Post: #1

Chick called me quite some time ago after I broke a condumn on her and claimed she was prego. After it happened, I'd handed her money to go get a morning-after pill, but I was too hung-over and lazy to follow along and make sure she did it.

My bad, but still. I had a feeling when she hit me up later with preggo claims that she was bullshitting, so I said, "hey, that's your bad. I gave you the money - if you didn't take the pill, it's your fucking fault." And hung up.

Complete bluff on my part. I'm not the type to leave a chick hanging in a 4th world country with my kid. But the way I saw it, if it was real, she'd turn herself inside out finding a way to let me know. She rolled on me in a bar once and then left me alone - never called again.

That said, I was kind of worried because I do know SEAsian chicks will swallow the bullet and raise their half-white kid on their own sometimes just to have a half-white kid. And the fact that I didn't see her at the bars any more after taking a few months off had me wondering. So I just wanted to check and be sure.

So, dropped her a text from a new phone number asking if she was pregnant or if she'd been lying. I haven't talked to this chick forever, but fuck, if I knocked her up and left, you can guarantee she wouldn't forget me...

You can guess what came next. She has no fucking clue who I am or what I'm talking about. I told her never mind then, and she's been ringing the phone off the hook ever since.

Maybe not a bad gameplan for calling a bitch's bluff. Let her stew for a while and then text her anonymously. If she doesn't know who you are, she's played this game before, the kid isn't yours, or the kid doesn't exist.

In this case, I'm 120% sure the kid doesn't exist. If it did, you can be damn sure I'd be getting a DNA test before manning up to the matter.

All the above said, I do believe in taking care of your own spawn, so if you do go silent on a chick after a baby claim to create a time gap, make sure you have multiple contact points. You don't want to accidentley cut yourself off from your own kid - I wouldn't want to anyways.

I mean, you could just as easily (with less stress) say alright let's go test you again as a way to call her out. But it doesn't hurt to have multiple arrows in your quiver.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #2

Also a good time to suggest anal.

Post: #3

The baby claims is one hell of a shit test.
I consider it more of a power grab.
Since you're already fucking them they can't really do much but deny you sex. And they know you'll just fuck another girl when they pull that bs.
Claiming their prego forces you to invest in them for a little bit. If you bail out they can try to shame you into coming back etc...

It's a short sighted temporary solution that almost always blows up in their face.

A girl i only fucked once said she was pregnant after i stopped texting her back. I called her up and said take the test in front of me and we'll go from there.
When she showed up she brought a few tests with her while i secretly bought a few of my own. I sat in the bathroom and watched her pee on the sticks.
They all came back negative. I said i was gonna call her but i never did.

Once a girl says that pregnancy shit to me and she's not my gf or main girl i drop her, because maybe she has plans to baby trap you the next time you fuck.

Post: #4

(08-21-2014 12:26 PM)Foolsgo1d Wrote:  Also a good time to suggest anal.

thanks for laugh! I needed it.

Post: #5

Yeah you gotta do the tests on your own, absolutely eject if you call her bluff and it's a lie. What else would she lie about later ? You hitting her, when she threw herself out of a car ?

If it is positive test, well your the man who needs to decide an abortion or to father child (with a DNA test of course).

Post: #6

^ Yeah, I stopped fucking her instantly after the baby claim.

She seemed like the type who would poke a hole in a condumn to knock herself up, and I wasn't down with that.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling