Post: #1

If this is a bad first post, apologies. I'm VERY new to the idea of game and specifically Red Pill, so hopefully I won't ask any questions that have already been answered, either in the Newb FAQ or Forum Guide.

I live in the Northern suburbs of Illinois near Chicago where some of the bars can be quite cheap - 1$ beer nights - and the nicer ones can average about 4$. Women usually want the mixed drinks which are about 6$ on average. Currently I'm in school, so I have to budget what I can spend very carefully.

At one point do I stop being an ATM machine for the girls who just want drinks? I've bought some girls drinks in the past, but I'm still pretty damn bad in picking up hints, body language, ect. concerning whether they are DTF for that night or not. (I am working on it though.)


(Further context as to why I'm still missing signals, body language, ect. I'm 25 and the first time I had sex was this year back in March. Notched up 3 so far, but this all happened after I realized I was a beta white knight who was being friend-zoned waiting for the "special girl" Pathetic, but I've been devouring RP from Roosh's Posts on here, ROK, and D&P)


Open to all advice.

Post: #2

Never buy drinks for the girls you meet at the bar/club. Just don't.

If you have a planned date with a girl then use your own discretion.

When and where is location dependent and I'm not from IL.

Post: #3

According to Roosh, it's ok to buy the occasional drink. Just don't be a drink dispenser. One way to do it is to buy a round for the set with the pre-established expectation that she or one of her friends will buy the next round. Don't do it too early or often, though.

If a girl walks away because you didn't buy her a drink, she just wanted you for the drink. So, be thankful you saved your $$$.

Post: #4

Congrats on your new notches!!!

When/If you do buy the occasional drink or 2, make sure it's not a prerequisite for her to talk/listen/hang out with you/pay you attention

When/If you do buy the occasional drink or 2, make sure you have established she is interested prior to doing so. This way it has a "oh by the way" "keep the party going" social vibe to it not a needy one.

Sound advice also above - 'I got this one, and you can pick up the next one'....at this point, you will see if her intentions are pure or not

I'm familiar with the area, which suburb are you in?