Post: #26

I've been wondering what the harm is in banging single moms who are just good-looking girls but got divorced. If you connect with them as people, they don't talk about babies all the time and it's clear you're not a daddy figure in the making, then keeping them on rotation seems fine.

Post: #27

(03-25-2011 01:17 PM)hydrogonian Wrote:  The problem with MILFS is that there is no fear of having another child.

She's already been there, done that, and has likely reaped financial benefits from it. She'd be all too ready to have another if given the opportunity, either for the additional check or just because she likes kids. OR she likes you and wants to make sure that you aren't going anywhere. The first MILF that I banged, after reassuring me that an out-of-wedlock kid would be the last thing that she would ever want due to the stigma (she was Korean, in Korea), then called me after I left her and told me that she was hoping against all hope that I got her pregnant so that she's have a little me running around.

Don't listen to what women say, but look at what they do, and what they have done in the past. Single Mom's are single for a reason, rarely having to do with the man in any legitimate way (other than her lame justifications). If you don't hear stories of a single Mom's baby-daddy being a total criminal/drug addict, and she is a high enough value woman in terms of her looks (and therefore he would likely stay with her), then run. Well, run no matter what, imo. But especially then, because that indicates that she doesn't have the character necessary to raise your kid right should you knock her up. If you have a girl, she's probably going to be a clone of the mom in a lot of ways. Also, she's going to be a nightmare for you, as a baby-daddy, most likely.

Women who don't already have children are usually at least a little apprehensive about having a kid, and you can work with that if something happens. She hasn't yet realized the tangible benefits of previous children, or had the mothering instinct triggered in that primal way that will come with her own children.

Oh, and you KNOW that most single moms are fucking you for that ultimate prize: support for her and her kid(s). Don't play that game when there is more on the line for a woman than just her personal welfare or fun. You think that single women are good liars? They have nothing on single Moms, due to the increases stakes.

Just say 'no' to single moms.

"If you don't hear stories of a single Mom's baby-daddy being a total criminal/drug addict, and she is a high enough value woman in terms of her looks (and therefore he would likely stay with her), then run."

I used to think these "victim" types were "better" too, now I realize they're worse. If she's addicted to violent abusive psychopaths, she has lost the ability to long term love and respect guys that don't give her drama and abuse.

Post: #28

I've banged two single mothers. Their vaginas were noticeably looser and not nearly as enjoyable as a less-attractive but younger, non-mom with a tight pussy.

Met a pretty cute single mom Latina the other day with 3 kids. But she said her husband died in a car accident. So she is a widow. Totally different situation IMO since the single-ness was not a choice.

Post: #29

(08-18-2012 09:33 PM)Sebastian Wrote:  I banged a white mom of 4 kids. She was too loose and I couldn't satisfy her. well I didn't feel bad about it.

I saw her with a black guy later though lol

This is an issue with a MILF I've had. Her pussy was so loose that my average-sized dick didn't seem to be enough for her large vacuum. So I'd use a big dildo on her as hard as I could and she seemed to like that.

I even fucked her pussy and used the dildo at the same time. What the fuckkk....

In conclusion, if/when I ever get a girl pregnant I will be insisting on a C-section for the sake of our future relationship.

Post: #30

I had my first milf last sunday. Shes a mother of two and shes 20. what I noticed about her is shes trying to get a man to take care of her and raise her kids. In myy opinion a woman that has been on the cock carousel doesnt deserve a alpha male and should continue the search for a beta male..

The problem I have is trying to eject shes very needyy and says shes never felt something like this before. Crazy ass snake..

Post: #31

Off topic: but does anyone have a online pharmacy they used for morning-after pills or other way of getting them? I'd like to have a stash handy. PM me if you do.

On topic: No. Single mothers are poor decision makers. Even the ones that are cool have baggage - baggage that runs around acting crazy and will knock on the door while you're having sex.

I thought I'd be cool with dating a single mom till I crashed at one's house (as a friend, just needed a place while traveling) and was woken at 2am by the blood curdling crying of a baby. If I get woken by something so loud, it better be the scream of my future heirs who will won day inherit my throne, not the bad decision of some ho and the manager of a pizza hut.

Banging them in the short term is okay as long as you use condoms and make sure you're clearly in the fun guy role, not provider. The moment she realizes you might be a good influence on her kid, eject.

Post: #32

Have banged plenty but a couple of rules apply.
Firstly go for those a little older, ie kids over 10.
Go for those that are confident and secure but bored and looking for no strings sex.
Make sure she knows it is NSA sex in advance
Make sure that she dies not have all your personal details
Make sure you use a condom
I also recommend booking a hotel to do. Stops it getting too personal.
After that is all good. Especially if they have not had sex in a while. They will be eager to please, more likely to cut loose and enjoy it and less likely to bother you afterwards as they likely have too many other things to worry about. Plus it's kinda kinky and makes a nice change every now and again

Post: #33

(05-15-2014 01:19 PM)Checkmat Wrote:  Met a pretty cute single mom Latina the other day with 3 kids. But she said her husband died in a car accident. So she is a widow. Totally different situation IMO since the single-ness was not a choice.

Three kids from how many different dudes?

Latinas are the queens of sob stories.

One much rather tell you that she's without a man because he died than he dipped out on her to fuck with something younger and with less baggage.

Post: #34

Too many hot girls in the world, STAY AWAY!

Post: #35

My experiences of mothers.

- The number of mothers who will invite you, a stranger over to hers when the kids are there outweighs the numbers which dont by a huge margin

- Women now find it acceptable to publish pictures of their children on OKC, POF & Tinder. Tinder being the most "WTF" moment as it is a fuck-me-now app. They still dont seem to get it however

- MILFs will want it raw unless they're going behind a husbands back, even then they will want it up the shitter raw if you're so inclined

- Be careful of their bullshit. You need to constantly remind yourself that she will dump on men in
general and you are a man but in the moment right now you are giving her what she needs/wants.

Post: #36

Alot of times single mothers are out there just to fuck young dudes. They game you. That shit is great.

Post: #37

(05-16-2014 04:59 AM)Foolsgo1d Wrote:  Tinder being the most "WTF" moment as it is a fuck-me-now app.

I had a date yesterday with a 34-year old MILF.

Bitch uses Badoo, Tinder, and another app to.....promote and recruit guys for her Multi-Level-Marketing business ( think of herbalife and Mary Kay).

We had a good time and whatnot. She wanted to meet up in the evening and check her business presentation. I told her straight up "Not interested in your biz, you know what I want"

Her reply? "Come to the office, maybe you'll get more than just a date". I went to another date nearby and she texted me that she was at the office but leaving because I didn't showed up. At first she told me there were other people coming so it's weird she bounce after I flaked.

Not sure if she wanted get fucked her in office or what.

Lately, there have been a lot of older women going on dating sites promoting their shitty MLM scammy businesses. I've encountered at least 3 in the past 3 weeks.

They recruit beta males who think if they buy in.....maybe they will get to fuck them. She showed me a message from a dude she recruited.....it said: "Why can't you just give me a change to date you?".

I texted her a twice last evening and this morning to set up a morning bang but she didn't reply. She must have sensed I wasn't going to buy into her shit.

Asian soccer MILF who owns a business and took her husband's assets....yet he still comments and likes everything on her FB.

Post: #38

There is a super cute ~40 year old milf lives in the apartment under mine. I've wanted to smash her since the day she moved in, but she is super shacked up with a mega beta provider boyfriend (he doesn't live there but he is over 24/7 and always stays the night, watches her kid for her while she runs errands, does chores for her, lets her take his car all the time when her piece of shit Volvo is always in and out of the shop) etc. Tight body, fitness freak, tan, long brown hair, littler tramp stamp tattoo showing she was probably a basic slut back in her youth/college days.

I've nailed a couple single moms in my day; unless they are very young and naive, then they usually come to terms with the fact that dudes are going to come and go, and then there will be provider types who they can lock down - they understand there's a fine line. They have their kid in mind when prospecting for an LTR - just look for signs and don't get involved with a trashy one who will try to get you to knock her up.

Single moms get horny too and they generally receive far less attention than girls with no responsibilities so they are generally a little easier but still can be great looking and fun in bed. they may even be more eager to please because they know having a bastard toddler clamped to their ankle makes them a much harder sell.

Post: #39

If you keep the proper frame throughout, they can be the easiest.

Only go for Upper-middle class+, no more than 1 kid standard. More kids at home, more scheduling headaches

Most have settled into their routines, and are looking for someone to break the monotony. Live "normal" predictable lives, Usually no big shakeups/life-changing blow-ups that you experience with child-less women.

Usually on "set" schedules and can be worked in to your roster with little hassle

Have yet to have one try to pressure me into stepdaddyhood, most find it attractive that I am a single dad myself so I relate to their everyday struggle (school, PTA meetings, games, homework, ad naseum) on some level.

Potential Shelf life: 8 weeks - 5 years ( & counting)

Post: #40

Some of my happiest moments with girls in my life have come from single moms. They can be crazy but also so giving and nurturing and affectionate.

Want to add in a positive comment so these girls can get some of the credit they deserve.

Post: #41

I fucked a lot of single moms in the last couple years of my teens and throughout my 20s.

Now in my early 30s, I don't have much patience for them. Their kid is their number one priority, which can cause logistical problems - not a huge deal if you have a full schedule, but organizing a night can sometimes mean planning around them, which isn't something I like to do. Though of course they'll make the time if they dig you.

Just the whole idea of them having a lot more on their plate than you introduces a whole new dynamic, whether they try to stop it from doing so or not. Me, I like to be straight up and am not into leading some girl on that has kids, or any other girl, so I usually turn these kinds of broads down. I've even told them straight up that they just had more on their plate than I did and that I was just out to have fun, etc. I've been thanked for the honesty in the past, even if I'd banged already.

And the big deal killer for me these days is the stretch mark factor. It's a real turn off for me. I have a move now in bars here where some girl will start talking to me, and if I'm on the fence about her, I pat her stomach and say, "Have baby?" Obviously only good for low-class bar chicks and whores. By some miracle, it hasn't gotten me slapped yet, and at least it helps me screen.

That said, anywhere in Southeast Asia would be a goldmine for a guy who wants some easy-to-bang MILFs. A lot of really hot ones out here, and the local guys are really iffy about dating women with kids, so many of these girls are eager for a foreigner. The downside is that, given the culture, they are very much on the lookout for a breadwinner, whereas an American woman can do the independent single mom thing and actually pull it off well if she has a decent head on her shoulders.

To give a bit of credit where it's due, I've met a lot of really cool single moms. Yeah, some are dumb as fuck and were the worst decision makers growing up, but others really have a good head on their shoulders. And I don't mean a cool as in will do anything to please you and win you over cool - though you most certainly find that too - some of them just have a real collected, balanced frame to them and are very reasonable, straight-up, and no-bullshit women.

I suspect this is from facing some tough challenges at a young age and having to grow up quick. Or maybe because my brothers and I were raised by and around single moms so I understand them?

And they'll cook you breakfast and make sure you're taken care of before you excuse yourself - they're nurterers by necessity. I won't lie, when I was younger, there were even a couple of them I thought of staying with. I guess, once again, that came from being raised in such a household. An older one even lived with me for about a year when I was 19, 20, and I really bonded with her children.

Unfortunately, she hung them over my head when I dumped her and would even have them call me and leave messages when I wouldn't answer her calls..."BB why won't you talk to me?" So there's that...She was a psycho though.

As for the puddy, sometimes it's all smashed up and a big too big for ole BB jr, but I've come across plenty of MILFs who were tight and right.

And of course some of them do just want to be shown a good time and get fucked.

Breast-milk is something every player should try once, getting interrupted by a kid while having sex is almost as bad as getting a chihahua's nose in your ass while laying the root, and one 5 or 6-year old kid even turned to me and told me he was going to kill me when his mom left me with him while she ran outside for a bit.

TL;DR: Adventures in MILF-land. Never a dull moment.

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To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
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Post: #42

(05-19-2014 01:03 AM)bacan Wrote:  Some of my happiest moments with girls in my life have come from single moms. They can be crazy but also so giving and nurturing and affectionate.

Until what you're giving them is deemed "normal" and then they start acting like some Supercunt.

Doesn't matter how well you fucked her, how you rule her in bed. She will see you just like her ex and any other guy because she knows you want sex from her. This is where the power of options come in but that still isn't enough because her attitude will drive you away.

Trust me on this.

Post: #43

Teenagers here are picking up Milfs. I'm impressed.

Post: #44

Many times, just wrap it up. They can be incredibly considerate, nurturing, and grateful.

Post: #45

(05-19-2014 01:03 AM)bacan Wrote:  Some of my happiest moments with girls in my life have come from single moms. They can be crazy but also so giving and nurturing and affectionate.

Want to add in a positive comment so these girls can get some of the credit they deserve.

I just went on a date recently with a single mom(20 years old and living with her aunt ). She was a blast to hang out with and we had a great time.

She didn't really have many friends(moved here recently), but she kept bringing up that she had problems with people where she was from(a small town)-I'm guessing the whole baby incident) , so she definitely had some issues. I found out during the date and although I was a little taken aback I kinda foresaw it so it wasn't that bad of a realization.

However, I had a genuinely good time with her. Definitely one of the exceptions. Staying away from that kid though. Nothing good can come of a serious thing with her. It's the sad truth.

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On a side note, when we were planning logistics she had left me a very friendly voicemail. I can't remember the last time a girl left a voicemail for me so early on. Kind of a turn-on, not gonna lie.