Post: #26

Meh. Nothing a chastity belt can't fix.

Post: #27

The disgusting fact is that, there are so many man, beta and paper-alphas, who tolerate cheating even though it goes on right before their eyes and these man bitches still be like "lets give her a second chance"

Ive said it a few times here, but this girl dates my sensei who is 50 years old, and she regularly cheats on him with my buddy. At one point my buddy couldnt take it anymore and made her choose. Instead of making a decision she freaking vomit up a bunch of drama and almost called the cops on him for a fake harassment/rape charge. He almost moved away because of her. STILL, he is telling me "if she decides to come back to me I ll give her a second chance"

The fuck dude?

I would also add another dimension to the thread: Anyone can be cheated on, and ANYONE CAN CHEAT

In my beta days I have a childhood friend, we are still close. She is the embodiment of everything "good girl" you guys talk here about: feminine, pretty, love pleasing her man, cares about people and puppies, family woman, love cooking and taking care of children, and LOYAL BEYOND QUESTIOn (heh)

Her fiancee (they are getting married this Dec) is also her first boyfriend ever. Yes it does exist.

A year ago she went to Paris for a year to study abroad. Guess what? She jumped a cock.

Her fiancee stopped cut off contact for a month. After that, all is well and good.

Then he discovered she was talking to the other guy again. Broke up again. Conciliation. And now getting married. But this guy also cheated on her once.

That was my moment of redpill. I know this girl for my entire life and she would never do such a thing. When I realize that even the most chastised woman can go hamster, I lost faith in all females. Happily went full redpill and never look back.

Still, the fiancee took her back. I dont wish her ill, but seriously the fuck? He s also has access to some quality girls too.

I was trying to understand what these mockeries of a man were thinking. In doing so I commited the most horrendous mental desecration and summoned up my old beta hamster Its reasoning goes like this:

If I dump her, she will just go whore herself off again, and I wont have any pussy. I d rather stick with her and keep access to that hot pussy, else who/what am I gonna fuck? Also I will keep a tab on her this time and prevent her from ever doing that shit again

Now I need some rum.....

Post: #28

Dalaran, do you mind sharing some of that rum?

Post: #29

The title of this thread is completely wrong.

You can only be "cheated on" if you do fenced relationships (mutual promise of sexual exclusivity).

I have been doing exclusively unfenced relationships for more than 13 years. I have had multiple girlfriends at the same time for the entire 13 years and all my girlfriends know it.

Of my current girlfriends, the longest relationship has been going on for more than 13 years (yep I still have the first one) and I have one or two more that have been going on for 10 years plus.

Cheating is not, and never has been, about having sex with other people.

When it comes to cheating, the only really necessary element is dishonesty.

Post: #30

This is why it is crucial to build your confidence and game to the point that any woman you choose to get serious with crosses the line you can easily replace her.

So if you lose her it's like a guy worth $100M losing $1M off a bad investment. It will cost you, but bouncing back is no biggie.

She will feel this energy and be a little less likely to cheat.

Post: #31

JJ what country are you in?

Are these mostly alternative Burning Man type girls agreeing to this?

What is the age range and quality of girls?

Most young attractive American girls it is best to just keep your mouth shut and not talk about other girls you bang. You can sort of tell the types of girls with other fuck buddies and being open with them doesn't seem to give any real advantages because they don't care in the first place. These types of girls often have mental and addiction histories so not the greatest for much beyond sex.

Only friend I have that did this "open poly" arrangement dated these emotionally airy and unstable alternative girls.

Post: #32

(09-12-2014 01:14 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  JJ what country are you in?

I travel all the time (hence I have GFs all over the world).

(09-12-2014 01:14 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  Are these mostly alternative Burning Man type girls agreeing to this?

Never been to Burning Man so I have no clue what you mean by Burning Man type girls.

They are all types. Mostly urban professionals with office jobs.

(09-12-2014 01:14 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  What is the age range and quality of girls?

They are all younger than me (with only one exception) so mostly in the age range of 20-mid thirties.

Quality? Well of course this is totally subjective. I think they are all attractive or I would not have hooked up with them.

6s, 7s, 8s and 9s. One of them is a former glamour model from Argentina still in her twenties.

(09-12-2014 01:14 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  Most young attractive American girls it is best to just keep your mouth shut and not talk about other girls you bang.

It is absolutely necessary, during the first 4 to 6 weeks to have the 'unfenced relationship' conversation if you want to do this.

(09-12-2014 01:14 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  You can sort of tell the types of girls with other fuck buddies and being open with them doesn't seem to give any real advantages because they don't care in the first place. These types of girls often have mental and addiction histories so not the greatest for much beyond sex.

I dont have any fuck buddy relationships so I can't really comment on this.

In my experience, if you want to make a woman run really fast in the opposite direction, "fuck buddy" is the perfect phrase to use.

(09-12-2014 01:14 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  Only friend I have that did this "open poly" arrangement dated these emotionally airy and unstable alternative girls.

Well I am not "poly" either but I wouldn't describe any of my girlfriends as "unstable" or "alternative".