number. Texted her the next day, set up a date the day after, took her out on my motorcycle, and had a pretty good time. She takes absolutely no time to answer my texts, and I'm 98% positive she's into me and down for round two.

I'm kicking myself now because I didn't make any serious moves on her, no kiss no nothing, but we had a good time nonetheless and I'm assuming she likes me because she met me in my neighborhood and was down to hang.

Texted "hey that was fun, lets do it again." and she responded, "definitely, yeah haha" (she laughs in her texts a lot).

Anyways, besides all that, I'm trying to set up a second date. I've been pretty good with the texting/logistics but now I'm trying to move in for the kill here.

I was just going to text "hey why don't we meet up x at x"but I've been using the "why don't you" 's a lot and (I fucking hate texting) i'm not trying to sound like a robot.

I'm sure it doesn't matter at this point since I think she's already down and likes me, but I'd like to get some insight on how to go about this.

I'm thinking I get her over to my house, booze a little bit and loosen up with her and then get down to it, but I'm also thinking of taking her somewhere beforehand to get her more comfortable.

Post: #2

I think one way that you can gain a lot of control and intimacy is through the phone call. People nowadays never expect phone calls. If she doesn't answer, just tell her to call you on a voice mail. Then when you get her on the phone, just tell her what your planning (or keep it a secret to make it more mysterious) and figure out her schedule. Don't suggest a specific day because you may get a decline because of a conflict.

Sometimes doing a direct to your house is hard unless you're absolutely sure you got it in the bag. Maybe try a bar near by and then move the situation to your pad.

Post: #3

yeah, she's not old enough to hit the bars yet. I mean, she came straight to my house (I picked her up) but that's what I was planning on for the next time.

Post: #4

have a bottle of wine at your house, and escalate

Post: #5

escalate escalate escalate.

she's obviously into you. have your logitics in check and then escalate. this one is in your pocket brah.